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living with my GF is scaring the shit out of me

I love her and I love spending time with her. but after 2 mo...
cerise knife
  07/06/12
imagine once she's over 23 years old.
Emerald area regret
  07/06/12
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startled chocolate pit
  07/06/12
whats the proper equilibrium to shoot for?
cerise knife
  07/06/12
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startled chocolate pit
  07/06/12
I think I should have. but is this normal for marrieds/peopl...
cerise knife
  07/06/12
u need to start scheduling your own stuff and encouraging he...
fuchsia hall wrinkle
  07/06/12
I have nothing going on in my life right now though and like...
cerise knife
  07/06/12
pretty sure this means you dont love her
Lime church building
  07/06/12
You're trapped now brother. You'll have to choose between ma...
pearl galvanic casino
  07/06/12
I love her but I feel this is kind of strange for both of us...
cerise knife
  07/06/12
This is not normal unless you are beta as shit bro. Establis...
Curious pea-brained kitchen
  07/06/12
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startled chocolate pit
  07/06/12
(unable come to terms with his repressed knowledge of bbc pe...
Curious pea-brained kitchen
  07/06/12
what does that even mean? what would control even look like?...
cerise knife
  07/06/12
Do shit like read in another room when you are home. Tell he...
Curious pea-brained kitchen
  07/06/12
I do both of these things. solid advice brother.
cerise knife
  07/06/12
just start saying no to minor things. if she flips out, ...
Violet Idiotic Business Firm
  07/06/12
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startled chocolate pit
  07/06/12
You don't ask, you just start banging the hell out of her bo...
180 telephone
  07/06/12
2 months lol. Wait til 2 years.
Internet-worthy appetizing turdskin
  07/06/12
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covered in parvo
  12/02/25
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lfo
  12/02/25
Make love to her anus
Paralegal Six Nine
  12/02/25


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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:19 PM
Author: cerise knife

I love her and I love spending time with her. but after 2 months I've realized that we now basically do EVERYTHING together. coordinate when we leave work. when we'll eat dinner. what WE will do tonight. there is no independence really.

is this normal? is this desirable? idk brehs, I'm not sure wether I like it or not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030716)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:20 PM
Author: Emerald area regret

imagine once she's over 23 years old.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030720)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:22 PM
Author: startled chocolate pit



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:25 PM
Author: cerise knife

whats the proper equilibrium to shoot for?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030747)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:29 PM
Author: startled chocolate pit



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:31 PM
Author: cerise knife

I think I should have. but is this normal for marrieds/people who live together? I honestly see no way around it, your home base is the same so you basically are forced to do everything together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030770)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:47 PM
Author: fuchsia hall wrinkle

u need to start scheduling your own stuff and encouraging her to do the same. set a precedent for having at least one night a week where you each do your own thing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030850)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 9:00 PM
Author: cerise knife

I have nothing going on in my life right now though and like no friends. what to do in that case?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030911)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:20 PM
Author: Lime church building

pretty sure this means you dont love her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030722)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:24 PM
Author: pearl galvanic casino

You're trapped now brother. You'll have to choose between marriage and a horrible, messy breakup.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030743)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:25 PM
Author: cerise knife

I love her but I feel this is kind of strange for both of us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030748)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:26 PM
Author: Curious pea-brained kitchen

This is not normal unless you are beta as shit bro. Establish control of the situation immediately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030750)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:28 PM
Author: startled chocolate pit



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:31 PM
Author: Curious pea-brained kitchen

(unable come to terms with his repressed knowledge of bbc penetrating his girlfriend's anus)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030768)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:28 PM
Author: cerise knife

what does that even mean? what would control even look like?

when we lived apart, I did my own thing. I'm a pretty strong introvert. I dont really have much shit going on otherwise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030758)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:35 PM
Author: Curious pea-brained kitchen

Do shit like read in another room when you are home. Tell her you are going to hang out with friends after work and then just go and eat by yourself or something. Just shit like that. Let her know you need more space, you love being around her but you cant direct all your attention to her.

You will burnout fast if you keep this up and it could fuck up your relationship. You dont want that to happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030791)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:39 PM
Author: cerise knife

I do both of these things. solid advice brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030805)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:32 PM
Author: Violet Idiotic Business Firm

just start saying no to minor things.

if she flips out, ATD.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030772)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:45 PM
Author: startled chocolate pit



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Date: July 6th, 2012 8:50 PM
Author: 180 telephone

You don't ask, you just start banging the hell out of her box as soon as you get laid off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030864)



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Date: July 6th, 2012 9:01 PM
Author: Internet-worthy appetizing turdskin

2 months lol. Wait til 2 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#21030916)



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Date: December 2nd, 2025 9:21 AM
Author: covered in parvo



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Date: December 2nd, 2025 9:19 AM
Author: lfo



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Date: December 2nd, 2025 9:24 AM
Author: Paralegal Six Nine

Make love to her anus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1987942&forum_id=2).#49476703)