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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:04 PM Author: Garnet Plaza You know a girl and that girl is hooking up with a guy she is obsessed with but he’susing her for sex.
The girl breaks it off with him bc he’s using her and hooks up with you and you’re hanging out getting feelings for each other. Hanging every night etc. She tells you she’s done with the guy.
She then fucks the guy again and doesn’t tell you. She asks him to be official and he laughs and says “I’m just here to fuck.” Then she breaks it off again with him. You find out and confront her. Her reply is “I was so confused between you and him but now I’m not anymore and I want to be official with you now.”
Would you give the relationship a shot or tell her to fuck off?
EDIT: This is not to debate whether it’s cheating, it obviously isn’t. I just want to know if you would give it a shot. |
Date: September 4th, 2020 2:06 PM Author: abusive base it's cucked to have further contact with her. that may not be a problem for you depending on your intellect |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:55 PM Author: Garnet Plaza Explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870079) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 3:48 PM Author: Lime legal warrant spot if you are prone to being easily manipulated you won't care (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870322) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:56 PM Author: Rusted rough-skinned tattoo garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870088) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 9:22 AM Author: Carnelian metal indian lodge organic girlfriend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873439) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:07 PM Author: effete dog poop ladyboy If I have zero self respect I propose marriage.
If I have a shred of it I find another woman. |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:15 AM Author: crusty snowy bawdyhouse Why not “use” her for sex like he did? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872798) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:27 AM Author: Garnet Plaza See below. We’re married with a kid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872849) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:08 PM Author: Chocolate soul-stirring cruise ship place of business Proclaim total devotion to her and offer a one-way open relationship where she can still hook up with the other guy but only if you can watch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40869794) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 4:25 PM Author: Supple karate library Doesn't sound like he has that kind of negotiating power. Just tell her she can see whomever she wants and that he will always be waiting at the front door in his cock cage, ready for cleanup duty when she gets home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870487) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 7:50 PM Author: Garnet Plaza What (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871578) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 11:52 AM Author: Supple karate library ESL? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873845) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:09 PM Author: ungodly brindle gas station you obviously caught feelings, so might as well ride it out.
but keep in mind that this is evidence of poor judgment on her part. you are too infatuated with her to see other lapses of judgment for what they are now, but once the novelty wears off, you will realize she's not someone you would want as your long term partner. hth. |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 8:15 PM Author: Garnet Plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871663) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:09 PM Author: Medicated Pozpig “See this sandwich? Now imagine this sandwich is Chad’s sandwich.. “ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40869804) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:10 PM Author: ocher judgmental elastic band cr is to string her along until she's 30 and then dump (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40869810) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:56 PM Author: Garnet Plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870086) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:58 PM Author: Razzmatazz ivory house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870099) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 3:56 PM Author: scarlet motley ape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870357) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 7:44 PM Author: Garnet Plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871548) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 12:12 AM Author: mind-boggling self-absorbed resort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872556) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 2:21 AM Author: Amber gaped alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873006) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 11:56 AM Author: Outnumbered Nofapping Toilet Seat destroy pussy with giant dildos and fist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873874) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:43 PM Author: crusty snowy bawdyhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40874330) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:43 PM Author: crusty snowy bawdyhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40874331) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:11 PM Author: chartreuse electric blood rage lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40869816) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:28 PM Author: Garnet Plaza What’s so funny? I’m sure this is pretty common especially since women hold the cards early on in their adult life. They can pretty much fuck whoever they want. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40869906) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 4:09 PM Author: chartreuse electric blood rage Never get into a relationship with a woman who is pining after someone else. The second you like a woman more than she likes you it’s over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870398) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 5:52 PM Author: Garnet Plaza Assume she ends up loving me, did I win? Or am I still joe jerkoff? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870900) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:19 AM Author: chartreuse electric blood rage I’m willing to play along but don’t get greedy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872816) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:25 AM Author: Garnet Plaza I’m not at all. I mean if she falls in love and we get married. Can I call that a “win” or do I look at this guy as the winner bc he got to fuck her (and she wanted him) without having to even do anything.
