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POLL: which one of the 2 mindsets describes you
| lascivious bistre church building | 02/24/17 |
| Startled white digit ratio point | 02/24/17 |
| Crawly Boltzmann Really Tough Guy | 02/24/17 |
| salmon bawdyhouse trump supporter | 02/24/17 |
| Translucent Boyish Box Office | 02/24/17 |
| Cerebral forum | 02/24/17 |
| lascivious bistre church building | 02/24/17 |
| mildly autistic feces corner | 02/24/17 |
| fragrant orchid field | 02/28/17 |
| Beady-eyed library legal warrant | 02/24/17 |
| mentally impaired site affirmative action | 02/24/17 |
| Yapping dingle berry | 02/24/17 |
| sepia magical temple | 02/24/17 |
| Supple place of business | 02/24/17 |
| pearl shaky giraffe meetinghouse | 02/25/17 |
| Self-absorbed swashbuckling university | 02/25/17 |
| sepia magical temple | 02/24/17 |
| mentally impaired site affirmative action | 02/24/17 |
| Vengeful theater coldplay fan | 02/24/17 |
| sepia magical temple | 02/24/17 |
| Hairraiser Cumskin Stead | 02/28/17 |
| dashing tan antidepressant drug | 02/28/17 |
| Rusted Sneaky Criminal Macaca | 02/28/17 |
| dashing tan antidepressant drug | 02/28/17 |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:02 AM Author: lascivious bistre church building http://m.imgur.com/eEiYvh5 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689696) |
Date: February 24th, 2017 7:05 AM Author: Startled white digit ratio point retarded dichotomy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689697) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:07 AM Author: Crawly Boltzmann Really Tough Guy In reality and speaking from experience, failure is a growth opportunity. Faggots. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689701) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:07 AM Author: salmon bawdyhouse trump supporter Now explain chilmata. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689702) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:05 AM Author: Translucent Boyish Box Office Fixed mindset all the way. Look how great I turned out! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689826) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:19 AM Author: Cerebral forum piC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689860) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 6:20 PM Author: lascivious bistre church building Sad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32693838) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:07 AM Author: mildly autistic feces corner it's a pity that the growth mindset people have to mix their insistence on optimism about whether you can improve your skills with practice with an insistence that there is no such thing as innate ability whatsoever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689831) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 5:04 PM Author: fragrant orchid field apparently the key to mental health is to delude yourself. CBT depression stuff is pretty much just do ignore reality (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32721097) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:25 AM Author: Beady-eyed library legal warrant http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2016/05/31/17/34CC6BEF00000578-3618322-image-a-17_1464713483203.jpg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689877) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: mentally impaired site affirmative action (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695502) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 6:22 PM Author: Yapping dingle berry Did you steal this from some HR lady's LinkedIn account? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32693861) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 10:33 PM Author: sepia magical temple (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695115) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:25 PM Author: Supple place of business (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695480) |
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Date: February 25th, 2017 12:21 AM Author: pearl shaky giraffe meetinghouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695687) |
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Date: February 25th, 2017 12:28 AM Author: Self-absorbed swashbuckling university (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695712) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:27 PM Author: sepia magical temple i diddnt see gorilla minndset in ur link fagt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695491) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: mentally impaired site affirmative action (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695499) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:28 PM Author: Vengeful theater coldplay fan I'm a fixie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695495) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: sepia magical temple i cant imagine anybdoy who poasts on xo is grwoth mindset (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695500) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:10 PM Author: Hairraiser Cumskin Stead Neither. Chad mindset. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32720767) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:23 PM Author: dashing tan antidepressant drug The 'failure is just a step to success' self-help schtick ignores psychology. Events can't neatly be categorized into 'success' and 'failure,' with the individual merely choosing how to interpret one or the other. The events that these self-help books call 'failures' may include serious psychological traumas, incarcerations, injuries resulting in limb amputation, etc. It's quite clear that these types of events aren't 'all a matter of mindset.' It's entirely possible for an event to be legitimately crippling, at least if your goal was really specific.
Further, even in more moderate cases, it's not always clear that one can re-interpret failure as a positive. It's possible, but it depends on your pre-existing drives, needs, constitution etc. These people who get stubbornly motivated by failure are usually a particularly hungry type, with a really strong lust for whatever they're after, or perhaps just a need for it.
I know the 'headspace' the self-help books are getting at. I've been in situations where I really wanted something hard-to-obtain when alone in a new city, and yeah, I was able to grind through all the funny reactions to eventually find it. But there have been other times when I've wanted something but certain sensitivities prevented me from pursuing it; in these cases the 'failures' or 'rejections' had an overwhelmingly demoralizing effect that ran deeper than mere matters of 'attitude' or 'perspective.' |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:54 PM Author: Rusted Sneaky Criminal Macaca I don't think viewing failure as a positive is healthy in the long term. It leads to fetishizing SPS decisions and often obscures the credited course of action for people.
The best way to handle failure is to view it as a neutral outcome while maintaining a strong desire to succeed. |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:54 PM Author: dashing tan antidepressant drug Yeah it can lead to a certain 'chill' kind of masochism, which interestingly enough is a good place to have someone if you want to take all their money with self help courses and the like. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32721046) |