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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
motley plaza
  12/25/21
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greedy apoplectic house stock car
  12/26/21
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I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
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  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
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My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
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Disgusting headpube
  12/26/21
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histrionic stead
  02/22/23
theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
comical frum point
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Flirting Native Foreskin
  12/26/21
very good advice here. i have been making an effort to atten...
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  12/26/21
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motley plaza
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this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best ...
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  07/15/22
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Aphrodisiac Milky Pit People Who Are Hurt
  07/15/22
(junior soprano)
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motley plaza
  02/22/23
I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
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pearly harsh messiness
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Mike Yanagita
  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: motley plaza

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: greedy apoplectic house stock car



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: Ultramarine stirring pistol

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: balding 180 cuckoldry

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: motley plaza



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: chrome center

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Lemon karate candlestick maker

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: odious alcoholic public bath

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: Cordovan principal's office



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: green contagious theater stage trump supporter



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: citrine marketing idea roast beef



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: Splenetic razzmatazz cumskin haunted graveyard



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Cordovan principal's office

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: violent shimmering azn state

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: Mustard Generalized Bond Legend



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Disgusting headpube



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Boyish Ivory Ape Market

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: chrome center

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: bright arousing cuckold

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Poppy racy tank



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Lilac swashbuckling round eye theatre

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: hot titillating corner toilet seat

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: Twinkling Garrison Coldplay Fan

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Galvanic bat-shit-crazy hall

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Disgusting headpube



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: histrionic stead

live fast

die young

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: comical frum point

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: Flirting Native Foreskin



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: greedy apoplectic house stock car

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac Milky Pit People Who Are Hurt



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: motley plaza



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: Flirting Native Foreskin

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac Milky Pit People Who Are Hurt



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: topaz telephone

(junior soprano)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#44856935)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: motley plaza



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: white sneaky criminal national

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: hairraiser startled love of her life heaven



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: pearly harsh messiness



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: electric step-uncle's house masturbator

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2)#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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