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Slate: When Men Ask My Number of Partners I Ghost Them Immediately
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Date: April 6th, 2026 6:43 PM Author: exciting slimy base When Men Ask Me This One Question On a First Date, They Never Hear From Me Again Jessica Stoya replies to readers’ comments and suggestions. Advice by Jessica Stoya April 06, 202612:00 PM
Hey How to Do It,
Re Wants to Be Slut-Praised: I came across this column and wanted to share my experience. I just don’t continue to date guys who ask right off the bat or are fixated. It’s that simple. I’ve slept with hundreds of people, not just men, and I don’t go into it with my partners. It’s none of their business and irrelevant. I don’t ask them and wait a very long time if I tell them at all. I only told my ex-husband of six years once, and we were both drunk, and he doesn’t remember the number. We laughed about it later, I still didn’t tell him again, and we’re still friends.
If they ask within the first few dates, they’re judging, and I’m not interested in that kind of judgment. Being intolerant of those types of questions and tests has really helped me to only have amazing relationships with people who don’t care about anything other than how I treat them. I’m also typically monogamous and ethical about any type of relationship I’m in, so I understand what the letter writer means. It probably helps that I’m an adult entertainer, so I have developed hard boundaries on conversations and ending dates. It’s a lot of weeding people out, but worth just saying bye as soon as they ask those types of things. I’m 36 and haven’t been able to salvage a connection after they ask intrusive, invasive questions to judge me or my sexuality. Never. It sucks when they’re cute and seem nice, but I’ve always had a cuter, nicer one come along immediately after. You just have to learn to be strict on calling it and moving on.
—Frequent Reader
Bravo. And thank you for your individual take on the efficiency strategy that Rich and I often recommend in the early stages of dating—I think the more perspectives available on the value of that, the more easily folks internalize the fact that there are mindsets other than scarcity in these matters. |
Date: April 6th, 2026 6:44 PM Author: awkward floppy goal in life national this is obviously a total lie because she is a slut who fucks every single man she comes across. she's not saying no to anyone
man women sure are retarded and lame as hell |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:03 PM Author: exciting slimy base She's a sex worker who has had hundreds of partners but is still 'very loyal' and her main problem in life is she loses her mind at men who judge her. And the problem is the men. Also she has no problem finding cute boys, the next always cuter than the last. Dontchya know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798750) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:14 PM Author: Chartreuse market dog poop she is "typically" monogamous. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798768) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:15 PM Author: exciting slimy base It's like a bald guy claiming he typically has hair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798770) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:34 PM Author: Chartreuse market dog poop Well, to be fair, calling someone who shaves their head "bald" as an insult is kind of retarded, sir. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798816) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 8:14 PM Author: Histrionic legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798885) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:11 PM Author: Multi-colored narrow-minded forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49802038) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 8:09 PM Author: titillating obsidian ticket booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49807504) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:14 PM Author: Histrionic legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798767) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:17 PM Author: exciting slimy base Counterpoint: every slut has at least one dood in their lives who they would never touch at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798772) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 8:09 PM Author: titillating obsidian ticket booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49807505) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:08 PM Author: Mewling stirring bawdyhouse fanboi I’ve slept with hundreds of people, not just men tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798758) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:12 PM Author: exciting slimy base I can just hear doobs, Peterman, or cucumbers saying these exact words (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798765) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 8:09 PM Author: titillating obsidian ticket booth You can SEE Doobs & Peterman doing these exact things every weekday at at Flying J bathroom stall. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49807506) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:14 PM Author: excitant national security agency whooooooo caresssssss (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798769) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:12 PM Author: Heady Pistol When I was 19, I was on E and my gf at the time asked me to piss inside her. I tried but it wouldn’t come out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49802039) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:25 PM Author: Concupiscible Carnelian Corner Ladyboy I’ve had hundreds of clients and cases and the first ones are the most special. I put the most effort in and really remember those people. Now sometimes I can barely recall my most recent clients and wtf their deal is. I still put effort into winning but they’re out of my mind forever after it’s over. I’m sure it’s the same psychological effect for romantic relationships and LJL at being guy no. 273. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798790) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 6:33 PM Author: aqua range LOL'd at the comparison, but at the same time it's impossible to argue with this, 180. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49801652) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 1:39 AM Author: racy stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49802910) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:52 AM Author: aqua range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49803607) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:49 PM Author: Honey-headed vigorous church Slut-Praised tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798844) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:51 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot notice how its only cumskins who broadcast their immodest deviancy, MUH MUH SUPERIOR ANGLO CULTURE DURR DURR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798846) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:52 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot no way bro korean females post articles in national newspapers bragging about their sexual deviancy all the time bro, dont stereotype cumskins (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798849) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 8:15 PM Author: exciting slimy base Explain JAV my friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798888) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:07 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot there are 13 yr old white women on youtube bragging about being single moms
check yoself, nigger |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 6:32 PM Author: aphrodisiac psychic love of her life Why would Korean women have any interest in having sex with the “men” available in their country? No wonder they go 4B Movement instead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49801642) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:08 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot which is why i, a korean male, have fucked more women than every other male on xoxo combined (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49802027) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:57 AM Author: aphrodisiac psychic love of her life lmao nobody believes this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49802877) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 1:43 AM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot korea isnt shamanist DURR DURR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49802912) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 8:20 PM Author: aphrodisiac psychic love of her life tree spirits are real DURR DURR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49805298) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 8:27 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot lol@ your fucktarded know-nothing ass getting utterly GAPED after claiming "koreans arent shamanist" only for NYUUG to simply post no fewer than A DOZEN articles detailing korean shamanism in contemporary society
lmao you fucking assclown |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 8:16 PM Author: Vibrant location dragon Note that, per usual, NYUUG is 100% correct on his criticisms of US culture. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798890) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:09 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot other notable examples:
porn stars literally having TV shows, women literally walking about nude in public like its nbd in all major Anglosphere cities, onlyfans zeitgeist, etc.
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Date: April 8th, 2026 8:23 PM Author: Concupiscible Carnelian Corner Ladyboy cum walks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49805302) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 8:27 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot thousands of korean females in seoul walk around with cum on their faces daily bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49805312) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 9:19 PM Author: Light Razzle-dazzle Messiness Degenerate don't you have hundreds of posts bragging about the whores you've fucked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49799001) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:10 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot lol@ you thinking a korean male bragging about fucking white women on an anonymous lawboart is the same as a 13 yr old white woman bragging about being a single mom on youtube (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49802030) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 11:21 AM Author: Vibrant location dragon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49806368) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 1:13 PM Author: Light Razzle-dazzle Messiness Degenerate The issue is " broadcasting your immodest deviancy" not whose is worse. dumbass ugly gook. and you pay to fuck literal whores not "white women" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49806549) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 8:06 PM Author: dashing ivory locus idiot NYUUG IS A VIRGIN DURR DURR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49807499) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 9:15 PM Author: Indigo irradiated idea he suggested It probably helps that I’m an adult entertainer tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49798997) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 1:28 AM Author: French sex offender institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49799452) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:28 PM Author: Provocative Olive Lettuce Indirect Expression ... you beat me to it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49803753) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:32 PM Author: Histrionic legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49803768) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:58 AM Author: federal fragrant depressive fortuitous meteor i knew stoya in high school and her pussy was the first one i saw irl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49803622) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:26 PM Author: exciting slimy base I've still never seen one but I'm holding out hope this year's the year (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49803750) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:32 PM Author: federal fragrant depressive fortuitous meteor look in the mirror haha got em (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49803767) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:34 PM Author: exciting slimy base I'm done here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2),#49803773) |