best place for meeting women (no bars/clubs)
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:51 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
Mid-20s, single guy living in MFH. I hate bars and clubs. Where do I go to meet women?
*No online dating either - too much work to message tons of girls back and forth.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637081) |

Date: May 7th, 2012 4:52 PM Author: ...........,........,,,,,,,,.,,,,
Whole foods, dog parks
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
i just hate bars, man.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637094) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
why u so mad?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637093) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM Author: " " '' ''
your ? sucked
gtfo
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637116) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
what's wrong with not liking to go to bars?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637121) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:58 PM Author: " " '' ''
you added no online dating on top of that.
? sucks because youre throwing out all these dumb preconditions.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637132) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
well if i'm doing online dating or going to bars then i wouldn't need to ask you guys where to meet women.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637171) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:54 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
my friends seem pretty useless in this regard.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637101) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:05 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
they tend to invite people that i already know.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637561) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:56 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
that seems like a lot of work; i'd rather just do online dating than sign up for yoga.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637115) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:03 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
i work about 55-65 hours a week; i guess i'm just lazy.
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:55 PM Author: ...,,,...,,,...,,,...,,,...,,,...
xoxohth
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Date: May 7th, 2012 4:57 PM Author: ,.,.,..,...,....,.,.,..,.,...,.,.,,..,,.,.,,.,..
Church
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:03 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
non-religious.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637163) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
what the hell is that?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637173) |

Date: May 7th, 2012 5:05 PM Author: Michael Doodikoff
dang dude, you are really limiting yourself from things that many people do to meet dating mates.
I'd say intramural, some kind of meetup.com activity that interests you, or a church with a large young adult population.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637176) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
i'm as agnostic as one can get so church is not an option.
what kind of girls do meetup.com?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637187) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:09 PM Author: Michael Doodikoff
no idea, never gone to a meetup.com thing, but once I was at the lake and saw a meetup.com group renting a huge pontoon boat. We drove by them later, and they were partying their asses off, puking off the boat, grilling out, multiple kegs of beer, etc. Fair amount of aspies and weirdos, but they looked to be having fun. We tied up to them for a while, girl on the boat told me that most of them had never met each other before.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637197) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:07 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
do attractive/date-worthy girls join meetup or is that only for losers like us?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637188) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
that's my suspicion as well.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637208) |

Date: May 7th, 2012 5:10 PM Author: James Joyce Jr.
Chili cook-offs
IBS support groups
Vegan restaurants
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637206) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:13 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
the whole messaging back and forth thing sounds quite time consuming. plus, i heard that most guys only get about a 20% response rate; that's a lot of messages to send out.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637229) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:32 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
what are the credited sites? okcupid?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637325) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 6:17 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
yeah but i dont want to pay 20 bucks a month.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637666) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:19 PM Author: cactp
Subtract your XO time by 30 minutes each day.
Seek women during those 30 minutes each day.
The commitment level is quite low and you are living in the best place in the world to find an attractive, employed, somewhat normal to quite normal woman online.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637260)
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:33 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
are girls on free sites like okcupid serious about dating? i dont want to pay for match.com or eharmony.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637338) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:37 PM Author: cactp
eHarmony is garbage.
Match is how I met BFdood. I support paying money for good leads.
OKC is the way to go if you just want to meet people and aren't really looking for anything serious. Due to its low requirements, it draws in flakier people.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637359) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:40 PM Author: ..,.....,,,,,...,,,,.....,,.,.,,,,.,.,.,,,.,
yeah, i don't to be sending girls messages just to inflate their egos.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637375) |
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Date: May 7th, 2012 5:43 PM Author: cactp
Also, it really doesn't take that much effort. Guys who send long, involved messages are annoying. You just get in there, say hi, mention one thing about her profile, then tell her to get back to you if interested. Then, if she does get back to you, ask a follow-up Q. Next, she'll answer that, and if it seems to be positive or she wants to know about you, too, take it to phone call or meeting up in a cafe territory.
The point isn't to be stuck in e-mail message hell for weeks. The point is to meet people without having to try very hard and determine if you like them based on pre-determined criteria that matched you in some way.
Give it a try. If you hate it, the loss will not be immense.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637403) |

Date: May 7th, 2012 5:56 PM Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,,:...,..:,;:....,:,.,.,...,:.;:,.
Fuckbook. It's like the Facebook of sex.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637492) |
Date: May 7th, 2012 6:25 PM Author: ,.,...,..,.,.,:,;,....,.,:,:,.,.,:,.,.:,:.,:.::,.
You can try things like museums, bookstores, etc.
But really, for a single dood in his mid-20s, OKC and meeting through friends are the only credited calls.
OKC: Super easy to set up a profile, free, and if you aren't a total idiot/aspie and have some idea of how to talk to women, you'll get a response rate well above 20%. I'm not incredibly good looking (6.5, maybe 7 at best) and I had a response rate of around 40-50%+ when I was in DC. You do not need to spend tons of time messaging back and forth. (If you're doing that, you're doing this wrong.) Send short, simple messages that mention something you found interesting in the person's profile and asking them about it.
Meeting through friends: arrange dinner party/potluck type things with your friends, encourage them to invite friends from work, profit.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1942739&forum_id=2#20637743) |
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