We had one when we were young at 24 and my mom died suddenly from an undetected brain aneurysm three weeks before the baby. I was close with my mom and she was going to watch the baby during the day while we both worked. When she died I had to deal with that then being a dad two weeks later. I made a decision my wife would stay at home and watch the baby while I worked my $60k to start lawyer job and bought a $120k condo in westchester (not flame). I took the train to the city, sold gold, did whatever I could to make payments. Every night we watched Toy Story to get him to sleep.

Once I got a grip we had more kids. Our second Covid waiting on fuckin grocery store lines thanks to that traitor Faucci and getting yelled at for not having a mask. People get jealous at 2 kids so we had 3. Another boy, then I had 3 boys. We wanted a girl and we had 4. A girl. Then people stopped inviting us to things bc we had too many kids. Then I said fuck it they’re on the ropes to I had number 5 it was a boy.

We have a $850k house now and I make around $500k a year and she stays at a home and we’re comfortable. I realized this was a 180 journey and this might be the last time I watch Toy Story and enjoy the 180 experience of being a dad to a 1 year old and we start throwing out toys and I cry each time. Being a dad is 180 and this is 180 because I’m a lonely dude from the Philippines who has been trolling this board for 20 years and I have never had sex much less have a wife and kids lol. FLAME.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5812964&forum_id=2Elisa#49529441)