Kind of feel bad for the kids. They didnt ask for that nonsense, and now there's no dad around.

If he felt like he needed to divorce her i can back that 100 percent but i kind of wish he could stay closer by so he could visit w the kids at least a little. To him, he was their dad after all.

But hell, people dont think like that. if they thought like that they wouldnt find themselves married to a dumb ho in the first place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571725)

I think it's pretty clear to non trash folks on here what I mean.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571757)

Even if you read the poasts above you see who cannot be reasoned w. And it's not me.

Please stay out of my discussions--i dont need another moron chiming in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572041)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572064)

Also you are a fucking stalker freak who poasts shit from my FB page like a total asshole. Fuck you for doing that.

you are so rife w dunning kruger i dont even feel sorry for you any more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572076)

you are a PI ambulance chaser at a nowhere firm.

you have a literal microdick

you married a hideous bug shrew who DIDN'T EVEN TAKE YOUR LAST NAME -- do you think she would have if you'd been able to give her a child? or if she'd even been able to find your dick?

she had a child by another man, whom you raise, because you are unable to have a child of your own

and, ofc, you look like this: https://imgur.com/a/9ZZsHE8

literally a wasted life. your ancestors of 100 years ago would revile you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572185)

I am irl successful. You dont even have a girlfriend bro. You scare them all away. You dont have a career, you dont have friends, you are mentally ill, and you are if not destitute, not nearly at a comfortable income level.

Please take your childish lies and attacks and go elsewhere. no one wants to hear your stupid ass takes on things you dont know anything about. Also fuck you for the constant outing. learn how to argue like a man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572218)

you are a PI ambulance chaser at a nowhere firm.

you have a literal microdick

you married a hideous bug shrew who DIDN'T EVEN TAKE YOUR LAST NAME

she had a child by another man, whom you raise, because you are unable to have a child of your own

and, ofc, you look like this: https://imgur.com/a/9ZZsHE8

you're in no position to discuss what it means to be a man, you pedo queer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572240)

Say that you don't believe having kids means anything except that those kids must be biologically your kids. And no duty moral or otherwise attaches to the care of those kids unless they are related to you. That's what you are saying.

If you want to "reason" with someone, don't make THEM write out what you intend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572063)

he didn't have any kids...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572066)

If you think my threads are shit, then just stay out of them. I dont need to hear your predictably self righteous bleat of childish talking points, at least until you grow up a little more and can actually be reasoned w. You aren't actually fully human yet, and I query whether you will reach that stage before you do serious damage to yourself through your own foolishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572155)

"self righteousness!" shrieks the literal cuck who advocates raising children from your wife's cheating

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572220)

and you cant even read properly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572238)

Do you think your bug wife would stay with you if she had any better options? What if the father of her child had been willing to keep her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572275)

I realize now you are a closeted homosexual. So, whatever. just dont hurt anyone during your coming out process.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572312)

STRAIGHT AS FUARK nude bodybuilder here, laughing at you, a literal fat cuck

keep coping

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572326)

Would struggle on issue of abandonment of the kids i thought were mine and raised for ten years.

Would probably try to stay in proximity to them at least and seek visitation rights and make use of those rights, if only to guide the kids for the future and not hurt them more than necessary from what their shitty mother did.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41573557)

they literally aren't his kids and they were presented to him as such under false pretenses; he shouldn't have to pay for any of them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572020)

Lol. I thought this was a joke at first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41573440)

It’s like DACA kids. Hey, it sucks they were brought here very young and don’t know any other home. But it’s the parents’ fault for bringing them illegally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571758)

But i think a lot of people, most people IRL, who are not on a deeply psychopathic unmoderated board, would feel similar to me.

And for what it's worth, there's self interest involved too. By this guy's response, this poor dude now has nothing. Not even kids who look up to him, think of him as a source of safety and security, no extension of himself and his kindness and time to reach out into the world after he is gone. If he still tried to be even a half-assed dad to the kids, he could potentially have that, if he did his job well.

PS fuck the wife--I agree w you 100 percent on that let me be clear.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571832)

I think what you mean is your inability to see my point is an example of why TO YOU the world/country sucks. And there's nothing I can do about that. I can't make you well-adjusted.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571789)

For the board's interest:

The reason it's more likely that he is projecting is because I've seen hm project on here before. Most of the most deeply mentally ill folks on here are really engaged in projection, including Yung, who harbors fantasies of raping children and translates that on here mostly into accusations about others

https://imgur.com/a/OsT7yqX

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571995)

But if the shoe fits ...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572048)

He successfully taught them there's no unconditional love and acceptance anywhere, at least for them--they don't deserve it. And if they complain, it's all mom's fault. That's what I call good work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571889)

Can you believe we have a guy upthread talking that the "right thing to do" would be to stick around? Maybe it would be good for the kids- or maybe they would be best with a hard lesson about life. Either way this poaster doesn't consider the cost to the man, who is now stuck paying child support (HOLY SHIT!!) for kids that aren't even his. Our poaster would have him donate his time voluntarily as well. Is he never entitled to start a family of his own?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571881)

That's not what I said. But i will make one correction: of course he's entitled to start a family of his own. Why wouldnt he be? His options are probably all trashed up and he's stuck in a garbage cycle where he can't get a quality woman, but that apparently was the same as before, so ...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571922)

and It seems like he is making LESS money by having moved very far away. didnt he say that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571968)

They aren't his kids, he owes them nothing. It is a crime he has to pay a dime of child support.

You're being purposely dense on this issue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572067)

its good for kids to learn early on that nothing in life is secure, no foundation is solid, someone can be daddy the one day and gone the next. And if they want someone to blame, they can and should blame mom, the only remaining source of any comfort and security.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572196)

yet he fancies himself one of the smartest posters on this bort and says he is every bit as good a lawyer (possibly better!) than most successful law poasters on here. SP sees himself as every bit the equal of people like CSLG or EPAH who are multimillionaires from law firms they started from scratch, posters who are V25 equity partners, AUSA’s, and etc. and etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41576983)

I get the sense that your sympathy muscles dont get a lot of exercise. But setting that aside, the guy didnt sign up to be cuckolded 4 times. I feel sorry for the dude even if he knew she was a whore when he married her. Lots of guys--including folks on xo--dont get the option to marry classy women, whether its via personality defects or limited economic options or what have you. i dont want to punish the guy for that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571955)

that notwithstanding, public burning or stoning is merited for her. But he signed up for the suffering he received.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41572057)

I also want to say that you guys are being too harsh on the dood talking about maybe sticking around for the kids. He is granting that the guy can do whatever he wants, nobody is saying he should be forced or even obligated to stick around. BUT there is something morally right about remaining in the lives of those kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41571994)

Prior to DNA testing existing, there was no way to establish who really was the father (especially in homogeneous communities where everyone was the same ethnicity). It was bad for Society for a guy to try to shirk the responsibility of raising kids who were -probably- his.

There was also the shared assumption that to the extent some dudes were sleeping with women outside of wedlock, that no one would be more or less likely to deviate from the approximately same amount of adultery. Thus, one dude might pay for another dude's kid, but the assumption would be that that dude also likely had a secret bastard child out there who was being paid for by yet some other dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41576053)

he manages to be more entertaining than the windup duck I had when I was five, I'll give him that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4715405&forum_id=2#41576389)