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It's unreal how bad divorce effects you
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:33 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena My personality is permanently altered by the fact that my parents divorced when I was four or five and the consequent dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832897) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 10:21 PM Author: Cerebral hideous messiness hell It's fraud (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833277) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:46 PM Author: Talking Red Plaza How has this manifested in your IRL friend? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47835238) |
Date: July 11th, 2024 8:34 PM Author: mentally impaired wagecucks toaster everything permanently effects your personality so try again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832898) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:34 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena I don't know if that's true brother. Trauma leaves you much worse off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832902) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:35 PM Author: mentally impaired wagecucks toaster so you'd prefer to go through life without any alterations to your infant personality? not following here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832904) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:36 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena I don't know, I was trying to start a conversation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832919) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:35 PM Author: racy primrose boistinker Tough to tell the impact since the divorce happened when you were so young. It's possible you would have ended up even gayer if your parents stayed together. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832905) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:35 PM Author: mentally impaired wagecucks toaster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832909) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:36 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena Maybe so (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832916) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 9:11 PM Author: Shaky Water Buffalo Hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833057) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 11:44 PM Author: jet corn cake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833481) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:46 PM Author: Tantric Territorial Knife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47835241) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:36 PM Author: Soggy magenta azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832913) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:36 PM Author: Spectacular Indigo Bawdyhouse Pisswyrm Yeah, the 0-7 years are so important for personality and core belief formation. Core beliefs are basically set in stone for the rest of your life and very few people develop the self-awareness to alter them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832917) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:41 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832936) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 8:54 AM Author: haunting rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47834019) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:39 PM Author: massive nibblets Sounds like a skill issue (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832926) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:40 PM Author: Orchid Ape If I raised a pumo, that stress would probably ruin my marriage too. Look in the mirror. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832931) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:41 PM Author: aromatic elastic band personal credit line sorry man divorce w young kids is SPS unless there's something serious like real abuse or addiction etc |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:08 AM Author: Cerebral hideous messiness hell Yes friend..got fucked over in life and having to read 📚 this sucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833523) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:41 PM Author: Charismatic grizzly cuckoldry My parents divorced when I was six and I don’t think it had any effect on me. That said, I absolutely hate it now when I hear about other people getting divorced. I used to have a family law attorney across the hall from me and I hated overhearing her conversations about her cases. It was heartbreaking. It’s worse when young kids are involved but still really bad even when it’s just a childless couple. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832934) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:42 PM Author: mentally impaired wagecucks toaster lucky. My parents just fought and pretended like they didnt. that's usually how kids get schizophrenia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832938) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:45 PM Author: Ruddy lascivious idiot the only problem with divorce is it puts the woman in control of the family which is horrible for 99.9% of families. fix the laws and no one will give a fuck about "divorce" anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832953) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:14 AM Author: Cerebral hideous messiness hell Finally someone with a heart ❤️ I love you and now things sound real and proper (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833531) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:42 PM Author: Ruddy lascivious idiot it permanently fucked up my ability to tell the difference between homonyms and homophones (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832937) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:42 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832940) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:20 PM Author: Beta White Sound Barrier (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47835153) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:43 PM Author: Swashbuckling hunting ground It’s incredibly bad. Maybe it’s just kind of bad. “one parent fucking off” seems better, then the kid doesn’t need to shuttle back and forth like their life revolves around some arrangement that a Judge mandated, and they can still have at least one parent they still like instead of realizing both parents are Bad and Selfish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832945) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:44 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena The worst part for me was that I lived in perpetual conflict even after they got divorced. Each side hated the other, and I was constantly playing politics on both sides trying to make them happy. Had some weird arrangement that was like every Wednesday and every other weekend at my dad's house plus two weeks in the summer.
