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How to ask for number on dating site after series of messages

How the hell do I word this, I've never done the online dati...
Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden  05/07/13
"hey, let me get your number so we can figure out when ...
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
Friend her on facebook. Send her a message "hey text me...
...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;  05/07/13
lol that's not creepy.
MoreDoughHi  05/07/13
"lets grab a drink. what's your number. my number is __...
Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon  05/07/13
Give yours and say "here is my number if you text"...
The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y.  05/07/13
is it ever a different protocol when it comes to BBWs?
the dodo bird (extinct)  05/07/13
why the fuck would you say something beta like "if you ...
Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon  05/07/13
no need to nitpick brother, point is its not really an obsta...
The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y.  05/07/13
just making the point, in case op actually adopts this word ...
Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon  05/07/13
Fair. I'm phone poasting and also baked.
The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y.  05/07/13
At 7pm on a Tuesday. Well done, brother.
macguffin  05/07/13
Ok, I was going to give her my number and ask her if she wan...
Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden  05/07/13
ask out, get number, and give yours all together.
Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon  05/07/13
I feel like it is far less creepy to give yours first, but t...
The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y.  05/07/13
how old are you and what kind of girls do you target, and wh...
Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon  05/07/13
These girls range all over the map, from prudish to slutty, ...
The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y.  05/07/13
come on. do you ever get girls to come over who don't smoke?...
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
cq. i'm not a pothead. other ideas?
Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon  05/07/13
something along the lines of "hey you sound cool. let's...
Michael Doodikoff  05/07/13
Don't give her your # until you have hers. Girls on these...
From a Bloomington Bathhouse on the Hill  05/07/13
I usually send a message with "Ayo Duchess!!! Let me de...
Arredondo Special  05/07/13
lol wholly shit man...I'm stealing this
jonnyBlaze  05/07/13
repoast?
...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;  05/07/13
Brother, you already have a gappy 8. Leave some for the rest...
Arredondo Special  05/07/13
cum on, share with friends.
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
sharing is caring.
the dodo bird (extinct)  05/07/13
Ok. Real talk. I won't repoast that one. It is pretty golden...
Arredondo Special  05/07/13
hey what do you think about meeting girls without getting th...
I said RESEMBLE monkeys  05/07/13
the number is necessary for logistical purposes.
Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon  05/07/13
girls can be very flakey when it comes to meeting guys from ...
Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf  05/07/13
searching through my successful emails i get there number 75...
MoreDoughHi  05/07/13
AREN'T IPODS CRAZY?
.:.;;.:...,.,.,.  05/07/13
TYFT reference
,,,,......;;;..  05/07/13
I just re-read that the other day.
macguffin  05/07/13


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Date: May 7th, 2013 6:59 PM
Author: Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden

How the hell do I word this, I've never done the online dating thing before

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152751)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:00 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

"hey, let me get your number so we can figure out when to meet up"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152763)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:38 PM
Author: ...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;

Friend her on facebook. Send her a message "hey text me your number when you get a chance. mine is 555-555-5555." then ask her out when she send you her number.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152994)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:42 PM
Author: MoreDoughHi

lol that's not creepy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153020)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:01 PM
Author: Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon

"lets grab a drink. what's your number. my number is ________"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152770)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:02 PM
Author: The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y. (the penitent rascal master man)

Give yours and say "here is my number if you text" or whatever. It's neverreally a big deal once you agree that a date sometime is a good idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152776)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: the dodo bird (extinct)

is it ever a different protocol when it comes to BBWs?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152787)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon

why the fuck would you say something beta like "if you text"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152788)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:04 PM
Author: The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y. (the penitent rascal master man)

no need to nitpick brother, point is its not really an obstacle once you've established that you're going to go on a date/have a back and forth that can move to texting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152799)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:05 PM
Author: Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon

just making the point, in case op actually adopts this word for word.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152809)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:07 PM
Author: The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y. (the penitent rascal master man)

Fair. I'm phone poasting and also baked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152815)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 9:32 PM
Author: macguffin (an apparatus for trapping lions in the Scottish Highlands)

