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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:31 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine I guess im going all in with the subordinate. I fell in love and just is a nightmare now spending time with her, feels pointless and a waste of time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714324) |
Date: March 4th, 2026 10:32 AM Author: Histrionic knife I have a good feeling about this thread. Do you think she knows? |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:37 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine We’ve been in couples therapy. Last weekend she said she’s made a decision and needs to talk about it in our next session. I assumed it was about getting separated. But this week we went on a trip together and she’s really trying, trying to act like she used to, saying I love you all the time. But it has the unintended consequence of making me realize how checked out I am from the relationship. Feels weird she’s acting that way, and it’s weird trying to pretend with her when I’m totally in love with the subordinate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714344) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:40 AM Author: godawful circlehead office Does she know about the affair? Isn't she like 8 months pregnant?
Starting to actually think this is flame. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:42 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. She doesn’t know about the affair but she senses it, constantly asks what I’m doing on phone and accuses me. Last night she saw me on the balcony on my phone smiling and asked who I was talking to. It was her. Then I said I wanted to go on a walk and she said only if you leave your phone behind. I went anyway. She went out and searched for me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714357) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:45 AM Author: boyish mischievous menage She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714364) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:50 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714377) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:53 AM Author: Fragrant casino philosopher-king (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714382) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:53 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714386) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:08 AM Author: cracking blathering principal's office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714459) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:08 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714460) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:11 AM Author: Chest-beating Digit Ratio Ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714461) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:18 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714481) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: floppy olive station Date: March 4th, 2026 11:11 AM Author: UhOh
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:54 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715411) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 6:09 PM Author: mind-boggling gas station foreskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715755) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 6:10 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715757) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:28 AM Author: Stimulating background story alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714521) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:29 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714527) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM Author: Orchid theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714538) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714539) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:46 AM Author: Ultramarine Exciting Nursing Home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714583) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:54 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715409) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714598) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:54 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715410) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: floppy olive station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714692) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715412) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:59 PM Author: Plum coffee pot stain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715090) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715413) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: Ebony round eye step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715418) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:56 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715422) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:49 AM Author: godawful circlehead office Is the subordinate going to leave her husband? Even assuming she does, can you actually date her if she works for you? And if not, how much you want to bet that it would fuck up your "relationship" with her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714375) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:05 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine Yes, she is leaving him. I’m already dating her while she works for me. It’s a company violation of course. Long long term one of us will need a new job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714441) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:07 AM Author: godawful circlehead office What is really epic is that the actual outcome will be her staying with the cuck and him bringing your current wife into his home to form a harem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714452) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:18 AM Author: maniacal black messiness (Andrew "Coop" Cooper) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714479) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:32 AM Author: Soul-stirring Well-lubricated National Medium-short term both of you will be out a job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714544) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine Not sure how anyone would find out. And honestly even if they did most people wouldn’t say anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714582) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:38 PM Author: Vibrant Milky Mad Cow Disease Xo poas have repeatedly pointed out that she will blow it all up at a time of her choosing. A million possibilities: boredom, bragging, jealousy, and retardation are the most likely root causes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715021) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:20 PM Author: House-broken love of her life church building (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716303) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: bipolar senate therapy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715018) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:39 AM Author: Orchid theatre 99% of the time one of the cheaters backs out and sticks with their partner. less than 50% of the time does the cheater leave their spouse even in a one-way affair. remember in harry met sally where the one chick kept complaining how "he's never gonna leave his wife" every time skip? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714569) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:44 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine I’d be the one more likely to stay tbh. I have a kid. She has been checked out of her marriage even longer that I have, and is now moving across the country (to be near me). He doesn’t want to move, it’s an easy breakup point. Mine is less so and requires harder conversations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714578) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: Orchid theatre if you really loved your subordinate you would not want her destroying her marriage when you're not sure you're prepared to do the same.
if you guys were going to do it, you would have done it by now. if you're not both committing to ending it today, why would tomorrow be different? |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:02 PM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine She wants out of her marriage regardless. I haven’t butted in at all or asked for anything. I mean it’s happening. Once she lives close we will both be separated most likely… (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714615) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:14 PM Author: Orchid theatre if she wanted out period, she'd be out. she might be willing to get out if she has another man lined up (you), but she's gonna wait for you too pull the trigger first. you won't because you enjoy having your cake and eating it too. eventually one of you will get caught and it was have disastrous effects on both your lives.
