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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:31 AM Author: Rage Problems I guess im going all in with the subordinate. I fell in love and just is a nightmare now spending time with her, feels pointless and a waste of time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714324) |
Date: March 4th, 2026 10:32 AM Author: fatty nigger (✅🍑) I have a good feeling about this thread. Do you think she knows? |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:37 AM Author: Rage Problems We’ve been in couples therapy. Last weekend she said she’s made a decision and needs to talk about it in our next session. I assumed it was about getting separated. But this week we went on a trip together and she’s really trying, trying to act like she used to, saying I love you all the time. But it has the unintended consequence of making me realize how checked out I am from the relationship. Feels weird she’s acting that way, and it’s weird trying to pretend with her when I’m totally in love with the subordinate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714344) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:40 AM Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot Does she know about the affair? Isn't she like 8 months pregnant?
Starting to actually think this is flame. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:42 AM Author: Rage Problems She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. She doesn’t know about the affair but she senses it, constantly asks what I’m doing on phone and accuses me. Last night she saw me on the balcony on my phone smiling and asked who I was talking to. It was her. Then I said I wanted to go on a walk and she said only if you leave your phone behind. I went anyway. She went out and searched for me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714357) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:45 AM Author: the discombobulator She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714364) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:50 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714377) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:53 AM Author: fulano (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714382) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:53 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714386) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:08 AM Author: FUCK LIBS (TDNW) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714459) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:08 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714460) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:11 AM Author: UhOh Ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714461) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:18 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714481) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. Date: March 4th, 2026 11:11 AM Author: UhOh
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:28 AM Author: horse declension (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714521) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:29 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714527) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714538) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714539) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:46 AM Author: lsd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714583) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Nazca Redlines (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714598) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714692) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:49 AM Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot Is the subordinate going to leave her husband? Even assuming she does, can you actually date her if she works for you? And if not, how much you want to bet that it would fuck up your "relationship" with her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714375) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:05 AM Author: Rage Problems Yes, she is leaving him. I’m already dating her while she works for me. It’s a company violation of course. Long long term one of us will need a new job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714441) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:07 AM Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot What is really epic is that the actual outcome will be her staying with the cuck and him bringing your current wife into his home to form a harem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714452) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:18 AM Author: peeface (Andrew "Coop" Cooper) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714479) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:32 AM Author: Gay Grandpa Medium-short term both of you will be out a job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714544) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: Rage Problems Not sure how anyone would find out. And honestly even if they did most people wouldn’t say anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714582) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:39 AM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) 99% of the time one of the cheaters backs out and sticks with their partner. less than 50% of the time does the cheater leave their spouse even in a one-way affair. remember in harry met sally where the one chick kept complaining how "he's never gonna leave his wife" every time skip? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714569) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:44 AM Author: Rage Problems I’d be the one more likely to stay tbh. I have a kid. She has been checked out of her marriage even longer that I have, and is now moving across the country (to be near me). He doesn’t want to move, it’s an easy breakup point. Mine is less so and requires harder conversations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714578) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) if you really loved your subordinate you would not want her destroying her marriage when you're not sure you're prepared to do the same.
if you guys were going to do it, you would have done it by now. if you're not both committing to ending it today, why would tomorrow be different? |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:02 PM Author: Rage Problems She wants out of her marriage regardless. I haven’t butted in at all or asked for anything. I mean it’s happening. Once she lives close we will both be separated most likely… (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714615) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:14 PM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) if she wanted out period, she'd be out. she might be willing to get out if she has another man lined up (you), but she's gonna wait for you too pull the trigger first. you won't because you enjoy having your cake and eating it too. eventually one of you will get caught and it was have disastrous effects on both your lives.
