Have any forever-single (no judgment) men on xo ever considered surrogacy?
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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:37 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
I am seriously considering this option. I know xo will be vehemently opposed, so I want to hear that perspective
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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:45 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
hiring some lady to carry your baby but then raising the baby on your own
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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:46 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
care to elaborate?
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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:48 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
good day to you then
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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:48 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
i'm with you friend
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Date: July 18th, 2025 2:46 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
ok definitely non-responsive to my question. but what do you think of her choice? not asking you about whether you consider surrogacy a realistic option for yourselve because, based on your poasting about loving carousing, drinking, acting like a kid, etc., I assume that you have no desire to ever settle down or have children
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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:18 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
sorry man you do seem chill
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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:20 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
I wouldn't really expect any trouble with the women. they know what they're getting into and sign some pretty specific legal agreements. although, I wonder if it's possible to select a ... high quality . . . mate using this process
what have you heard about the agencies?
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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:33 PM Author: fulano
are you a straight single dude? you are going to have issues imo. are you just an old spinster?
There is a finite amount of women doing this for a living so they're almost certainly going to be prioritizing infertile couples or gay dudes for social clout.
from what i know the agencies mainly procure the women and god knows what they say or do for this. it has to be a hard af sale to a relatively normal person. i bleieve a lot of these women are military wives whose guys are away for a year, which could be fine or sketchy.
I think once they get the women and your money they just kind of bail on you. I have heard this more than once. i would recommend researching the different agencies seriously.
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Date: July 18th, 2025 3:49 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
i'm a divorced single man with shared custody of a child. I would be working with a surrogacy coach assigned to me as part of the fertility benefits my employer offers. it seems legit. the thing i would be worried about though is the quality of the women. i suppose it's fine if they are relatively intelligent and they've been screened for family history, genetic defects, etc
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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:16 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
yes. i want more and i'm not having luck finding a suitable partner. i don't mind doing it this way, although the more I think of it, it will be kind of unfair to the child. the kid will never know it's mom
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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:17 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
it's a crazy, years long process based on the few meetings i've had since I made this thread. i'll probably do it about and live poast it for the lulz
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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:17 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,
ass babies are real babies, bigot
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Date: July 21st, 2025 9:20 PM Author: male emotional laborer
do you have to have s*x to do this
seems like there should be a Hallmark movie about a rich chad who inexplicably hires a woman to be his surrogate and then they end up falling in love and living happily ever after together with the kid
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