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Do you judge a girl by her friends?
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:08 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican Like say she's a hot, nice, classy, non-slutty, smart chick. But her friends are all very different. Like some are also hot, but some are fat. Some dress very classy like her, but some dress like hipsters or like Marisa Tomei in My Cousin Vinny.
Massive red flag? |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:12 PM Author: Sable resort dysfunction I don't think so. Girls can have a wide variety of friends. I know some girls that are hot hang out with a bunch of hot girls, some are hot and have a varied group of hot/not so hot. What really concerns me are girls that don't have any friends, or their relationships with the friends they do have are extremely superficial. Big red flag that YOU are going to be the most important friend she has, which is good when the girl has other friends, but awful when she has no other friends at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476029) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:15 PM Author: pale hissy fit Agreed re: girls that don't have any friends.
I think the issue with a girl above is that if she's so nice and 'classy', why is she hanging out with girls who aren't classy (like marisa tomei in my cousin vinny). Imagine a pretty, classy, nice girl who has among her best friends some white trash chick with a tramp stamp and a staten island JAP. Massive red flag. Like what kind of person is she really - makes me think she's not really that nice or classy.
Classy girls are nice to everyone, but will be very discriminating about who they actually are friends with. |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:19 PM Author: Sable resort dysfunction Hmmm, tough call. Wonder if the same applies for guys.
I think I'm a class act but I hang out with some rougher around the edge kind of dudes. They're not all professional lawyers and doctors and accountants.
I don't know. I don't mind a chick who has a couple friends like that personally. |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:20 PM Author: pale hissy fit What wouldn't you mind about this kind of girl?
Other than having no friends or no female friends, this is pretty much the worst because it shows that she's really not as quality as she presents herself on the outside. |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:32 PM Author: Sable resort dysfunction Just doesn't bother me that much if the chick has a fucked up friend. It's not always a total reflection on the chick herself in my opinion. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476192) |
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Date: January 26th, 2013 1:50 PM Author: Concupiscible light water buffalo STFU OTR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22507671) |
Date: January 21st, 2013 2:13 PM Author: mischievous candlestick maker coldplay fan lack of y chromosome is the first and major red flag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476039) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:26 PM Author: Offensive Submissive Hospital interesting. you don't trust girls that don't have male friends? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476143) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:34 PM Author: mischievous candlestick maker coldplay fan no i mean i dont like women at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476207) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:21 PM Author: demanding volcanic crater juggernaut having a variety of "types" of female friends is fine. In fact, it's probably better than only hanging out wtih one type of chick.
The big red flag I've found is when girls do not maintain any friendships from HS/college, or basically just permanently drop all of their old friends when they move to a new place. |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:22 PM Author: pale hissy fit "In fact, it's probably better than only hanging out wtih one type of chick."
In what way? Say you have one of these classy southern belles who just take you aback by virtue of their class and beauty. Could you imagine someone like this being friends with some white trash chick from Henderson, NV? Or some trashy, big-haired Jersey Shore type? |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:25 PM Author: demanding volcanic crater juggernaut I think its cool to have different types of friends. Trust me, I am friends with plenty of southern belle types, and while I adore these types, when they get together as a group they are all the same. having some hipster chick friends or even some redneck friends shows that the girl is open to different types of people and probably not as boring as some of the chicks with 100% friends of the same "genre" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476134) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:27 PM Author: henna rigpig messiness agreed. the big red flag for me is girls who say they don't get along with other girls and hang out as "one of the guys" instead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476144) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:29 PM Author: demanding volcanic crater juggernaut this too is a red flag. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476156) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:28 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican I think it's cool to have different types of friends too, because it means that you can get along with different kinds of people. But there's a limit to this. I just can't see what some classy southern belle would have in common with people who are such trash.
Although I don't think hipsters are trash. I'm thinking more of the kinds of chicks who are either significantly less attractive or have something about them that makes them not classy. Just shows the girl is a lot less classy than the girl who is friends with exclusively other classy girls. |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:30 PM Author: demanding volcanic crater juggernaut maybe they were BFFs in HS and took separate paths once they hit college? Its still cool with me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476165) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:31 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican What if they weren't? Like what if they met when the girl graduated from college and moved away to the big city and that was the first friend she made, or if the two of them just met like through church or work and liked each other's company? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476174) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:34 PM Author: demanding volcanic crater juggernaut its cool man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476206) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:37 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican Why do you feel this way? You seem like a chill Southern bro who has good taste in chicks. Assuming attraction is held constant, what makes a girl who's friends with a wide variety of people (even some who are trashy or other bad demographics) better than a girl who is friends with all of the same kinds of people? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476235) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:39 PM Author: demanding volcanic crater juggernaut I'm not going to say that they are better or anything. There are some fine girls who only hang out with other girls like them. It's just a preference that I have, because I have a pretty diverse group of friends myself, many of whom probably wouldn't hang normally out with each other. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476250) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:32 PM Author: henna rigpig messiness i'd be more concerned if she only hung out with chicks as attractive as her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476183) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:38 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican What's concerning about a hot chick who is friends with a bunch of other hot chicks? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476241) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:39 PM Author: henna rigpig messiness hot chicks who only want to hang out with other hot chicks seem snobby and stuck up. good for a p&d, but not rel'p worthy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476251) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:44 PM Author: pale hissy fit Funny. I think it's just the opposite. Classy hot chicks who only want to hang out with other classy hot chicks or will only bring their classy hot chick friends around potential BFs are quality. Hot chicks who have some unattractive or less classy friends are the P&D types. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476293) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:47 PM Author: henna rigpig messiness i guess i like a girl who is hot but doesn't really know it or care. if she's conscious to the extent that she discriminates her friendships by hotness, something is off. i'd gladly fuck her and her hot friends too, but i'd worry about that sort of shallowness in a relp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476319) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:52 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican A girl who exhibits true class and true character is not going to be the kind of girl who would be friends with girls who dress all trashy, have offensive accents, look cheap, act classless (loud, obnoxious) and so on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476355) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:53 PM Author: demanding volcanic crater juggernaut what if she is just a cool chick who doesn't GAF (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476364) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 3:00 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican Undatable. There are certain things, namely character, which a person must give a fuck about. A girl who doesn't give a fuck about the true character of other people yet is friends with them anyway is straight-up P&D.