if you truly loved her you'd spare her from that. or you'd have already begun the separation process with your wife. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:29 AM Author: tancredi marchiolo men "falling in love" has to be the weirdest gay shit ive ever seen happen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714526) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:30 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) tp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714529) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:51 AM Author: Show me that butthole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714593) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:30 AM Author: potato gun are you not thinking of your kid at all? i don't fucking understand you people. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714530) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714541) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:37 AM Author: lsd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714564) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:35 AM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) OP, is this your first kid too? if so you're being really selfish. lots of women "check out" from a marriage when theyre pregnant and postpartum because of all the hormones and physical changes. your wife is going out searching for you and youre about to abandon her because the thrill is gone? nigger, the thrill will end with the subordinate too, but your kid will always know dad cheated on his mom while she was pregnant and abandoned the marriage if you continue eown this path. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714558) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:46 AM Author: Rage Problems I’m in love with another woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714584) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Show me that butthole Cut the crap and be a man lmao come on dude you sound like a major faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714599) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:56 AM Author: Rage Problems What part of in love didn’t you understand (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714602) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:58 AM Author: Show me that butthole A “grown man” is “in love” LJL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714605) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) is that more important to you then your newborn child? i would side with you if your wife was years after having a kid and still checked out. but she just had a kid and is fighting for you. you're being incredibly selfish, and short sighted because you're experiencing the thrill of new love and won't accept that the thrill with the subordinate will someday wane too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714601) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:59 AM Author: Rage Problems She senses I’m checked out and is trying to reconnect. It’s hard to do that at snap of fingers after 1.5 years of bullshit. Even if I wanted to I couldn’t. I’ve moved on mentally and now have been in love for 6 months with another woman. There’s no “At fault” here. That’s not how this kind of shit works. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714607) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:10 PM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) nigger this is how this "shit works" in reality:
1) you will eventually get caught, realize how selfish you stupid you were being, and spend a significant amount of time and energy repairing your marriage, although a scar will always remain. this is the best case scenario where your wife takes you back after a huge betrayal, and you will regret it the rest of your life. this is the zurich outcome.
2) you will eventually get caught, stick with the subordinate chick, and blow up your marriage. eventually things will fade with the subordinate too. if you stick with the subordinate will eventually have the exact same thing you have with your wife now except child support and a kid who suffers all the consequences of children of divorce and has to live knowing his dad is a POS who abandoned his mother while she was pregnant with him. this is the second best scenario.
3) you blow up your marriage and things don't work out with the subordinate. now you're millhouse's dad trying to find a new partner on dating apps. except you've got the scarlet letter of "CHEATED ON HIS WIFE WHILE PREGNANT", which eliminates you from contention with all quality women. if you're lucky you will wind up with some chick way worse than your wife and secretly regret blowing up your marriage and reminiscing about the good old days. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:19 PM Author: Randy Fine Ate My Son ((zurich is stained)) fwiw, my situation didn't fit neatly into either 1 or 2 above, it was a weird amalgamation of craziness and substance abuse.
i got caught but didn't back out - i went forward and proclaimed that i was in love and had to be with this other woman, etc. but then i got sober and realized that i was still in love with GARY (who has been continuing to be intimate with gunner) in addition to the other girl (things never "faded" with her). it was awful because i was still really in love with the other girl but i had to dump her because i knew i had to get up in GARY's guts again.
it was just a really weird situation and honestly when i look back on it, it seems like a fever dream. i'm honestly amazed that i was doing all that stuff. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:28 PM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) this is situation #1. almost every time there is a transition period where the guy equivocates between wife and mistress.
things "faded" with trash pussy because she's BPD insane. you never fall out of love with BPD types, but you eventually realize that they're too unstable. your ankle monitor was a symbol of things fading with her.
you are fortunate that gary was so forgiving and you didn't have to beg and plead (too much i assume) to get her back. but this is a unique twist because you've allowed her to "get revenge" in perpetuity by letting me be her bull, which also satisfies your cuck fetish. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:29 PM Author: Randy Fine Ate My Son ((zurich is stained)) flame, i was really still in love with her (not her giant hole, but her). i just made a conscious decision to dump her and go back to gary.
if i hadn't thought i could get gary back i would have stayed with manhole puss. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:32 PM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) well then you never got to the point of things fading.