if you truly loved her you'd spare her from that. or you'd have already begun the separation process with your wife. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:29 AM Author: rusted temple men "falling in love" has to be the weirdest gay shit ive ever seen happen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714526) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:30 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay tp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714529) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:51 AM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714593) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715415) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: Ebony round eye step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715417) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:56 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715424) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:10 PM Author: Flatulent grizzly bbw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716404) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:30 AM Author: Metal gay wizard new version are you not thinking of your kid at all? i don't fucking understand you people. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714530) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714541) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:37 AM Author: Ultramarine Exciting Nursing Home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714564) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715416) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:35 AM Author: Orchid theatre OP, is this your first kid too? if so you're being really selfish. lots of women "check out" from a marriage when theyre pregnant and postpartum because of all the hormones and physical changes. your wife is going out searching for you and youre about to abandon her because the thrill is gone? nigger, the thrill will end with the subordinate too, but your kid will always know dad cheated on his mom while she was pregnant and abandoned the marriage if you continue eown this path. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714558) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:46 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine I’m in love with another woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714584) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal Cut the crap and be a man lmao come on dude you sound like a major faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714599) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:56 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine What part of in love didn’t you understand (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714602) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:58 AM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal A “grown man” is “in love” LJL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714605) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Orchid theatre is that more important to you then your newborn child? i would side with you if your wife was years after having a kid and still checked out. but she just had a kid and is fighting for you. you're being incredibly selfish, and short sighted because you're experiencing the thrill of new love and won't accept that the thrill with the subordinate will someday wane too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714601) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:59 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine She senses I’m checked out and is trying to reconnect. It’s hard to do that at snap of fingers after 1.5 years of bullshit. Even if I wanted to I couldn’t. I’ve moved on mentally and now have been in love for 6 months with another woman. There’s no “At fault” here. That’s not how this kind of shit works. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714607) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:10 PM Author: Orchid theatre nigger this is how this "shit works" in reality:
1) you will eventually get caught, realize how selfish you stupid you were being, and spend a significant amount of time and energy repairing your marriage, although a scar will always remain. this is the best case scenario where your wife takes you back after a huge betrayal, and you will regret it the rest of your life. this is the zurich outcome.
2) you will eventually get caught, stick with the subordinate chick, and blow up your marriage. eventually things will fade with the subordinate too. if you stick with the subordinate will eventually have the exact same thing you have with your wife now except child support and a kid who suffers all the consequences of children of divorce and has to live knowing his dad is a POS who abandoned his mother while she was pregnant with him. this is the second best scenario.
3) you blow up your marriage and things don't work out with the subordinate. now you're millhouse's dad trying to find a new partner on dating apps. except you've got the scarlet letter of "CHEATED ON HIS WIFE WHILE PREGNANT", which eliminates you from contention with all quality women. if you're lucky you will wind up with some chick way worse than your wife and secretly regret blowing up your marriage and reminiscing about the good old days. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:19 PM Author: Cerise Market fwiw, my situation didn't fit neatly into either 1 or 2 above, it was a weird amalgamation of craziness and substance abuse.
i got caught but didn't back out - i went forward and proclaimed that i was in love and had to be with this other woman, etc. but then i got sober and realized that i was still in love with GARY (who has been continuing to be intimate with gunner) in addition to the other girl (things never "faded" with her). it was awful because i was still really in love with the other girl but i had to dump her because i knew i had to get up in GARY's guts again.
it was just a really weird situation and honestly when i look back on it, it seems like a fever dream. i'm honestly amazed that i was doing all that stuff. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:28 PM Author: Orchid theatre this is situation #1. almost every time there is a transition period where the guy equivocates between wife and mistress.
things "faded" with trash pussy because she's BPD insane. you never fall out of love with BPD types, but you eventually realize that they're too unstable. your ankle monitor was a symbol of things fading with her.
you are fortunate that gary was so forgiving and you didn't have to beg and plead (too much i assume) to get her back. but this is a unique twist because you've allowed her to "get revenge" in perpetuity by letting me be her bull, which also satisfies your cuck fetish. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:29 PM Author: Cerise Market flame, i was really still in love with her (not her giant hole, but her). i just made a conscious decision to dump her and go back to gary.
if i hadn't thought i could get gary back i would have stayed with manhole puss. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:32 PM Author: Orchid theatre well then you never got to the point of things fading.
by "fading" i don't mean falling out of love, i'm talking about the passionate new love phase of a relationship. i'm certain that manhole puss is a woman with flaws like all others (in addition to her gaping maw of a cunt). |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:33 PM Author: Cerise Market her occupation is "poshmark ambassador" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714678) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:41 PM Author: godawful circlehead office Does Gunner actually cuck you as part of the repaired marriage or is this some sort of weird XO performance art?
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:41 PM Author: Cerise Market no, it's flame. it's a dumb joke that we keep running with. i hope, anyway (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715033) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:56 PM Author: Orchid theatre it's true. part of zurich's cuck fetish is humiliation, so the only performance art aspect is feigning that it's all a joke and not really happening like he just did above. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715212) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:38 PM Author: godawful circlehead office lol tyft (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715327) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:43 AM Author: Cerise Market (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716777) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:26 PM Author: appetizing medicated indirect expression (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714655) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:18 PM Author: floppy olive station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714789) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:54 PM Author: Electric Space Dysfunction let him ruin his life. fuck this faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714888) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:42 PM Author: overrated mood He doesn’t listen; he is in love (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715345) |
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Date: March 6th, 2026 6:32 AM Author: mind-boggling gas station foreskin Cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49720244) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:56 AM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi Who cares. You owe it to the kid to stay with your wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714603) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:59 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine Disagree (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714610) |
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Date: March 6th, 2026 6:36 AM Author: mind-boggling gas station foreskin That is niggerish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49720245) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:42 AM Author: rusted temple he didnt listen to blink 182 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714574) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:49 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine Being in a shit marriage doesn’t seem great for him. Better to pull the bandaid now when he won’t remember and it will always be normal than when he’s older. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714587) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Metal gay wizard new version it’ll be a lot better than his parents splitting up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714600) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:33 PM Author: stirring pocket flask Yeah, you're definitely right about this. Divorce never has any negative effects on kids. And when you do file for divorce, I bet your current wife will be completely chill about the fact that you are leaving her for a younger woman that you were fucking while she was pregnant. No chance that she causes drama or tries to make your life hell. And if she does try to fuck you over in the divorce, the judge will definitely side with you, because you are a very sympathetic figure.
