But in the last decade or so it's gotten dramatically worse. You go on any sort of lesbian-themed subreddit and it's filled with MTF troons.

Lesbian bars have never been all that popular and from what I understand they've declined in popularity anyway in recent times, so IRL is pretty isolating too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372586)

In reality, they are all accurately picking up on the mental illness of the dykes around them & are correctly shutting each other down very early...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372674)

lesbians stereotypically commit very quickly. i don't know many dyke-cels. i know way more sexless heteros than gays.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372693)

Youre right, lesbians pair up more quickly than any other type of couple

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372700)

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A few large-scale studies in the U.S. provide some sense of how much sex couples are having in their relationships. Married couples report having sex, on average, seven times a month (slightly less than twice a week).1 But, not surprisingly, sexual frequency differs with age and relationship duration.2 In one study of 16,000 American adults, the typical participant reported having sex two to three times per month, but those under the age of 40 reported having sex slightly more often (once a week).3 Regardless of age, couples also tend to have sex more frequently in the early stages of their relationships. Among couples in the first two years of their relationships, 67 percent of gay couples, 45 percent of heterosexual couples, and 33 percent of lesbian couples had sex three times a week or more. The numbers drop off somewhat with time: for couples who had been together 10 years or longer, 11 percent of the gay couples, 18 percent of the heterosexual couples, and 1 percent of the lesbian couples were having sex that often.4

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-passion-paradox/201206/the-ins-and-outs-of-sexual-frequency

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372720)

The u haul lesbian is a hilarious joke because its true- ie lesbians move in on the second date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372732)

QED

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372722)

anyway, reddit isn't a good example of much. /r/politics isn't a good representation of the average lib, let alone the average american voter. the people that dominate online spaces, particularly reddit, tend to be a certain "type" and not really representative of that community as a whole.

women in general are less interested in anonymous online poasting than men. and even the ones that are rarely become megapoasters. so large dyke spaces are going to be overrepresented by troons and shit. but if dykes wanted anonymous online spaces, they'd create them. they just don't. well, there is probably a dyke xoxo out there, but it's going to be obscure and for a niche audience, just like this place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372740)

Bro, this is fucking impossible.

How on earth can you verify that you have two X chromosomes while retaining your anonymity?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372764)

a trusted authority has to verify and moderate.

anyway, it's just speculation that a site like that even exists. my main point is that it's not really desired. the dykes i know are having a ball and tend to be the least screen addicted people. they're out there building live edge furniture and don't think about troons at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372784)

So yeah, not strictly impossible but the hurdles are too high.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372920)

there just isn't a big *enough* desire for it.

but that doesn't mean things are isolating for them. that's only true if internet spaces are necessary for things not to be isolating. i'd say the internet has made people more isolated. but even if you disagree with that generally, the fact is that they have pretty vibrant irl communities, and ime are less isolated than the average american because they tend to have built-in communities where ever they go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48373036)

Too afraid to come out, anonymous spaces have too many troons, IRL doesn't work well either (primarily because you're not out but also because you know damn well there's some gross age gap stuff there too)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48373065)

gen z has a big problem getting out to irl. i've found that the gays tend to be the most receptive to getting out irl, primarily because they have to for the reasons you describe. there's probably some self selection bias here since i don't know any extremely online lesbian shut ins, but i'd wager that they young lesbians tend to be more offline than their hetero counterparts, even though a few shut ins certainly exist. but way less than the zoomer average.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48373074)

yeah, dykes tend to jump into emotional intimacy very quickly. and fags tend to jump into physical intimacy very quickly. and if you ask a member of either camp if this is proof of some of the general differences in genders, most will say: "lmfao yes of course."

it's mostly only the straights who live only in one world that believe everyone thinks like they do. no, they're different, and no one is more aware of that than the gays.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372730)

Lesbians travel in packs socially and hang out with other lesbians. They organize and host events for lesbians. I see it all the time in my area.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372601)

Sure, occasionally men in dresses might show up. But plenty of fully inclusive public events also exist and tend to be advertised as "lgbtq+" or "queer", not specifically for lesbians.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372630)

it makes sense. dudes tend to be myopic and combative about their positions. i've seen people here say "lesbians don't exist." well, not to you, because they tend not to be interested in proving their existence to others. they want to split wood, raise goats, and munch box.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372644)

OP is almost right: lesbians are isolatED, by choice. and it's easy to understand why. just look at the comments itt: "they're all just ugly and/or bitter shrews!" not in my experience. i went to a dyke wedding recently and everyone in the dyke clique was 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372667)

But they seemingly don't really have anywhere to go to anonymously vent or brag about things without the spectre of the troon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372697)

look at the fempoaster:scrote ratio on xoxo. women, including dykes, aren't as attracted to poasting the way men are. and most of the ones that are tend to keep their gender secret. i bet we have more fempoasters here than people think, but most don't want to deal with the consequences of being outed. it's easy to understand why when you see how jcm and fizzkid types get treated even though they aren't seeking it.

just look at the libsoftiktok bitch. no one knew she was a chick until she got outed, and now she's subjected to all sorts of gendered harassment. to the extent some dykes want to bitch about troons, they're probably doing it right under our noses on places like xo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372717)

it's so odd as a product of 90s "sexuality is not a choice" indoctrination. wait, so fags and dykes can't choose their preference, but they also *must* be attracted to the biological opposite sex if that person doesn't identify with the gender they were assigned at birth?

anyway, OG fags and dykes by and large reject this nonsense. many will pay lip service just like cishet people will, but at the end of the day og heteros aren't fucking troons and neither are og gays.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372691)

And most xoxoers arent? 🤣🤣

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372661)

tldr: shitlib mentally ill fat lesbian did not like men surprisingly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372736)

Most of it is simply business. Women do not drink as much as men.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5639061&forum_id=2#48372936)