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27year old never dated or kissed; how to get gf and be happy?

It's hard to hang out with people now because its weird when...
pearly cuckold dilemma
  12/21/12
In a similar situation I would go balls to wall workaholi...
irate red stage
  12/21/12
I like hanging out with ppl but they all start talking about...
pearly cuckold dilemma
  12/21/12
I dunno. It's a lot easier to live life this way if you're a...
irate red stage
  12/21/12
Stop equating women with happiness.
Translucent deep trailer park
  12/21/12
Ok how do I be happy? I actually am pretty happy cause my j...
pearly cuckold dilemma
  12/21/12
I recommend a prostitute so you see sex as a commodity like ...
Translucent deep trailer park
  12/21/12
Protip: teach english in china, get chinese girl friend...se...
twinkling trip new version lodge
  12/21/12
terrible advice 99% of chinese women are beyond worthless
stubborn purple forum
  12/21/12
Compared to modern, western sewer skunks?
irate red stage
  12/21/12
non anglo-saxon white women tend to pwn the fuck out of asia...
stubborn purple forum
  12/21/12
they're not worthless in the "no communication required...
twinkling trip new version lodge
  12/21/12
"no communication required but will still fuck you dep...
stubborn purple forum
  12/21/12
Can they at least be counted on to be faithful? Or is it lik...
irate red stage
  12/21/12
absolutely not. post marital infidelity is rampant. young...
stubborn purple forum
  12/21/12
They can't even be trusted to be faithful with the older bus...
irate red stage
  12/21/12
of course not. it's a business transaction at that point. do...
stubborn purple forum
  12/21/12
Well, on the one hand, if a woman is marrying you only for y...
irate red stage
  12/21/12
it's not really possible to answer, because "cheating&q...
stubborn purple forum
  12/21/12
yeah but OP is virgin, popping dat cherry has gotta give him...
twinkling trip new version lodge
  12/21/12
just do squats breh
stubborn purple forum
  12/21/12
I have almost reached the point where I have stopped getting...
pearly cuckold dilemma
  12/21/12
Obviously not an expert here, but I think crushes are really...
irate red stage
  12/21/12
Gf won't make you happy for more than a few months.
Brindle Space Party Of The First Part
  12/21/12
you don't have a gf because you secretly don't want to. if s...
Racy Hilarious University
  12/21/12
This may be correct. What long term investments are you tal...
pearly cuckold dilemma
  12/21/12
A long term investment would be picturing yourself at 95 yea...
Racy Hilarious University
  12/21/12
This sounds like hell. (not OP)
Glittery Partner
  12/21/12
where do you see yourself far off into the future?
Racy Hilarious University
  12/21/12
Dead
Glittery Partner
  12/21/12
Titcr
irate red stage
  12/21/12
I am also in this position. I wonder if a relationship would...
Tantric native
  12/21/12
stfu doobs
Burgundy Bawdyhouse Tank
  12/21/12
impossible at this point. Have you considered killself?
beady-eyed hyperventilating clown senate
  12/21/12
update?
zesty
  01/27/26


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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:10 AM
Author: pearly cuckold dilemma

It's hard to hang out with people now because its weird when I am single and never talk about dating or girls

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290080)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:13 AM
Author: irate red stage

In a similar situation

I would go balls to wall workaholic, then avoid work functions if possible. Generally speaking, coworkers won't pry too closely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290091)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:15 AM
Author: pearly cuckold dilemma

I like hanging out with ppl but they all start talking about their kids and getting married and vacations. It's embarrassing when I am like the fifth wheel of two couples where the doods are my friends



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290094)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:18 AM
Author: irate red stage

I dunno. It's a lot easier to live life this way if you're a hermit, or you only have a few friends who are also misfits. How awkward is it at this point?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290110)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:16 AM
Author: Translucent deep trailer park

Stop equating women with happiness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290101)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:17 AM
Author: pearly cuckold dilemma

Ok how do I be happy? I actually am pretty happy cause my job is awesome, but I eat lonely sometimes and want someone to like me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290104)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:21 AM
Author: Translucent deep trailer park

I recommend a prostitute so you see sex as a commodity like everything else, it will help deconstruct your notion of how it's the greatest thing ever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290127)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:16 AM
Author: twinkling trip new version lodge

Protip: teach english in china, get chinese girl friend...self-esteem boost

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290102)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:30 AM
Author: stubborn purple forum

terrible advice

99% of chinese women are beyond worthless

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290161)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:31 AM
Author: irate red stage

Compared to modern, western sewer skunks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290166)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:44 AM
Author: stubborn purple forum

non anglo-saxon white women tend to pwn the fuck out of asian women bro.

