would love to put pics of these dudes but don't want to doxx self

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852294)

We had a child. I love this damn girl (10 months now) more than well y’all know. It feels like everything I do now is negative. I can’t do anything right. I’ve tried to do all house chores so when the wife gets home she has nothing to do but relax. Which she can’t do!! I’m a pro at pushing feelings down and forgetting but fuck!! Just fucking relax. Nothing needs to be done. You have time for yourself. You don’t need to “find” something to do. Just take time for yourself. So ya. How do you tell your wife that? lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852300)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852312)

Bun Leung

Ummm separating from your children does not make you a step father my friend… tho i sympathize and wish you well… i cannot image how tough this would be

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Keonta Pitts

Bun Leung no she had two boys before our two kids that I helped raised.

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Bun Leung

Keonta Pitts oooooooo got u now… yes my oldest is my “step/adopted” son so i 100 percent get u… sorry brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852366)

MY step children!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852539)

Together we only have 1 child. Hes 4. Ive been with her since a pregnancy in 2020, (unknown when we got together, she didnt know, known her for 20 years atp) they are twins. They have my last name, know me as dad because I am. Love those little girls. Just not on the BC because she was still married to her ex at the timr because he refused to sign papers ect.

Question is, wtf do I do now? My brain is all over the fucking place.

I cant tolerate being treated like shit almost daily. Threatened, name called, talked down to, everything under the sun by a Narcissist.

We are not married, have no assets together so financially, we arent tied to any degree minus both being on the lease for the house.

Idk what to do. But I feel like leaving this house is thr best thing I can do. Im tired of being screamed at, tired of bipolar, depression, anxiety, or whatever the hell else she wants to blame it on. (Namely everything is ALWAYS somehow my fault. Or just men in general sometimes.)

Idk what the hell im asking or even saying honestly. Its 2:17 in thr morning and im packing my shit while my kids sleep. Im fucking lost.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852377)

I am currently going through a divorce. Something I never thought I would have to go through. It has only been about 4 months or so and the ex has already found a new guy (who looks weirdly almost like me.) She thinks its ok to bring him around the house and do things with him that we never got to do because she always had some sort of excuse or reason. Well I told her I do not want him around the kids or at the house I have put the work into paying for and getting fixed and I do not want him in the bed I paid for. Does that make me the asshole? Am I wrong for not wanting a random guy around our kids that she barely even knows (that im aware of) that she is in a relationship with already? She claims to be "friends" but I seen the messages between them. Nothing about that vibe said friend. We were together for 10 years. I wanted to fix what was broken. She refuses to try anything. That is fine but she started talking to this dude and other guys almost right away when I got kicked out of the house. It is like she put her old life on pause and jumped right back into the attention she claimed she wouldn't be getting because "Guys are not worth it. I want to work on myself"

P.S. The day I got kicked out, we had a conversation and it was only suppose to be a separation period so we could take a "breather" and then be friends and re-spark what we had. But she lied about that. Worse part about all this? I am still madly in love with her and still see her as my future. I do not have any interest in any one else.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852402)

Update from the comments: cheating not a factor here. Sounds like it, it’s not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852484)

Mushrooming white victimhood mentality is the clearest indication that there's no way back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49885315)

Cumskins OBSESSED ITT.

Date: May 1st, 2067 9:26 AM

Author: nyuug

Cumskins OBSESSED ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49856391)

Remember this thread every time white men begin piping up about using their weapons on the government.

It is difficult to imagine a more neutered, pathetic group.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49852930)

Note that in spite of that spending and killing advantage your country has lost every single war it’s been in for at least the last 40 years and btw the Jew runs your shit. Wow lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49854004)

Long Post, need any advice and someone to talk too…

I’ll be the first to admit I messed up. During my divorce (with 3 young daughters, now 6,4,2) I gave into my ex wives wishes and trusted her to keep her word. I gave her full custody and got off the deed to the house, with the verbal agreement she wouldn’t sell the house or move out of state. Well she did, she moved from Florida to South Dakota. My children and I had pretty consistent communication, at least a couple times a week along with me going to South Dakota for 10 days in February to watch them while my ex went on a work conference. It’s always been my intention to move to South Dakota as well to be around them, my ex knew this and was supportive of it. I’m in South Dakota now (Arrived 4/27/26 at noon) , but about a month before moving here she entered a new relationship. The kids and my communication started dwindling fast. Once she saw that I was actually moving here, she sent me a ton of false accusations about me and said she wasn’t comfortable and that the kids are happy without me. When I arrived I tried contacting her multiple times so we can talk and I can see my kids (last I spoke with my kids I told them I was moving soon, I want them to know I made it). She’s been slowly pushing me out for over a month, and today at 4:25 a cop knocked on my door with a no contact order. I have over a month of documentation and screen shots proofing the start and continuation of her alienating me from my children. I’m in a super depressed state right now, I’ve been working hard and moving accordingly for months to make this move possible and she has made it 10x harder. I honestly just need someone to talk to about it and hopefully get more detailed advice then “you need a lawyer” because I understand that and that’s my next goal, but of course their not cheap. Has anyone else been through this ? How did you stay sane, on track, and how did you overcome this obstacle ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49855014)

Every other worthless fuck pairing can be purely religious and ceremonial if they want, let nature sort the rest out - these Jews need to stop trying to sort out the Gentile filth and provide them order they are barely domesticated animals.

