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Slate: When Men Ask My Number of Partners I Ghost Them Immediately
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Date: April 6th, 2026 6:43 PM Author: Vibrant wild house ape When Men Ask Me This One Question On a First Date, They Never Hear From Me Again Jessica Stoya replies to readers’ comments and suggestions. Advice by Jessica Stoya April 06, 202612:00 PM
Hey How to Do It,
Re Wants to Be Slut-Praised: I came across this column and wanted to share my experience. I just don’t continue to date guys who ask right off the bat or are fixated. It’s that simple. I’ve slept with hundreds of people, not just men, and I don’t go into it with my partners. It’s none of their business and irrelevant. I don’t ask them and wait a very long time if I tell them at all. I only told my ex-husband of six years once, and we were both drunk, and he doesn’t remember the number. We laughed about it later, I still didn’t tell him again, and we’re still friends.
If they ask within the first few dates, they’re judging, and I’m not interested in that kind of judgment. Being intolerant of those types of questions and tests has really helped me to only have amazing relationships with people who don’t care about anything other than how I treat them. I’m also typically monogamous and ethical about any type of relationship I’m in, so I understand what the letter writer means. It probably helps that I’m an adult entertainer, so I have developed hard boundaries on conversations and ending dates. It’s a lot of weeding people out, but worth just saying bye as soon as they ask those types of things. I’m 36 and haven’t been able to salvage a connection after they ask intrusive, invasive questions to judge me or my sexuality. Never. It sucks when they’re cute and seem nice, but I’ve always had a cuter, nicer one come along immediately after. You just have to learn to be strict on calling it and moving on.
—Frequent Reader
Bravo. And thank you for your individual take on the efficiency strategy that Rich and I often recommend in the early stages of dating—I think the more perspectives available on the value of that, the more easily folks internalize the fact that there are mindsets other than scarcity in these matters. |
Date: April 6th, 2026 6:44 PM Author: contagious tattoo heaven this is obviously a total lie because she is a slut who fucks every single man she comes across. she's not saying no to anyone
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:03 PM Author: Vibrant wild house ape She's a sex worker who has had hundreds of partners but is still 'very loyal' and her main problem in life is she loses her mind at men who judge her. And the problem is the men. Also she has no problem finding cute boys, the next always cuter than the last. Dontchya know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798750) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:14 PM Author: Aromatic Buff Athletic Conference she is "typically" monogamous. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798768) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:15 PM Author: Vibrant wild house ape It's like a bald guy claiming he typically has hair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798770) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:34 PM Author: Aromatic Buff Athletic Conference Well, to be fair, calling someone who shaves their head "bald" as an insult is kind of retarded, sir. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798816) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:17 PM Author: Vibrant wild house ape Counterpoint: every slut has at least one dood in their lives who they would never touch at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798772) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:12 PM Author: Vibrant wild house ape I can just hear doobs, Peterman, or cucumbers saying these exact words (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798765) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 8:09 PM Author: chartreuse beady-eyed orchestra pit You can SEE Doobs & Peterman doing these exact things every weekday at at Flying J bathroom stall. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49807506) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:52 PM Author: Mustard Electric Fat Ankles Tanning Salon no way bro korean females post articles in national newspapers bragging about their sexual deviancy all the time bro, dont stereotype cumskins (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798849) |
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check yoself, nigger |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 6:32 PM Author: fragrant fishy school juggernaut Why would Korean women have any interest in having sex with the “men” available in their country? No wonder they go 4B Movement instead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49801642) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:08 PM Author: Mustard Electric Fat Ankles Tanning Salon which is why i, a korean male, have fucked more women than every other male on xoxo combined (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49802027) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:57 AM Author: fragrant fishy school juggernaut lmao nobody believes this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49802877) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 1:43 AM Author: Mustard Electric Fat Ankles Tanning Salon korea isnt shamanist DURR DURR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49802912) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 8:27 PM Author: Mustard Electric Fat Ankles Tanning Salon lol@ your fucktarded know-nothing ass getting utterly GAPED after claiming "koreans arent shamanist" only for NYUUG to simply post no fewer than A DOZEN articles detailing korean shamanism in contemporary society
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Date: April 6th, 2026 8:16 PM Author: Big mint depressive Note that, per usual, NYUUG is 100% correct on his criticisms of US culture. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798890) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 9:19 PM Author: exciting business firm don't you have hundreds of posts bragging about the whores you've fucked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49799001) |
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Date: April 7th, 2026 8:10 PM Author: Mustard Electric Fat Ankles Tanning Salon lol@ you thinking a korean male bragging about fucking white women on an anonymous lawboart is the same as a 13 yr old white woman bragging about being a single mom on youtube (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49802030) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 11:21 AM Author: Big mint depressive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49806368) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 1:13 PM Author: exciting business firm The issue is " broadcasting your immodest deviancy" not whose is worse. dumbass ugly gook. and you pay to fuck literal whores not "white women" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49806549) |
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Date: April 9th, 2026 8:06 PM Author: Mustard Electric Fat Ankles Tanning Salon NYUUG IS A VIRGIN DURR DURR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49807499) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 9:15 PM Author: Comical beta halford It probably helps that I’m an adult entertainer tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49798997) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:26 PM Author: Vibrant wild house ape I've still never seen one but I'm holding out hope this year's the year (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49803750) |
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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:34 PM Author: Vibrant wild house ape I'm done here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2],#49803773) |