The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
|
 |
 
|
App dating sounds horrifying
Poast new message in this thread
Date: July 18th, 2019 1:51 AM Author: tan address fortuitous meteor Reading the tinder reddit makes it seem even worse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549578) |
Date: July 18th, 2019 1:55 AM Author: Maniacal Space Turdskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549585) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 2:04 AM Author: cerise den would not be opposed to literally banning it in its current form and forcing society to figure out an alternative. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549600) |
 |
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:53 AM Author: Exhilarant twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549721) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:38 AM Author: Shaky toaster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549757) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:48 PM Author: glittery zombie-like library potus we need a millennial ross douthat type to start pushing this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552236) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:59 PM Author: obsidian idiot site it 100% should be banned by law (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552275) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:05 PM Author: Crimson Soul-stirring Church Building (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552304) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 2:04 AM Author: Low-t rough-skinned son of senegal I found it to be a thoroughly enjoyable and lighthearted experience (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549601) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 2:10 AM Author: Snowy Aromatic Whorehouse It used to be great 5 years ago. Girls were enthusiastic to meet up and I had multiple solid long term relationships out of it. I can recall how excited id be to meet up with girls. 3 main things ruined it:
1. Too many people joined. Right now, as an average looking dude I have 120 matches on hinge and get 3 or 4 a day. A new shiny object is always ready to be unwrapped. Unless things go perfectly on a date there’s no urgency to not meet one of the other 100 chicks. For any semi decently attractive girl on these apps, I image they have thousands of matches.
2. Men took advantage of the lack of social accountability, myself included. We realized that these apps gave us the chance to explore a sexual relationship with zero accountability. Because you had no mutual contacts, there was zero friction to make for an immediate disconnect.
3. Even chicks who are like north of 2 bills have had sex with men the look like Cristiano Ronaldo, which has led to complete delusion as to who is in their league.
Every girl on dating apps has been pumped and dumped at least 10 times. We are talking sex immediately followed by zero contact. the whole thing has turned into a ceasepool where everyone is confident they are gonnna get fucked over.
|
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 2:14 AM Author: Multi-colored dysfunction Seems accurate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549620) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:12 AM Author: Exhilarant twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549744) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:41 AM Author: Disturbing Arousing Gaming Laptop Nursing Home the industrial revolution and its consequences (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549760) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:43 PM Author: cerise den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552222) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:47 PM Author: passionate bronze parlor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552233) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:05 PM Author: Fishy Milk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552691) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 10:09 PM Author: fragrant windowlicker business firm (guy who thinks dating some degenerate app slut for 9 months is a "long term relationship") (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38554363) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 2:12 AM Author: Multi-colored dysfunction It's both wonderful and terrible. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38549616) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:46 PM Author: fiercely-loyal theater App dating should be for back burner chicks. You meet, you bang, you see if they're worthwhile, but the goal should always be to meet someone to settle down with in an organic way (friends/family, activities, work, etc.). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552228) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:48 PM Author: Glassy Stock Car Chapel Most relationships are now through apps. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552234) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:54 PM Author: fiercely-loyal theater Most people are 100 IQ... What's your point? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552255) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:57 PM Author: clear talented tanning salon Opposite, actually. I made it very clear what I was looking for in my profile and got good responses. I chatted with the attractive ones enough to figure out which ones were not total fucking morons, then FaceTimed with a few others. Eventually I settled on some Lithuanian chick. Dressed up nice for the first date and gave her flowers, which drove her crazy. 5 months later we're still together and I'm pretty happy with how it all worked out.
