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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:23 AM Author: lex First is with an artsy travel shrew with an academic job. Her personality seems wrapped up in aesthetics of a sort of 'Grand Tour' variety. We're going to a cocktail bar and I'm going to sip on a glass of sparkling orange juice someone named a non-alcoholic aperol spritz. I actually hope this one goes well, but can think of a dozen ways I might fuck it up. Second is with a woman who is recently divorced and probably looking for something more emotional. I shouldn't speculate on what (I compulsively will nevertheless), but she kept hittin' me with "pls responds" (in the feminine way of saying something slightly cute clearly with the hopes that you will re-engage) and mentioned that she was taking off half the week, such that she had a huge window to plan something. I told her I was an alcoholic so I'm *just* going to sip sparkling water at some bar. She was fine with this. Getting the sense that this will be harder to fuck up, but I'll learn things either way, I think. Also have another tentatively planned for next week but not scheduled. I'm doing alright at getting dates this time around. The problem, as far as I can tell, is my crippling autism. This is xo so that's not surprising, but, while my level of autism is more or less baseline for me, it's taking on more distinctive and complex flavors, like the bouquet of a fine aged juice. I still have no fucking idea how to make small talk about things like preferences. I do not know how to joke about most things unless ideas that at least feel bigger are involved in some way. At this point, I can barely even tell what traits in others are unusual, that's how bad my gauge for the normal ranges in personalities has gotten. I showed a friend a series of app texts (different person) and asked what the woman wanted, because I couldn't tell why she kept sending me dozens of words with no clear import. She seemed to think they were funny, but they didn't build on each other or do anything interesting. They just continued, and continued after that, with minor variations on the same mundanity. He laughed and asked if I had ever talked to women. I'm so fucked. |
Date: April 6th, 2025 9:25 AM Author: Billy Buttfucker I'm not retarded but can you give yourself instructions like you would to ChatGPT, such as "role play like a normal person and respond as he would" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820432) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:26 AM Author: lex That would be like telling a blind man to draw how a vision-haver would see a tree. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820436) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:30 AM Author: Billy Buttfucker Well good luck then! Just focus on azngirls that dont speak english very well, they wont be able to tell youre autistic. If you need deeper conversation then come to XO, and if you're seeking that from a woman then you're actually more fucked in the head than I thought. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820443) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:32 AM Author: lex fair points, ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820447) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 10:31 AM Author: The Mercantilist Policy April (No Future) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820513) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:49 PM Author: ...,....,,........ "If you need deeper conversation then come to XO"
XO loves you and understands you. |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:19 PM Author: lex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824779) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:48 PM Author: ...,....,,........ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824662) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:27 AM Author: Voodoo Child Didn’t you hook up with a tranny? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820439) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:31 AM Author: lex i flirted with the idea when i was drunk as shit a few years ago, never did (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820446) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:47 PM Author: ....,.,.,.,.,...,;,.,.,;,.,;,;,.,. me thinks you should revisit this idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824654) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:27 AM Author: Oh, You Travel? ( ) Don’t jerk off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820441) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 10:08 AM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) best advice itt. being horny is god's way of enabling men to override their brain and deal with birdbrains. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820483) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 12:59 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820735) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:40 AM Author: you\'re the puppet Watch some youtube videos on small talk and being a good communicator. Some really good ones out there. But basically ask how her weekend was/weekend plans, what exciting things she's done or is working on and then whatever she tells you, think of follow up questions about that. She went hiking? Where did she go, how was the weather, did she see any aninals? what does she enjoy about hiking? And you like hiking also, here's where you went and what you liked about it.
Also there is apparently a 3 to 1 rule. To be likeable, try to ask about three questions for every one of theirs. And try to agree and find common ground with whatever they say. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:42 AM Author: Oh, you trade? (🧐) No, the problem is you're a normie and modern app-based dating is an incredibly unnatural process that only the strongest Doodikoffians have a stomach for.
