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best place for meeting women (no bars/clubs)

Mid-20s, single guy living in MFH. I hate bars and clubs. ...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
Whole foods, dog parks
diverse goyim senate
  05/07/12
really cutting yourself off at the knees here breh
Talented Mentally Impaired Sneaky Criminal
  05/07/12
i just hate bars, man.
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
Get better drugs
Lascivious house death wish
  05/07/12
bars are awesome. i agree clubs kind of suck.
Talented Mentally Impaired Sneaky Criminal
  05/07/12
kill yourself, you fucking moron
Turquoise anal kitchen
  05/07/12
why u so mad?
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
your ? sucked gtfo
Turquoise anal kitchen
  05/07/12
what's wrong with not liking to go to bars?
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
you added no online dating on top of that. ? sucks be...
Turquoise anal kitchen
  05/07/12
well if i'm doing online dating or going to bars then i woul...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
Haha
Lascivious house death wish
  05/07/12
through friends
Filthy school factory reset button
  05/07/12
my friends seem pretty useless in this regard.
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
don't they have birthday parties? you can meet people throu...
Filthy school factory reset button
  05/07/12
they tend to invite people that i already know.
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
...
drunken jet-lagged theater kitty cat
  05/07/12
Yoga. If you can get past the gay thing.
Boyish bright center chad
  05/07/12
that seems like a lot of work; i'd rather just do online dat...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
Are you busy or just lazy?
Boyish bright center chad
  05/07/12
i work about 55-65 hours a week; i guess i'm just lazy.
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
xoxohth
Contagious nibblets
  05/07/12
Church
Jet fragrant set
  05/07/12
non-religious.
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
you could say intramural sports but those are drinking clubs...
Turquoise anal kitchen
  05/07/12
russian facebook. most girls talk to me as long as i post a ...
citrine lay boistinker
  05/07/12
what the hell is that?
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
i just talked to a model from moscow for about 2hrs. she tel...
citrine lay boistinker
  05/07/12
dang dude, you are really limiting yourself from things that...
Arrogant impressive indian lodge
  05/07/12
i'm as agnostic as one can get so church is not an option. ...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
no idea, never gone to a meetup.com thing, but once I was at...
Arrogant impressive indian lodge
  05/07/12
grab a few friends and go to recurring interesting clubs fou...
geriatric church pocket flask
  05/07/12
do attractive/date-worthy girls join meetup or is that only ...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
my impression is that it's a lot of olds and undesirable wom...
Lascivious house death wish
  05/07/12
that's my suspicion as well.
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
what kind of meetup.com groups are you going to check out?
Lascivious house death wish
  05/07/12
Your welcome in advance, brah http://www.meetup.com/Young...
Arrogant impressive indian lodge
  05/07/12
dood that is 180. Now help me find one of these groups in T...
Lascivious house death wish
  05/07/12
lol just found one : http://www.meetup.com/photonaturals/ ...
Lascivious house death wish
  05/07/12
yeah probably wouldn't roll the dice on that one, hoping tha...
Arrogant impressive indian lodge
  05/07/12
Chili cook-offs IBS support groups Vegan restaurants
Vivacious drab stag film
  05/07/12
i don't see why you wouldn't try on-line. at least you can ...
crawly cerebral french chef
  05/07/12
the whole messaging back and forth thing sounds quite time c...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
your options are limited. this is among the better ones.
crawly cerebral french chef
  05/07/12
what are the credited sites? okcupid?
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
Yup. Make a funny profile. Message chicks while you poast on...
Plum Telephone Principal's Office
  05/07/12
OKC actually has a really credited guide for profile creatio...
Boyish bright center chad
  05/07/12
depends what you're looking for. i think match is the call....
crawly cerebral french chef
  05/07/12
yeah but i dont want to pay 20 bucks a month.
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
my response rate was definitely lower than 20%. I finally qu...
Arrogant impressive indian lodge
  05/07/12
i get about 90% response rate on russian facebook. and i onl...
citrine lay boistinker
  05/07/12
Subtract your XO time by 30 minutes each day. Seek women ...
Boyish bright center chad
  05/07/12
are girls on free sites like okcupid serious about dating? i...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
eHarmony is garbage. Match is how I met BFdood. I support...
Boyish bright center chad
  05/07/12
yeah, i don't to be sending girls messages just to inflate t...
Flickering Home Foreskin
  05/07/12
Also, it really doesn't take that much effort. Guys who send...
Boyish bright center chad
  05/07/12
cactp I missed you man.
Plum Telephone Principal's Office
  05/07/12
Hey!
Boyish bright center chad
  05/07/12
Go to bed bath and beyond on a weekday afternoon. TONS of m...
Tripping Hairy Legs Indirect Expression
  05/07/12
lol I think they are just tryin to cop dem 500+ thread count...
Lascivious house death wish
  05/07/12
Fuckbook. It's like the Facebook of sex.
supple scourge upon the earth brunch
  05/07/12
You can try things like museums, bookstores, etc. But rea...
copper laser beams depressive
  05/07/12


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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:51 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

Mid-20s, single guy living in MFH. I hate bars and clubs. Where do I go to meet women?

