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How to ask for number on dating site after series of messages

How the hell do I word this, I've never done the online dati...
Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden  05/07/13
"hey, let me get your number so we can figure out when ...
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
Friend her on facebook. Send her a message "hey text me...
...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;  05/07/13
lol that's not creepy.
MoreDoughHi  05/07/13
"lets grab a drink. what's your number. my number is __...
David Blatt  05/07/13
Give yours and say "here is my number if you text"...
,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..;  05/07/13
is it ever a different protocol when it comes to BBWs?
the dodo bird (extinct)  05/07/13
why the fuck would you say something beta like "if you ...
David Blatt  05/07/13
no need to nitpick brother, point is its not really an obsta...
,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..;  05/07/13
just making the point, in case op actually adopts this word ...
David Blatt  05/07/13
Fair. I'm phone poasting and also baked.
,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..;  05/07/13
At 7pm on a Tuesday. Well done, brother.
macguffin  05/07/13
Ok, I was going to give her my number and ask her if she wan...
Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden  05/07/13
ask out, get number, and give yours all together.
David Blatt  05/07/13
I feel like it is far less creepy to give yours first, but t...
,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..;  05/07/13
how old are you and what kind of girls do you target, and wh...
David Blatt  05/07/13
These girls range all over the map, from prudish to slutty, ...
,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..;  05/07/13
come on. do you ever get girls to come over who don't smoke?...
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
cq. i'm not a pothead. other ideas?
David Blatt  05/07/13
something along the lines of "hey you sound cool. let's...
Michael Doodikoff  05/07/13
Don't give her your # until you have hers. Girls on these...
Lyin' Brighter  05/07/13
I usually send a message with "Ayo Duchess!!! Let me de...
Arredondo Special  05/07/13
lol wholly shit man...I'm stealing this
jonnyBlaze  05/07/13
repoast?
...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;  05/07/13
Brother, you already have a gappy 8. Leave some for the rest...
Arredondo Special  05/07/13
cum on, share with friends.
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
sharing is caring.
the dodo bird (extinct)  05/07/13
Ok. Real talk. I won't repoast that one. It is pretty golden...
Arredondo Special  05/07/13
hey what do you think about meeting girls without getting th...
I said RESEMBLE monkeys  05/07/13
the number is necessary for logistical purposes.
David Blatt  05/07/13
girls can be very flakey when it comes to meeting guys from ...
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
searching through my successful emails i get there number 75...
MoreDoughHi  05/07/13
AREN'T IPODS CRAZY?
.:.;;.:...,.,.,.  05/07/13
TYFT reference
.,.,,..,.,,.,.,:,,:,..,,:::,...,:,.,.:...:,:.::,.  05/07/13
I just re-read that the other day.
macguffin  05/07/13


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Date: May 7th, 2013 6:59 PM
Author: Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden

How the hell do I word this, I've never done the online dating thing before

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152751)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:00 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

"hey, let me get your number so we can figure out when to meet up"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152763)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:38 PM
Author: ...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;

Friend her on facebook. Send her a message "hey text me your number when you get a chance. mine is 555-555-5555." then ask her out when she send you her number.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152994)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:42 PM
Author: MoreDoughHi

lol that's not creepy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153020)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:01 PM
Author: David Blatt

"lets grab a drink. what's your number. my number is ________"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152770)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:02 PM
Author: ,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..; (the penitent rascal master man)

Give yours and say "here is my number if you text" or whatever. It's neverreally a big deal once you agree that a date sometime is a good idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152776)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: the dodo bird (extinct)

is it ever a different protocol when it comes to BBWs?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152787)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: David Blatt

why the fuck would you say something beta like "if you text"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152788)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:04 PM
Author: ,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..; (the penitent rascal master man)

no need to nitpick brother, point is its not really an obstacle once you've established that you're going to go on a date/have a back and forth that can move to texting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152799)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:05 PM
Author: David Blatt

just making the point, in case op actually adopts this word for word.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152809)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:07 PM
Author: ,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..; (the penitent rascal master man)