Strange fact: one night he fucked her and bragged the next day how SHE paid for both of their cabs back to the apartments. Meanwhile I was paying for everything for her when we began hooking up. |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:11 PM Author: Titillating translucent set as long as you BOTH are in high school, you can roll with it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40869817) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:45 PM Author: Garnet Plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870003) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:58 PM Author: beady-eyed cyan community account ljl at the harrowing state of millennial sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870098) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 2:58 PM Author: Umber Nursing Home Yarmulke Why wouldn't you? Do you not trust her? Why are you being a disgusting controlling MAGA hitler and not respecting a woman's right to be with who she wants when, as you admit, you weren't exclusive?
Your insecurity is really showing here. It's no surprise she didn't ask your incel basement dwelling to be exclusive first. |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 3:00 PM Author: swashbuckling crackhouse stock car is she objectively high value (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870108) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 3:01 PM Author: adulterous goal in life point didn't read but the CR is probably to jerk off and then refocus your energies on something more worthwhile than a nasty slimepit that is invariably attached to some mouthy bitch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870112) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 3:04 PM Author: Garnet Plaza Explain, would you marry and have a kid with that person? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870123) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 9:27 AM Author: Flesh sinister double fault market PN is a 350lb indian loser than women are repulsed by. That fat turd will never get his dick wet. He's also a miscreant and a mental patient, I wouldn't listen to his advice. LOL at what a cuck you are though. How is this even a question? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873464) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 3:49 PM Author: Lime legal warrant spot bench her, meet another woman or two and see how she reacts. If you both accept your shitty ways then you have chemistry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870326) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 3:57 PM Author: scarlet motley ape this is pretty much the plot of Season 1 of You on Netflix
just kill beck's boyfriend and date her for a bit and then let your rage build up before locking her in a glass cage and finishing her off too |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 4:14 PM Author: concupiscible massive bbw jew So she claims she's done w other guy, then fucks other guy, then WANTS A RELATIONSHIP with other guy (who says no), then only when you found out claims that she was torn between you even though she HAD both of you at one time and still chose other guy? Do you not see the problem here? She wasn't torn. She wanted him. He said no. Now she's left with you. You're sloppy seconds. It's only a matter of time before she gets eyes for someone else. Move on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870418) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 4:48 PM Author: Garnet Plaza It’s not like this at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870604) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 5:57 PM Author: concupiscible massive bbw jew Pretty sure it's EXACTLY like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870928) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 6:02 PM Author: Garnet Plaza Assume we become in love and what you said about her getting eyes for someone else doesn’t happen. Did I win here or am I still a loser? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40870957) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:17 AM Author: amethyst misunderstood office That will only happen if she becomes fat or something (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872804) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 4:23 PM Author: Low-t Elite Dysfunction Gay Wizard step 1: place phone in her hand pre-dialed to 911 step 2: have her lay back and enjoy, she doesn't have to say anything (except telling you what she wants of course!) step 3: eat her out, preferably by following the guide on her myspace which has been there for a year |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 6:14 PM Author: cobalt friendly grandma Hardline rule: if a chick fucks someone else after even one date with you, she is trash/has no respect for you and it's best to move on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871037) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 7:29 PM Author: Garnet Plaza TWIST: I married this woman and now in my mid 30’s it still eats away at me every second. DO NOT do this. Even though she has been loyal since, I still feel like a low level beta and I feel like a horrible father. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871476) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 12:25 AM Author: mind-boggling self-absorbed resort not flame this could have been me, but I strung her a long for four years after I found out and ruined her prime. You can salvage this by cheating on her every chance you get and by being a shitty husband (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872609) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:03 AM Author: cobalt friendly grandma Sorry man. The reason it eats at you is because it's an untenable situation. You were her second choice at the time and there's no way to rewrite that. The best you could have done was fuck some other chicks to create a window for rationalization, but that's a shitty way to start a relationship.
My gf, who I'm going to marry, told me she wanted to be with me "forever" on like our fourth date. I told her that sounded pretty serious and gave her a subtle out to walk it back if it had just slipped out, but she doubled down and seemed very confident. I made her my gf right then and there and it was a great decision.
