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Dumb to get a $800k mortgage with my GF?

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed...
Fragrant boiling water
  04/20/26
Heights of everyone involved?
henna pungent idiot sanctuary
  04/20/26
Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5&r...
Fragrant boiling water
  04/20/26
You're fucked.
henna pungent idiot sanctuary
  04/20/26
you are brown
Razzle doobsian fortuitous meteor
  04/22/26
lmao
Ruddy blathering wrinkle
  04/20/26
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Lilac Aphrodisiac Half-breed
  04/20/26
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marvelous mauve associate crotch
  04/20/26
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Lilac Aphrodisiac Half-breed
  04/20/26
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kink-friendly beady-eyed native
  04/20/26
Explain I’m here looking for advice.
Fragrant boiling water
  04/20/26
They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredib...
Razzle-dazzle Startled Toaster Genital Piercing
  04/20/26
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histrionic pontificating ape
  04/22/26
Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage i...
sienna insanely creepy cruise ship
  04/20/26
That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about h...
Fragrant boiling water
  04/20/26
getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp
sadistic geriatric location trump supporter
  04/20/26
put a ring on it, faggot
sable telephone
  04/20/26
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sadistic geriatric location trump supporter
  04/20/26
Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not li...
lascivious bawdyhouse
  04/20/26
Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.
Fragrant boiling water
  04/20/26
Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basi...
lascivious bawdyhouse
  04/20/26
guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?
sadistic geriatric location trump supporter
  04/20/26
Were you forced to sell?
sienna insanely creepy cruise ship
  04/20/26
not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.
sadistic geriatric location trump supporter
  04/20/26
Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.
lascivious bawdyhouse
  04/20/26
our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborh...
sadistic geriatric location trump supporter
  04/20/26
Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept o...
Fragrant boiling water
  04/21/26
cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself
sadistic geriatric location trump supporter
  04/21/26
I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.
Fragrant boiling water
  04/21/26
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henna pungent idiot sanctuary
  04/22/26
I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.
lascivious bawdyhouse
  04/21/26
Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You s...
copper jet-lagged brunch
  04/20/26
Retarded if not married yet
Transparent Degenerate
  04/20/26
"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?...
Excitant national security agency business firm
  04/20/26
who is on the title?
topaz nubile base
  04/20/26
I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low intere...
Provocative Burgundy Public Bath
  04/20/26
We both own condos.
Fragrant boiling water
  04/21/26
Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You stil...
walnut odious sound barrier
  04/21/26
what could go wrong?
soggy stage windowlicker
  04/20/26
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cerebral bisexual goal in life party of the first part
  04/20/26
you only live once
Onyx center
  04/21/26
https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ra...
Deranged narrow-minded orchestra pit
  04/21/26
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laughsome opaque newt hairy legs
  04/21/26
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walnut odious sound barrier
  04/21/26
get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come...
Pearl fiercely-loyal mexican
  04/21/26
LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and e...
walnut odious sound barrier
  04/21/26
Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd pr...
copper jet-lagged brunch
  04/21/26
The only amount we will both make total is about $100k becau...
Fragrant boiling water
  04/21/26
just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never u...
Jet outnumbered stage
  04/21/26
She can’t breed
Fragrant boiling water
  04/21/26
So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.
Glassy 180 electric furnace persian
  04/21/26
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Lilac Aphrodisiac Half-breed
  04/21/26
everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be pu...
henna pungent idiot sanctuary
  04/22/26
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Fragrant boiling water
  04/22/26


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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed).

I’m 32 and she’s 30. I make $250k and she makes about $150k. We got our preapproval. I’m gonna put $100k down.

So the mortgage would be $750k. Are mortgage companies just going to ok this? They seem like they’re fine with it but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?

