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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
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abusive church
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If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
Carmine jet-lagged den
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
abusive church
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
Carmine jet-lagged den
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
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Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
Carmine jet-lagged den
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if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
useless blood rage roommate
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
bistre pervert stead
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
abusive church
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
talented bespoke stag film
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
Rose nursing home
  09/23/25
wow
sable filthy keepsake machete messiness
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What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
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Fragrant tanning salon
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"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Sick Ticket Booth
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
talented bespoke stag film
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Sick Ticket Booth
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
abusive church
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Floppy Gaming Laptop
  09/23/25
How so?
talented bespoke stag film
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Floppy Gaming Laptop
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
talented bespoke stag film
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Stimulating senate
  09/23/25
…?
talented bespoke stag film
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
avocado high-end lodge party of the first part
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
talented bespoke stag film
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
abusive church
  09/23/25
Also this
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Tripping Nowag Stain
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What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
Rose nursing home
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I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
talented bespoke stag film
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Tripping Nowag Stain
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sable filthy keepsake machete messiness
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The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
avocado high-end lodge party of the first part
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Startled Temple Black Woman
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
avocado high-end lodge party of the first part
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You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
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abusive church
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Sick Ticket Booth
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SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
bateful sandwich garrison
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Tripping Nowag Stain
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It is until you get caught in a sting.
abusive church
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There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
aromatic citrine dilemma clown
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SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
elite range
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
Carmine jet-lagged den
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WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
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This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
Carmine jet-lagged den
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
Carmine jet-lagged den
  01/24/26
they also enjoy licking your nuts
...,....,,........
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why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: Carmine jet-lagged den

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Fragrant tanning salon

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Fragrant tanning salon

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Fragrant tanning salon

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: abusive church

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: Carmine jet-lagged den

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: abusive church

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: Carmine jet-lagged den

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: vivacious ivory background story famous landscape painting

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Carmine jet-lagged den

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: useless blood rage roommate

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: bistre pervert stead

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: abusive church

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Rose nursing home

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: sable filthy keepsake machete messiness

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: electric scarlet place of business

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Fragrant tanning salon

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Sick Ticket Booth

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Sick Ticket Booth

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: abusive church

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Floppy Gaming Laptop

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Floppy Gaming Laptop

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Stimulating senate

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: avocado high-end lodge party of the first part

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: abusive church

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: Tripping Nowag Stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: Rose nursing home

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: talented bespoke stag film

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: Tripping Nowag Stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: sable filthy keepsake machete messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: avocado high-end lodge party of the first part

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Startled Temple Black Woman

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: avocado high-end lodge party of the first part

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: frisky 180 masturbator

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: abusive church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Sick Ticket Booth

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: bateful sandwich garrison

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: Tripping Nowag Stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: abusive church

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: aromatic citrine dilemma clown

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: elite range

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: Carmine jet-lagged den

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: Tan Beady-eyed Base

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: Tan Beady-eyed Base

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: Tan Beady-eyed Base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: Tan Beady-eyed Base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: Tan Beady-eyed Base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: Tan Beady-eyed Base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49923921)



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Date: June 14th, 2026 9:42 PM
Author: Tan Beady-eyed Base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49939211)



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Date: June 21st, 2026 5:38 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49953732)



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Date: June 21st, 2026 7:59 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49954031)



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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:39 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49954694)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 7:30 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49956506)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: Carmine jet-lagged den

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: Carmine jet-lagged den

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49614072)



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Date: June 17th, 2026 2:03 PM
Author: ...,....,,........

they also enjoy licking your nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49944475)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: charismatic coffee pot

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49921905)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 7:50 PM
Author: Trust If Aryan

cq

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2),#49956555)