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Waiting to my 30s to get married and have kids was a disastrous decision
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Date: February 8th, 2026 8:46 AM Author: @grok, is this true? Did absolutely nothing of value in my 20s compared to family life. Going to spend all day doing youth sports compared to hanging with my bros and thinking up Olympic themed drinking games. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655195) |
Date: February 8th, 2026 9:22 AM Author: female penis Oh no man. God forbid that. God forbid you have to have a day free of obligation, nagging children, the bitching of your wife, where your biggest challenges are whether you’re going to one of your best bros houses or a bar and what you’re going to eat and drink while chilling, hanging out, and watching the Olympics together, maybe flirting with some cute DC 7s because why the fuck not. Much better this way. Glad you’ll have a day subsumed by “youth sports” and finish it off with a half paid attention to Super Bowl viewing while your wife makes you watch TikTok videos about purses and perimenopause between plays and your kids fight with each other. Much better this way. Family life! amirite! The American Dream! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655240) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:26 AM Author: @grok, is this true? Society is an illusion - there is only man and family (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655243) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:32 AM Author: peeface when you are dying you aren't going to be thinking back on the days you spent sitting around your apartment alone burping up uber eats (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655248) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:35 AM Author: Jewish Bloodline Redeemer Higher likelihood of that than his family being around him at his expiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655252) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:35 AM Author: cucumbers Truly fulfilling to die with your family around you, most of them either not really caring about you or even hating you, all of them being a younger generation of blown-out wagecucks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655253) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:38 AM Author: Jewish Bloodline Redeemer Cr
Peak male experience is to crawl out into woods alone and let nature devour you |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:52 AM Author: Norwoody Allen Peak male experience is to shove head in deep fryer at Olive Garden (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655290) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:00 AM Author: Jewish Bloodline Redeemer Many people are doing this! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655329) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:01 AM Author: peeface sorry to hear you are still mad that your dad didn't celebrate your coming out
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:34 AM Author: cucumbers Ljl all my coworkers with young kids look exhausted, dead-eyed, sleep deprived, etc. from their dysgenic kids taking up all their time and energy. One of them takes Xanax daily to deal with the stress. Her weekends of kid activities sound unimaginably pathetic and like a huge waste of time.
Meanwhile I get a full 8+ hours of sleep every night and am not rushing around in a cuck minivan outside of work to move around young kids who'll just turn into another generation of wagecucks.
Assuming I don't have kids, I can retire within the next five years or so in my early 40s and live comfortably. |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:35 AM Author: Shlomo Dreidlowitz Sure, but why? Might as well kill yourself at that point. You'll save even more on living expenses. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655254) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:41 AM Author: cucumbers What's better: financial freedom with few responsibilities and not having to wagecuck, or two decades of raising kids eliminating virtually all of your free time on top of forcing yourself to work longer because you dump a bunch a money on those kids, only for them to turn out to be pathetic wagecucks just like you and me? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655276) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:42 AM Author: Shlomo Dreidlowitz Think of how financially free you'd be if you were dead! BTW make sure to go for cremation, it's much more economical. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655278) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:45 AM Author: cucumbers Seems like you're too emotionally invested in the idea of having kids and combining it with trolling. Do whatever you want, friend. Get married (nearly 50% chance of divorce and financial catastrophe for you) and raise those beautiful kids (almost certainly another generation of wagecucks). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655282) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:04 AM Author: Shlomo Dreidlowitz Sure, I can agree that libs and consumerism have ruined society. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655341) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:09 AM Author: cucumbers Are you ready to subsidize your kids' overpriced apartments in big cities and possibly paying for their gender-affirming care? Sounds like a dream. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655348) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 11:44 AM Author: Noah Tannenbaum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655539) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:36 AM Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;.., >Her weekends of kid activities sound unimaginably pathetic and like a huge waste of time.
as a kidmo, this is undoubtedly true, but weekend thingdoing as a childless 40yo is far more pathetic and meaningless.