Also, I'm sure the married side chick who was sleeping with a married guy while his wife is pregnant has upstanding moral character. There's no risk whatsoever that she will turn out to be a selfish cunt once the infatuation wears off. There's also no chance that she will get bored with you and started fucking some other dude behind your back.
So, all in all this sounds like a fantastic idea. Nothing could possibly go wrong. You should absolutely 100% divorce your wife for this side chick. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:51 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715199) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 3:18 AM Author: Deranged wild antidepressant drug stage 180 TBF impersonation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716662) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:35 AM Author: diverse chapel water buffalo congrats man i dont know who you are but congrats. do you have kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714555) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:49 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine One kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714588) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:01 PM Author: diverse chapel water buffalo boy or girl? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714614) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:37 AM Author: Autistic Razzmatazz Selfie 180 man seize the day! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714565) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:38 AM Author: Red razzle point telephone Has she met your kid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714568) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:50 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine No, but she seemed to be even more attracted to me that I have a kid. Women be diff than men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714591) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:42 PM Author: bipolar senate therapy Female poster here. And LMAO. Please do keep believeing everything this side chick is saying. She does indeed want you more now that you have a kid with another woman. Women are hugely into this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715036) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:58 PM Author: overrated mood Male poaster here. Are you being sarcastic? Most women seem to be fine with this if he’s willing to have another kid or already has her own kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715081) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:00 PM Author: bipolar senate therapy Fine with it =/= oh wow i love that he has a kid with another woman. No one wants that. If anyone ever told you they want that - lol no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715094) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:57 PM Author: Titillating kitchen There are women who get turned on that they are so attractive to a guy that he will blow up his whole life for her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715430) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:01 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715441) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:05 PM Author: Trip doobsian theater stage fat ankles Yeah all of them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715461) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:05 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay Okay, I lol'd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715464) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:21 PM Author: House-broken love of her life church building dark! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716307) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 11:13 AM Author: bipolar senate therapy Fair. These are not the women who will the go on to take care of someone else's kid, or even tolerate said kid for longer than 10m tops and here's hoping they don't drop them and break their neck. Otherwise these ladies are lovely. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717285) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: Dashing Wine Kitty Cat Mother sorry to hear that, Johnsmeyer- keep ur chin up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714579) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:01 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715443) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi Don't leave your wife. Especially because she's trying to repair things and improve, and she just had a baby. Especially especially because you now have a kid to think about. And especially especially especially not to be with some office homewrecker who is content to blow up your marriage and her's. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714613) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:08 PM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal Yeah now see the fact pattern thru the eyes of someone who is a total piece of shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714622) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:11 PM Author: adventurous indian lodge useless brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714630) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:44 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714703) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:16 PM Author: floppy olive station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714785) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:36 PM Author: azure public bath (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714840) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:53 PM Author: overrated mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714878) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:04 PM Author: Plum coffee pot stain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715108) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:16 PM Author: floppy olive station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714784) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:54 PM Author: Orchid theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714883) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:02 PM Author: godawful circlehead office Where are you at in terms of getting to "know" your dad through this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714616) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:22 PM Author: Cerise Market op, here is something you should think about: your subordinate is willing to blow up a young family. my wife (gary, who keeps sleeping with gunner) said this to me when i told her i was leaving her, and a few of my friends pointed it out. one of the first things gary said (in addition to calling the other girl "a fucking dumpster whore") was "please step back and consider that you're blowing your life up for some woman who's willing to take a guy away from two young kids"
the other woman did wind up being really self-centered and selfish, which was something i grew to dislike about her. and she left behind her own 13 yo son in florida to come live with me. oh, and she also got knocked up when she was like 18 and she had a son who was like 20, and he was severely autistic and barely verbal. she'd abandoned him to his dad by the time he was like 5. at the time i thought this was all just fine, but WOMEN do not do any shit like this, and any woman who is willing to do it potentially has serious personality issues.
this is something you will not see through the fog of love, but you'll realize it later.