I don't know any breh who would date seriously the "cool chick who doesn't GAF" and I know a lot of brehs. Although these girls are the best for a P&D. |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 3:02 PM Author: henna rigpig messiness agree with you on character. before you were talking about them being "significantly less attractive." wtf does that have to do with character. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476418) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 3:18 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican It's not just being less attractive. I'm talking about girls who are just trashier. What if you met a girl who was nice, pretty, normal-seeming, from a good family who looked like she could be in the best sorority at an SEC school, and then you met one of her closest friends and she looked straight out of some trash hole, spoke with some hideous accent, and was just not the kind of demographic you'd want your children to associate with.
You can be unattractive and still be classy. |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 3:25 PM Author: pale hissy fit Well said. Having some unattractive friends who still come from solid families and have good values are fine. Having friends who are just really worthless people, regardless of attractiveness, is SPS and a massive red flag.
Like think of this: in high school, which chick is the one you want to date assuming equal attractiveness? The high school cheerleading captain who's friends with all of the other hot chicks and only the hot chicks, or the girl who is friends with some of those girls, but also friends with the math dorks who read scifi, the drama hipsters, the white trash kids from the wrong side of the tracks, the niggers who get bussed in from the ghetto, the token handicapped kid, the fags, and so on? The first girl just has much stronger character than the second, that's why she chooses higher quality friends. |
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Date: January 22nd, 2013 2:31 AM Author: Concupiscible light water buffalo You are 100% a faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22480910) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:55 PM Author: henna rigpig messiness agree to disagree (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476372) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:50 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican You've got it backwards, my friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476340) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:34 PM Author: Sable resort dysfunction I also don't necessarily think it's the type of friend in all situations. A lot of it has to do with how the girl behaves when around certain people. If she always acts the same then she's probably still quality. If she acts like a tramp when she's out with one of her tramp friends, different story. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476203) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 2:43 PM Author: pale hissy fit I can understand why someone can have a lot of different kinds of friends, especially if they are from grade school or church or some other activity which collects a bunch of people from different backgrounds.
But people usually segregate their friends. We have our hometown friends, our law school friends, our college fraternity friends, and so on. A quality chick would be embarrassed as all hell to introduce a new potential BF to her white trash college roommate or that J-Woww type girl from the summer share house even if she's good friends with both. |
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Date: January 22nd, 2013 2:33 AM Author: Concupiscible light water buffalo Protip: Your drivel ITT about "classy"/"quality" girls versus "trashy" ones reveals you as a classless prole trying way too hard to hide his roots. Truly classy people aren't obsessed with status like you obviously are.
Sorry about your <>noclass<> <><><>neverwillhaveclass<><><> |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 7:14 PM Author: carnelian selfie mexican This is a good point too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22478319) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2013 3:01 AM Author: Thirsty Becky "The big red flag I've found is when girls do not maintain any friendships from HS/college, or basically just permanently drop all of their old friends when they move to a new place."
Totally agree with this. Women who move from one stage of life to the next and only retain one or no friends at all are damaged and weird as fuck 99% of the time. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2019 2:55 AM Author: bright slap-happy generalized bond main people My wife is in that 1% and i love it. Her friends have all become shrews (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#38327040) |
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Date: January 21st, 2013 3:01 PM Author: Gay personal credit line cruise ship i dont know about you guys but I'd strongly prefer a chick without any friends who spends all her time around me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22476408) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2013 2:33 AM Author: Lake fortuitous meteor step-uncle's house yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22480922) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2013 2:57 AM Author: Thirsty Becky not really, because everyone gets stuck with weird friends or people change over time. it's hard to get a sense of what forged the friendship or how the person may have been.
i do judge hard, however, if she doesn't have at least a decent sized group of close friends that she sees regularly. college and high school friends she's "close with" but only talks to online and through facebook or whatever don't count. a woman who doesn't have a number of female friends that she sees regularly and enjoys doing stuff with almost always has problems and issues. |
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Date: January 26th, 2013 1:22 PM Author: Concupiscible light water buffalo OTR is trolling hard this week (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#22507493) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2019 2:52 AM Author: Concupiscible light water buffalo OTR bump (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2165119&forum_id=2#38327036) |