what are you going to do? go to bigbrunch with a bunch of genetic dead ends, homosexual faggots and cunt shrews? go to the opera? |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:49 AM Author: cucumbers I'm sure people find meaning and comfort in raising kids, as you seem to do. We just have different perspectives. My priority is financial freedom and early retirement so that I have all the time in the world for thingdoing, not just weekends. Having kids makes that more difficult unless I luck out in GC and make it far beyond shitty middle management. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655285) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:43 AM Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;.., thingdoing as a 55 yr old shut-in childless weirdo sounds great! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655414) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: Noah Tannenbaum Pathetic lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655542) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 11:47 AM Author: Bobby Buttplug ((zurich is stained)) i tend to agree, but each person is different. if you are happy without kids then good for you.
i know this one girl who is my age (mid-40s) and crows on facebook a lot about BEING SO HAPPY THAT I CHOSE THE CHILDFREE LIFE, etc. that kind of shit is stupid and indicates to me that she regrets being pumped and dumped by guys until she was too old to have kids and is trying to convince herself and the world that she wanted this. |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:39 AM Author: FUCK LIBS (TDNW) their lives sound 180 compared to whatever you have imagined for yourself (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655271) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:52 AM Author: cucumbers Seems like a lot of the responses to my poast are idealizing marriage and having kids. Let's focus on the facts: you have a 50% chance of getting divorced and getting financially fucked as a result, so it's a coin flip and not this guaranteed life of fulfillment. And what makes you think your kids will grow up to be anything other than wagecucks like you and me? That's how they'll almost certainly end up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655293) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:57 AM Author: Jewish Bloodline Redeemer 75-80% chance of divorce is he real figures taking into account separations that don’t get the ink to dry on divorce papers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655315) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:13 AM Author: @grok, is this true? Nothing, and I mean nothing, is more rewarding than strugggling with your kids (in anything — sports, school) and then watching them succeed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655362) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:17 AM Author: cucumbers Wtf do you mean by "succeed"? They're almost certainly going to be wagecucks. Is that success? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655376) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:25 AM Author: Geno Type more grist for the soul energy harvesting mill, some people just dont get it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655387) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 11:46 AM Author: Jewish Bloodline Redeemer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655544) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 11:46 AM Author: Jewish Bloodline Redeemer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655545) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 12:23 PM Author: FUCK LIBS (TDNW) that is possible but on the worse end of the spectrum of possibilities
and it’s STILL better than anything you have imagined for yourself |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 9:58 AM Author: Nude Daddy Yeah you seem pretty put together mentally thanks to avoiding kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655325) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:02 AM Author: cucumbers I'm actually severely mentally ill, as I've admitted hundreds of times over the years. I view kid-having as turning me into a huge cuck tied down by all the obligations and costs of having kids. Perhaps it'd make me less mentally ill. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655333) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:14 AM Author: Jewish Bloodline Redeemer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655365) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:12 AM Author: @grok, is this true? Don’t listen to the haters. I think it’s great you’re not procreating, cucumbers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655355) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:16 AM Author: cucumbers This poast really garnered some intense and emotional reactions from pathetic poasters hoping to find meaning through kid-having in their otherwise entirely meaningless lives. I'm open to having to having kids if it makes sense. I'm just painting a real and raw picture of what kid-having looks like IRL and shooting down the fantasies of these kid-wanters. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655369) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:19 AM Author: @grok, is this true? Having kids is 180^180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655378) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:21 AM Author: Geno Type I cannot think or comprehend of anything more cucked than having a daughter. Honestly, think about it rationally. You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little girl - reading her stories at bedtime, making her go to sports practice, making sure she had a healthy diet, educating her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: her body is more enjoyable for the men that will eventually fuck her in every hole.
Raised the perfect girl? Great. Who benefits? If you're lucky, a random man who had nothing to do with the way she grew up, who marries her. He gets to fuck her tight pussy every night. He gets the benefits of her kind and sweet personality that came from the way you raised her.