It was horrible shit. My mom was depressed my entire childhood. I remember being 12 or 13 trying to console my mom in an empty parking lot at 9pm after her boyfriend dumped her. |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:48 PM Author: Swashbuckling hunting ground I can’t remember if my parents got divorced or not. I think they did. Nobody fought, they were just like “go to your dad’s house while he isn’t even there every fortnight.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832966) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:49 PM Author: sienna 180 people who are hurt Are your parents still alive now? Still hate each other? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832973) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:50 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena Yeah they are, and yes they do. It's toned down to be less anger and more depression over everything that happened. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832976) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:52 PM Author: sienna 180 people who are hurt Did someone cheat? Why do they still hate each other all these years later? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832985) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:54 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena My dad had an ongoing affair for years from the time I was born until I was probably 5 when they got divorced
My dad was not nearly as affected as my mom obviously |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 9:17 PM Author: Shaky Water Buffalo Hall DId he marry his sidechick after the divorce? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833077) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 10:03 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena No, she came out as a lesbian shortly after and he married a different one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833209) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 9:59 PM Author: electric crackhouse legend chad, cumming in ur moms mouth as u wait in the backseat, saying "This is my rock bottom" as he gets out of your car.
ur mom, turning back to u: "I think that's the last time we'll see him" with tears in her eyes |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:47 PM Author: galvanic buck-toothed famous landscape painting shut up pussy faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832961) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:47 PM Author: slate meetinghouse striped hyena Ok (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832965) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:49 PM Author: Dashing Stead Old Irish Cottage Only for men. Women are out the next day getting deep dicked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832972) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 8:52 PM Author: sienna 180 people who are hurt I’ve fucked a few divorced women. They almost always have some personality or physical defect that makes you understand why they’re divorced. One chick was a sweetheart but had three kids she was juggling and I had no interest in being a stepdad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47832981) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:17 PM Author: Beta White Sound Barrier Can confirm. My ex went out and rode the BBC carousel. Even shacked up with a BBC for a while.
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:47 PM Author: Dashing Stead Old Irish Cottage She ever report back to you on the size of the BBC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47835246) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 9:14 PM Author: henna titillating sanctuary stock car how can you disentangle the effects of divorce from the effects of your subsequent molestation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833063) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 10:00 PM Author: Rambunctious deranged orchestra pit mexican My dad was too ugly to ever leave my mom even though I suspect she basically never let him fuck her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833191) |
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Date: July 11th, 2024 11:47 PM Author: jet corn cake maybe you were already nervous. maybe you lacked grit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833484) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:28 AM Author: Cerebral hideous messiness hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833551) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:14 AM Author: Vivacious state Isn’t it ironic that divorce is the best argument for cheating? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833532) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:19 PM Author: lake principal's office affirmative action This makes no sense (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47835148) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:17 AM Author: maize institution stuffwhitepeoplelike: (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833537) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 12:25 AM Author: smoky casino This is Reddit tier thinking. If your parents didn't divorce it would mean that 1 of them died, or they stayed together and there was constant tension and hostility, cheating or domestic abuse in your household for your entire childhood.
Or if they were happy and stayed together then they wouldn't be your parents, or even have you.
90% of the time a functional couple with child divorces it's because the child was annoying as shit or ruined everything financially |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 7:53 AM Author: obsidian hateful address https://www.reddit.com/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47833957) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 9:03 AM Author: Amber School Cafeteria (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47834023) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 4:07 PM Author: Beta White Sound Barrier I think it's affects (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47835133) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 7:45 PM Author: Filthy public bath party of the first part Can confirm that some couples absolutely SHOULD get divorced.
In my wife's case, Mom is mentally ill and abusive, Father is completely codependent despite being verbally and physically abused throughout marriage. Children were largely sacrificed for Mom's needs.
While it made my wife very strong, self sufficient and driven. It also instilled very strong codependent tendencies and tons of trauma from years of abuse and a "healthy" parent who was unable to end the relationship for the health and safety of kids.
These patterns are now repeating in our own relationship leading us to separate/divorce.
I came from a family of alcholism with an enabling parent and not as bad but similar dynamic. I also have strong codependency as a result.
Wife and I love each other tremendously but our relationship is also incredible unhealthy and while we are currently separated I think the likely outcome is divorce as it's too easy for two codependents to backslide into unhealthy dynamics.
In our case, for sure her side, if her dad had divorced early on both kids would have turned out significantly more well adjusted and emotionally healthy then the environment they grew up in. |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 7:48 PM Author: Yellow Maniacal Abode Tell us more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47835697) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 10:18 PM Author: jet corn cake sup TMF (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47836035) |
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Date: July 12th, 2024 10:41 PM Author: blue histrionic windowlicker I am a child of divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5553932&forum_id=2Reputation#47836087) |