Spent time with one of my nieces over the 4th and I understand girldads now
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Date: July 8th, 2026 11:37 AM Author: fertile young woman plugged into zogbox 10 hrs/day
She's 10 years old and absolutely adores me and follows me around and gets really excited to show me stuff and play games and activities with me. Very bright and perceptive for her age and able to keep up in conversation basically as well as an adult woman can
After reflecting on it for a bit I think that I understand girldads now. Imagine the same thing only she is your daughter. She is half you and half of the woman that at least at some point you were in love with. And she actually unconditionally loves you back unlike your wife. You are with her all the way from her birth, helping and caring for her the whole time, guiding her to eventually blossom as an adult woman
Almost all of the men in this position must feel much closer to their daughter than they do to their wife. In my experience this seems true. And there is definitely a sexual undercurrent to the relationship. Like I said, she is half you, half the woman who you loved, and you've developed closer intimacy with her than you have any other woman. All of these women have a sexual bond with their fathers too, even if he is a beta dork, that's just how women are, it's why the "daddy" thing is so prevalent
I don't think men in this situation ever make any "choices" about this dynamic. It's just how it happens and there was never any real agency by either them or their daughter. This never happened before the boomer generation because men never actually spent much time with their kids like they do now. Girls were raised by the mother and kids were already "adults" by very young ages and working and helping adults. Nowadays "dads" are like moms and it's really weird and unhealthy for everyone involved and leads to anti social dynamics like girldadism
I have more sympathy for these guys now but at the same time I am more hardened in my conviction that wifeguyism and girldadism are serious problems and threats to society. Realistically there's nothing that can be done though and society just has to collapse and be reborn into something else. Many such cases re: other problems
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5880762&forum_id=2Elisa#49986133) |
Date: July 8th, 2026 1:15 PM Author: Non sequitur
girls are just smarter and sweeter early on
boys are idiots but funnier and chiller
for girls you just want them to grow up pretty likable and not dumb so you can have a chiller relationship
boys have to be hte man so you have to raise them like men
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5880762&forum_id=2Elisa#49986278) |
Date: July 8th, 2026 1:20 PM Author: biglaw associate asking if link is worksafe @ 11pm
"able to keep up in conversation basically as well as an adult woman can"
a couple ways to interpret this
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5880762&forum_id=2Elisa#49986285) |
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