Also that you're sober. The only way normal people can handle shit like this is with alcohol, but that's not an option so you're doomed to suffer every last second fully aware of the machinations of the birdbrain. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:47 AM Author: hung stud Perhaps lex can use his intellectual gifts and autism to tell himself not to drink to excess (?) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820456) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 12:47 PM Author: lex nffi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820716) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 12:47 PM Author: lex the second point is something i've been thinking about more lately. (i never did AA or anything, seemed like hearing stories about drinking would make me more likely to fall back into drinking, so i haven't talked through the social aspects except on xo, frankly.) dealing with birdbrain shit is much easier when drinking both because you're more tolerant of just about everything *and* because you're more wrapped up in your own shit, more likely to be COMMANDING ATTENTION rather than kindly listening and engaging. going from playing a drunk character to sober dating is absolutely brutal, far beyond the initial awkwardness of ordering something non-alcoholic. your first claim is insane. defend it. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:04 PM Author: Oh, you trade? (🧐) For decades blind dating was considered so awkward that it was the punchline of numerous skits, sitcom gags, etc. It wasn't just that it was for Losers (although that was often part of the gag), but moreso about how fucking bizarre it is to just try to strike up conversation and interest with some more or less random person. You were supposed to date people in your sphere, whether that was school, church, friends of friends, anyone you were colloquially stuck in a room with long enough to get some sense of whether you are interested.
Young chads don't mind because for them it's a neverending stream of pussy. But for everyone else it's an incredibly unnatural state where unless you're either hyper-outgoing or living in an alternate space cadet reality (like our beloved doodikoff) it's like pulling teeth. The solution normies have to this isn't some magical reserve of "not being an autist", it's alcohol. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 10:06 AM Author: Trade Wars Are Good And Easy To Win Try dating another autistic alcoholic in recovery (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820482) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 4:16 PM Author: maine is 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821201) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 11:01 AM Author: Poaster Emeritus go fuck a student or something. why teach and not make use of the perks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820583) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 12:58 PM Author: Blonde Bukele mfcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820732) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 12:59 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites I’ve told him this like 20 times
Sad and sick that he refuses to do this |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:04 PM Author: lex i feel parental towards female students, man. they're all great & don't deserve this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820752) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:28 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites Perfect, you can be a daddy, that’s what they’re looking for
I don’t think you understand that everything in your life is set up for you to succeed with this group of women. Whether you intended it that way or not
There are countless men who would do almost anything to be in your situation |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 11:42 PM Author: Poaster Emeritus given them an A+ or something for their trouble. they're getting mentorship from you, your attention and guidance. they know exactly what they're doing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48822669) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 12:58 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites He laughed and asked if I had ever talked to a woman tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820734) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 12:59 PM Author: Blonde Bukele What app are u finding these broads? I wish I hadn't trolled some of the lib chicks on Hinge and got banned (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820737) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:02 PM Author: lex hinge. most chicks in my area say they're liberal, but i'm finding a pretty wide range of meanings. many either don't give a shit whatsoever but don't want to feel like 'bad people' for not being liberal, i think, and many seem like they're just waiting for me to say something conservative so they can walk away in righteous disgust. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820748) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:09 PM Author: Blonde Bukele To be fair, I prefer liberal chicks and want them to slob my knob with the same empathy and care that they give their gay shitlib causes.
I trolled some of the blatantly manhating bitches who are on another tier of shitlib and they reported me immediately. banned :( |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:15 PM Author: Blonde Bukele many women have been so warped by the positive self-talk nonsense--they're unbelievably confident in their political assertions and don't approach any of it w/ a lens of intellectual humility: "here's what I believe and why. what do you believe? You seem smart I wonder if I am looking at it wrong?"
They will do the math backwards, and just assume you're an idiot because you don't have the same political conclusions
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:45 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) more often that you're evil ime. shrews won't be able to post-hoc rationalize someone as smart as lex, especially with his grasp of politics and society, is dumb. so they'll either attribute it to him being evil or unsympathetic.
the only winning move for smart bros who are principled enough not to pretend to be libs to get pussy is to avoid discussing politics as much as possible and when unavoidable stick with sympathetic platitudes like "yeah i see where you're coming from." |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:36 PM Author: metaphysical liberation Gl bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820836) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:49 PM Author: Covid was a Hoax terminal texts after the date is set up are a really bad sign. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820860) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: fulano What are you saying (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820870) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:55 PM Author: Covid was a Hoax if youre still "chatting" after setting up with a date with a person youve never met but before meeting them its bs. lots of women want penpals and text messege flattery. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820878) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:17 PM Author: fulano Oh yeah. 💯 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820944) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:51 PM Author: hung stud ?? If you don't text periodically and confirm 20x in the 48 hours leading up to the date with insightful charm and humor, they will ghost and say they thought you lost interest (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824673) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:50 PM Author: .,.,.;;,;.,..,:,,:,...,:::,...,:,.,.;.:...:.,:.::, part of your problem is that you're still in the mindset that it's you who has to make the date work (e.g. you're using the language of "i can think of a dozen ways i might fuck this up" etc). strictly speaking and in a global sense that is true. but it is a self-defeating mindframe for you and it's not what the woman wants to experience in a man.
