Husband had sex with me while I was drunk. Should I divorce him?
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Date: July 24th, 2012 9:21 PM Author: Useless Alpha
My husband is kind, supportive, funny, generous, smart, and loving. However, I feel like I must divorce him. Six years ago, when we were in our early 20s and had just fallen in love, after a night of partying and drinking, he woke me up in the middle of the night and started to have sex with me.
I was dozing and still drunk and, yes, I took my panties off myself. But when I realized that it was not OK for him to make advances on me in my state, I pushed him away and ran out. He later felt so bad he wanted to turn himself in for rape. I was very confused and thought at times that I was overreacting and at others that I was raped. We painfully worked through this, but the incident made my husband very reluctant about having sex. This led to an agreement that he shouldn't be afraid of coming close to me in similar situations as long as he asked my consent.
This made us feel better and I felt secure again. However, we just found ourselves in a very similar situation. After coming back from a friend’s wine tasting we went to bed and he started to kiss me. I liked it and went along, only to wake up in the morning and remember only half of it. Now I am in the same painful spot I was before and I can’t fathom how he could have ignored our agreement. Should I just drop it or am I right about feeling abused?
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Date: July 24th, 2012 9:34 PM Author: At-the-ready boltzmann
*is writer of this article*
*gets raped*
*replies by writing a lengthy screed on the internet instead of calling the police*
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Date: July 25th, 2012 2:54 AM Author: vengeful philosopher-king
Recently, my current gf and I went out and got drunk and came back to her place. I didn't even remember coming back at all, 100% blackout from like 1 am on.
Next morning, she was like "do you remember fucking me?" and I was like "lol no we had sex?" and she was like "hehe yeah you made me cum, but you couldn't finish, and then you fell off the side of the bed and couldn't get up for a while."
OH NOES BROTHERS, WAS I RAPED?!?!?!
shitlibs
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