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best place for meeting women (no bars/clubs)
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:51 PM Author: Frozen Selfie Mid-20s, single guy living in MFH. I hate bars and clubs. Where do I go to meet women?
*No online dating either - too much work to message tons of girls back and forth. |
Date: May 7th, 2012 4:52 PM Author: maroon parlor Whole foods, dog parks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637082) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:52 PM Author: Arousing background story really cutting yourself off at the knees here breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637086) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: Frozen Selfie i just hate bars, man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637094) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: frum party of the first part twinkling uncleanness Get better drugs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637105) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: Arousing background story bars are awesome. i agree clubs kind of suck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637106) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:53 PM Author: Aphrodisiac point national security agency kill yourself, you fucking moron (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637089) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: Frozen Selfie why u so mad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637093) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM Author: Aphrodisiac point national security agency your ? sucked
gtfo |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM Author: Frozen Selfie what's wrong with not liking to go to bars? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637121) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:58 PM Author: Aphrodisiac point national security agency you added no online dating on top of that.
? sucks because youre throwing out all these dumb preconditions. |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM Author: Frozen Selfie well if i'm doing online dating or going to bars then i wouldn't need to ask you guys where to meet women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637171) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: frum party of the first part twinkling uncleanness Haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637098) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:53 PM Author: up-to-no-good base through friends (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637090) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: Frozen Selfie my friends seem pretty useless in this regard. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637101) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:13 PM Author: up-to-no-good base don't they have birthday parties? you can meet people through them there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637227) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:05 PM Author: Frozen Selfie they tend to invite people that i already know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637561) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:59 PM Author: heady field windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637140) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: narrow-minded queen of the night address Yoga. If you can get past the gay thing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637102) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM Author: Frozen Selfie that seems like a lot of work; i'd rather just do online dating than sign up for yoga. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637115) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:58 PM Author: narrow-minded queen of the night address Are you busy or just lazy? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637129) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:03 PM Author: Frozen Selfie i work about 55-65 hours a week; i guess i'm just lazy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637160) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:55 PM Author: titillating tripping cuckoldry xoxohth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637110) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:57 PM Author: Greedy principal's office tattoo Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637126) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:03 PM Author: Frozen Selfie non-religious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637163) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:59 PM Author: Aphrodisiac point national security agency you could say intramural sports but those are drinking clubs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637144) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:04 PM Author: plum fanboi set russian facebook. most girls talk to me as long as i post a normal photo and dont write something like "i want to cumb on ur face bitch". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637169) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM Author: Frozen Selfie what the hell is that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637173) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:06 PM Author: plum fanboi set i just talked to a model from moscow for about 2hrs. she tells me that if i insist that i am not gona rape her when she comes here then i probably will. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637184) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM Author: Shaky hairraiser roommate market dang dude, you are really limiting yourself from things that many people do to meet dating mates.
I'd say intramural, some kind of meetup.com activity that interests you, or a church with a large young adult population. |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM Author: Frozen Selfie i'm as agnostic as one can get so church is not an option.
what kind of girls do meetup.com? |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:09 PM Author: Shaky hairraiser roommate market no idea, never gone to a meetup.com thing, but once I was at the lake and saw a meetup.com group renting a huge pontoon boat. We drove by them later, and they were partying their asses off, puking off the boat, grilling out, multiple kegs of beer, etc. Fair amount of aspies and weirdos, but they looked to be having fun. We tied up to them for a while, girl on the boat told me that most of them had never met each other before. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637197) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM Author: Apoplectic crystalline toilet seat idiot grab a few friends and go to recurring interesting clubs found on meetup.com. That's my plan in a few months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637185) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM Author: Frozen Selfie do attractive/date-worthy girls join meetup or is that only for losers like us? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637188) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:09 PM Author: frum party of the first part twinkling uncleanness my impression is that it's a lot of olds and undesirable women. :-/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637198) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM Author: Frozen Selfie that's my suspicion as well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637208) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:09 PM Author: frum party of the first part twinkling uncleanness what kind of meetup.com groups are you going to check out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637195) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM Author: Shaky hairraiser roommate market Your welcome in advance, brah