*No online dating either - too much work to message tons of girls back and forth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637081)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:52 PM
Author: diverse goyim senate

Whole foods, dog parks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637082)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:52 PM
Author: Talented Mentally Impaired Sneaky Criminal

really cutting yourself off at the knees here breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637086)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

i just hate bars, man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637094)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM
Author: Lascivious house death wish

Get better drugs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637105)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM
Author: Talented Mentally Impaired Sneaky Criminal

bars are awesome. i agree clubs kind of suck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637106)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:53 PM
Author: Turquoise anal kitchen

kill yourself, you fucking moron

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637089)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

why u so mad?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637093)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM
Author: Turquoise anal kitchen

your ? sucked

gtfo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637116)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

what's wrong with not liking to go to bars?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637121)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:58 PM
Author: Turquoise anal kitchen

you added no online dating on top of that.

? sucks because youre throwing out all these dumb preconditions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637132)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

well if i'm doing online dating or going to bars then i wouldn't need to ask you guys where to meet women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637171)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM
Author: Lascivious house death wish

Haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637098)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:53 PM
Author: Filthy school factory reset button

through friends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637090)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

my friends seem pretty useless in this regard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637101)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:13 PM
Author: Filthy school factory reset button

don't they have birthday parties? you can meet people through them there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637227)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:05 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

they tend to invite people that i already know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637561)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:59 PM
Author: drunken jet-lagged theater kitty cat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637140)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM
Author: Boyish bright center chad

Yoga. If you can get past the gay thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637102)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

that seems like a lot of work; i'd rather just do online dating than sign up for yoga.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637115)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:58 PM
Author: Boyish bright center chad

Are you busy or just lazy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637129)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:03 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

i work about 55-65 hours a week; i guess i'm just lazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637160)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:55 PM
Author: Contagious nibblets

xoxohth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637110)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:57 PM
Author: Jet fragrant set

Church

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637126)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:03 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

non-religious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637163)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:59 PM
Author: Turquoise anal kitchen

you could say intramural sports but those are drinking clubs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637144)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:04 PM
Author: citrine lay boistinker

russian facebook. most girls talk to me as long as i post a normal photo and dont write something like "i want to cumb on ur face bitch".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637169)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

what the hell is that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637173)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:06 PM
Author: citrine lay boistinker

i just talked to a model from moscow for about 2hrs. she tells me that if i insist that i am not gona rape her when she comes here then i probably will.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637184)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM
Author: Arrogant impressive indian lodge

dang dude, you are really limiting yourself from things that many people do to meet dating mates.

I'd say intramural, some kind of meetup.com activity that interests you, or a church with a large young adult population.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637176)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

i'm as agnostic as one can get so church is not an option.

what kind of girls do meetup.com?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637187)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:09 PM
Author: Arrogant impressive indian lodge

no idea, never gone to a meetup.com thing, but once I was at the lake and saw a meetup.com group renting a huge pontoon boat. We drove by them later, and they were partying their asses off, puking off the boat, grilling out, multiple kegs of beer, etc. Fair amount of aspies and weirdos, but they looked to be having fun. We tied up to them for a while, girl on the boat told me that most of them had never met each other before.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637197)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM
Author: geriatric church pocket flask

grab a few friends and go to recurring interesting clubs found on meetup.com. That's my plan in a few months

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637185)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

do attractive/date-worthy girls join meetup or is that only for losers like us?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637188)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:09 PM
Author: Lascivious house death wish

my impression is that it's a lot of olds and undesirable women. :-/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637198)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

that's my suspicion as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637208)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:09 PM
Author: Lascivious house death wish

what kind of meetup.com groups are you going to check out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637195)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM
Author: Arrogant impressive indian lodge