here is my advice to you, but i know you won't take it bc i wouldn't have: break things off with the subordinate at least for now. be straight with her: you have a young child and a wife, and at the same time you are in love with her. you need to sort this out. come clean to your wife. maybe you should move out of your house for a few months at least. be alone. go to therapy with your wife. revisit this in several months. you may be in a different headspace. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:44 PM Author: Tripping Haunted Graveyard Range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714706) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:48 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi CR, except why come clean to wife? If op can put the relationship with the homewrecker coworker behind him, what does telling his wife about it do--and more particularly, what does it do for her? He gets to unburden himself (or "unload," if you will), and she has to live with that knowledge that he was definitely cheating on her while she was pregnant for the rest of her life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714715) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:50 PM Author: Cerise Market yea that part maybe you don't have to do. i just figure it's good to get everything out there and move past it. but i could see not coming clean about that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714865) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:47 PM Author: Vibrant Milky Mad Cow Disease Rage Problems tp is too big a retard about this but if he were less retarded I'd tell him if he's breaking it off with affair, never ever ever come clean or admit anything to wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715046) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:48 PM Author: bipolar senate therapy Its not. A real man keeps that shit to himself. My dad did this and I always thought it was incredibly selfish. Kudos to hom for his honesty as he balls out said "i dont want to do the work of sneaking around". They divorced soon after. But don't kid yourself. For every man that " comes clean", all you're really saying to your wife is "I dont value us enough to keep this secret and protect you. I will feel better if i tell." You're not doing her any favors. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715052) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:55 PM Author: lake submissive church The wife has already seen him on the phone smiling and is following him to look for him when he leaves. Probably better to keep it to yourself when the wife would be totally blindsided, but it's more humiliating than "protecting" her to keep lying to her face about something she already knows. He's past the point where he can benefit her by keeping it a secret. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715072) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:02 PM Author: bipolar senate therapy I'd go with plausible deniability but kind of agree at this point who cares. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715101) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:53 PM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal Billy B here and my wife was pissed at my affair partner and said similar - how terrible is she to blow up her family and try to steal me? I didn’t see it at the time but it’s 100% correct. Not saying never have an affair but the chance of success with your affair partner is near zero. I read a book and it had stats and it said 3% of people that break up their marriages over an affair stay together and only 1% make it beyond a year. OP: you’re probably in the 99% not the 1% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714735) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:51 PM Author: Cerise Market love your new monikor brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714869) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:31 PM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal TY friend. You, me, and Rage Problems should all grab a beer together sometime. That little restricted guy too wherever he is (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715007) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:41 PM Author: Cerise Market i'm down but i'll just have a club soda. ty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715031) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:56 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715420) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:59 PM Author: Orchid theatre cr. this is the other side to the cheatmo scarlet letter thing i mentioned in my poasts.
a person who cheats with a married guy with a pregnant wife/newborn kid is probably a selfish piece of shit. and the cheater is too. if OP leaves his wife and things don't work out with the subordinate, that's going to be a huge red flag when he starts dating again, especially since he has no excuse beyond his own selfishness and can't lie because he has a kid so he can't hide the truth from a new chick forever. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:30 PM Author: Supple adulterous home yarmulke Welcome back Rage Problems (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714669) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:32 PM Author: zombie-like crystalline crackhouse gaming laptop maybe i missed this, but what it is about new girl/sub that your in love with? be honest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714672) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine She’s smart, ambitious, quick witted, and has an amazing ass and perky tits. We share a lot of the same interests, conversation just flows. She’s also incredibly attractive and has this mischievous sense of humor that catches me off guard. Being around her feels energizing in a way I haven’t felt in many years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714691) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: Cerise Market do u have any pics to share (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714695) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:42 PM Author: floppy olive station Your age/her age/wife's age? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714698) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:50 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi Cool. Will you still be "in love" with her in 5 years? 25 years? Will she still "love" you, rather than moving on from you just like she moved on from her current marriage (and is trying to destroy yours)?
If the answer to any of those questions is "no" (and it definitely is "no"), it's not worth blowing up your marriage and leaving your baby. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:17 PM Author: Autistic Razzmatazz Selfie this is loser talk. just find a new chick to fall in love with after you fall out of love with the current ones. don't be a wifeguy girldad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714786) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:24 PM Author: Beady-eyed crusty locus really tough guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715150) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:31 PM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715164) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:00 PM Author: Titillating kitchen New relationship energy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715439) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:02 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715447) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 9:49 AM Author: Ebony round eye step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717043) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:54 PM Author: overrated mood Search “subordinate” and you’ll find several 100+ threads where OP insisted this would never happen to him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714881) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:38 PM Author: khaki keepsake machete you will get all the happiness you deserve, op. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714684) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine Let’s hope not (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714697) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:50 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714726) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:02 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715448) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 9:34 AM Author: mind-boggling gas station foreskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716983) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: bipolar senate therapy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715055) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:02 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715449) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:45 PM Author: Cerise Market let me just put this out there for you. when i sobered up and started to realize that i still loved my wife, my kids were over at my apartment one day and we were out at the playground and my older son, then 7 years old, met this little girl around his age. she was telling him which apt she lived in, and he blurted out "i don't live here. my parents are separated, and i'm just visiting my dad." i wanted to die at that moment.
so picture your kid in a few years telling a friend that they're "going to visit my dad" or whatever and consider how you will feel about that. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:51 PM Author: Orchid theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714727) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:02 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715451) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:52 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/1myi39c/norm_macdonald_divorced_with_kids/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714732) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:05 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay chugonomics • 6mo ago Norm had a beautiful way with words |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:31 PM Author: primrose hospital fortuitous meteor Congratulations and bon voyage! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714821) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: overrated mood LMFAO, who could have seen this coming!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49714872) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:34 PM Author: Curious Piazza Dance lil' puppet, dance! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715013) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:39 PM Author: Trip doobsian theater stage fat ankles Crazy that you can still whip up a 100 post thread out of thin air with flame like this
And people say xo is dead |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:56 PM Author: Cerise Market i don't think this is flame at all. i basically lived this (but with me, just throw in about 75 escorts, a stripper girlfriend and about 14 kilos of cocaine. and a weekend in jail) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715076) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:56 PM Author: overrated mood Not sure why you think it’s flame. It’s so prosaic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715078) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:53 PM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715203) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:00 PM Author: Orchid theatre people call everything flame including shit like this that happens every day. like the SA guy even when he was poasting pics. when i did more IRL poasting people would call flame all the time too, but i just wanted an anonymous outlet for stuff i couldn't talk about as much IRL. zurich always got accused of flame but that was all true too.