Had I done the usual thing where you act aloof and meet a bunch of randos after texting for an hour, I could not have pulled this off. |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:01 PM Author: french prole generalized bond Which app, what did you say to make it clear what you were looking for? Age? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552280) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:04 PM Author: clear talented tanning salon OKC. Hard to go into much detail without sharing outable info, but I put some stuff in there about my divorce and my dating experiences, and I said I only wanted to meet women who were family oriented and put family first. A lot of women I ended up talking to had those really short profiles that say "no games," which I treated as an open invitation to cut to the chase. Women with long profiles get docked points, because who gives a fuck what movies you like? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552301) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:09 PM Author: french prole generalized bond interesting... the family angle. sounds like a great way to get paunchy mid-30s girls in my libcity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552713) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:21 PM Author: clear talented tanning salon FOBs, actually. Which is what I prefer since american women are fat lazy bitches who can barely cook a frozen pizza. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552796) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:24 PM Author: french prole generalized bond lol'ed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552813) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:29 PM Author: Disrespectful resort What kind of FOBs are we talking about? How fobbish? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552838) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:36 PM Author: clear talented tanning salon It's not like I have a spreadsheet, but off the top of my head it seems like the ones who came over in their teens or later have more connection to their home cultures. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552879) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:09 PM Author: Azure Laughsome Juggernaut Temple Honestly, this is the healthy way to do it but it has a major drawback--it's pretty devastating when you get blown out by the chick you decided to go all-in on and then you feel retarded for focusing on her rather than just being sociopathic and flirting with 17 chicks at once to see what pans out. Unfortunately I have terrible luck with the chicks who would be good for relationships and just get hookups and flings with chicks who are attractive but have something wrong with them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552329) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:15 PM Author: clear talented tanning salon You should always be prepared to accept rejection. However, I've found that by bring honest and direct and doing the FaceTime thing, I'm able to set the hook pretty deep. It also helps them see that I'm genuine, don't post old pics, have a decent looking home etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552369) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:01 PM Author: Azure Laughsome Juggernaut Temple I always get rejected by the ones I want for relationships though so it's pretty draining. In a SHITLOAD of app and online dating over the past 8yrs I've met maybe 10-15 chicks who would have been really good for me and got shot down by all of them. I think I may fuck myself over by not being flirty and sexual enough with these chicks because I'm gun-shy about blowing it with the rare decent girl who hasn't racked up a massive amount of hookups. My results are much better when I'm just trying to fuck. Not sure if it's a difference in how I act, or maybe the chicks I'm just trying to fuck have questionable standards and the ones I want for relationships are more easily able to see the things wrong with me. But I've had a decent number of instances where the chick is definitely physically attracted, we have a lot of similar interests, we talk a lot before meeting and she seems pretty invested in it, and I get knocked out on the first, second, or third date. ZERO success in those scenarios with the ones I've really cared about. Everyone I've dated for any length of time has been someone I've just sort of liked, fucked on the first or second date, and everything developed around sex.
|
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:07 PM Author: fiercely-loyal theater Your life consists of working and playing video games. You provide nothing a beta provider would.... There's zero reason why anybody would want to get into a relationship with you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552704) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:12 PM Author: stirring pit trust fund it's not a great mystery. you have a shitty autistic personality and it's extremely evident here on xo. normie good girls will always run from a freak like you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552727) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:26 PM Author: Carnelian church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552822) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:36 PM Author: Azure Laughsome Juggernaut Temple I know I have some limitations to work around but you seem further on the spectrum than I am. Also would not be at all surprised if you were lib, azn, or both, as those seem yombe the groups I'm getting a lot of hate from lately. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552882) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:18 PM Author: Disrespectful resort All women want to be flattered and feel pretty. It's important that you keep that up. Even if you think "she probably hears that from every guy," say it anyway.