Picking a wife is like hiring an employee--you go with the one who affirmatively asks for the job. |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:13 AM Author: Garnet Plaza Dude that’s a great way to put it. I can’t go back in time and you want to marry the person who wanted you I guess. My only option now is to cheat. I’m not stupid. I know that’s the only option. But I love my son and I won’t cheat. So my blood pressure is going to just go through the roof every night I guess. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872790) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:20 AM Author: amethyst misunderstood office If you really loved her you wouldn't care. You would love her unconditionally. It sounds cheesy but that's the truth. If you want to personally get over this guy (which btw is purely YOUR emotional issue and not actually a real TANGIBLE problem that begs for a solution), you just need to find him IRL and beat the shit out of him. Make sure she is with you, or capture it on videotape to show her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872819) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:23 AM Author: Garnet Plaza I know you’re joking but dead serious me and him got into a little scuffle in a crowded bar a few months after me and her started dating officially. We were both hammered and I got in his face jokingly after she just hugged him help and then he pushed me joking and I slipped and fell and the whole bar yelled, “ohhhhhhhhhhhh” for a good minute. Most embarrassing moment of my life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872826) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 2:24 AM Author: Amber gaped alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873008) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 6:35 PM Author: geriatric histrionic dilemma brethren only way to salvage this is to use her for sex til she gets fed up with you and finds some guy even more beta who she tells that she's done with you. when she comes back to fuck you and ask if you want a relationship, then you should consider. but don't stop dating other girls in the meantime (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871154) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 6:36 PM Author: Bearded Hell ATD (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871160) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 7:52 PM Author: appetizing area ran here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871586) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 7:40 PM Author: Garnet Plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871519) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 8:38 PM Author: racy theater coffee pot lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871733) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 8:39 PM Author: Garnet Plaza I always respect your opinion, what do you think about this debacle? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40871737) |
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Date: September 4th, 2020 11:51 PM Author: Garnet Plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872481) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 12:15 AM Author: violent adventurous rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872567) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 12:26 AM Author: Red old irish cottage windowlicker this is a tough one. it's definitely not cheating, so you can't hold it against her. might as well give it a shot and give her a chance to love you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872614) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:11 AM Author: Garnet Plaza I did. I married her and we just had our first kid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872783) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:12 AM Author: Red old irish cottage windowlicker that's 180. does this situation still bother you? has she ever brought his name up during arguments? like "RON would never do this" etc? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872787) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:15 AM Author: Garnet Plaza No the problem is that since that moment she’s been 180 to the point you wouldn’t believe. As if she knows the fucked up really bad and was 100% on her best behavior. But it still eats at me every single day and night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872794) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:16 AM Author: Red old irish cottage windowlicker can you describe anything about it in particular that really drives you insane? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872800) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:17 AM Author: Garnet Plaza Sure. You’re always going to be the girl’s backup plan. Even if she comes to love you she wanted someone else and settled for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872806) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:20 AM Author: Red old irish cottage windowlicker does it ever make you want to sleep with someone else to get back at her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872821) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:23 AM Author: Garnet Plaza Yes but now we have the baby that door is shut. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872830) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:24 AM Author: Red old irish cottage windowlicker what about a secret side piece? is your wife still as hot as she was when you met her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872841) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:26 AM Author: Garnet Plaza Not at all. She isn’t but I would never cheat only bc I love the baby. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872846) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:30 AM Author: Red old irish cottage windowlicker is she still pretty good looking or is she grotesque? maybe tell her it still bothers you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40872867) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 1:24 AM Author: purple lascivious fat ankles shrine Damn.
It’s better to have cucked and lost than to have not cucked at all. |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 2:25 AM Author: Amber gaped alpha Have you had a DNA test done for your son? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873009) |
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Date: September 5th, 2020 9:26 AM Author: Trip Zippy Sound Barrier Theatre Lol you silly faggot. Yeah just date a girl who's confused about who's cock enters her on a weekly basis. And nothing wrong with being her back up cream pie. Not everyone can be the bull you cuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4618280&forum_id=2#40873458) |