I am an incredible writer.

I spend most of the day daydreaming about girls and planning how to succeed with my current romantic pursuits.

Most of my evening leisure time, and I value it tremendously, is spent going out with girls I'm dating or trying to meet new girls with my buddies. I also enjoy spending time with my parents and extended family.

I grew up and live in New York. I don't want a fancy car or a Park Avenue palace, but I would like a decent apartment and to be able to go out (to restaurants and bars) as much as I want. In a perfect world, I would go out to eat 3-4 nights a week and cook the rest.

I'd also like to be able to take one "overseas" vacation a year and a bunch of smaller weekend road trips.

I also place tremendous importance on taking care of myself. I either go to the gym or run every single day. I also go for a swim and sauna several times a week.

Please advise what someone with my tastes and priorities should pursue. TYIA. Serious responses sincerely appreciated.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332233)

I am an incredible writer.

I spend most of the day daydreaming about girls and planning how to succeeding with my current romantic pursuits.

FAIL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332241)

I caught it before you did too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332261)

except for the incredible writer part.

oh and the man part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332251)

I'm not bullshitting here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332254)

Low stress, could be a little boring, but they pay isn't bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332380)

"I like to do nothing and eat good food and take vacations and have sex with girls. Please tell me what I should do with my life."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332276)

5'10", 160 lbs.

Ash brown hair, brown eyes.

50-50 Western European/South American mix, but my Mediterranean nose makes me look incredibly Jewish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332316)

>5'10

http://images.clipartof.com/small/22171-Clipart-Illustration-Of-A-Yellow-Emoticon-Face-Laughing-Really-Hard.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332323)

lulz. Wouldn't you write, then?

God damn it this flame makes me want to slap a baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332329)

anyway, post some of your writing so we can evaluate your writing ability.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332554)

This is not really a great career trajectory IMO. You waste your productive years. You will probably never be able to afford a family in NYC. But I think it does mostly allow you to have the lifestyle you want.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332567)

The thing is, I do want a family in New York...eventually. That's precisely why I want to live out this dream while I still can. I know my philosophy may seem a little counterintuitive, but I know myself and know this is what I want to do first.

I also don't think doing so would disqualify me from raising a family in New York in the future. I'm not at all independently wealthy but I think I could make it happen. I may not send my kids off to private school or have money in the bank for college, but I don't agree with the notion that a select few careers (namely the type that take years of positioning/education to achieve) are the sole way to provide for a family in New York. Thoughts?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332686)

Maybe a bit of hyperbole regarding family. If your wife has a decent job it's obviously not impossible for an NYC teacher to have kids. I wouldn't enjoy that situation. Again, you won't have the nest egg that people typically build up before settling down, assuming you plan on getting married soon after finishing your years of laziness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14332889)

The closest thing I could think of would be some kind of government work. You will work with frustrated people in a depressing office, but you'll "leave it behind" at the end of the day. You'll be able to afford a modest place in Queens or Yonkers or something and you'll have stability, short hours and vacation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1244743&forum_id=2#14333034)