96% of women suck. you've discovered this through experience. when you go on a first date with a girl you are doing so to test her out to see if she sucks for YOUR sake, not to win her over. she probably sucks and will not be of interest to you and you will want no part of her anyways. it's not your job to inspire her or to tease out her interests or whatever by striking upon a novel source of compatibility through earnest groping in the dark, because (A) even if you succeed in this you may be succeeding against your wishes because down the line you will discover that she sucks anyways - "intellectual" connection is fake - and (B) this approach hurts your chances anyways because it makes you seem lame. or you are attracting conceited women who are screening for the wrong things and the wrong kind of guy / dynamic.
every first date is a throw-away. she doesn't matter at all. just talk about your life, talk about funny shit that has happened in class, ask her token questions about herself, challenge her on her responses (remember she's retarded), patronize her, throw in stupid belittling flattery (remember she's a child), make stupid throw-away comments about your surroundings. that's probably as flirtatious as someone like you can be organically. if she's cool it will be fun and she will think so too and you can go fuck her. and it will probably work because she'll intuit that you're not a try-hard cuck trying super hard to woo her, in fact it's her who has to latch on because she doesn't want to lose this and it's not clear that you're super into her. if it was lame then she is lame and you don't want her anyways, good riddance. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites 180 post (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820867) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: metaphysical liberation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820869) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 1:59 PM Author: cock of michael obama this is like telling someone "just be confident bro"
its true that women are attracted more to confident men, and i guess there's some element of fake it til you make it that's true, but it doesn't really work, you feel like a fraud and the facade quickly crumbles
the truth is that lex is middle aged, poor, no career prospects, is alcoholic (although currently sober) and has major health issues and he has two lesbian moms who scrambled his brain and he has no idea how to interact with women. he's also emotional, unstable, and effeminate. he is *right* to have low self confidence. i'm not saying he shouldn't try - hell, even i got laid back in the day when i was in a really sorry state - but it's important to set the right framing and expectations from the getgo. your response makes it worse imo by increasing the separation between expectation and reality for him. his frame should be "i objectively suck but i'm going to grind it out and frankly most of these women suck too" and with that frame he will eventually hit on stuff
i like lex and am rooting for him, and he does have a lot of good stuff too: tall, good looking, intellectual, well-meaning, etc |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:00 PM Author: metaphysical liberation Lex just needs good bros to tell him he's smart and cool to help him maek it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820890) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:02 PM Author: cock of michael obama he is smart and cool but the important thing is to accept baseline reality for what it is. a big part of the struggle comes from developing expectations based off an improper understanding of reality, which is understandably developed to shield the ego (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820893) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:04 PM Author: metaphysical liberation Many men meet lifelong significant others later in life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820895) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:05 PM Author: cock of michael obama ""i objectively suck but i'm going to grind it out and frankly most of these women suck too" and with that frame he will eventually hit on stuff" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820898) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:06 PM Author: metaphysical liberation Ur blackpilling (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820904) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:07 PM Author: cock of michael obama blackpilling would be telling him not to try
people need to be better with their definitions |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:09 PM Author: metaphysical liberation LitigiousGroyper (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820915) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:54 PM Author: hung stud We've offered to fuck and suck him 1000x and he rejects us. How's that supposed to make us feel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824688) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:06 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites Did you even read the post you’re responding to? This is totally non responsive
Wtf even is this post man. Why are you in this thread dropping a bizarre non sequitur multi paragraph series of personal insults at lex in response to easily the best advice given to him in this thread
Fucking cancerous person |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:07 PM Author: cock of michael obama your advice, goy retardstar, boiled down to "just be confident bro", and it's wrong
also it's you with the cancer given your multiple jewish heart attack jabs, hth |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:08 PM Author: Oh, you trade? (🧐) "his frame should be "i objectively suck but i'm going to grind it out and frankly most of these women suck too" and with that frame he will eventually hit on stuff"