is someone cheating on their wife with a colleague and wanting an outlet to talk about it, which they couldn't do with friends and family, really something you think is beyond the pale? |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:02 PM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse obviously it is not literally impossible but come on man just read these posts and how they've played out over the months and tell me you honestly think it probably isn't flame
it has played out in an extremely amusingly predictable fashion in a way that almost seems... constructed to maximize engagement. most of the shit johnsmeyer says could be true as well. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:08 PM Author: Orchid theatre it's played out in exactly the same way i've seen it play out with many people IRL. its predictable nature makes it more believable in this case. i think if someone was flaming there would be more kooky stuff. and as we saw with zurich, even that's not solid proof.
there's nothing that strikes me as flame with this. there's no salacious bombshell and it's occurred over a period of months. it's not even particularly amusing, it's bog standard "dude cheats with coworker." anything could be flame on here, sure, but i think it's more likely that a milquetoast "guy cheats on wife with coworker" series of poasts is more likely to be true than some flame artisan that wants to troll people into believing something so ordinary. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:14 PM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse "it's bog standard "dude cheats with coworker.""
THAT'S PART OF WHAT MAKES IT FUNNY, MAN.
the fact is that your personality is directly incompatible with being able to run flame so it's hard for you to have a calibrated flame radar. and that's fine, it takes a village of poasters etc., but i would bet my life's savings that for all of your volume you have never once executed long running flame anywhere on the internet. you are fundamentally incapable of separating "this is some good flame" with people legitimately thinking something is impossible because they're incels or whatever. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:16 PM Author: Trip doobsian theater stage fat ankles Wow
Some are saying this is ohnoes's best poast ever |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:22 PM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse ive always aspired to be a "straight fulano" of sorts (to the extent such a thing is possible) & gunner knows+appreciates this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715273) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:42 PM Author: Orchid theatre i've run multiple successful flames. some of which are still ongoing. many poasters cite details from my flames as accepted truth, including you.
you're right that i think you and others are apt to call this flame because it's about sex. and that's because every fucking time there's something like this you run it to call it flame. so far, i've always been right when the truth comes out.
but why are you so emotional about it? it's unknowable and we both conceded that it's impossible to know for sure. it's because you WANT it to be flame, and you're emotionally tethered to a conclusion you've jumped to. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:43 PM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse nigger the point is we aren't apt to call flame because it's sex, we're apt to call flame because we want to believe there are still artists among us. we are sipping a thread and deeming it "damn fine" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715348) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:14 PM Author: Orchid theatre then why does everyone who is calling this flame like they do every other sex related poast but those same people that passionate believe i'm indian
you're biased to disbelieve ordinary things that you wish to be untrue, and to believe extraordinary things you wish to be true. |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:45 PM Author: Trip doobsian theater stage fat ankles This is consuela tier cope and misdirection holy moly champ come on now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715352) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:46 PM Author: overrated mood emotionally tethered to a conclusion I jumped to tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715364) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:12 PM Author: Trip doobsian theater stage fat ankles My detractors on this board call me "autistic" btw meanwhile they earnestly reply to these flame threads every single time genuinely believing that they're real
Love all you guys but you are very silly |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:14 PM Author: lake submissive church the engagement is because most of the poasters are envious. it hits differently than the threads about SA whores because most xoxoers would not take the steps to actively do that, so it's more of a conceptual possibility than a realistic fantasy to them. it's like that one virgin here who said the idea of having sex didn't really turn him on anymore because it was so abstract and unrealistic. but a mundane office affair seems like something that could plausibly happen to xoxo poasters and it draws them in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715248) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:01 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay in a way that almost seems... constructed to maximize engagement tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715440) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:45 AM Author: Cerise Market dude, this is playing out almost exactly like my situation. i can assure you my situation happened. gunner is my irl friend and he can confirm it was all true too.
if this is flame (it isn't), it's incredibly well done because it rings 100% true. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:50 AM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse OP is a poast artist, not just dumping a bunch of screeds. You two really just Dont Get It and cannot comprehend that flame detection is less about what is being said, more how the poasts are presented. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716795) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:54 AM Author: Orchid theatre except all the stuff he and i poast that is true involving women gets called flame yet everyone credulously believed shit like me getting him involuntarily committed.
