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Told my gf i don't find her attractive + i'm using her for money
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:11 AM Author: big beta brethren doctorate Subject: we live together. She's been a general bitch all weekend. this morning she makes some bitch remark about me not "knowing how to be a man" because I told her to turn down the noise in the living room while I was trying to sleep last night (I have work I have to do today).
I waited for a while and then made a comment like "I've already decided I want out at year's end." and she was like "why are you still with me then?" and I said "finances." then I said "i haven't been attracted to you for a while, you've really let yourself go and are eating whatever you want."
She hasn't said a word to me in response for over an hour.
HOW FUCKED? I was just pissed and trying to get revenge. I know I went way overboard. FUCK. |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:44 AM Author: Shimmering lascivious cumskin den lol pwned (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320408) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:15 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone concupiscible dragon this is bad. very, very bad. if a guy i lived with and loved said this to me, i would forever in the future be convinced that this is how he really felt. i would never trust in his affection for me again. why the fuck would you purposely say something so hurtful if you did not mean it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320764) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 3:15 PM Author: razzle indian lodge same
nothing is as hurtful as a looks-related insult |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:35 PM Author: 180 nighttime philosopher-king i haven't looked at any of the posts below. you seem like you really have some deep anger and resentment towards her.
if you really loved her you wouldn't make a snide remark about "eating whatever you want," you would instead ask her to go to an exercise class with you.
you're an asshole.
edit: you should have told her, "i don't date sociology majors" |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:41 PM Author: emerald impertinent puppy Email makeup:
"I'm really sorry honey. How about we go to Friendly's you get two or three desserts and we forget this ever happened? Can you sport a little dough? my stash is getting a little low. Love you!"
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:18 AM Author: Buck-toothed haunting spot the relationship is most likely over (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320323) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:19 AM Author: Arousing Magical Milk Yep
Edit: Wait, is this some sort of system of negging? |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:20 AM Author: Thriller useless brakes This is dump material. You really fucked up (assuming you do not want to break up with her). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320332) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:21 AM Author: Buck-toothed haunting spot once it crosses over into looks territory it will fester forever, even if they get past it initially. girls don't forget this shit and prolonging the relationship will make it even worse in the end (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320337) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:22 AM Author: Thriller useless brakes I agree (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320340) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:23 AM Author: irradiated mewling trust fund locus I know youre probably right but she shouldn't have challenged manhood. Girl kinda had it coming. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320344) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:27 AM Author: Buck-toothed haunting spot girls say stupid shit, it's part of the game. if I called my ex-gfs fat every time they said something stupid and irrational we would have broken up hundreds of times (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320354) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:36 AM Author: Thriller useless brakes it's different because girls are more emotional. you should put up with some of this and try to be a man about it. if it makes you feel better you get to deride women as weak and irrational to other men when you do this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320379) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:28 PM Author: clear gas station they should stop being oversensitive TTTs and grow up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320830) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:25 AM Author: Arousing Magical Milk THERE IS A WAY OUT OF THIS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320348) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:37 AM Author: insecure chrome fat ankles your fucked radek (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320384) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:39 AM Author: talented azure hairy legs In your defense, there is nothing more annoying than the "be a man" argument in totally inapplicable situations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320389) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 10:43 AM Author: Buck-toothed haunting spot http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjF93E4LjlA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320404) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:25 PM Author: Supple opaque potus you should have just slapped her. if she complained you could have responded that you were being a man for her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320818) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:35 PM Author: Rose exciting athletic conference pozpig If you said this to me I'd dump you on the spot, finances be damned. Same goes if you slapped me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320860) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:37 PM Author: shaky son of senegal What if he just shook you? You know, to shake some sense into you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320869) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:38 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone concupiscible dragon lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320874) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:39 PM Author: Rose exciting athletic conference pozpig Tough call. That's still motivated in violence and I still believe in the double standard of violence (i.e. women can slap/shake their men but not the other way around) because men are so much stronger than women and can inflict much more physical damage without knowing.
It depends on the context of the shake and how violent or scary he was being otherwise. |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:42 PM Author: clear gas station " That's still motivated in violence and I still believe in the double standard of violence (i.e. women can slap/shake their men but not the other way around) because men are so much stronger than women and can inflict much more physical damage without knowing. "
if my gf said this to me i'd punch her in the fucking face |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:45 PM Author: Rose exciting athletic conference pozpig I've seen violent relationships where the man was physically violent to the woman. If a girl punched you she probably wouldn't be able to do much damage. If a guy punched me it could kill me. I don't know many men who would be physically frightened by a girl who threatened to slap them but I am darn afraid of male violence.