this is the worst possible advice you could ever give someone. there is absolutely zero benefit in not having confidence in yourself in service of some fool's errand of trying project your true relative value in the dating market. who fucking cares? if you get shot down, you get shot down. if you were really as self aware as you proclaim to be the first thing you'd realize is how you are the last person on earth who should be trying to give advice to other people on how they should see and interact with the world |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:10 PM Author: cock of michael obama 100% hard disagree. improvement starts from seeing reality for what it is. he can pretend to be confident with the date, that's fine and actually appropriate, but he should understand the actual reality *for himself* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820918) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:12 PM Author: Oh, you trade? (🧐) you think he "doesn't see reality for what it is"? you think he's fucking retarded or something? the most common signal of midwittery is assuming you are in some uniquely enlightened position relative to others (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820925) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:13 PM Author: cock of michael obama i am responding to goy retardstar, who is telling lex to "just be confident bro." lex isn't confident, and he's right not to be. helping him is not scrambling his brain to inflate his expectations. helping him is to tell him that his feelings are accurate, to validate them, but to help him power through regardless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820927) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:17 PM Author: metaphysical liberation "he's right not to be"
False |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:19 PM Author: Oh, you trade? (🧐) being aware of your flaws doesn't mean you can't be confident, and it's why your advice is so incredibly awful and useless. you're like some mopey teenager who considered redpill comics the height of insight and based on this ingrained belief 20 years later ends up scrolling through appwhores and making assessments like "I am an age adjusted 5.3, she is an age adjusted 5.8, this within acceptable limits"
this is a horribly toxic mindset to adopt and in the case you do land a woman who is genuinely good to be with you will never cease second guessing your relationship. "why is she with ME?" |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:27 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820960) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:57 PM Author: hung stud This is xo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824701) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:16 PM Author: metaphysical liberation He's saying lex is stuck in an idealization of women and dating, which I think causes him to devalue himself to preserve the idealization of women. Part of that is thinking he should live happily ever after and be normal.
That is clearly not true, and if he were to start a family, which is unlikely, it will be fake and gay and he'll never feel at home.
I don't get why he's saying he needs to hate women and himself in the process though. There's nothing wrong with being a smart cool guy dating later in life to find a partner. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:19 PM Author: cock of michael obama that's not what i'm saying. i'm saying that lex thinks there is something wrong with him: "The problem, as far as I can tell, is my crippling autism. This is xo so that's not surprising, but, while my level of autism is more or less baseline for me, it's taking on more distinctive and complex flavors, like the bouquet of a fine aged juice....At this point, I can barely even tell what traits in others are unusual, that's how bad my gauge for the normal ranges in personalities has gotten."
goy retardstar is basically handwaving that away with "just be confident bro."
my response is: lex you're right that there is something wrong with you. don't handwave it away, that's the baseline reality for you. and that's fine. accept it and try anyway.
in jungian terms, goy retardstar is telling him to suppress his unconscious/darkness and i'm telling him to acknowledge it, appreciate it and accept it, integrate it, to become a stronger person.
for me, i have a lot of flaws. i don't need to list them here, but i'm well aware of many of them (not all of them perhaps!). the strength i derive is from accepting and embracing these flaws as a baseline to myself (i don't go around spewing them off to others), not to try to suppress them. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:22 PM Author: metaphysical liberation He's telling lex to devalue the woman as much as he devalues himself. That's good advice. He needs to see the flaws in women as much as he does in himself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820951) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:01 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) which is essentially a roadmap for the autistic on *how* to "just be confident bro."
"just be confident bro" is true. the problem is autists can't figure out how to do that when they are dealing with uncertainty. look at how consuela confidently blathers about false things. it's because he's deluded himself that he's right and resolved that uncertainty.
if lex can resolve his uncertainty over why women are they way that they are, he will "just be more confident bro". retards can just suppress their uncertainty. autists have to resolve it, even if it's a delusion, in order to be confident. they have trouble projecting confidence when they're not, but when they are confident about something they can project confidence. just like how autists will blather confidently but their interests but wilt when confronted with women, which they don't understand. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:41 PM Author: fulano Area you Jewish my man?