Fair. I'm phone poasting and also baked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152815)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 9:32 PM
Author: macguffin (an apparatus for trapping lions in the Scottish Highlands)

At 7pm on a Tuesday. Well done, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153823)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden

Ok, I was going to give her my number and ask her if she wanted to text but I was hesitant since some people have said "you're the guy, you get the number from her." But I guess it's no big deal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152789)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: David Blatt

ask out, get number, and give yours all together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152793)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:06 PM
Author: ,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..; (the penitent rascal master man)

I feel like it is far less creepy to give yours first, but that's just me. Fwiw I think I am entirely not creepy with shit and regularly have first dates at my apartment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152810)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:08 PM
Author: David Blatt

how old are you and what kind of girls do you target, and what % of them rebuff at the idea of coming to your apt?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152825)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:10 PM
Author: ,.,...,..,,,.,:.,:,..,:::,..,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,..; (the penitent rascal master man)

These girls range all over the map, from prudish to slutty, hot to fat. Really depends on how quickly we hit it off via messages/text. If she smokes pot it is a big draw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152832)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:13 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

come on. do you ever get girls to come over who don't smoke? that's a legit social activity that you can't do in a public place.

but it's a lot harder to get a girl to come straight over. i've gone to girl's places a few times but it's rare.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152842)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:23 PM
Author: David Blatt

cq. i'm not a pothead. other ideas?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152907)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:02 PM
Author: Michael Doodikoff

something along the lines of "hey you sound cool. let's meet up for a drink sometime. What's your number."

make sure you know her IRL first name too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152778)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:16 PM
Author: Lyin' Brighter (a flame)

Don't give her your # until you have hers.

Girls on these sites can flake on you really hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152857)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:37 PM
Author: Arredondo Special (Scandinavian Hunter / f/k/a Circuit City Special)

I usually send a message with "Ayo Duchess!!! Let me deep dick dat ass. Give me yo number."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152988)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:38 PM
Author: jonnyBlaze

lol wholly shit man...I'm stealing this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152998)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:41 PM
Author: ...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;

repoast?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153016)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: Arredondo Special (Scandinavian Hunter / f/k/a Circuit City Special)

Brother, you already have a gappy 8. Leave some for the rest of us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153033)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:46 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

cum on, share with friends.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153039)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:49 PM
Author: the dodo bird (extinct)

sharing is caring.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153054)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 8:15 PM
Author: Arredondo Special (Scandinavian Hunter / f/k/a Circuit City Special)

Ok. Real talk. I won't repoast that one. It is pretty golden. It took multiple messages to perfect. My go-to initial message, however, is the following: Take a peek at my profile, and if you laughed or smiled, then you should definitely message me back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153233)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:44 PM
Author: I said RESEMBLE monkeys

hey what do you think about meeting girls without getting the number? is this a necessary evil?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153028)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: David Blatt

the number is necessary for logistical purposes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153032)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

girls can be very flakey when it comes to meeting guys from online. get the number and a few hours before the date, check that it's still on via text.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153034)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: MoreDoughHi

searching through my successful emails i get there number 75% of the time by giving them my number and saying "let's grab a drink this week sometime." they reply with their number and "text or call me when you're free."

the other 25% is unsolicited me just asking them to grab a drink. they respond with their number.

ergo, if i were you, i would give them your number telling them (not asking) you would like to grab a drink with them this week. they'll email you their number of they will start texting you like "hey it's jennifer from match. do you still want to get a drink wed?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153031)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:47 PM
Author: .:.;;.:...,.,.,.

AREN'T IPODS CRAZY?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153047)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:53 PM
Author: .,.,,..,.,,.,.,:,,:,..,,:::,...,:,.,.:...:,:.::,.

TYFT reference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153078)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 9:33 PM
Author: macguffin (an apparatus for trapping lions in the Scottish Highlands)

I just re-read that the other day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153843)