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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
Arousing forum mother
  12/25/21
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shimmering irate private investor
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I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad...
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Slate Menage
  12/25/21
Make sure to bring business cards, brother.
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  12/25/21
I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
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  12/25/21
same
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blue irradiated feces
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Juan Eighty
  11/25/25
Important OP
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  12/25/21
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Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.
sickened garrison
  12/25/21
Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get...
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  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
galvanic milk
  12/25/21
My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
Rusted Depressive Senate
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blue irradiated feces
  12/26/21
live fast die young
Aphrodisiac Den
  02/22/23
theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
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thriller theatre
  12/26/21
very good advice here. i have been making an effort to atten...
shimmering irate private investor
  12/26/21
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aquamarine dilemma multi-billionaire
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Arousing forum mother
  01/15/22
this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best ...
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(junior soprano)
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Arousing forum mother
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I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
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Brindle submissive goyim
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Mike Yanagita
  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: Arousing forum mother

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: shimmering irate private investor



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: Lilac Fragrant Field Factory Reset Button

very valuable post

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: glittery locale

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: Arousing forum mother



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: peach concupiscible stain

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673327)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Slate Menage

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: umber soul-stirring sanctuary

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: laughsome cruise ship dragon



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: House-broken talking really tough guy masturbator



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Electric lay jap



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: Opaque stimulating goal in life clown



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Frisky hell



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: marvelous principal's office regret



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: laughsome cruise ship dragon

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Comical Half-breed

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: magenta gas station



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: blue irradiated feces



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: rose judgmental legal warrant business firm

Important OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673216)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: peach concupiscible stain

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673312)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: wonderful lodge kitty cat

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Stirring carmine tank coffee pot



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: sickened garrison

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: Citrine kink-friendly dingle berry

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: galvanic milk

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Rusted Depressive Senate

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: blue irradiated feces



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac Den

live fast

die young

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#45965902)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Poppy territorial school cafeteria

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: thriller theatre



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: shimmering irate private investor

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: aquamarine dilemma multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#44857679)



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: Arousing forum mother



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: thriller theatre

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: aquamarine dilemma multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#44856925)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: idiotic canary parlour

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: Arousing forum mother



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: olive 180 rigor

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: amber anal property french chef



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Brindle submissive goyim



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Pearl abode useless brakes

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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