No need to list your flaws here. You ca just answer that one honestly |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:16 PM Author: lex I think this is a good response. Someone I know used to mock a popular (birdbrain) conception of “the salvific power of male-female pair bonding”, and I definitely have a tendency to hope for such a thing, even if I’m slowly coming to realize it’s noxious and utterly flaem. This is part of leads me to overvalue women, and I’m slowly internalizing the folly of it all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824761) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:15 PM Author: backspace is right about demonic jewish parasites Mfcr. This guy is such a fucking faggot asshole kike who goes around personally insulting people on here apropos of nothing trying to sabotage their lives so he can feel better about himself because his own life sucks
Absolute fucking lowlife creep. Get the fuck out of here consuela and leave lex the hell alone. Holy shit you are a genuinely awful person |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:01 PM Author: hung stud sounds like you would be better suited for the warm embrace of some fatherly reddit mods to ensure you don't have to read poas insulting "lex" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824710) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:33 PM Author: .,.,.;;,;.,..,:,,:,...,:::,...,:,.,.;.:...:.,:.::, telling someone to "just be confident bro" is stupid not for "objective" reasons but because asking someone to change from the inside achieves nothing. i know reasonably attractive millionaire tech founders who have every reason to be "confident" but who cannot get over their crippling awkwardness and monkey-frame temperament because it's in their nature to be "problem solvers" and it makes them look pathetic and try-hard and lame in social situations. meanwhile there are plenty of poor middling unremarkable service worker shlubs who can get chicks just because everything they do in their lives is low-stakes and as such they present as affable and at ease and even dismissive. but the former will not change when told "just be confident" because that is asking him to change from within, with zero reference to or regard for the actual circumstances.
lex is intelligent and incisive and well-adjusted with good humor and has no less of a right to a decent women than these people. and in 96% of cases he has more right to a decent woman than the woman he's dating has a right to a decent man. this is factually and self-evidently true from what we know about lex and everything he's written about the sorry chicks he's had the misfortune of shlepping to wine bars and apple orchards. i am not asking him to miraculously change his nature or temperament in some arbitrary way, i am revealing to him the reality of dating and in particular his dating.
the reality is that most women are uninteresting and have no intellectual content to offer. to ask them to offer something of themselves, or to grope around for some inner kernel, is to ruin the date, or to play into modern feminine conceit. women can be nice to be around because (and if and only if) they are fun and of a light and playful spirit, which will emerge if you allow it to in spite of their retardation. this is the core of a strong opposite-sex relationship. and this is what they want even if they don't know it.
he is still treating them as though they deserve respect or deference beyond this. they don't. he is going on a date with a child. always. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:35 PM Author: metaphysical liberation Timeless truth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820985) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:38 PM Author: fulano This guy women's (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820989) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:55 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824692) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:54 PM Author: cock of michael obama while you're right that women deeply suck, they're retarded and stuck in a halfway place between child and man, you literally *cannot convince someone of this intellectually.* it is something that is deeply felt and accepted through numerous trial and error, or not at all. telling lex to accept this as a 40 something simply will not work, it's the same advice as fake it til you make it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824926) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:51 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) i love seeing your supreme confidence about poasters and how wildly off base you are on multiple fronts.
it's fallen on deaf ears so far but once again i encourage you to stop being so autistically arrogant and try to be open to ideas and the possibility of being wrong. because stubbornly believing you know everything is the cause of a lot of your woes. |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:57 PM Author: cock of michael obama you literally believe transgendered people become the opposite gender (lynn conway as "she" lmao), the concept of accepting "base reality" isn't something you understand *even slightly* so of course you would respond with something like this, lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824700) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:06 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) this is a perfect example. lynn just spent the week here and we had multiple chats about women being birdbrains. neither she nor i think that.
your arrogance causes you to project your assumptions and biases onto people you don't know with stubborn confidence. and it's hilarious to see that when i have independent knowledge and know you're wrong.
it's doubly funny that in response you double down with a nonresponsive adhom that also isn't true. |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:07 PM Author: cock of michael obama if this is the case i expect you to refer to lynn moving forward as "he", thank. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824730) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:13 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) fortunately you have a lot of experience with reality not matching up to your expectations. i hope someday you realize that you need to change your expectations rather than being frustrated reality doesn't align with them. she is 180 and she's also a man in a dress. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824745) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:18 PM Author: cock of michael obama "she is 180 and she's also a man in a dress."
ty for confirming my point about you. |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:30 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) thank you for confirming that you're so autistic that you can't understand how indulging someone by using their preferred pronouns despite recognizing it isn't literally true is anything more than being polite and respectful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824827) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:32 PM Author: cock of michael obama you don't help them by indulging them, you help them by reminding them of reality. you're a drug enabler. this is actually a perfect example of the differing advice being given to lex here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824836) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:43 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) it's called tolerance. not forcing my values and beliefs onto people when theirs don't harm anyone is why i have irl friends including lovely people like lex and lynn while you are a bitter friendless shut in.
i'm not even trying to attack you here. i'm trying to give you the same type of "tough love" you're encouraging me to give to lynn. her wearing a dress doesn't hurt anyone including her. if she was on drugs i wouldn't enable it. your bullshit is destroying your life. your drug is being an arrogant autist who alienates everyone around him. you've even mentioned how other friendships ended over the fucking covid vaccine.
