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Thunder Collins tp ... wife update, pls! the bort demands it!!
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Date: November 15th, 2021 12:46 PM Author: startled immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43444616) |
Date: November 15th, 2021 12:52 PM Author: Slippery big casino old irish cottage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43444682) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 12:53 PM Author: startled immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43444689) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 1:08 PM Author: startled immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43444787) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 1:17 PM Author: racy coffee pot boistinker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43444859) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 1:40 PM Author: startled immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445022) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:03 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit My wife has gotten a lot better and has been taking her meds and seeing a therapist. However, things derail quickly if she gets stressed, isn't sleeping, or stops taking her meds.
She was making $45K a month working for a jail in OC for like 20 hours a week but got pissed off at work because a catty female doctor asked her to see an extra patient on her half day and became unhinged. Raged to nurses that she wasn't going to see the patient and wasn't going to listen to the head of medical about his proposed changes to her schedule/case load. Sent the guy a pissed off email demanding a meeting. He fired her the next day and she is unemployed now.
A recruiter happened to contact me around the same time for a great opportunity that will include a generous relocation package to Denver and a raise. She found a job in Denver and started looking at houses. She got pissed off at Disneyland yesterday and is now saying she will never mover to Denver. I am scheduled to fly out to Denver to meet the CEO of the company for a final interview and have been telling them I am going to move. So I am pissed and in a tough spot now.
My wife now wants to take a 3 month position in Monterey that pays $500 an hour and includes housing. So I don't know what we are going to do now. My wife spends her day at home now with both kids which ruined my chill work set up. I am paying for everything and she has Bloomberg on all day speculating on crypto and whatever stock is in the news. Also raging about California's politics while refusing to move out of the state because of the weather and lifestyle.
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:04 PM Author: drunken sanctuary borderline or bipolar? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445168) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:10 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit bipolar. She was diagnosed as bipolar. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445219) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 9:13 AM Author: abusive buck-toothed plaza kitty She is clearly borderline. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450071) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:09 PM Author: adventurous plum rehab does she do nothing besides take drugs? meditation seriously helps with emotional dysregulation. obviously talk therapy is flame for someone this unhinged. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445216) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:13 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit She sees a psychiatrist and he has her taking different drugs. They make a big impact. She absolutely has to be taking meds, getting sleep, and not be stressed. Things were great because she barely worked and made an ass load of money and we had nannies and a cleaner that came twice a week. She has unreasonable demands when it comes to jobs and gets an attitude. The Denver job would pay her $310K and she could be done by noon every day. She finds it totally unacceptable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445247) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:18 PM Author: adventurous plum rehab i'm really surprised she got through school/residency. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445284) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:31 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit She actually works hard and is smart. She passed her CA board right after she gave birth after almost no study and scored really high on her SATs. Hot naturally smart women can get away with a lot.
She almost quit or transferred during her residency program countless times. They joked about it at her graduation. But what she does is get really pissed off and say extreme things and then calms down the next day and doesn't follow through with it generally.
I bet if I can get a really solid relocation offer to Denver and she gets a decent tele position she will go through with a move to Denver. |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:35 AM Author: drunken sanctuary she almost certainly has borderline personality disorder, especially given that she is a heavy gambler in stocks/crypto (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450539) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:11 PM Author: startled immigrant ty for the update! the bort missed you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445226) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:13 PM Author: Slippery big casino old irish cottage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445243) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:13 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445249) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:34 AM Author: Metal space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450527) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:14 PM Author: Heady Indian Lodge Factory Reset Button if you just mentally budget that she is going to bounce from these bullshit $400K jobs constantly and spend half of every year unemployed, you'll still have enough $ and probably be happier. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445257) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:18 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit Yeah, probably the case. But the job search is a stress as well. I told her she should just do a chill part time tele psych job for like 24 hours a week. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445293) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:19 PM Author: Heady Indian Lodge Factory Reset Button isn't that like every job she takes? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445298) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:27 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit She was on site 3.5 days a week and tele psych on Fridays. She usually does hybrid schedules because they pay more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445363) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 4:11 PM Author: Heady Indian Lodge Factory Reset Button she likely will continue this career pattern if you move to colorado and there probably are fewer bridges to burn there than in CA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43446198) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:17 PM Author: Slippery big casino old irish cottage I think you’ve done your very best to keep the family together and I respect you for that. That said, she has taken 2 decades off your lifespan and made your current situation untenable.