Your welcome in advance, brah

http://www.meetup.com/Young-Naturists-Nudist-meetp-group/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637212)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:12 PM
Author: Lascivious house death wish

dood that is 180. Now help me find one of these groups in The Sf bay area

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637217)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:14 PM
Author: Lascivious house death wish

lol just found one : http://www.meetup.com/photonaturals/

I looked at the past events and every single person who RSVPD was a dood. not even 1 woman. lolol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637233)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:20 PM
Author: Arrogant impressive indian lodge

yeah probably wouldn't roll the dice on that one, hoping that chicks show up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637263)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM
Author: Vivacious drab stag film

Chili cook-offs

IBS support groups

Vegan restaurants

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637206)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:12 PM
Author: crawly cerebral french chef

i don't see why you wouldn't try on-line. at least you can be selective. meetup.com is completely luck of the draw on whether any decent will women will be involved - sure, they will share a common interest, but that's irrelevant if you're not attracted to them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637220)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:13 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

the whole messaging back and forth thing sounds quite time consuming. plus, i heard that most guys only get about a 20% response rate; that's a lot of messages to send out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637229)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:16 PM
Author: crawly cerebral french chef

your options are limited. this is among the better ones.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637245)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:32 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

what are the credited sites? okcupid?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637325)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:51 PM
Author: Plum Telephone Principal's Office

Yup. Make a funny profile. Message chicks while you poast on xo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637455)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:54 PM
Author: Boyish bright center chad

OKC actually has a really credited guide for profile creation. Even though I like Match better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637472)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:56 PM
Author: crawly cerebral french chef

depends what you're looking for. i think match is the call. okc girls are flaky and want to date around plus there's more competition. girls on match are looking more for relationships and care more about stuff like age, job, etc. (i suspect this bodes well for you compared to the alternative)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637491)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:17 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

yeah but i dont want to pay 20 bucks a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637666)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:16 PM
Author: Arrogant impressive indian lodge

my response rate was definitely lower than 20%. I finally quit match.com. Seemed hopeless even after snagging a few dates (most of who contacted me).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637247)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:17 PM
Author: citrine lay boistinker

i get about 90% response rate on russian facebook. and i only message girls that look 8+.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637252)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:19 PM
Author: Boyish bright center chad

Subtract your XO time by 30 minutes each day.

Seek women during those 30 minutes each day.

The commitment level is quite low and you are living in the best place in the world to find an attractive, employed, somewhat normal to quite normal woman online.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637260)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:33 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

are girls on free sites like okcupid serious about dating? i dont want to pay for match.com or eharmony.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637338)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:37 PM
Author: Boyish bright center chad

eHarmony is garbage.

Match is how I met BFdood. I support paying money for good leads.

OKC is the way to go if you just want to meet people and aren't really looking for anything serious. Due to its low requirements, it draws in flakier people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637359)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:40 PM
Author: Flickering Home Foreskin

yeah, i don't to be sending girls messages just to inflate their egos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637375)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:43 PM
Author: Boyish bright center chad

Also, it really doesn't take that much effort. Guys who send long, involved messages are annoying. You just get in there, say hi, mention one thing about her profile, then tell her to get back to you if interested. Then, if she does get back to you, ask a follow-up Q. Next, she'll answer that, and if it seems to be positive or she wants to know about you, too, take it to phone call or meeting up in a cafe territory.

The point isn't to be stuck in e-mail message hell for weeks. The point is to meet people without having to try very hard and determine if you like them based on pre-determined criteria that matched you in some way.

Give it a try. If you hate it, the loss will not be immense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637403)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:52 PM
Author: Plum Telephone Principal's Office

cactp I missed you man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637467)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:53 PM
Author: Boyish bright center chad

Hey!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637468)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:41 PM
Author: Tripping Hairy Legs Indirect Expression

Go to bed bath and beyond on a weekday afternoon. TONS of milfs strolling for some cock.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637387)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:43 PM
Author: Lascivious house death wish

lol I think they are just tryin to cop dem 500+ thread count sheets man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637398)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:56 PM
Author: supple scourge upon the earth brunch

Fuckbook. It's like the Facebook of sex.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637492)



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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:25 PM
Author: copper laser beams depressive

You can try things like museums, bookstores, etc.

But really, for a single dood in his mid-20s, OKC and meeting through friends are the only credited calls.

OKC: Super easy to set up a profile, free, and if you aren't a total idiot/aspie and have some idea of how to talk to women, you'll get a response rate well above 20%. I'm not incredibly good looking (6.5, maybe 7 at best) and I had a response rate of around 40-50%+ when I was in DC. You do not need to spend tons of time messaging back and forth. (If you're doing that, you're doing this wrong.) Send short, simple messages that mention something you found interesting in the person's profile and asking them about it.

Meeting through friends: arrange dinner party/potluck type things with your friends, encourage them to invite friends from work, profit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637743)