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Date: October 17th, 2024 5:33 PM Author: fear-inspiring fragrant indian lodge trump supporter
You literally have to rape them into submission too, it's not just an internet meme or whatever
They will continue to act uppity and obnoxious until you physically subjugate them, after which they will be docile and sweet for a little while, until it "wears off" and they go back to being annoying retards again
They're like children. It's ridiculous. Just not worth the hassle
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48209007) |
Date: October 18th, 2024 11:54 AM Author: Histrionic digit ratio
dating should be fun. but it becomes a slog when you do it "aggressively." it's important to be moderate to avoid making something that should be fun and exciting from becoming a chore.
and there's no alternative unless you want to die alone or go back to a comfortable old relationship that has been proven not to work.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211412) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 12:18 PM Author: Histrionic digit ratio
this is true, socializing and meeting people organically is always the best. but there are still cool and interesting people on the apps.
normies, by virtue of being normie, are going to be the most prevalent in most settings. another thing lex should do is not just swipe on anyone that "might" be compatible. i imagine his kind-hearted nature leads him to do this. for example, bizshrew certainly was an uninteresting normie in her profile and demonstrated that irl, but he still gave her a shot.
being very selective with who you match with leads to higher quality dates and reduces burn out. it's also makes you more appealing to the algo and more likely to get matches to begin with.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211552) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 12:29 PM Author: aqua crackhouse
yes, I was going to type something about normies but then I flopped trips in my online poker game and got distracted.
anyway, yes, for someone like lex that's a faggy intellectual and likes poetry, the classics, religion, etc, and wants a loyal woman that's genuinely interesting, finding a truly compatible match on a swipe app is going to be like looking for the proverbial needle in a haystack. if he wants to stay on dating apps and look for someone with similar listed or unique interests, sure, go ahead. but i agree- he should be quite selective in who he swipes on and goes out on dates with. he should be looking for the non-normies only, and those he has at least something in common with. going on dates just to go on dates is aids as fuck. *shudders at the thought of it
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211589)
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Date: October 18th, 2024 12:41 PM Author: floppy sable heaven
Most of the ppl on this forum are married and have kids
Because they have jobs and don't have serious disabilities
You're a cripple and have no money
What is the female equivalent of that? A super fat woman on SSDI
That is your match
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211646) |
Date: October 18th, 2024 12:28 PM Author: Stubborn turdskin
Lol at jcm itt.
"WOMEN ARE INTERESTING. YOU'RE JUST DOING IT WRONG. TRUST ME. I KNOW THESE THINGS!"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211586) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 12:58 PM Author: Pale cowardly friendly grandma milk
My #1 turnoff by Millennial/Gen Z women is if they're way too into consooming. Things it's okay for them to want: a House, a practical commuter vehicle, a reasonable amount of nice clothes, living near family, a good public school system, one annual trip somewhere nice, saving for retirement.
Things I will absolutely flee from as fast as possible: anything having to do with GC. Gold watches/expensive jewelry/handbags, celebrity worship, anything Disney, hoarding of clothes, reprehensible spending habits, travel shrewing. Basically any rampant urge to consoom.
I have been in several relationships with women addicted to consumption. In the end they will never care about you more than material gain. Women have the right to want nice things but it has to be within reason. You can never trust a bitch who would not be perfectly happy living with you in squalor. Not that she ought to tolerate poverty or a man who can't provide but it's just gotten so out of hand with bitches who are full blown addicted to GC. The greed for materialism is totally out of whack.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211735) |
Date: October 18th, 2024 12:53 PM Author: brindle piazza
Counterpoint: If you can find a cute "basic bitch" who just likes to listen to true crime and shop at Target, and she's going to be happy and cheerful cooking/watching kids/blowing you - then you've won the fucking lottery.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211714)
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Date: October 18th, 2024 1:54 PM Author: aqua crackhouse
didn't want to say this, but this is absolutely true.
most americans in general aren't interesting people, regardless of gender.
whining on the internet is not a way to find a partner.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48212001) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 2:13 PM Author: aqua crackhouse
ime, it's best when you partner up with someone with at least a couple of shared interests/hobbies, and at least don't mind when your partner talk abouts their other interests.
and agree that most women admire men with sincere and interesting hobbies.
as an extension of that, this is a good time for me to mention that women are attracted to competence in general.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48212107) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 2:29 PM Author: Histrionic digit ratio
cr.
it's like the sam hyde vid when he talks about dudes complaining they want a woman that thinks and acts like them, and he's like "you want a dude, then." yeah, you want some shared interests. but you don't want someone that is exactly like you.