you're not as good at this as you think. and your ego about it is bizarre. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 8:17 AM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse You have an obsession with categorizing people as incels because that's how you see everyone here outside your irl friend group, so you interpret everyone's perception from this lens. I've read your and zurichs posts and there weren't really that many people calling flame, but you seem to Never Forget when someone does. Eg you have a specific obsession with calling out the SA poster as a guy ran off by maf incels or whatever, but the reality is most people saw him as a huge source of entertainment and his posts were generally lauded. You just have some sort of matador waving a red towel trigger with regards to blaming things on people being sexless and jealous
I'm not really that deeply into classifying things as flame, but you're the one who jumped in and sperged out asserting that "NO SIR THIS IS ACTUALLY NOT FLAME AND YOU THINK SO BECAUSE YOU CANNOT COMPREHEND IT BEING REAL". Chill the fuck out. Let people think it's flame if they want to, debating the Flame Classifcation of a poast is itself a storied xo tradition. If they believe it's real it is real. If they believe it's flame it is flame. It doesn't mean everyone who thinks something is flame does so because they're a joyless chud. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 8:46 AM Author: Orchid theatre if you have some other theory to reconcile why people call flame on every sex poast that wind up being true but credulously believe zany obvious flame id like to hear it. expert flame detection isn't persuasive considering the scoreboard on this.
it's just annoying when people come to this shitbort offering up much needed CONTENT and everyone calling it obvious flame. it chills CONTENT creation. ive had this convo with many on the bort and offbort. creating CONTENT with irl stories isn't fun when you've got the same poasters saying its obvioisly made up and anyone who thinks otherwise is stupid. i love my incel FRIENDS and don't care to call them jealous losers apropos of nothing. but when they sperg at every ordinary believable story as "OBVIOUS FLAME" then im acting just like them when i say they're "OBVIOUSLY INCEL DORKS" and they have no grounds to complain. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 9:00 AM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse why would someone call flame on this specific line of threading being unbelievable when the people who *do* think it's real generally think OP is being a shithead? people think this specific post is flame not because they can't believe it, but *because it sucks people like you and zurich in*. it's like it was tailor made just to get a bunch of middle aged dweebs debating the ethics of whoring around. of course it could be real. i guarantee you nobody in this thread thinks it is an unlikely scenario that some bald lawyer is head over heels with an hr shrew. guess what, people call flame for *different reasons based on the context of the thread*.
you really do have some bizarre hangup specifically with sex threads and thinking that people saying "flame" is inherently jealousy or an insult or whatever. are people shitting on johnsmeyer when they call him a flame artist? fuck no. im sure he's posted some real shit sprinkled in along the years and that's part of the magic |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 9:07 AM Author: Orchid theatre nigger reread our flow of poasts itt. i made my case why i believe it's probably not flame without saying anything about how it's obviously jealous incels seething. you launched into a personal attack about how i just don't "get it" and how i suck at flame.
https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&mc=209&forum_id=2#49715246
you're emotional about this, not me. you just edited a paragraph into your last poast while i was replying, typical ysffm shit. so don't try flipping this around with "actually it is you who is mad!"
ive never even considered you one of the naysayers popping into every thread calling flame. your reaction here is out of character imo. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 12:56 PM Author: lake submissive church If u had ever created content u would know that having flame called on IRL stories isn't a disincentive to poast them. Not that I've been a superstar content creator lately or anything like that, but when I was pumping stuff out, it was amusing to me that some poasters would be calling flame on the 180 NOT FLAME stories that constituted my real life. Some sex-related, some not. It takes a special kind of sissy little cuckbitch to get upset that your internet friends don't believe the stories about your IRL that you know to be true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717806) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:59 PM Author: Marvelous dun location If this isn’t flame, in all honesty, you need to seek Christ and love your wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715085) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:54 PM Author: Citrine Apoplectic Dilemma Fanboi Great content creation itt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715207) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:42 PM Author: lascivious iridescent tanning salon main people Get rid of the SPS wife but dont jump into a doomed relationship with subordinate. Enjoy life again, bang a bunch of broads then find a nice zoomer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715339) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:45 PM Author: overrated mood lmfao, OP if RSF’s endorsement of your behavior doesn’t show you how wrong you are you are doomed anyway (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715358) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:48 PM Author: lascivious iridescent tanning salon main people Yea he should just stick in a miserable marriage for the rest of his life! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715373) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:08 PM Author: overrated mood No one is expecting you to understand duty or obligation or having children (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715491) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:25 PM Author: lascivious iridescent tanning salon main people IIRC he doesn’t have kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715580) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:37 PM Author: Orchid theatre his wife was pregnant when this began and now he has a kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715632) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:40 PM Author: lascivious iridescent tanning salon main people I can't read every post on XO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715644) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 3:20 AM Author: Deranged wild antidepressant drug stage don't get down on yourself, i bet you get very close on any given day (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716663) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 5:23 AM Author: lascivious iridescent tanning salon main people We all need to strive to give a little bit more every day to MXGA. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716685) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:06 PM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal Let's get CSLG's take too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715468) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:07 PM Author: overrated mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715483) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:30 PM Author: stirring pocket flask (guy who is definitely 100% not Jewish) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715608) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:44 PM Author: Disgusting Newt lulz (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715350) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:55 PM Author: Ebony round eye step-uncle's house Incredible thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715419) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:57 PM Author: Trip doobsian theater stage fat ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715428) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:59 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715434) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:00 PM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715435) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:05 PM Author: honey-headed charismatic lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49715467) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 8:38 PM Author: Swollen impertinent garrison I haven't followed this guy's story. By saying subordinate instead of secretary or paralegal, it sounds like he is engaging in romance with a female lawyer ljl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716119) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:30 PM Author: Red razzle point telephone He is dating a female lawyer subordinate, and his wife is a female lawyer too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716316) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:15 PM Author: Swollen impertinent garrison So his life was fucked up to begin with? I can't judge or relate to this shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716412) |
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Date: March 11th, 2026 2:21 AM Author: hucow "hypnosis" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49733942) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:09 PM Author: Blue concupiscible hominid You’re fucking retarded. But on the off chance your life is at all salvageable, listen carefully.