A man can do much more damage to a woman than a woman can to a man. That's not to say that slapping a boyfriend isn't wrong on other levels or that female-on-male physical abuse isn't a serious issue. |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:46 PM Author: clear gas station i scale my hits appropriately (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320956) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:50 PM Author: Rose exciting athletic conference pozpig Violence is also "white trash". After I dumped you for punching me I'd tell all of my friends what happened and they'd think you were a pile of classless trash and we'd laugh about you behind your back. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320989) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:52 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone concupiscible dragon titcp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321006) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 1:06 PM Author: clear gas station i agree with this, but the same should apply to women. if a woman attacks me i'm going to hit back (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321148) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 1:12 PM Author: Rose exciting athletic conference pozpig I agree that women who hit their men are exhibiting white trash tendencies, but why hit back? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321221) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 1:13 PM Author: clear gas station deterrence (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321235) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:53 PM Author: Bistre Self-centered Cuck I would only hit back if she hit me hard enough to hurt me for real...like injure me or leave a permanent mark or something. Violence is not ok from women either though and I'd probably leave on the spot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14322307) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:52 PM Author: Charismatic Ultramarine Corner Pisswyrm lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321007) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:42 PM Author: shaky son of senegal Women are like children. When they're acting silly and irrational, it's necessary to bring them to their senses either physically (via shaking or slapping) or yelling at them. I'm not a yeller so pinning her down then grabbing her shoulders and shaking works best for me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320921) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:39 PM Author: Fishy beady-eyed regret Did you really say this without meaning a single thing you said? I find it hard to believe. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320883) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:40 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone concupiscible dragon me, too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320890) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:42 PM Author: Fishy beady-eyed regret He has to believe some of it, at least subconsciously. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320913) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:40 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone concupiscible dragon OP, if you don't actually want to break up, you should be proactive and apologize, and tell her that you DID NOT REALLY MEAN THESE THINGS. make this very clear. even if you don't apologize for getting mad at her for being a bitch, tell her that you did not mean what you said BEFORE she asks you about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320888) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:41 PM Author: Rose exciting athletic conference pozpig Yeah, but if this girl has any shred of self-respect she'd dump him. Once a guy calls into question his attraction to me I have no security in the relationship and I'd assume he's already begun to look for strange on the side.
I can understand going overboard during an argument but there's some reason why the OP went overboard in this fashion (i.e. "I'm not attracted to you") and not in some other. |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:43 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone concupiscible dragon This may be true. It's really mean. However, if they are supposedly in love and have been together for a long time without this kind of nastiness, it could potentially be forgivable. Sounds like a shitty relationship, though. I never would have said this to one of my exes other than the shitty one I started to hate before we broke up, and would have been heartbroken if one said such a thing to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320926) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:49 PM Author: Rose exciting athletic conference pozpig "However, if they are supposedly in love and have been together for a long time without this kind of nastiness, it could potentially be forgivable."
I could see this, but the OP has to do some epic apologizin'. |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:50 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone concupiscible dragon yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320984) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:45 PM Author: exhilarant dilemma i don't usually like to throw stones in glass houses, but man, you sound like a real cocksucker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320944) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 12:46 PM Author: Fishy beady-eyed regret Love your moniker. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14320951) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 1:00 PM Author: pea-brained salmon corn cake candlestick maker you basically just told her she should diet a little. seems like nbd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321070) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:55 PM Author: boyish pit lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14322322) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 1:11 PM Author: Galvanic roommate You need to proactively apologize WITH some excuse that explains how you could say such a thing without meaning it. Like "I was really angry, and a girl once told me that was the meanest thing you could say to your girlfriend, and I just blurted it out without thinking." Or, like, "my dad used to say that to my mom when he got angry."
And then you have to cry and tell her you want to work on controlling your temper.
The relationship has 0% chance of surviving unless you can basically convince her your reason for saying what you did had nothing to do with the way she looks. |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 1:14 PM Author: pea-brained salmon corn cake candlestick maker the problem is that she looks fat right now. she can fix that by watching what she eats (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321250) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:26 PM Author: emerald impertinent puppy why? this girl was in control from the beginning. OP just hastened the inevitable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14322075) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 1:15 PM Author: razzle-dazzle business firm why are you dating a fat woman? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14321257) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:30 PM Author: idiotic hunting ground finances
Maybe if you could read you wouldn't have gotten lathamed. |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:33 PM Author: sepia shivering gaming laptop mexican To be fair, just click EDIT and change what you said. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14322144) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:48 PM Author: Lime Electric Legal Warrant Why are you even with her to begin with? Hit it and quit it. The fact that you are worried about the fact she may leave you shows you are weak. Man up dood. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14322277) |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:51 PM Author: Vivacious step-uncle's house When she asks what you have to say for yourself, you have two options:
1. I did it for teh lulz
2. DAT GREY POUUUPPONNNN1!!!111 |
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Date: March 7th, 2010 2:53 PM Author: Misanthropic Zippy Voyeur She's using you for sex and you're using her for money. How does it feel to be a bitch? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1243541&forum_id=2#14322309) |