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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
Jade elastic band
  05/20/22
Jfc
peach deer antler
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
startled whorehouse
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
Jade elastic band
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
Link?
peach deer antler
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
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no
rose angry field dysfunction
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
Concupiscible thirsty casino
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Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
Concupiscible thirsty casino
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
Concupiscible thirsty casino
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is she overweight? age?
rose angry field dysfunction
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
Concupiscible thirsty casino
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i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
rose angry field dysfunction
  05/20/22
good for you two.
Concupiscible thirsty casino
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
rose angry field dysfunction
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
Charcoal useless nibblets
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
Concupiscible thirsty casino
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Life is miserable isn’t it
onyx hall round eye
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for the most part.
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Monikor
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COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
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my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
rose angry field dysfunction
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*2 years of marriage
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rare honesty
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ivory arousing hell
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you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
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oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
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silver doobsian lodge friendly grandma
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
motley fanboi
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
motley fanboi
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
motley fanboi
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
Provocative Cordovan Toilet Seat Ticket Booth
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
motley fanboi
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
motley fanboi
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
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So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
Cracking buff candlestick maker
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well this response for one
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clear cruel-hearted lettuce
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motley fanboi
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
rose angry field dysfunction
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
rose angry field dysfunction
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
rose angry field dysfunction
  05/20/22
fair
clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt
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When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
Cracking buff candlestick maker
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I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Disrespectful coffee pot
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
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  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
Exhilarant library rigpig
  05/21/22
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clear cruel-hearted lettuce
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Jade elastic band

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: peach deer antler

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: startled whorehouse

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: Jade elastic band

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: peach deer antler

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Hateful razzmatazz location

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: House-broken domesticated travel guidebook



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Concupiscible thirsty casino

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: Concupiscible thirsty casino

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Concupiscible thirsty casino

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: Concupiscible thirsty casino

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Concupiscible thirsty casino

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: Charcoal useless nibblets

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Concupiscible thirsty casino

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: onyx hall round eye

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: Concupiscible thirsty casino

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: Lilac crackhouse old irish cottage

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: Laughsome jap rehab

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: silver doobsian lodge friendly grandma

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: ivory arousing hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: silver doobsian lodge friendly grandma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: motley fanboi

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: motley fanboi

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: motley fanboi

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: Provocative Cordovan Toilet Seat Ticket Booth

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: motley fanboi

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: motley fanboi

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: Cracking buff candlestick maker



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: Cracking buff candlestick maker

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: silver doobsian lodge friendly grandma

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: motley fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: rose angry field dysfunction

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Maniacal Hairraiser People Who Are Hurt

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: Cracking buff candlestick maker

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Disrespectful coffee pot

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: charismatic feces garrison

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Exhilarant library rigpig

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: clear cruel-hearted lettuce



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2,#50093931)