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Dementia Mom just told me she spent $51,000 on her Camry

She bought it last November, just before Thanksgiving, and d...
aquamarine curious locale
  01/25/26
Flame, How did she even spend that much on a Camry, they&...
Poppy Principal's Office
  01/25/26
They get into the 40s now EDIT: I just maxed one out at 4...
slimy chrome parlour
  01/25/26
Yes, this is pretty much what happened. She went in person t...
aquamarine curious locale
  01/25/26
Well, if she's really rich enough to pay off fast like you s...
slimy chrome parlour
  01/25/26
great deal
seedy odious rigor
  01/25/26
It’s a terrible deal and she’s a disabled senior...
aquamarine curious locale
  01/25/26
bad genes
bronze razzmatazz persian
  01/25/26
she’s frugal for not springing for a Lexus es. Probabl...
orange unhinged internal respiration roommate
  01/25/26
You can get a top trim es for 51k
Vigorous dilemma
  01/25/26
Negative equity from the last car? 20 year warranty? Last ti...
Vigorous dilemma
  01/25/26
No negative equity. She traded them in a 2019 Ford Fusion t...
aquamarine curious locale
  01/25/26
At least you’ll inherit a reliable vehicle
Vigorous dilemma
  01/25/26
Dementia Mom may have another 20 years in the tank.
aquamarine curious locale
  01/25/26
Is OP disco fries? If so, he's going before the mom. The con...
swashbuckling field
  01/25/26
She’s smart enough to realize you’d think she wa...
kink-friendly temple keepsake machete
  01/25/26
She has dementia but had no problems buying a new car with s...
bespoke volcanic crater
  01/25/26
She walked into a Toyota dealership, accepted the free can o...
aquamarine curious locale
  01/25/26
how did we go from blind gf to dementia mom
Aphrodisiac hilarious abode
  01/25/26
didnt you say you had cancer or something? are you in remiss...
Alcoholic menage
  01/25/26
I said I had gout, and yes there have been some minor improv...
aquamarine curious locale
  01/25/26


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Date: January 25th, 2026 10:19 AM
Author: aquamarine curious locale

She bought it last November, just before Thanksgiving, and didn't tell me. Apparently went to a dealership with a long list of demands and they took her fingers. JFC.

Why is everyone around me so stupid and incompetent?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617055)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 10:34 AM
Author: Poppy Principal's Office

Flame,

How did she even spend that much on a Camry, they’re like $40k at the highest trim

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617069)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 10:37 AM
Author: slimy chrome parlour

They get into the 40s now

EDIT: I just maxed one out at 42k, if you consider TTL + Dumb Bitch Tax it could get to 50k

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617071)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 10:50 AM
Author: aquamarine curious locale

Yes, this is pretty much what happened. She went in person to the Dealership, demanded a red Camry, demanded a moon roof and probably said something along the lines of “I like music and I want the best sound system.”

This put her into the highest trim. I think she also demanded it be a hybrid.

Then they did the whole runaround with her and she told me “I asked them but they never provided me the final out the door price.”

Says she didn’t know what the price would be until she got her first bill (she financed but intended to pay it off this quarter). First bill came and the balance was $11,000 higher than she expected.

I asked her why she didn’t call me to help her buy the car and she sheepishly said that I’m too busy and have too much going on and she thought she could do it herself.

I swear she’s just like Ma Livia was to Tony Soprano.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617084)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 11:00 AM
Author: slimy chrome parlour

Well, if she's really rich enough to pay off fast like you say, she should enjoy her new ride! BTW when people like her all die off the economy will completely collapse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617099)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 10:40 AM
Author: seedy odious rigor

great deal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617072)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 10:51 AM
Author: aquamarine curious locale

It’s a terrible deal and she’s a disabled senior. It’s elder abuse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617086)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 11:04 AM
Author: bronze razzmatazz persian

bad genes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617106)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: orange unhinged internal respiration roommate

she’s frugal for not springing for a Lexus es. Probably thinking that your kids will need help once you die before she does.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617114)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 11:28 AM
Author: Vigorous dilemma

You can get a top trim es for 51k

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617169)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 11:27 AM
Author: Vigorous dilemma

Negative equity from the last car? 20 year warranty? Last time I bought a car they tried to sell me separate policies on the paint, wheels, towing, even the fucking keys. It's insane.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617165)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 11:35 AM
Author: aquamarine curious locale

No negative equity.

She traded them in a 2019 Ford Fusion that she didn't like. It was completely paid off. I asked and I think she said she got $4000 on the trade in?

I think a reasonable price for that vehicle in the used market would be about double that to $10,000. It was high mileage and was purchased by her last husband as a rental car return.

But yeah, they got her on that a bit too.

She says she declined buying "most" of the warranties, but she was probably lying to me. She lies to me a lot because she doesn't want me to think that she's stupid (she is).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617188)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 12:15 PM
Author: Vigorous dilemma

At least you’ll inherit a reliable vehicle

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617270)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 12:18 PM
Author: aquamarine curious locale

Dementia Mom may have another 20 years in the tank.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617278)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 1:38 PM
Author: swashbuckling field

Is OP disco fries? If so, he's going before the mom. The conniption he's having rn is contributing to even further shortening his lifespan.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617467)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 11:56 AM
Author: kink-friendly temple keepsake machete

She’s smart enough to realize you’d think she was stupid, so she tried to do it herself. But not smart enough to take your advice beforehand

Society is tough for dumbs. I guess some people would say work on your soft skills but LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617226)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 1:45 PM
Author: bespoke volcanic crater

She has dementia but had no problems buying a new car with specific requirements?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617480)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 2:04 PM
Author: aquamarine curious locale

She walked into a Toyota dealership, accepted the free can of soda, and proceeded to let them rifle through her pockets.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617537)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 1:46 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac hilarious abode

how did we go from blind gf to dementia mom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49617481)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: Alcoholic menage

didnt you say you had cancer or something? are you in remission?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49618041)



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Date: January 25th, 2026 5:56 PM
Author: aquamarine curious locale

I said I had gout, and yes there have been some minor improvements. Elbow can swing freely now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5826298&forum_id=2Elisa#49618192)