1. You have fired a shot across her bow. It’s very possible that your wife will respond by straightening out the frigid bitchiness. But, simultaneously, she knows you’re cheating and will lash out (or continue to lash out) a bit to try and make you stop.
2. If she’s going to reform and you’re going to stay, then it is crucial that you take your affair to the grave. All evidence deleted. You should really change jobs. And actually devote yourself to being a good husband and father, which is what you are on this earth to do, and are fundamentally broken if you cannot understand when you look at your sleeping infant in the home you built and are currently hellbent on wrecking.
3. If you’re going to leave anyway, go and get a vasectomy immediately. Enjoy what you can for a couple of years with a young, hot, affair partner cum girlfriend. But it’s going to end badly and you’ll spend the ensuing decades trading down on woman after woman. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 5:32 AM Author: irradiated fiercely-loyal feces shrine It seems Xo is relatively united that I’m being an idiot and that I’m a scumbag. That could be, but it doesn’t change the fact that I’m in love with another woman that isn’t my wife. I can’t just undo that. Something is going to end badly with this situation. Yes I got myself into it, but I also was at my wits end with my relationship and found comfort somewhere else. And then it spiraled way more than I thought. Didn’t ever expect to be in love with this girl. In the meantime, wife has suddenly come around and realized I may legit peace out soon and has started to try to be nicer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716686) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:21 AM Author: Fragrant casino philosopher-king You are a Loser larping as a Scumbag. That's the difference. If you were scum you'd know how to handle this.
Stick with your wife and never burden her with the truth and never leave your clique again |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:24 AM Author: Misanthropic Bawdyhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716755) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 11:19 AM Author: bipolar senate therapy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717307) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 11:56 AM Author: overrated mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717458) |
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Date: March 11th, 2026 10:25 AM Author: .,.....,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,...,:,..;,.., (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49734265) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:51 AM Author: Cerise Market you can, in fact, undo this. it will be hard, but you can't hide behind "well, can't put the genie back in the bottle! i gotta stick with this." like i poasted above, after i got sober i was still in love with the affair partner (and living with her) but realized i was still in love with my wife. hard as it was, i dumped the affair partner and sent her packing back to florida.
your situation might be different because maybe things are too far gone with your wife and you need to be split up, but you can't make that determination in your current situation. the best thing for you to do would be to break things off with the subordinate and step back from everything while you figure this out. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 8:53 AM Author: scarlet sneaky criminal If you just cut off contact you’ll miss her a lot at first but after months go by you’ll get over it. But your soon-to-be bastard child will never get over his daddy leaving (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716888) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 11:57 AM Author: overrated mood But you’re forgetting that that will blow up his work spot. This was a SUBORDINATE. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717463) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 2:52 PM Author: godawful circlehead office He explained in a prior thread that his dad basically did this exact thing to his mom. So he is just repeating the pattern and telling himself the same story that his dad told himself.
If anything, he probably married his current wife because she subconsciously reminds him of his mother through the experience he had as a small child. The lizard part of his brain attracted him to his wife and the lack of his father being in his life is what is pushing him to do exactly what his father did.
He actually can break the cycle, but would rather delude himself. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 11:56 AM Author: overrated mood RSF thinks you’re doing the right thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717460) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 11:58 AM Author: overrated mood It’s a hilarious what a cliche you are. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717466) |
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Date: March 11th, 2026 10:28 AM Author: :-P (gunneratttt) "but it doesn’t change the fact that I’m in love with another woman that isn’t my wife"
i still think this guy is real and he's just thumbing his nose and reveling in his depravity. but i now concede that this might be flame. |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:52 AM Author: Multi-colored library puppy She’ll probably leave you the second you get divorced and say you’re Toxic lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716798) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 8:52 AM Author: Titillating kitchen She’ll also post about OP being a narcissist and emotionally abusing her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49716883) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 2:45 PM Author: Multi-colored library puppy He’ll be her Crazy Ex before Summer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49718258) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 6:05 PM Author: floppy olive station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49719012) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 8:02 AM Author: cerebral fishy skinny woman striped hyena this is one of the gayest threads I've ever read lol OP is gay af |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 9:45 AM Author: Swollen impertinent garrison The love part is lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717037) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 9:50 AM Author: Ebony round eye step-uncle's house Great thread. tp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49717045) |
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Date: March 11th, 2026 2:18 AM Author: \'\'\'\'\'\'\'\'\'\'\'\'\"\'\'\'\' this is what happens when you don't get regular pussy until too late in life. all these undersexed strivers fall in love any time they get some strange. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49733939) |
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Date: March 11th, 2026 10:14 AM Author: That's not very Frutiger Aero of you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49734247) |
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Date: March 11th, 2026 10:14 AM Author: .,.,.,.,.,...,.,,.,,.....,.,..,.,,...,.,.,,...,. lol cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49734250) |
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Date: March 11th, 2026 2:57 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... We should call it "CSLG syndrome." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49735041) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 3:28 AM Author: Rage Problems I’ve had dozens of one night stands, this isnt the case at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49741928) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 3:26 AM Author: Rage Problems Update - subordinate separated from her husband. Sounds like it was pretty amicable. Her husband apparently told her that she should watch her back with me, that I can be mean and might come after her.
