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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
jet private investor jewess
  12/25/21
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concupiscible useless brakes
  12/26/21
very valuable post
boyish space clown
  12/25/21
180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant pe...
Appetizing Drab Set
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jet private investor jewess
  12/25/21
I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad...
gold hairy legs
  12/25/21
Is it a good way to score pussy?
Bonkers native codepig
  12/25/21
Make sure to bring business cards, brother.
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Racy corner
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maniacal ocher hominid
  12/25/21
I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
Racy corner
  12/25/21
same
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angry glittery hall
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Juan Eighty
  11/25/25
Important OP
Shivering coral principal's office potus
  12/25/21
Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.
gold hairy legs
  12/25/21
(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)
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sapphire gunner
  12/25/21
Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.
Aromatic rebellious nursing home giraffe
  12/25/21
Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get...
light comical tanning salon
  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
galvanic brunch
  12/25/21
My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
glassy histrionic indian lodge
  12/25/21
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Frum Stimulating Persian Gaming Laptop
  12/26/21
live fast die young
Purple house karate
  02/22/23
theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
Sexy passionate step-uncle's house
  12/25/21
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Mustard cracking skinny woman
  12/26/21
very good advice here. i have been making an effort to atten...
concupiscible useless brakes
  12/26/21
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House-broken Rigpig
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jet private investor jewess
  01/15/22
this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best ...
Mustard cracking skinny woman
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House-broken Rigpig
  07/15/22
(junior soprano)
dark aphrodisiac spot
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jet private investor jewess
  02/22/23
I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
Pink Hospital Internal Respiration
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sadistic lascivious kitchen cuckoldry
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shimmering soul-stirring temple
  03/14/23
Absolutely credited.
Razzmatazz Jew Heaven
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Mike Yanagita
  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: jet private investor jewess

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: concupiscible useless brakes



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: boyish space clown

very valuable post

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: Appetizing Drab Set

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: jet private investor jewess



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: gold hairy legs

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Bonkers native codepig

Is it a good way to score pussy?

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Khaki Frozen Property Kitty Cat

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: Racy corner



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Supple sienna round eye



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: floppy yarmulke legend



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: maniacal ocher hominid



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Racy corner

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Ruddy disgusting son of senegal

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: angry glittery hall



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Frum Stimulating Persian Gaming Laptop



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Shivering coral principal's office potus

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: gold hairy legs

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: spectacular fantasy-prone antidepressant drug lay

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: sapphire gunner



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Aromatic rebellious nursing home giraffe

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: light comical tanning salon

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: galvanic brunch

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: glassy histrionic indian lodge

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Frum Stimulating Persian Gaming Laptop



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Purple house karate

live fast

die young

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Sexy passionate step-uncle's house

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2],#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: Mustard cracking skinny woman



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: concupiscible useless brakes

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2],#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: House-broken Rigpig



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: jet private investor jewess



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: Mustard cracking skinny woman

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2],#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: House-broken Rigpig



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: dark aphrodisiac spot

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: jet private investor jewess



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: Pink Hospital Internal Respiration

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2],#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: sadistic lascivious kitchen cuckoldry



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: shimmering soul-stirring temple



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Razzmatazz Jew Heaven

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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