Keep them on their part of the farm until they need to be shorn or eaten and try and keep the herd from getting too diseased and eating too much of the field.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49855045)

until men put their foot down and go back to beating the shit out of women noting will change. this wont happen in our lifetimes, its over and will actually get worse. even furking gorilla sized nigga bitches in like rwanda are gonna be pulling this shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49855056)

then a smattering of conversations on work, home improvement, etc

the ones i posted yesterday were all from yesterday

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49856797)

Recently, my relationship with stepson has really deteriorated. It's like a clash of personality - he's borderline ADHD, and I'm an introvert. He can't keep still and I can't cope with the noise.

It's gotten to the point that we snipe at each other. I'm not proud, I feel terrible. I just don't know how to cope, or how to improve things. He ends up crying, and I'm filled with anger (nothing physical, no shouting, I keep it to myself, but it's overwhelming) It's got to the point his mother is getting cross with me, which makes me feel awful (shame).

And it doesn't help that his bio dad is very much in the picture. I loathe the man, but it's part of the deal I signed up for. He walks into our home without announcing himself, buys shit that we have to deal with, leaves the place a mess. And does zero actual parenting. Hasn't got a job, pays no support, provides no help.

Idk what to do to improve things. I know it starts with me... But... How?!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49862321)

just lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49862519)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49862634)

I'm not religious, but Islam did something right with having multiple wives to keep each other occupied and to keep the man happy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49885331)

Men are just expected to provide brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49885357)

Had no idea multiple marriages was rare. I only dated one Islamic chick who only half followed the religion to stay on the right side of her parents. She told me up to three wives would be fine. Maybe I should have stuck with her...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49885361)

Been married for 8 years, we have 3 young kids together and just recently found out my wife has been talking to a guy she met on TikTok since September of last year. He also lives across the country btw. I caught her unlocking her phone and their text messages popped up and she had just sent him a nude from the previous night. I decided to try and forgive her and after a month I found out she's still been talking to him for hours on the phone almost everyday while I'm at work thanks to Verizons usage logs. She says she's gonna keep him blocked and wants to work it out but she has him on discord and tiktok which is both very easy ways of talking without leaving any evidence. What do y'all think ? Try to forgive her and move on or divorce ???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49862626)

to love her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49863916)

Long story short, she teaal me I forfeited my visitation because I didn't confirm it on time. Can she do this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49885282)

My ex wife is moving out in a few weeks. Today she asked me for $500 to buy balloons for her balloon business she is getting off the ground. She has already maxed out all of her cards presumably and is wanting to buy more. I told her no, I’d be more willing to when she starts doing things with the balloons. For context, she is getting a large check to move out and I’ll be paying her monthly for the rest of her equity.

When I told her no she got extremely mad. I gotta draw the line somewhere right? We have been separated for almost 2 years and I’ve been supporting her the entire time and I’m just financially stressed from her thousands of dollars of existing a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49885283)

Can I take a quick poll? For my own mental clarity… how many men here.. would want their son born with a different last name? You have admitted, you want to be the father. She is denying birth and certification signing. Telling me she still wants me to be the dad… but my son won’t have my last name… please give a thumbs up if you would trust this situation 👍 and a heart if you would not trust this.❤️ side note I have known the woman for a long time. And her knowing what it means to me, is telling me I’m wrong…. I genuinely want to know how many fathers would or wouldn’t because or this alone. Please help me figure it out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49906989)

Am I losing my mind or does anybody agree with me here?

My wife recently went to Las Vegas with a group of her coworkers, who are all females. I didnt agree with her going because im 2 states away, and can't protect her. But I'm also not her dad, and shes responsible for her own life.

So if something bad were to happen, shoulda listened to me 🤷‍♂️ Im her husband and the head of the household. I pay the bills, put a roof over our families head, and she blatantly left in the middle of the night. Didn't even say goodbye to me or our kids, just.. took off.

Fast forward 3 days. She comes home and I noticed that she left her wedding ring on the nightstand.

Why? Did she not want anyone to know she was married while she was there?

I dont understand. Weve been together for 15 years, married 10 of it and I have NEVER taken my ring off.

Why would you not want to advertise that??

Am I overthinking this or does that raise a red flag?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861735&forum_id=2)#49906993)