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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:34 PM Author: Just your average poaster 36M/31F. We've basically stopped talking other than surface level "How was your day" bullshit, sex maybe 3 or 4x YTD, and I just found out that she started lexapro 6 months ago without telling me.
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:31 PM Author: Unakite Thirteen Hotel 69 (Lolhaha) Who care beat her up and impregnate her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747782) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:51 PM Author: cpap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747988) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:59 PM Author: daniel gay luis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748018) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:02 PM Author: Juden Peterstein (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748037) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:03 PM Author: Buck Breaking as a Service /thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748038) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 6:34 PM Author: Unakite Thirteen Hotel 69 (Lolhaha) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748288) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:03 PM Author: gibberish (?) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748041) |
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Date: March 15th, 2025 6:40 AM Author: whoopsy flamingo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48749397) |
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Date: March 15th, 2025 6:50 AM Author: "'''""""'"' No thank you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48749400) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:31 PM Author: Unakite Thirteen Hotel 69 (Lolhaha) Roughing her up and creampie will solve all issues (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747784) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:59 PM Author: daniel gay luis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748019) |
Date: March 14th, 2025 1:35 PM Author: saibaman Sounds ideal. What's the complaint? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747432) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:41 PM Author: Just your average poaster What about this sounds ideal? She is a roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747449) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:08 PM Author: saibaman > basically stopped talking (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747521) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:29 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump >sex maybe 3 or 4x YTD = he doesn't have to fiddle around with her nasty, geriatric slimeholds
>I just found out that she started lexapro 6 months ago = she is making herself less mentally ill
>without telling me = she isn't bothering OP with her mental illness
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:03 PM Author: Buck Breaking as a Service (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748040) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:07 PM Author: blow off some steam (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747520) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:03 PM Author: Buck Breaking as a Service (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748039) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:35 PM Author: disco fries' big fat nude butt Describe her cans and panties (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747433) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:35 PM Author: filled with the holy spirit Do you think women are choosing to self lobotomize with neuroleptic chemicals because of men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747435) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:38 PM Author: "'''""""'"' yep (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747443) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:40 PM Author: Just your average poaster Good Q. Lexapro is an SSRI, not an antipsychotic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747447) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:02 PM Author: filled with the holy spirit the difference is some completely fabricated made up marketing
you might as well just take a gardening rake to the dome |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:07 PM Author: Just your average poaster Fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747517) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:59 PM Author: daniel gay luis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748020) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:40 PM Author: neurotic comptroller Are you pitching in enough? I had something like this happen to me, but it turned out that my wife had resentment coming from me not doing enough of the parenting and house work. Scaling up my involvement helped a lot. Try asking your wife if you can do anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747448) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:42 PM Author: Just your average poaster I think so? Good advice though I will see what she says
Edit: I do most of the cooking and a fair amount of the cleaning. But she will also spend a few hours on Saturday cleaning and redo what I've done even if she knows it doesn't need to be redone |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:45 PM Author: Penis Six Nine That's any woman, dood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747462) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:50 PM Author: neurotic comptroller You need to learn the right way to do it. Seriously. It helps. Women won't tell you when they resent you. It'll just come out one day. It's worth the extra effort to save the relationship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747480) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:31 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump lol she's 31, why would he want to "save" this "relationship"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747579) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:03 PM Author: titty caca (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747692) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:18 PM Author: CROATOAN Fucking pathetic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748093) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:35 PM Author: Gay Grandpa Now this is what a liberal looks like! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747794) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: titty caca (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747810) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 9:43 PM Author: Candy Ride Most men don't do nearly enough around the house. My wife stays at home with the young toddler. I sleep with the toddler at night. I get up and get the kids dressed and take them to school. I pick the kids up from school. I do most of the household cleaning and laundry. I do all the man things like mowing and car issues. I take care of the pets. I do all the driving kids around to places. Lots of men need to man up and take responsibility. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748763) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 9:44 PM Author: neurotic comptroller (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748766) |
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Date: March 15th, 2025 6:26 AM Author: ,.,.,.,........,....,,,.. lol Jesus Christ. If she has resentment from doing household stuff it means she actually secretly resents you because you don’t make enough money. She doesn’t respect the work you are doing outside the home. You have to fix that. Otherwise just find some chick who is more grateful ie a non American (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48749389) |
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Date: March 15th, 2025 8:36 AM Author: Uranist (Bande-au-ciel!! ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48749523) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:44 PM Author: Ass Sunstein How many children do you have? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747457) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:44 PM Author: Just your average poaster 0 not married yet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747458) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:49 PM Author: Ass Sunstein lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747474) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:44 PM Author: neurotic comptroller Does it matter? Kids are not a leading cause of divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747459) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:46 PM Author: Prolemobiler right but the lack of ever having them is probably a big one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747466) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:56 PM Author: Just your average poaster Possibly cr. Does marriage/kids repair the relationship? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747496) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:58 PM Author: Prolemobiler not at all. it was always the whole point of the relationship and if you arent on the same page on day 1 its over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747503) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:01 PM Author: Just your average poaster We are on the same page wrt marriage and kids but we aren't married yet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747512) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:35 PM Author: Prolemobiler other than a couple of barely fertile eggs a 31yo woman has more in common with a skinny 60yo woman who still wears makeup than she does with a 20yo. dont push this stuff any further. ivf is no joke and you dont have time. just shit or get off the pot or better yet do both. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747593) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:17 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. I suspect this is total flame and kids are a huge driver of divorce. Sure, the official claim is finances, lack of attention, stress, whatever, but once kids show up all of those issues to the extent they existed before get made MUCH worse. Everyone is tired, stressed and has more strain on their time. Whatever they enjoyed doing before is basically on hold. I know a number of marriages that basically fell apart after kids showed up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747539) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:06 PM Author: titty caca This is 100% cr. Still better to have kids than not to but modern life has ensured it’s fucking impossible and miserable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747701) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:58 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. I mean I have a 9-month-old and it is fine but when people make statements like "kids aren't a driver of divorce" I lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748017) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:04 PM Author: titty caca My marriage has been in the toilet since kid #2 arrived. Pretty much guaranteed divorce at this point. Few if any major problems before that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747697) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:46 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump what was the issue with #2 that led to the problems?