As much as I love the content your wife provides, you need to take the job in Denver and call her bluff.
Thoughts and prayers dear TC.
Also, does she have any crypto recs? |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:23 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit It is a great opportunity for me. They would consider remote work + travel, but want me in Denver. We would be making a fortune combined and could rent our place out for a profit in SoCal so we wouldn't even need to sell.
She blindly follows whatever is on the news at the moment. She actually used to work in finance. |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:21 PM Author: Jet sneaky criminal dingle berry lol wow it's unreal what doctors make and that they're able to command these high salaries w all these mental issues (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445313) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:26 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit The AMA makes sure there aren't enough doctors around so salaries are high. It isn't like she is unhinged at work all the time. She butters the staff up with baked goods and asks about their families and shit so they all love her. She plays politics well but is paranoid and will lose here temper at times. They tolerate it generally. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445357) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:42 AM Author: Amber blathering menage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450584) |
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Date: March 27th, 2026 5:10 PM Author: COBRA COMMANDER (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#49774445) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:16 PM Author: Ivory gaming laptop What happened at Disneyland? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445270) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:28 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit She was irritated about the day because it was hot, crowded, and miserable. And she doesn't want to take the job in Denver and doesn't want to buy a house right now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445371) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 4:15 PM Author: Flesh Church Building (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43446231) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:51 PM Author: Vivacious round eye Pls poast more pics of wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445583) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 2:52 PM Author: startled immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445588) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 3:01 PM Author: Jet-lagged Step-uncle's House Love that you're back. What is the legal market in Denver like? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445657) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 3:34 PM Author: Electric love of her life Has she tried any psychedelics like shrooms or LSD? Could help her out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43445927) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 4:04 PM Author: Canary thriller stag film shrooms is the first step, easier to low dose. also this would be incredible content for the board (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43446141) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 5:22 PM Author: Stimulating lodge When you sit down with her and have a conversation where you pour your heart out and explain how much it would mean to you to take this job in Denver does she just stare at you dead inside? Does she have any care for what you might want? Or does she care solely for what she wants? Genuinely fascinated by how this disorder manifests in practice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43446663) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 6:32 PM Author: mint trailer park That sounds like “being emotionally manipulative” and a reminder of how he “never cares about her feelings” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43447113) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 7:50 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43447573) |
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Date: November 15th, 2021 7:49 PM Author: Comical Nudist Pit She says stuff like I never supported her career (despite moving to California so she could take a job) and don't appreciate her or think about what's best for our family. She just thinks everything is about her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43447571) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 9:10 AM Author: Stimulating lodge So basically whenever she wants something she ignores the entire history of your relationship and makes up whatever bullshit she needs to say to gain guilt/leverage. Yikes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450055) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 9:48 AM Author: Hairraiser Sable Gay Wizard Why Denver? It's a lib hellhole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450218) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:15 AM Author: ultramarine vibrant parlour CR. Come back home TCtp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450405) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:40 AM Author: Poppy Soul-stirring Locale he lives in CA currently, so in a sense, he's 'immunized' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450572) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:20 AM Author: Shimmering Box Office Hairy Legs How many times have you beat her? Seems strange to behave this way if properly punished. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450430) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:41 AM Author: Poppy Soul-stirring Locale he missed his opportunity, now if he does it she'll get the TRO (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450577) |
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Date: November 16th, 2021 10:23 AM Author: chestnut range Just wait for the Lifetime movie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4964400&forum_id=2#43450450) |