by "fading" i don't mean falling out of love, i'm talking about the passionate new love phase of a relationship. i'm certain that manhole puss is a woman with flaws like all others (in addition to her gaping maw of a cunt). |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:33 PM Author: Randy Fine Ate My Son ((zurich is stained)) her occupation is "poshmark ambassador" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714678) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:26 PM Author: George Jetson (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714655) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:56 AM Author: Nazca Redlines Who cares. You owe it to the kid to stay with your wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714603) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:59 AM Author: Rage Problems Disagree (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714610) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:42 AM Author: tancredi marchiolo he didnt listen to blink 182 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714574) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:49 AM Author: Rage Problems Being in a shit marriage doesn’t seem great for him. Better to pull the bandaid now when he won’t remember and it will always be normal than when he’s older. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714587) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: potato gun it’ll be a lot better than his parents splitting up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714600) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:35 AM Author: Covid was a Hoax congrats man i dont know who you are but congrats. do you have kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714555) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:49 AM Author: Rage Problems One kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714588) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:01 PM Author: Covid was a Hoax boy or girl? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714614) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:37 AM Author: norwood ultra 180 man seize the day! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714565) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:38 AM Author: TurboGrafx-67 Has she met your kid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714568) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:50 AM Author: Rage Problems No, but she seemed to be even more attracted to me that I have a kid. Women be diff than men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714591) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: Brussels Sprout: Brussels,Helsinki,Stockholm,Kyiv sorry to hear that, Johnsmeyer- keep ur chin up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714579) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: Nazca Redlines Don't leave your wife. Especially because she's trying to repair things and improve, and she just had a baby. Especially especially because you now have a kid to think about. And especially especially especially not to be with some office homewrecker who is content to blow up your marriage and her's. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714613) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:08 PM Author: Show me that butthole Yeah now see the fact pattern thru the eyes of someone who is a total piece of shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714622) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:11 PM Author: do you think i am retarded, . ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714630) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:44 PM Author: Nazca Redlines (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714703) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:02 PM Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot Where are you at in terms of getting to "know" your dad through this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714616) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:22 PM Author: Randy Fine Ate My Son ((zurich is stained)) op, here is something you should think about: your subordinate is willing to blow up a young family. my wife (gary, who keeps sleeping with gunner) said this to me when i told her i was leaving her, and a few of my friends pointed it out. one of the first things gary said (in addition to calling the other girl "a fucking dumpster whore") was "please step back and consider that you're blowing your life up for some woman who's willing to take a guy away from two young kids"
the other woman did wind up being really self-centered and selfish, which was something i grew to dislike about her. and she left behind her own 13 yo son in florida to come live with me. oh, and she also got knocked up when she was like 18 and she had a son who was like 20, and he was severely autistic and barely verbal. she'd abandoned him to his dad by the time he was like 5. at the time i thought this was all just fine, but WOMEN do not do any shit like this, and any woman who is willing to do it potentially has serious personality issues.
this is something you will not see through the fog of love, but you'll realize it later.
here is my advice to you, but i know you won't take it bc i wouldn't have: break things off with the subordinate at least for now. be straight with her: you have a young child and a wife, and at the same time you are in love with her. you need to sort this out. come clean to your wife. maybe you should move out of your house for a few months at least. be alone. go to therapy with your wife. revisit this in several months. you may be in a different headspace. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:44 PM Author: Amanda Reckonwith (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714706) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:48 PM Author: Nazca Redlines CR, except why come clean to wife? If op can put the relationship with the homewrecker coworker behind him, what does telling his wife about it do--and more particularly, what does it do for her? He gets to unburden himself (or "unload," if you will), and she has to live with that knowledge that he was definitely cheating on her while she was pregnant for the rest of her life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714715) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:53 PM Author: Show me that butthole Billy B here and my wife was pissed at my affair partner and said similar - how terrible is she to blow up her family and try to steal me? I didn’t see it at the time but it’s 100% correct. Not saying never have an affair but the chance of success with your affair partner is near zero. I read a book and it had stats and it said 3% of people that break up their marriages over an affair stay together and only 1% make it beyond a year. OP: you’re probably in the 99% not the 1% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714735) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:30 PM Author: incel adams Welcome back Rage Problems (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714669) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:32 PM Author: 6EQUJ4 maybe i missed this, but what it is about new girl/sub that your in love with? be honest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714672) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: Rage Problems She’s smart, ambitious, quick witted, and has an amazing ass and perky tits. We share a lot of the same interests, conversation just flows. She’s also incredibly attractive and has this mischievous sense of humor that catches me off guard. Being around her feels energizing in a way I haven’t felt in many years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714691) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: Randy Fine Ate My Son ((zurich is stained)) do u have any pics to share (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714695) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:42 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. Your age/her age/wife's age? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714698) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:50 PM Author: Nazca Redlines Cool. Will you still be "in love" with her in 5 years? 25 years? Will she still "love" you, rather than moving on from you just like she moved on from her current marriage (and is trying to destroy yours)?
If the answer to any of those questions is "no" (and it definitely is "no"), it's not worth blowing up your marriage and leaving your baby. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:38 PM Author: jonathan penis you will get all the happiness you deserve, op. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714684) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: Rage Problems Let’s hope not (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714697) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:50 PM Author: Nazca Redlines (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714726) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:45 PM Author: Randy Fine Ate My Son ((zurich is stained)) let me just put this out there for you. when i sobered up and started to realize that i still loved my wife, my kids were over at my apartment one day and we were out at the playground and my older son, then 7 years old, met this little girl around his age. she was telling him which apt she lived in, and he blurted out "i don't live here. my parents are separated, and i'm just visiting my dad." i wanted to die at that moment.
so picture your kid in a few years telling a friend that they're "going to visit my dad" or whatever and consider how you will feel about that. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:51 PM Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714727) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:52 PM Author: Nazca Redlines https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/1myi39c/norm_macdonald_divorced_with_kids/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2).#49714732) |