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can't sleep. suicidal thinking about 'one who got away.'

good looking. fit. successful. dated multiple top shelf girl...
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  05/25/12
have you tried reading ayn rand
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ultramarine senate
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Just do "Virtue of Selfishness" Brahhh
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if she dumped you bro, it wasn't meant to be. And if it is, ...
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Bro, I'm thinking of doing this. Was dating a few girls at o...
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gallery chicks, bro.
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  05/25/12
She was insane, but you've forgotten the bad parts. If you t...
swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife
  05/25/12
explain.
zombie-like ruddy nibblets
  05/25/12
You idealized her during the relationship. Something went wr...
swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife
  05/25/12
yeah i def idealized her, i'm in touch with that. it doesn't...
zombie-like ruddy nibblets
  05/25/12
why are they telling you shit like this? are you asking them...
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  05/25/12
no. example: i'm talking to a girl at a bar and a drunk budd...
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lol at your shitfaggot friends
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lulzy
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Now that you realize you idealized her, you should realize t...
swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife
  05/25/12
There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a book chara...
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if you were the one that dumped her, you could try striking ...
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  05/25/12
credited, but i simply don't come across as someone who woul...
zombie-like ruddy nibblets
  05/25/12
Email her and tell her how you feel. It'll be a weight off y...
swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife
  05/25/12
lol i only knew her school email. she might have a twitter a...
zombie-like ruddy nibblets
  05/25/12
Email her school email, then. How long were you together?
swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife
  05/25/12
credited
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  05/25/12
the shitty Drake music is not helping you right now brother
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  05/25/12
suggestions for credited R&B given mood?
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  05/25/12
not a R&B dude brother
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  05/25/12
turn off shitty R&B. Turn on RATM or Pantera or LZep I...
ultramarine senate
  05/25/12
Odd. I can't sleep because I spent the whole afternoon fucki...
concupiscible volcanic crater
  05/25/12
life is cyclical. glad you had a good day.
zombie-like ruddy nibblets
  05/25/12
you won't convince me there's any woman in the world worth b...
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  05/25/12
You've created an ideal her in your mind and you've become o...
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ROFL a biglaw shrew in her 30s crows about be 'idealised'...
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  05/25/12
I'm sure it's possible. almost all girls are idealized at so...
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Take it easy, she said she didn't come close to meeting the ...
swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife
  05/25/12
what the hell kind of white knight schtick is this? a noted ...
narrow-minded dilemma pozpig
  05/25/12
Just about every woman has had the experience of being ideal...
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Has J. admitted to this?
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  05/25/12
bloody shame in'it then? seriously though, pointing out t...
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  05/25/12
But what if I am actually awesome?
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given the sum total of your posting that i have been exposed...
narrow-minded dilemma pozpig
  05/25/12
LOL I dig your posts man get a moniker.
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  05/25/12
Seriously, I remember her from four years ago as well. She's...
vigorous violet gaping temple
  05/25/12
You are full of shit.
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  05/25/12
going to bed. Thx homies.
zombie-like ruddy nibblets
  05/25/12


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Date: May 25th, 2012 1:55 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

good looking. fit. successful. dated multiple top shelf girls. will never in my life meet a girl like this again. should be a very content person but i'm not. she keeps me up at night. its been a couple years now and hasn't gotten any better. think about her even while laying next to beautiful women. see other women as objects now. currently listening to insipid R&B songs like "Trust Issues" feeling sorry for myself.

taking the full fury of XO abuse ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763360)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 1:57 AM
Author: Provocative Dull Casino

have you tried reading ayn rand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763374)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 12:38 PM
Author: ultramarine senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20764931)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 12:39 PM
Author: ultramarine senate

Just do "Virtue of Selfishness" Brahhh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20764935)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 1:59 AM
Author: Cracking gaming laptop keepsake machete

if she dumped you bro, it wasn't meant to be. And if it is, then she'll seek you out. Or if not, fuck it, try it out - I had an ex-gf contact me recently once she got out of a 5-year relationship with another dood. After a few years it's possible to try to reconnect, but you have to accept if she doesn't want to commit again and just move on.

EDIT: and by 'ex-gf' i mean some girl I dated for like 2-3 months before she started dating this other guy. To be consistent with what I was saying earlier about never really being in a relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763384)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 4:14 PM
Author: Topaz wagecucks masturbator

Bro, I'm thinking of doing this. Was dating a few girls at once I met online. One had real potential, but I decided to go exclusive with a different one (mainly because I had met her earlier). Things aren't going to work out, and I'm wondering how I can get back in with the other chick. Any thoughts?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20766057)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 10:05 PM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

gallery chicks, bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20767791)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:00 AM
Author: swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife

She was insane, but you've forgotten the bad parts. If you tried to date her again it would last a week or less.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763396)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:01 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

explain.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763404)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:03 AM
Author: swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife

You idealized her during the relationship. Something went wrong and you realized she wasn't the image you had drawn in your head. So you broke up with her. Now when you think of her you think of the image and not the fact that it didn't fit with reality.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763417)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:05 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

yeah i def idealized her, i'm in touch with that. it doesn't help that people around me constantly tell me that she's one of the most objectively beautiful girls they've seen. not sure what statements like that accomplish..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763434)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:07 AM
Author: Cracking gaming laptop keepsake machete

why are they telling you shit like this? are you asking them specifically?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763444)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:10 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

no. example: i'm talking to a girl at a bar and a drunk buddy will cavalierly offer that "she's got nothing on _____." Always ruins my night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763471)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:12 AM
Author: Provocative Dull Casino

lol at your shitfaggot friends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763482)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 10:55 AM
Author: opaque slippery azn

lulzy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20764596)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:07 AM
Author: swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife

Now that you realize you idealized her, you should realize that you're basically pining over a cartoon character. What you're pining over doesn't correspond to any actual person. It's as though you read about somebody in a book and fell desperately in love with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763445)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 10:34 AM
Author: Bateful yellow mood national

There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a book character if you know that's what you're doing. Many writers fall in love with their own characters or biographers fall in love with their biographical subjects. At the very least they have to find them very very interesting to be around them all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20764538)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:14 AM
Author: Cracking gaming laptop keepsake machete

if you were the one that dumped her, you could try striking up something with her again. But I think the amount of ideation is unhealthy, like dood below, and also -- girls RUN when they think you're idealizing them. It's not attractive. So it probably won't work out, but you could try.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763496)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:24 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

credited, but i simply don't come across as someone who would still be obsessing over her. i ran into her about 9 months ago at a bar and was with a very attractive girl at the time. we chat a bit, girl i was with went to the restroom, she tells me to call her sometime then disappears. I call her that weekend, but her number has changed. She's not on facebook either. sometimes i wonder if I'm in the truman show or the adjustment bureau.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763574)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:25 AM
Author: swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife

Email her and tell her how you feel. It'll be a weight off your chest. Tell her you've been thinking about her on and off since then and you would feel wrong not seeing if there was a chance to give it another shot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763579)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:27 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

lol i only knew her school email. she might have a twitter account.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763590)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:28 AM
Author: swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife

Email her school email, then.

How long were you together?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763603)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:01 AM
Author: gold cruel-hearted internal respiration

credited

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763409)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:01 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Motley Degenerate

the shitty Drake music is not helping you right now brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763402)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:09 AM
Author: irradiated range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763456)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:11 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

suggestions for credited R&B given mood?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763478)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:26 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Motley Degenerate

not a R&B dude brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763586)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 12:49 PM
Author: ultramarine senate

turn off shitty R&B. Turn on RATM or Pantera or LZep II or Metallica (RtL or MoP) or early Deftones or something rocking.....then quit feeling like shit and go find a new snizz.

like the doods above said....

B/C you're not with her, you are only thinking about her good qualities and dismissing the shitty things about her. I think everybody does this....its fairly normal b/c you're not around her to be reminded of the shitty qualities. If it helps, take a piece of paper, on one side write down good qualities on the other write down the shitty qualities (really think about it). At the bottom of the paper write out 5 specific things/situations that she acted like an idiot and exemplified some of her bad qualities

Then just move on brah....There are a bunch of fish in the sea. Just get out there and find another floozy to ruin your life at a later date.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20764992)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:01 AM
Author: concupiscible volcanic crater

Odd. I can't sleep because I spent the whole afternoon fucking my GF and sleeping and now don't feel the need for sex, GF or sleep....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763406)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:03 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

life is cyclical. glad you had a good day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763416)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:04 AM
Author: adventurous shrine

you won't convince me there's any woman in the world worth being that much of a faggot over

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763426)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:26 AM
Author: Brindle generalized bond parlor

You've created an ideal her in your mind and you've become obsessed with that. As someone who has been idealised once or twice let me assure you that she isn't going to live up to your ideal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763588)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:55 AM
Author: narrow-minded dilemma pozpig

ROFL

a biglaw shrew in her 30s crows about be 'idealised' on the internet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763772)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:58 AM
Author: Cracking gaming laptop keepsake machete

I'm sure it's possible. almost all girls are idealized at some point, if they've had a bf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763791)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:00 AM
Author: swashbuckling autistic step-uncle's house knife

Take it easy, she said she didn't come close to meeting the idealization. I think twentynine and the rest of the FCA types are as ridiculous as anyone thinks they are, but this was an innocuous post. The whole point of idealization is that people aren't seeing you for who you are. Really it's almost a humble post because she's admitting several of her relationships were premised on the other party thinking more highly of her than she deserved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763795)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:04 AM
Author: narrow-minded dilemma pozpig

what the hell kind of white knight schtick is this? a noted aspie shrew points out that people rarely live up to an idealization and it's seen as insightful?

brother, that was just a typical humblebrag from one of XO's most insistent humblebraggers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763815)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:00 AM
Author: Brindle generalized bond parlor

Just about every woman has had the experience of being idealised and fixated on by some guy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763796)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:05 AM
Author: Obsidian Talking Private Investor Indian Lodge

Has J. admitted to this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763817)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:06 AM
Author: narrow-minded dilemma pozpig

bloody shame in'it then?

seriously though, pointing out the obvious as a means of, as usual, alluding to your awesomeness, is kind of sad. at least change your moniker to thirty-three or whatever it must be by now.

you have been '29' since you were a JD underground poster in 2008.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763823)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:07 AM
Author: Brindle generalized bond parlor

But what if I am actually awesome?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763828)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:10 AM
Author: narrow-minded dilemma pozpig

given the sum total of your posting that i have been exposed to over the years, wildly unlikely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763833)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 4:15 PM
Author: Iridescent mind-boggling hospital

LOL I dig your posts man get a moniker.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20766060)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 3:11 PM
Author: vigorous violet gaping temple

Seriously, I remember her from four years ago as well. She's not quite as old as hoscheitz, but she is NOT twentynine anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20765788)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 9:37 PM
Author: aqua razzmatazz heaven

You are full of shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20767661)



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Date: May 25th, 2012 2:33 AM
Author: zombie-like ruddy nibblets

going to bed. Thx homies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1956400&forum_id=2#20763627)