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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
Marvelous National Security Agency
  09/22/25
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Big coffee pot rehab
  09/23/25
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Big coffee pot rehab
  09/23/25
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Big coffee pot rehab
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
canary step-uncle's house
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
Marvelous National Security Agency
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
canary step-uncle's house
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
Marvelous National Security Agency
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
Emerald rebellious clown
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
Marvelous National Security Agency
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
ultramarine thriller friendly grandma bbw
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
garnet philosopher-king mad-dog skullcap
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
canary step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
rough-skinned sweet tailpipe
  09/23/25
wow
Deep domesticated state organic girlfriend
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
lilac twinkling uncleanness meetinghouse
  09/23/25
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Big coffee pot rehab
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Internet-worthy bat shit crazy market immigrant
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Internet-worthy bat shit crazy market immigrant
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
canary step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Bat-shit-crazy old irish cottage
  09/23/25
How so?
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Bat-shit-crazy old irish cottage
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Adulterous wine roommate
  09/23/25
…?
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
curious alcoholic stage
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
canary step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
Also this
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
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vengeful corn cake cruise ship
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
rough-skinned sweet tailpipe
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
...
vengeful corn cake cruise ship
  09/23/25
...
Deep domesticated state organic girlfriend
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
curious alcoholic stage
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Sapphire exhilarant internal respiration ratface
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
curious alcoholic stage
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
bipolar tantric prole
  09/23/25
...
canary step-uncle's house
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Internet-worthy bat shit crazy market immigrant
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
lime bearded incel
  09/23/25
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vengeful corn cake cruise ship
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
canary step-uncle's house
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
topaz address
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
Bearded factory reset button theater
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
Marvelous National Security Agency
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
vigorous locale
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
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vigorous locale
  01/13/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
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nyuug
  06/08/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
Marvelous National Security Agency
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
Marvelous National Security Agency
  01/24/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: Marvelous National Security Agency

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Big coffee pot rehab

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Big coffee pot rehab

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Big coffee pot rehab

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: canary step-uncle's house

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: Marvelous National Security Agency

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: canary step-uncle's house

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: Marvelous National Security Agency

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Emerald rebellious clown

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Marvelous National Security Agency

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: ultramarine thriller friendly grandma bbw

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: garnet philosopher-king mad-dog skullcap

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: canary step-uncle's house

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: rough-skinned sweet tailpipe

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: Deep domesticated state organic girlfriend

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: lilac twinkling uncleanness meetinghouse

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Big coffee pot rehab

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Internet-worthy bat shit crazy market immigrant

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Internet-worthy bat shit crazy market immigrant

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: canary step-uncle's house

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy old irish cottage

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy old irish cottage

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Adulterous wine roommate

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: curious alcoholic stage

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: canary step-uncle's house

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: vengeful corn cake cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: rough-skinned sweet tailpipe

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: erotic cordovan nursing home fortuitous meteor

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: vengeful corn cake cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: Deep domesticated state organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: curious alcoholic stage

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Sapphire exhilarant internal respiration ratface

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: curious alcoholic stage

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: bipolar tantric prole

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: canary step-uncle's house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Internet-worthy bat shit crazy market immigrant

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: lime bearded incel

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: vengeful corn cake cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: canary step-uncle's house

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: topaz address

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: Bearded factory reset button theater

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: Marvelous National Security Agency

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: vigorous locale

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: vigorous locale

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: vigorous locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49921779)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: Marvelous National Security Agency

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: Marvelous National Security Agency

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2#49614072)