Date: July 27th, 2025 1:57 PM
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What I learned
By no means am I a newbie, I have been with over 1000 working girls, and have had great times and not so great times. I have played the game all over the world.
Just a few words for thought.
Never get too close to these girls.
First off 99.9% of the time they don't care about us, they only care about our money. As soon as you walk out the door you are promptly forgotten.
No you are not going to pull them out of the business and "save them" Does that happen, sure, but like probably about 1% of the time, and a good chance she won't be loyal to you.
Just because you see several great reviews on a girl does not mean you will have a great experience as well. These girls are human, not fuck machines as some may think. They have up days, down days. They may find one client sick, ugly and disgusting and just want to get it over as fast as possible and yet the next client may be super hot and attractive to her and push all her buttons. I got great service from a really hot 19 yo last year whilst my buddy got shit (ok hes tipping the scales at 400+ #) but still get my grift?
For the most part these girls are doing this because they may have limited other options, so even if your date goes south just accept it as that's the way the hobby goes sometimes.
Deals that are TGTBT are!
Now this is just me. But. Never transport a girl in your car, OR do a cardate. If things go south or you get caught with her by the popo, your problems will be A LOT worse. Not telling anyone how to play, but getting busted in a sting once (yes it sent my life in a direction I am still trying to recover from, it can and will destroy your life-if anyone wants details DM me).
Incalls to YOUR location are safest but that will likely add in complexity or expense. Its about control of the environment.
Stick with girls that have a good history of verifiable reviews, yea that can be tricky as it can be a transient job for some girls.
Back to my first point. Back in 2019, I saw a girl that was TGTBT, just 19 very petite and allowed a full open menu (no greek-but I don't do that anyway). Short light brown hair, blue eyes, cute freckles a true GND experience. Service was top notch. I was seeing her "professionally" 2 x a week for six months. During that time I did start to get closer to her, we exchanged real names, and I eventually met her at her apartment which was kinda fun because we had to be careful she still lived with her mom so there was some sneaking around for that.
One night she called me at 2 am I first ignored her call but she was psycho dialing me every minute, I eventually answered. She was crying hysterically and said she had a bad date and she had gotten beaten up and was begging me for a ride. I reluctantly dragged my ass out of bed to go get her. When I got her she was beat but not too bad, I think it destroyed her soul more than anything. I told her we need to go to the hospital and get you checked but she refused stating they would call the police (yea they would) and she just didn't want to deal with it, she did not want to go home so we got a Motel 6 for the rest of the night. She cuddled next to me and held on like I was going to get swept away by the wind.
That was her last professional date ever, and although it would have been easy for me to close the deal that night and get a freebee I didn't, I just held her and comforted her the best I could.
Thats where our "non professional" relationship began, we would talk several times a week, meet for lunches etc. Over time she shared more of her story and she did have a shitty life growing up, she was raped by her moms boyfriend at 13, her mom did little to protect her over the yeas. She did grow up in poverty (their apartment was in a real bad part of town), and always seemed to struggle.
She had trouble getting a job and keeping one, despite my doing a resume for her and coaching her on job interviews and work ethics, she never seemed to catch on.
Now this is the "too close part" Over the next 4 years she would message me begging for money, nothing like "I need $300" always like $5-$25 bucks to eat or get a drink, sometimes the big head would win but often my heart went out to her because I knew of her struggles and would eventually give in sometimes. Shed call me for rides all over, and yes I knew she was taking advantage of me because she knew that I did have a soft spot for her and yes part of me did want to rescue her and keep her for myself. She got hard into drugs and so I was trying my best to distance myself from her. But over the 4 years I parted with close to $4000 in small increments. In reality I thin she probably saw me as a middle aged fat old mad (I was 54 when we met and started our professional and non professional relationship), but I always had trouble saying a hard NO to her, often I would just ignore her text.
In closing about a year ago she disclosed to me she had cervical cancer and watched her deteriorate rapidly. She passed away about two months ago and I took it HARD, it was like I really did lose a girl friend that I cared about and loved. Heck some days Ill just start talking like I am talking to her.
Finally don't get fully consumed in the hobby, a good buddy of mine has and he is WELL into 6 figures over the years. We all hobby for one reason or another, for me it was always a lack of love from females, their companionship and an otherwise empty life.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5754923&forum_id=2Elisa#49134933)