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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
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Ruby Nowag Patrolman
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab
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submissive senate psychic
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pearl provocative rigpig
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
supple stag film
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
supple stag film
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Ruby Nowag Patrolman
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
supple stag film
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
Ruby Nowag Patrolman
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supple stag film
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your feet were too small
supple stag film
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I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
supple stag film
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab
  01/20/17
LOL
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
pearly titillating set personal credit line
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rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
I understand
Curious station friendly grandma
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
talented nibblets
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comical shimmering dragon pozpig
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
irate heaven police squad
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rebellious mahogany locus
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Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab
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cerebral ivory step-uncle's house death wish
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Mods
Galvanic Ultramarine Volcanic Crater
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
supple stag film
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
supple stag film
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
Judgmental hissy fit forum
  01/20/17
bad post
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
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Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab
  01/20/17
good poast
Gold Metal Resort Depressive
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
pearly titillating set personal credit line
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
sienna bespoke crotch preventive strike
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
rebellious mahogany locus
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
sienna bespoke crotch preventive strike
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab
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Cyan Lascivious Electric Furnace
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this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Ruby Nowag Patrolman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: submissive senate psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: pearl provocative rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: supple stag film

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: supple stag film

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Ruby Nowag Patrolman

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: supple stag film

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Ruby Nowag Patrolman

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: supple stag film



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: supple stag film

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: supple stag film

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: pearly titillating set personal credit line

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Curious station friendly grandma

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: talented nibblets

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: comical shimmering dragon pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: irate heaven police squad

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: cerebral ivory step-uncle's house death wish



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Galvanic Ultramarine Volcanic Crater

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: supple stag film

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: supple stag film

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Judgmental hissy fit forum

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Gold Metal Resort Depressive

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: pearly titillating set personal credit line

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: sienna bespoke crotch preventive strike

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: rebellious mahogany locus

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: sienna bespoke crotch preventive strike

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: pearly titillating set personal credit line

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Swashbuckling Sound Barrier Rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Cyan Lascivious Electric Furnace



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Contagious Sticky Base Mother

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: pearly titillating set personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: razzle jet-lagged indian lodge jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Ruby Nowag Patrolman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#33468287)