i am considering a second because the first is so much fun but the marriage is pretty mediocre so i don't know if i want to mess with it |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:49 PM Author: titty caca He acts out nonstop and it’s just getting worse, breaks shit and gets himself hurt constantly, lots of behavioral issues at school, needs constant supervision, older one (daughter) is now miserable 24/7 as a direct result of all this, wife and I are just fucking done. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747824) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:55 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump what are their ages?
my wife is stuck on the idea that our little girl should have a brother to play with and so that she'll still have family after we die. it sounds like your daughter would have preferred NOT to have a brother though. |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: titty caca 8 and 4
Yes, my daughter (who was extremely happy for her first 5 years) now frequently says “I wish my brother would die” and, less often, “I wish I would die.” It’s fucking excruciating. |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:06 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump is the boy neurotypical? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747867) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:12 PM Author: titty caca I don’t know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747882) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:33 PM Author: computer.endless (🧐) so what's her monikre? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747939) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:05 PM Author: Buck Breaking as a Service (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748055) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:44 PM Author: Prolemobiler are your kids away at college? empty nests can be a problem for relationships. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747460) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:47 PM Author: Just your average poaster Did not have kids while I was in HS dood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747470) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:49 PM Author: Prolemobiler i was just fucking with you man but seriously have kids or go out for cigarettes and dont come back. youre both too old for this shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747475) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:49 PM Author: Ass Sunstein (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747477) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:48 PM Author: Juden Peterstein have you tried rape?
rhetorical question, no you haven't. report back once completed |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:50 PM Author: pu ping lol simp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747478) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:55 PM Author: Just your average poaster Def not a simp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747492) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:57 PM Author: pu ping Date: March 14th, 2025 1:42 PM Author: Just your average poaster
I think so? Good advice though I will see what she says Edit: I do most of the cooking and a fair amount of the cleaning. But she will also spend a few hours on Saturday cleaning and redo what I've done even if she knows it doesn't need to be redone
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747453)
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:58 PM Author: Just your average poaster You don't understand what a simp is if you consider doing house work simping (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747504) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:14 PM Author: pu ping Hahaurfucked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747535) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:22 PM Author: Just your average poaster He was a master poaster. You? ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747552) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:33 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump one of the worst cases of Simpholm Syndrome I've ever witnessed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747585) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 1:56 PM Author: the dissident right (No Future) time to move on then (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747499) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:07 PM Author: Wilbur Mercer, permanently embarrassed millionaire (Safari) Do you want more sex? If so, 1) gross and 2) why not do it more often (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747518) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:23 PM Author: Just your average poaster I need it Wilbur. We've both pretty much stopped initiating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747556) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:52 PM Author: Wilbur Mercer, permanently embarrassed millionaire (Safari) Then take it bro. This is not legal advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747994) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:18 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. Sounds like you guys are just delaying the inevitable. Either fix it now or end it now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747541) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:23 PM Author: Just your average poaster Cr ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747557) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:57 PM Author: hank_scorpio titcr, OP either needs to difrectly confront wife like tomorrow and very plainly lay out the issues and hear her side or else accept divorce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747844) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 2:37 PM Author: penis bum ljl at "dating" in you're "30s" It's beyond over for you |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:10 PM Author: Paralegal Mohammad are you the investment banker that has been unemployed for a while? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747720) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:30 PM Author: Just your average poaster Yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747933) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 4:49 PM Author: Paralegal Mohammad Maybe you being home all the time has something to do with it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747987) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 6:33 PM Author: Just your average poaster I’m out most of the day but cr probably adding some stress to the relationship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748287) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 10:07 PM Author: which dad? Out doing what (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748830) |
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Date: March 15th, 2025 8:34 AM Author: Uranist (Bande-au-ciel!! ) That dood above was dead on about not respecting what he does and that manifesting as complaints about housework. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48749520) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 3:41 PM Author: ataraxic try asking about her thoughts on the ontological argument (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48747805) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 5:00 PM Author: daniel gay luis Diaper her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748022) |
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Date: March 14th, 2025 6:35 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,,.,..,:,,:,,.,:::,.,,.,:.,,.:.,:.,:.::,. my wife is also on lexapro and it completely killed her sex drive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48748291) |
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Date: March 15th, 2025 12:17 AM Author: \'\'\"\"\'\'\'\" sums up my marriage but you're having way more sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5694133&forum_id=2#48749075) |