http://www.meetup.com/Young-Naturists-Nudist-meetp-group/ |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:12 PM Author: frum party of the first part twinkling uncleanness dood that is 180. Now help me find one of these groups in The Sf bay area (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637217) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:14 PM Author: frum party of the first part twinkling uncleanness lol just found one : http://www.meetup.com/photonaturals/
I looked at the past events and every single person who RSVPD was a dood. not even 1 woman. lolol |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:20 PM Author: Shaky hairraiser roommate market yeah probably wouldn't roll the dice on that one, hoping that chicks show up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637263) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM Author: cobalt sneaky criminal hell Chili cook-offs IBS support groups Vegan restaurants |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:12 PM Author: irradiated drunken shitlib i don't see why you wouldn't try on-line. at least you can be selective. meetup.com is completely luck of the draw on whether any decent will women will be involved - sure, they will share a common interest, but that's irrelevant if you're not attracted to them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637220) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:13 PM Author: Frozen Selfie the whole messaging back and forth thing sounds quite time consuming. plus, i heard that most guys only get about a 20% response rate; that's a lot of messages to send out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637229) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:16 PM Author: irradiated drunken shitlib your options are limited. this is among the better ones. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637245) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:32 PM Author: Frozen Selfie what are the credited sites? okcupid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637325) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:51 PM Author: curious temple Yup. Make a funny profile. Message chicks while you poast on xo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637455) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:54 PM Author: narrow-minded queen of the night address OKC actually has a really credited guide for profile creation. Even though I like Match better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637472) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:56 PM Author: irradiated drunken shitlib depends what you're looking for. i think match is the call. okc girls are flaky and want to date around plus there's more competition. girls on match are looking more for relationships and care more about stuff like age, job, etc. (i suspect this bodes well for you compared to the alternative) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637491) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:17 PM Author: Frozen Selfie yeah but i dont want to pay 20 bucks a month. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637666) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:16 PM Author: Shaky hairraiser roommate market my response rate was definitely lower than 20%. I finally quit match.com. Seemed hopeless even after snagging a few dates (most of who contacted me). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637247) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:17 PM Author: plum fanboi set i get about 90% response rate on russian facebook. and i only message girls that look 8+. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637252) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:19 PM Author: narrow-minded queen of the night address Subtract your XO time by 30 minutes each day.
Seek women during those 30 minutes each day.
The commitment level is quite low and you are living in the best place in the world to find an attractive, employed, somewhat normal to quite normal woman online.
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:33 PM Author: Frozen Selfie are girls on free sites like okcupid serious about dating? i dont want to pay for match.com or eharmony. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637338) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:37 PM Author: narrow-minded queen of the night address eHarmony is garbage.
Match is how I met BFdood. I support paying money for good leads.
OKC is the way to go if you just want to meet people and aren't really looking for anything serious. Due to its low requirements, it draws in flakier people. |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:40 PM Author: Frozen Selfie yeah, i don't to be sending girls messages just to inflate their egos. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637375) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:43 PM Author: narrow-minded queen of the night address Also, it really doesn't take that much effort. Guys who send long, involved messages are annoying. You just get in there, say hi, mention one thing about her profile, then tell her to get back to you if interested. Then, if she does get back to you, ask a follow-up Q. Next, she'll answer that, and if it seems to be positive or she wants to know about you, too, take it to phone call or meeting up in a cafe territory.
The point isn't to be stuck in e-mail message hell for weeks. The point is to meet people without having to try very hard and determine if you like them based on pre-determined criteria that matched you in some way.
Give it a try. If you hate it, the loss will not be immense. |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:52 PM Author: curious temple cactp I missed you man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637467) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:53 PM Author: narrow-minded queen of the night address Hey! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637468) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:41 PM Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Shivering Codepig Nursing Home Go to bed bath and beyond on a weekday afternoon. TONS of milfs strolling for some cock. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637387) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:43 PM Author: frum party of the first part twinkling uncleanness lol I think they are just tryin to cop dem 500+ thread count sheets man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637398) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:56 PM Author: Cerise marvelous coldplay fan Fuckbook. It's like the Facebook of sex. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637492) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:25 PM Author: Brindle razzle-dazzle theatre You can try things like museums, bookstores, etc.
But really, for a single dood in his mid-20s, OKC and meeting through friends are the only credited calls.
OKC: Super easy to set up a profile, free, and if you aren't a total idiot/aspie and have some idea of how to talk to women, you'll get a response rate well above 20%. I'm not incredibly good looking (6.5, maybe 7 at best) and I had a response rate of around 40-50%+ when I was in DC. You do not need to spend tons of time messaging back and forth. (If you're doing that, you're doing this wrong.) Send short, simple messages that mention something you found interesting in the person's profile and asking them about it.
Meeting through friends: arrange dinner party/potluck type things with your friends, encourage them to invite friends from work, profit. |