you insisting others conform to your values isn't helping them. it's destroying your life. and you seem to think it makes you some righteous martyr, when really you're just an asshole that can't accept disagreement. |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 2:54 PM Author: cock of michael obama "you've even mentioned how other friendships ended over the fucking covid vaccine."
lol brother, just lol. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 7:02 PM Author: lex 180 poast (and subthread). i remember your poasts from my threads last fall, if i'm not mistaken. it has all given me a lot to think through. |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 12:06 PM Author: .,.,.;;,;.,..,:,,:,...,:::,...,:,.,.;.:...:.,:.::, (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824245) |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48824680) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:23 PM Author: fulano Pumo is right imo. Just meet and pound out some stupid Asian slut from your classes and if you like it take her to Panera or something.
Biggest issue is finding a woman. Doodikoff has to rely on fuckapps because he has no contact with irl women in his treadmill desk doing dui cases.
You have an endless supply
You're really over thinking this. A girls just a dumb slut who's gong to waste money on education to fumble around in the corporate world for 2 years to buy purses and shoes. Just take one and move on |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:25 PM Author: metaphysical liberation He's not gonna fuck a student in current year.
If he had better rapport with colleagues he might find a peer but I don't think he fits in at his job. |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:29 PM Author: fulano He literally meets 50 blank faced Korean sluts a year named grace and treats them all like royal highnesses. One showed up to a bar with him and didn't even bother to wear pants. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820964) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 2:30 PM Author: metaphysical liberation He'd lose his job if he fucked one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48820966) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 4:14 PM Author: Wang Hernandez Maybe wait till semester ends before banging? Then less risk because no “power imbalance”? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821198) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 3:08 PM Author: .,.,.;;,;.,..,:,,:,...,:::,...,:,.,.;.:...:.,:.::, i'm not going to fault him too aggressively for having aesthetic preferences in a "partner," we don't have full control over these. if he really wants a "relationship" and the aesthetics of doting around with a young asian slut for any more than an ONS are unnatural to him, so be it, other people have far worse proclivities and lex just wants to build a simple household. what he has to learn is that even these "bookish" and "intellectual" chicks are of the same nature of the young asian slut at heart, and should be treated as such. these preferences for "bookishness" or whatever are strictly and entirely aesthetic in nature. any "intellectual connection" will be minor and facile and besides the point of the relationship. he is just fetishizing the image of intellect because that is what is familiar and comfortable and perhaps somewhat attractive to him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821057) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 4:17 PM Author: maine is 180 I thought doodikoff is gay? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821204) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 4:47 PM Author: Oh, you trade? (🧐) lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821241) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 5:37 PM Author: maine is 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821393) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 3:59 PM Author: Gay Grandpa After it was revealed that Lex has the sweet Nougat, it is pretty unconscuounable for a guy like Cock O. to insinuate that Lex is lacking anything. Sixfourmen, even sixtwomen, can be literal homeless buns and get taken home by a UMC woman who will spend her daddy's fortune on him just to entertain/fuck/dopamine drip her. Lex is Tall. He has the nougat. Imagine understanding that and then delving into the guy's psychology. It is clear that he is only sabotaging himself with excessive moodiness or some other Doodikoff-level behavioral glitch that is just too much to overcome the difference between Lex's sweet vertical treat and 6'4. Whatever the flaw is, the response is definitely "do not think about the flaw, do not contemplate it" and just power ahead full steam. How the fuck is this not obvious after literally decades on XO devoted to height discussion. Get the fuck out of here with your "psychology." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821172) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 4:48 PM Author: Oh, you trade? (🧐) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48821243) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 8:39 PM Author: Blonde Bukele (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48822048) |
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Date: April 6th, 2025 9:24 PM "Second is with a woman who is recently divorced and probably looking for something more emotional. I shouldn't speculate on what (I compulsively will nevertheless), but she kept hittin' me with "pls responds" (in the feminine way of saying something slightly cute clearly with the hopes that you will re-engage)"
??? Do you even understand women. Recently divorced women are emotionally vulnerable and need validation that they're desirable. You'll never have an easier fuck. Enjoy. |
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Date: April 7th, 2025 1:45 PM Author: (-_-) (-_-) (-_-) (-_-) ages and races of women?
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Date: April 7th, 2025 5:23 PM Author: lex all over 30. artsy shrew is on the younger end and possibly jewish, otherwise white. this isn't a bragging thread, more just canvasing opinions on dating while socially retarded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5706126&forum_id=2Elisa#48825471) |