Also don't just compliment their looks. Compliment their clothes, makeup, all that shit. You don't have to be aggressive to make them feel good. |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:20 PM Author: stirring pit trust fund read back over what you just wrote. it's advice you would tell a 12 year old, not a 38 year old grown man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552790) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:26 PM Author: Disrespectful resort What do you think is running through a woman's mind when she obsesses over what to wear that night? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552823) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:27 PM Author: fiercely-loyal theater Sugar, sugar, salt, salt! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552829) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:30 PM Author: stirring pit trust fund (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552847) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 7:52 PM Author: citrine cerebral menage black woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38553546) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 7:53 PM Author: citrine cerebral menage black woman He saying he does well when he's acting like he's really into the chick, but that they lose interest when he plays it cool. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38553556) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:24 PM Author: Azure Laughsome Juggernaut Temple Yeah this is probably right. I'll compliment chicks some in text but almost never do it on dates. It's something that dawned on me a few times before but I'd forgotten about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552811) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:27 PM Author: Disrespectful resort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552473) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:32 PM Author: Wine gaping Why is there even a need to settle down? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552857) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 3:54 PM Author: clear talented tanning salon It really helps to FaceTime with the chick before committing to anything. You end up wasting much less time with fatties. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552254) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:21 PM Author: Disrespectful resort cr I get these bitches on WhatsApp fast. I'm not spending $75 on dinner with a hog. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552420) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:12 PM Author: Azure Laughsome Juggernaut Temple Are fatties really that much of a problem? For me less than 10% show up being thicker than I expected, and I can only think of a couple that were legit fat. Maybe another 10% show up looking older/more weathered than I expected. Overwhelmingly though, the chicks I meet are more attractive in person than in their pics. Usually as long as you're meeting high 6s and 7s or better you're gonna be ok and often pleasantly surprised. Dip down to the marginal chicks who use camera angles to make themselves look decent and you run into problems. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552729) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:23 PM Author: fiercely-loyal theater These guys are novices if they can't sort through the fatties. I exclusively swipe left on no body pics or suspiciously cropped pictures. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552807) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:16 PM Author: indigo stead coldplay fan they're good because you can get pussy without having to go outside (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552374) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:22 PM Author: bossy range pistol outside? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552424) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:22 PM Author: indigo stead coldplay fan like out of the basement (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552426) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 4:23 PM Author: bossy range pistol Tyft (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552435) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 8:13 PM Author: Sinister Pea-brained Forum Roast Beef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38553629) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:27 PM Author: irate electric garrison regret https://culturalreconquista.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/redpill_comics_pic_07.jpg?fbclid=IwAR1zLGK1A2Zon96xJQed97_CSwyOq3hBUZ99Nv24wbilWy8t4Yk-BpoNGf8 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552828) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 5:30 PM Author: fiercely-loyal theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38552844) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 7:13 PM Author: angry area It is horrifying. I tried it for the first time last year and very quickly realized that 90% of the people on there are addicted to the app and will never find a true match and/or will cheat for the rest of their lives. Of course, the other 10% find success with it, get married, shit out kids etc. those are the stories we hear. but everyone else is broken and need the app for day to day validation. One year later, the same people are still on there. It’s an addiction. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38553357) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 7:21 PM Author: wonderful hyperactive orchestra pit fanboi I've been on apps in a big city for little less than a year and see the same fucking women. It's depressing.
|
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 8:19 PM Author: Chartreuse location shitlib yea it's horrifying how many good looking women are on there for years. how the fuck can't they find a dude? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38553665) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 9:24 PM Author: angry area The problem isn’t that they can’t find a dude, it’s that they can’t decide when to commit to one. Guys are just as guilty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38554025) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 10:07 PM Author: Orchid offensive stage CR. And every single one of the women has been w a higher status man than you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38554336) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 10:15 PM Author: french prole generalized bond You'll be lucky if the girl you're on a date with complains about these narcissistic douchebag finance or tech bros. But odds are she's been on a date with a higher status dude with a reasonable personality and he wasn't interested in her enough to lock it down. She won't really talk about that pump and dump but she's probably holding on to hope that another like him will give her a shot in the future. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38554396) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 10:39 PM Author: Chartreuse location shitlib That's good though that she isn't an actual gold digger tho! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4305195&forum_id=2#38554528) |
|
Date: July 18th, 2019 10:12 PM Author: fragrant windowlicker business firm this entire thread makes me want to kill myself
we need a comet to strike ASAP |