men are more interested in facts and women are more interested in emotion. that's why women will be interested discussing celebrity drama while men will be interested in athlete's stats. and also why men will be more interested in STEM and women more interested in art. there is a spectrum to the value of both of these things. emotional expression is valuable and so is science. but men are often too myopic to understand this, and so they trash women because they aren't men, even though they desperately crave female energy and affection.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48212210) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 2:03 PM Author: Histrionic digit ratio
look at how many dudes whose whole identity is sports or mcu or cars.
men much for frequently get obsessively interested in their hobbies. and they often get into much more niche stuff, like dupa's knives. but many of these are just as trite as what women get into.
women will mindlessly watch reality tv and disney and men will scoff, but say nothing about the men who are obsessively interested in marvel or football. the only difference is that the dude is much more likely to have PASSIONATE OPINIONS who who is the best QB of all time or whether thanos could beat superman.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48212052) |
Date: October 18th, 2024 12:54 PM Author: razzle chad cumskin
5'1 burmese doods are loling at amerishits, i see so many thin feminine chicks here, not really super hawt but in US wld be solid 7s just cause they think and dont appear to be bitchy trannies
and they'll have midget burmese BF's its all so absurd and makes the US look even more of a kike fueled disaster zone
the very concept of "dating" in the US is stupid, men and women werent meant to do that, whcih is why every civ on earth had some form of arranged marriage
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211718) |
Date: October 18th, 2024 1:01 PM Author: sapphire dashing incel
To be fair,
Very little about OP indicates that he's capable of anything "aggressive" when it comes to dating
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211739) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 1:06 PM Author: aqua crackhouse
While this is sometimes the case, it's definitely not always true- I know plenty of women irl that are interesting and attractive.
I think it also helps that I move in very different social circles than the majority of xoxo'ers. I'm not surrounded by law shrews all day.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48211758)
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Date: October 18th, 2024 2:05 PM Author: Hideous range
Generally some app chick disappoints me in some way (ghosting, being obnoxious, etc) or is outright rude to me about every week, sometimes multiple times. Already had to cut off a date earlier this week with a chick who tried to change my first date plans to some place that was 2x more expensive (arguably one of if not the most expensive restaurant in town).
This week, Monday night, I went out and had a great date with what seemed like a great girl. Lots of similar interests, very pretty, super nice, wasn't so snooty or into consumer bullshit, she showed a lot of interest in me and told me how handsome I was, date went great.
Went out again last night. Date went about as well as the first date as far as I could tell, she again complimented my looks, we had some rather deep conversations about dating and life, overall went great. Several times she commented that I was the kind of guy she likes. The last things we talked about before parting was whether we were going to go out again tonight or tomorrow night, she was open to whatever I could give her. Left the date feeling good, that maybe I found a legit nice person who actually liked me for the first time in many months of weekly fails and disasters from shitty app women.
I got home (like 25 minutes after I dropped her off), fired up Hinge and realized that she wasn't in my match list anymore. I sent her a text checking that she got home safely, no response. The combo of these two started getting into my head. Texted her again today, no response (she always responds within 30 seconds).
I guess I'll reach out again just in case, but pretty sure she ghosted me. This one stings more than most because she seemed interested (by her own words) and better than most of the others, but every few weeks I get an app chick that completely perplexes me like this. No explanation or indication that I did anything wrong, by all measures seemed like a pleasant date, just poof gone.
go easy on me, this one is pretty fresh and stingy right now lol
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48212063) |
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Date: October 18th, 2024 2:27 PM Author: Hideous range
maybe I have developed asbergers, but I feel like I generally can read people in a business and also friendship basis.
the one last night there was no discernable moment where she seemed to change attitude or anything like that. Like I said the last thing we discussed before parting was when we would see each other next (she brought it up). By the time I got home she was no longer in my app matches.
Believe me I reflect on this a lot.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48212193) |
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Date: October 19th, 2024 9:07 AM Author: Histrionic digit ratio
this is absurd and completely backwards.
"finding out if there's any spark before meeting" is impossible. very frequently the irl vibes don't match the text. you cannot find out if you are compatible via text.
spending time and getting emotionally invested in someone you haven't met is silly. why would anyone do that when you'll learn way more about whether you are attracted to someone interacting with them for 5 minutes IRL than several days of texting?
most importantly, outside of fempoaster architypes, women are on their phones SCROLLING. they are not having autistic long form text based convos. you would look clueless and/or a pussy for even TRYING to engage them this way before meeting.
a single attractive woman who is actively dating will have endless options. it's very easy for them to ditch someone the moment they are bored or decide to pursue a superior option. lol @ trying to engage them in some xoxo level discourse.
the cr move is inviting them out to drinks or a some other low-commitment activity immediately. this is more effective because it demonstrates confidence and assertiveness, and it's also more efficient for everyone because you can know within minutes if you are compatible enough to continue, rather than spinning you wheels via e-mail lmao.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5613230&forum_id=2Elisa#48214725) |
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