As a man who has a daughter, you are LITERALLY dedicating at least 20 years of your life simply to raise a girl for another man to enjoy. It is the ULTIMATE AND FINAL cuck. Think about it logically
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Date: February 8th, 2026 6:02 PM Author: Josh_Allen I would have thought this before having multiple daughters, but can now confidently say that dads view their daughters differently than that. We don’t view them as sexual objects. It doesn’t matter to me that she’s going to get fucked some day - that’s just life. I’m sure she’ll make some poor decisions along the way as we all did. Just doing my part to raise a confident, loving daughter and setting a good example. I hope she marries a great guy, is a great wife, has a career if she wants one, and gives me grandkids before I’m 70. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656343) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:22 AM Author: Delicious Bunny Lmao another one of these threads.”? Remember you’re talking to internet virgins who has never been touched by a woman. Some jealous Asian who had to spend his women get ravaged like practice dummies while they “studied” and still get no women they’re gonna say “yeah having kids is a waste!”
Meanwhile the normal dudes who got pussy from a young age and was burnt out with sex by age 20 is gonna say “nah man settle down!”
It depends which camp you’re in. |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:28 AM Author: Bobby Buttplug ((zurich is stained)) i was 36 when we had our first kid and 38 for the second. i don't think there's one right answer. we spent our 20s doing whatever the fuck we wanted, hanging out, etc. but on the other hand, i'll be 55 or 56 when our younger kid is out of the house. lots of my friends will be in that position at 40-something or 50.
then again, i'm dreading the kids leaving the house. that will be depressing. |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:45 AM Author: @grok, is this true? My parents had all the kids out of the house in their 40s and retired at 57. Just travel and do whatever they want. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655417) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 11:14 AM Author: Bobby Buttplug ((zurich is stained)) there are tradeoffs, i guess that would be nice, but i also had a lot of fun when i was in my 20s. if i could do it over, i'd probably start having kids at around 31-32. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655456) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 6:03 PM Author: Josh_Allen I was 34 and 39. Wish we had done it 4-5 years sooner. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656346) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 6:06 PM Author: Charlie Kike I don’t get why it’s sooooo bad to be 50 or 55 or whatever when your kids turn 18. Who fucking cares. Natalists may be on balance correct but they sure make a lot of retarded arguments. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656359) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:29 AM Author: black abyss (definite and ineradicable gauge of its upward moving) I got married around age 28 and we had our first child just after I had turned 30. It was okay. I couldn't imagine doing it any later in life though. One of my good friends waited until he was 38 to get married. First kid at 40. Second kid at 41. I think he's doing alright, but he's in a stressful job and sometimes I worry about if he's alright or not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655394) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:40 AM Author: computer online (🧐) You should stop caring so much about other people and focus on not dropping dead before your kids enter high school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655406) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 10:46 AM Author: @grok, is this true? Your timing is solid, especially since you have a brood. But your eating is a disaster and you’ll never meet your grandkids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655419) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 11:52 AM Author: gibberish (?) Yeah it's my only regret. Should have kids in your 20s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655556) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 12:21 PM Author: Delicious Bunny First kid at 23. The rest in my 30’s. That was sort of the sweet spot it all worked out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655637) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 12:33 PM Author: @grok, is this true? All the same mom/dad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655665) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 5:01 PM Author: Delicious Bunny Yeah ha same woman. Got her pregnant at 20. Had baby at 21. Shotgun wedding. 4 more in our 30’s. I’m done at 38. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656183) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 6:05 PM Author: Josh_Allen So you have one in college and one in ~kindergarten? That’s wild. Congrats on the big fam, though. We have 2 and I sort of wish we had gone for a 3rd. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656352) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 7:05 PM Author: Delicious Bunny My oldest is 15 turning 16. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656465) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 7:06 PM Author: Delicious Bunny 1800000 but two is still 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656468) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 12:37 PM Author: FUCK LIBS (TDNW) how tall is the first one vs the late ones? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49655674) |
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Date: February 8th, 2026 5:02 PM Author: Delicious Bunny Tall one is taller than me. Wife’s dad is like 6’6 so I got lucky with the genes. I’m 5’9 wife is 5’7. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5832389&forum_id=2],#49656187) |