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Wife wants me to pay for her to get sterilized

This has been brewing for a while, and matters are coming to...
DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway
  09/09/26
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CapTTTainFalcon
  09/09/26
Sadly, this is real.
DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway
  09/09/26
ATD
Metal Up Your Ass
  09/09/26
like via alkaline hydrolysis?
thinkin' about asians
  09/09/26
you should have sex with men for money to help pay for the s...
.,.,.,.,.,,,.,.,.,.,.,
  09/09/26
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DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway
  09/09/26
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DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway
  09/09/26
Offer to get sterilized yourself Lie about having it done...
Minimally acceptable, boyfriend-grade penis
  09/09/26
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Brother Peter Dimond
  09/09/26
You never had this problem with Mr. Jinx's asshole, did you ...
Madison Avenue Lemming Enslaved to Conformity
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DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway
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Date: September 9th, 2026 8:23 PM
Author: DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway

This has been brewing for a while, and matters are coming to a head. We have one kid, got another one arriving soon. Wife is adamant that she wants to stop at 2 kids, I would love to have 3 or more. Wife is late 30s, so while it would be challenging, she could theoretically squeeze out kid #3. She has said for years that she would get sterilized after #2 no matter what I thought.

Well, today she found out that our insurance might not cover a tubal ligation. So she called me up and told me that I had to pay for it out of pocket. And I calmly informed her that I would not, and that if God decided to send us another child, that would be great. Cue meltdown, crying, saying it isn't fair, saying I'm being selfish (huh?), etc. I'm traveling for work at the moment and she has texted me fewer than a dozen words since.

Is this the final indignity? Not only do I not get a third child, not only does my wife sterilize herself, but now I'm supposed to pay my hard earned money to do it? A few thousand bucks for an operation is not the issue here, it's just a bridge too far.

So what should I do? Stick to my guns? Extract some sort of compromise? XO's thoughts are appreciated as always.

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Date: September 9th, 2026 8:27 PM
Author: CapTTTainFalcon

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Date: September 9th, 2026 8:56 PM
Author: DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway

Sadly, this is real.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902086&forum_id=2),#50125808)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 8:33 PM
Author: Metal Up Your Ass

ATD

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Date: September 9th, 2026 8:37 PM
Author: thinkin' about asians (🤔)

like via alkaline hydrolysis?

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Date: September 9th, 2026 9:03 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,,,.,.,.,.,.,

you should have sex with men for money to help pay for the sterilization...im talking about yours, not your wifes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902086&forum_id=2),#50125819)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 9:38 PM
Author: DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway



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Date: September 9th, 2026 10:07 PM
Author: DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway



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Date: September 9th, 2026 10:08 PM
Author: Minimally acceptable, boyfriend-grade penis

Offer to get sterilized yourself

Lie about having it done

Creampie her consistently since now it doesn’t matter

Claim a miracle from the almighty when she gets pregnant again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902086&forum_id=2),#50125967)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 10:15 PM
Author: Brother Peter Dimond



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Date: September 9th, 2026 10:21 PM
Author: Madison Avenue Lemming Enslaved to Conformity

You never had this problem with Mr. Jinx's asshole, did you Whok?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902086&forum_id=2),#50126001)



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Date: September 10th, 2026 5:18 AM
Author: DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway



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Date: September 10th, 2026 8:08 AM
Author: DOCTOR Quintessa Hathaway



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902086&forum_id=2),#50126392)