also im strictly talking about mainland chinese women here. korean and japanese women, or even HK or taiwanese women, are much better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290235)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM
Author: twinkling trip new version lodge

they're not worthless in the "no communication required but will still fuck you dept"...plus im sort of into the whole acting like they don't like noises they make

too bad i don't want half-breed babies...too bad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290172)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:43 AM
Author: stubborn purple forum

"no communication required but will still fuck you dept"

so you basically use them as a human fleshlight. i don't see how that helps your self-esteem, it certainly wouldn't help mine.

they are worthless because communism represses and distorts sexuality, and as a result, very few chinese women have mannerisms that can be considered "sexy" or compatible with western sensibilities.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290227)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:46 AM
Author: irate red stage

Can they at least be counted on to be faithful? Or is it like here where if you leave her alone for more than 5 mins you run the risk of being cucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290241)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:52 AM
Author: stubborn purple forum

absolutely not.

post marital infidelity is rampant. younger unmarried women will straight up try to get with high status married men. Apparently, Chinese MBA program are notorious are enrolling older successful business men and young good looking women.

if a chinese person has an opportunity to "move up", be this in career, or relationship or whatever, you can count on that he/she will take it. these people have no morals.

also, i think staying faithful when you have options is mostly a function of self control and also courage, both of which the chinese lack dearly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290271)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:54 AM
Author: irate red stage

They can't even be trusted to be faithful with the older business doods tho?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290281)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:58 AM
Author: stubborn purple forum

of course not. it's a business transaction at that point. do you expect faithfulness from trading partners?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290299)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:01 AM
Author: irate red stage

Well, on the one hand, if a woman is marrying you only for your money, I would imagine she doesn't care much for you and will be inclined to cheat. On the other hand, I would think she wouldn't want to risk being cut off from the dude's wealth. But how that plays out would depend perhaps on what the marriage laws are like in China, and I know nothing about that. I can't imagine they've gotten as bad as they are here in the U.S. though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290312)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:32 AM
Author: stubborn purple forum

it's not really possible to answer, because "cheating" implies that two people are fully invested into each other at some point, and this simply does not happen in these gold digger relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290440)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:50 AM
Author: twinkling trip new version lodge

yeah but OP is virgin, popping dat cherry has gotta give him some kinda boost

just trying to help the bro through the dark times...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290263)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:01 AM
Author: stubborn purple forum

just do squats breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290311)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:18 AM
Author: pearly cuckold dilemma

I have almost reached the point where I have stopped getting crushes on people. What to do then? I'll never like someone in that way again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290115)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:26 AM
Author: irate red stage

Obviously not an expert here, but I think crushes are really only something young people experience. I think the idea is that you start dating and then hopefully something more develops; and if it doesn't, you move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290141)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:27 AM
Author: Brindle Space Party Of The First Part

Gf won't make you happy for more than a few months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290146)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:27 AM
Author: Racy Hilarious University

you don't have a gf because you secretly don't want to. if someone called you right now, you'd be annoyed instead of catering to needy people. It's a self serving bias, which you can defeat with a lot of hard work. To start things off, I've found that dedicating a percentage of my time to relationships is a fruitful endeavor.

For example, instead of seeking short term gains excessively (being a lone, eating, videogames, neglecting health), seek long term gains. This usually means incurring an upfront cost in the present, maybe continually accruing losses for a while, then seeing the fruits of your investment pay off. Think of moments as opportunity costs. Spending an extra minute with that weird girl in your daily routine could blossom into a vicious cycle of reciprocity. For example, she may not be gf material, but she can introduce you to different circles, same with that weird guy you avoid for whatever reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290148)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:28 AM
Author: pearly cuckold dilemma

This may be correct. What long term investments are you talking about? I am pretty introverted so like being alone a lot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290154)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:29 AM
Author: Racy Hilarious University

A long term investment would be picturing yourself at 95 years old, lying next to a sweet old lady who just made you tea or hot chocolate or whatever. Neglecting the now can have serious repercussions in the future.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290157)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:31 AM
Author: Glittery Partner

This sounds like hell. (not OP)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290167)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:32 AM
Author: Racy Hilarious University

where do you see yourself far off into the future?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290170)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM
Author: Glittery Partner

Dead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290173)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM
Author: irate red stage

Titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290174)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:16 AM
Author: Tantric native

I am also in this position. I wonder if a relationship would actually make me happy. I have a feeling it wouldnt, in the long run at least

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290629)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:39 AM
Author: Burgundy Bawdyhouse Tank

stfu doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290714)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:39 AM
Author: beady-eyed hyperventilating clown senate

impossible at this point. Have you considered killself?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#22290715)



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Date: January 27th, 2026 9:44 AM
Author: zesty

update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2)#49622965)