I’ve similarly concluded my marriage is over. We are half separated now. Still living together but in some month long cooling off period suggested by therapist where i don’t need to pretend to check in anymore etc. That’s been relieving but also makes me feel guilty to keep wife in suspense wondering what my next move is. Need to just cleanly separate and move toward something more sustainable.
Meanwhile subordinate and I are basically a couple. After the marriage stuff is solved, the next step will be to figure how out the work stuff. One of us is going to need a new job to derisk the inevitable moment when people find out. I think it’s already going to be suspicious that we are both separating from spouses at same time, not that we will highlight that but stuff like that always comes out eventually.
I actually feel really relieved for admitting that. It’s been a bit of agony the last months being so conflicted and trying to pretend at home to keep things manageable. |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 3:30 AM Author: SCUM palate 180
always look out for number one |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:07 AM Author: Rage Problems Bah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742038) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:10 AM Author: Buses 2 ruined marriages and one or 2 ruined careers. Nice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742040) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:11 AM Author: Rage Problems We’re gonna make it! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742043) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:18 AM Author: @grok, is this true? You need to go to HR now. Get her on record as saying this is her decision and she will happily change departments. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742054) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:19 PM Author: Rage Problems There is no “changing departments”. We are deeply interwoven at work. I’m at the top and she is my number 2. There’s nowhere for her to go unless she stops being a lawyer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742968) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:20 PM Author: @grok, is this true? Ur gonna get Coldplay’d (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742969) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:24 PM Author: Rage Problems This is why one of us will need a new job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742978) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:31 AM Author: biggest creator of Israel support on xo ((zurich is stained)) You’re doing this in the face of advice itt to the contrary, but I knew you would. I do hope things work out for you, but I mostly hope you wind up like me and your current situation doesn’t work out and you find yourself back with your wife. I’m probably looking at it through the lens of my life too much and maybe that’s not the right thing for you. You need to make sure your kid has the best environment possible. My parents were split up and my life was chaotic and it fucked me up good. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742071) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:36 AM Author: That's not very Frutiger Aero of you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742077) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:56 AM Author: @grok, is this true? He’s going to regret this bigly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742107) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 8:57 AM Author: That's not very Frutiger Aero of you But it'll make for good content and/or flame. Let's see what unfolds (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742110) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 9:13 AM Author: biggest creator of Israel support on xo ((zurich is stained)) there's a 90% chance of that, but it is what it is. the writing was on the wall when he made this thread. i knew it, he knew it.
the biggest concern needs to be the child. my wife told me when we split up that i had to prioritize the kids. i said "oh yes, yeah of course" and proceeded to drink myself into a coma and get into weird sex shit with this woman with a ruined pussy, beat her up, go to jail, etc. while pretty much ignoring them. thank god i got sober.
but anyway, op, please listen to me and prioritize your kid. you are in control of that, and it needs to be your #1 priority. and you aren't in control of your wife's behavior but get along with her as much as you can. if you poast here that your kid calls your gf "my favorite mom" or whatever nonsense CSLG was here saying, i'm gonna find you and kill you. also, imagine bragging about that on an internet forum. wtf is wrong with that dude. "hai guise i'm scarring my kids for life haha how do you liek this content?" |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:18 PM Author: Rage Problems I’m glad my wife is the mother to my kid. She’s a good mom and a wonderful person. I just don’t have any romantic feeling toward her anymore and it’s tough being in the same room with someone that resents me. It also just feels cruel leading her on. Maybe I’ll regret it but seems better to just make the decision and move on vs living in this in between land for another 6 months. Not good for me for sure and really not good for anyone. I am in love with the subordinate. Even if she didn’t exist I don’t think it would work out with my wife. Something died in the relationship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742964) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:22 PM Author: @grok, is this true? Lmao at “maybe” you’ll regret it. I hate my ex and she is a terrible selfish trash person.
Sometimes I miss her. |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:28 PM Author: Rage Problems Right. I’m not under any illusion. But it’s not like it’s even a real choice. I can’t be around her and don’t have those feelings anymore. I don’t think that will ever change. I might regret the loss of structure and what could have been but not really realistic that we will ever be able to go back to that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742986) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:21 PM Author: @grok, is this true? You’ve done a great job of making his threads about you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742970) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:22 PM Author: Rage Problems My parents stayed together but then got divorced when I was an older teen. Fucked me up too. My kid is not old enough to remember this. Kids do better that never have a memory of it I think. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49742972) |
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Date: March 14th, 2026 2:40 PM Author: Oh, you travel? ( ) He’ll be fine, I’m sure he’ll understand that daddy was in wuuuuuvv 🥰 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2],#49743006) |