At 7pm on a Tuesday. Well done, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153823)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: Ordering in Italian at Olive Garden

Ok, I was going to give her my number and ask her if she wanted to text but I was hesitant since some people have said "you're the guy, you get the number from her." But I guess it's no big deal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152789)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:03 PM
Author: Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon

ask out, get number, and give yours all together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152793)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:06 PM
Author: The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y. (the penitent rascal master man)

I feel like it is far less creepy to give yours first, but that's just me. Fwiw I think I am entirely not creepy with shit and regularly have first dates at my apartment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152810)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:08 PM
Author: Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon

how old are you and what kind of girls do you target, and what % of them rebuff at the idea of coming to your apt?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152825)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:10 PM
Author: The Notorious N.O.T.A.R.Y. (the penitent rascal master man)

These girls range all over the map, from prudish to slutty, hot to fat. Really depends on how quickly we hit it off via messages/text. If she smokes pot it is a big draw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152832)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:13 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

come on. do you ever get girls to come over who don't smoke? that's a legit social activity that you can't do in a public place.

but it's a lot harder to get a girl to come straight over. i've gone to girl's places a few times but it's rare.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152842)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:23 PM
Author: Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon

cq. i'm not a pothead. other ideas?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152907)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:02 PM
Author: Michael Doodikoff

something along the lines of "hey you sound cool. let's meet up for a drink sometime. What's your number."

make sure you know her IRL first name too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152778)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:16 PM
Author: From a Bloomington Bathhouse on the Hill (a flame)

Don't give her your # until you have hers.

Girls on these sites can flake on you really hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152857)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:37 PM
Author: Arredondo Special (Scandinavian Hunter / f/k/a Circuit City Special)

I usually send a message with "Ayo Duchess!!! Let me deep dick dat ass. Give me yo number."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152988)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:38 PM
Author: jonnyBlaze

lol wholly shit man...I'm stealing this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23152998)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:41 PM
Author: ...,.,..;.,.;.;.;..,,,,.,.,.;.,;.,;.,;;.;;

repoast?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153016)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: Arredondo Special (Scandinavian Hunter / f/k/a Circuit City Special)

Brother, you already have a gappy 8. Leave some for the rest of us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153033)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:46 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

cum on, share with friends.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153039)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:49 PM
Author: the dodo bird (extinct)

sharing is caring.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153054)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 8:15 PM
Author: Arredondo Special (Scandinavian Hunter / f/k/a Circuit City Special)

Ok. Real talk. I won't repoast that one. It is pretty golden. It took multiple messages to perfect. My go-to initial message, however, is the following: Take a peek at my profile, and if you laughed or smiled, then you should definitely message me back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153233)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:44 PM
Author: I said RESEMBLE monkeys

hey what do you think about meeting girls without getting the number? is this a necessary evil?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153028)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: Djavid Ben Gurion, THREE TIMES Champ of Wimbledon

the number is necessary for logistical purposes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153032)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: Bacon loving foodie thug w/ white vegan hipster gf

girls can be very flakey when it comes to meeting guys from online. get the number and a few hours before the date, check that it's still on via text.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153034)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:45 PM
Author: MoreDoughHi

searching through my successful emails i get there number 75% of the time by giving them my number and saying "let's grab a drink this week sometime." they reply with their number and "text or call me when you're free."

the other 25% is unsolicited me just asking them to grab a drink. they respond with their number.

ergo, if i were you, i would give them your number telling them (not asking) you would like to grab a drink with them this week. they'll email you their number of they will start texting you like "hey it's jennifer from match. do you still want to get a drink wed?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153031)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:47 PM
Author: .:.;;.:...,.,.,.

AREN'T IPODS CRAZY?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153047)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 7:53 PM
Author: ,,,,......;;;..

TYFT reference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153078)



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Date: May 7th, 2013 9:33 PM
Author: macguffin (an apparatus for trapping lions in the Scottish Highlands)

I just re-read that the other day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2249852&forum_id=2#23153843)