This is not flame I legit wanna know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830034)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:12 PM
Author: henna pungent idiot sanctuary

Heights of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830058)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5’5.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830078)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: henna pungent idiot sanctuary

You're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830090)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 7:06 AM
Author: Razzle doobsian fortuitous meteor

you are brown

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49833725)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:15 PM
Author: Ruddy blathering wrinkle

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830062)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Lilac Aphrodisiac Half-breed



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: marvelous mauve associate crotch



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Lilac Aphrodisiac Half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830067)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:20 PM
Author: kink-friendly beady-eyed native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830076)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

Explain I’m here looking for advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830081)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Startled Toaster Genital Piercing

They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredibly dumb. Internalize that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830620)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:47 PM
Author: histrionic pontificating ape



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49834882)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:19 PM
Author: sienna insanely creepy cruise ship

Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage is a guarantee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830072)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about how much the mortgage is. I just needed to know the answer to this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830084)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: sadistic geriatric location trump supporter

getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830079)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: sable telephone

put a ring on it, faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830083)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: sadistic geriatric location trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830623)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: lascivious bawdyhouse

Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not like interest rates are at sub-3% like those of us who purchased in 2020/2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830092)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830094)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:29 PM
Author: lascivious bawdyhouse

Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basically cannot in good conscience move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830108)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: sadistic geriatric location trump supporter

guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830123)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: sienna insanely creepy cruise ship

Were you forced to sell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830143)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: sadistic geriatric location trump supporter

not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830155)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 6:37 PM
Author: lascivious bawdyhouse

Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830264)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 7:52 PM
Author: sadistic geriatric location trump supporter

our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborhood than our new house. what could we do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830492)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:56 AM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept of having children. The ones that say “never sell” are most likely Asians filming their purchased wives being bred.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831300)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:09 PM
Author: sadistic geriatric location trump supporter

cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832054)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:37 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832209)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 6:56 AM
Author: henna pungent idiot sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49833721)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: lascivious bawdyhouse

I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49833282)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: copper jet-lagged brunch

Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You sure she's going to want to keep working? I wouldn't bet on it. That's a big nut to pay monthly on your income alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830101)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: Transparent Degenerate

Retarded if not married yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830144)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:55 PM
Author: Excitant national security agency business firm

"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?"

Same thing that happens to married couples if one of them just say fuck it. If ur both on the mortgage, you both pepper angus. The bank is getting its money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830159)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:42 PM
Author: topaz nubile base

who is on the title?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830655)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:07 PM
Author: Provocative Burgundy Public Bath

I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low interest rates and there was a reason to LOCK something in.

At the moment, 1000% just keep renting and stacking cash until you need a bigger place for babydood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830533)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

We both own condos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831302)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: walnut odious sound barrier

Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You still have to get through the wedding, which is not guaranteed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831835)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: soggy stage windowlicker

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830659)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: cerebral bisexual goal in life party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49830660)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Onyx center

you only live once

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831303)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:42 AM
Author: Deranged narrow-minded orchestra pit

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ramsey-1536490.jpg?r=1639565934357

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831439)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:47 AM
Author: laughsome opaque newt hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831448)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:19 PM
Author: walnut odious sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832081)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: Pearl fiercely-loyal mexican

get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come first-- the rest will follow, hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831831)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: walnut odious sound barrier

LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and everything was in your name. But you can barely afford the mortgage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831832)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: copper jet-lagged brunch

Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd probably try and sell them and then put a yuge down payment on the house. Otherwise you will be a housepoor slave based on your incomes. And your "GF" (BF?) will probably not want to work once you have kids.

Do you want to end up like Disco Fries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49831841)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

The only amount we will both make total is about $100k because it’s “her” condo but it’s her dad’s technically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832203)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:44 PM
Author: Jet outnumbered stage

just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never understand how adult men get into these gay "gf" relationships and arent like ok are we having kids or not within a couple months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832229)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 3:25 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water

She can’t breed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49832323)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:59 PM
Author: Glassy 180 electric furnace persian

So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49833432)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 PM
Author: Lilac Aphrodisiac Half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49833449)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:40 PM
Author: henna pungent idiot sanctuary

everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be put in hospice. 180 thread, btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49834864)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 5:53 PM
Author: Fragrant boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2),#49835150)