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Wife has 2-3 drinks most nights

This is really bothersome. I hardly drink and can't quite gr...
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
ATD
mind-boggling windowlicker
  05/09/13
Pwned, that sucks. Didn't you notice this before marriage?
poppy parlour
  05/09/13
Not really like this. She had a period of heavy drinking aft...
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
My wife noticed it in me before marriage and fucking kicked ...
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
On what planet is that too much?
cruel-hearted garrison
  05/09/13
5+ days out of the week? That's a bit odd, dude.
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
No its not you fucking faggot.
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/09/13
Yes it is. Move on.
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
cr
poppy parlour
  05/09/13
No its really really not. Where are you from?
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/09/13
You are an alcoholic. Non-alcoholics don't give a shit if ot...
hairraiser striped hyena sound barrier
  05/09/13
That's not what's going on here. What's going on is that YOU...
irate trip temple
  05/09/13
cr
Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot
  05/09/13
cr
Brass Thriller State Associate
  05/09/13
My wife and I split a bottle of wine 6 or 7 nights a week an...
cruel-hearted garrison
  05/09/13
For you two, that seems to be true. But you're ignoring wha...
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
this is classic alcoholic paranoia; shows up whenever they h...
Talented House
  05/10/13
xoxo: where a racist alcoholic takes the moral high ground. ...
khaki field sex offender
  05/10/13
who are you calling racist, friend?
domesticated base partner
  05/10/13
Xoxo: where a guy with the word niggers in his moniker is ge...
khaki field sex offender
  05/10/13
Are you offended by the use of teh word "niggers"?...
domesticated base partner
  05/10/13
Look man, all I am saying is that in polite society you and ...
khaki field sex offender
  05/10/13
whats wrong with saying nigger bro? You faggot or something...
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/10/13
People might *incorrectly* think that you are racist, Racist...
khaki field sex offender
  05/10/13
Agreed. The only time I can truly enjoy wife's company is wh...
Cobalt resort cuck
  05/09/13
Probably more like 4-5 nights over here but once you open a ...
green vivacious home
  05/10/13
Clearly you are a fag. You don't drink? What do you do suc...
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/09/13
you do that when you're single, not when you're married.
lake laughsome people who are hurt
  05/09/13
So how do I get her to change? Clearly just talking to her i...
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
Outdrink her 2-1 no matter what. Then she will start to comp...
cruel-hearted garrison
  05/09/13
tbh this is probably cr, tough as it may be
lake laughsome people who are hurt
  05/09/13
cr
Hilarious half-breed
  05/09/13
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Learning disabled crystalline university genital piercing
  05/09/13
Ultimatum. Tell her she needs to demonstrate that her commi...
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
(Insecure faggot)
Cobalt resort cuck
  05/09/13
hmm only thing I can think of is get her involved in a hobby
lake laughsome people who are hurt
  05/09/13
One other possibility is to steer her tipsiness away from an...
cruel-hearted garrison
  05/09/13
Wtf. 3 drinks? 8 I'd understand but 3 is pretty calm.
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/09/13
Describe your marriage. I think the context is important to ...
vigorous halford lay
  05/09/13
Marriage is crappy. It's young, too. But my problem is that ...
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
and she doesn't even want to fuck a lot?
lake laughsome people who are hurt
  05/09/13
She sounds bored bro
Multi-colored rehab
  05/09/13
cr not relationship material
bateful pink potus kitchen
  05/10/13
Bump for anyone wanting to see a IRL closeted married man.
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/09/13
...
Magenta stead dingle berry
  05/09/13
i feel like i have GAIDS after reading all the faggots in th...
Brass Thriller State Associate
  05/09/13
...
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/09/13
Did you miss the part about how it makes her act? Also, sinc...
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
Jesus christ you faggot.
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/09/13
you must be the coolest guy in the frat.
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
she's probably getting angry becuz her faggot husband is act...
Brass Thriller State Associate
  05/09/13
Obviously the OP sees the way she acts while drinking as a p...
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
TCR. wife getting angry and annoying + eating shit/getting f...
Frum Faggotry
  05/09/13
that too
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
Yea. OP here. It's not her having a drink or two which bothe...
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
sounds like she doesn't respect you
Judgmental Turdskin Space
  05/10/13
lol faggot
Hilarious half-breed
  05/09/13
it sounds like OP is being overbearing to me. being in a rel...
Brass Thriller State Associate
  05/09/13
You may be right. From my experience, it's sort of "if...
domesticated base partner
  05/09/13
what if she really likes chewing gum all the time and it pis...
Talented House
  05/10/13
just tell her about this bro http://autoadmit.com/thread....
claret party of the first part
  05/09/13
3 drinks/night is a lot, especially for a girl. tell her to ...
Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot
  05/09/13
You must be a hit at cocktail parties.
Aphrodisiac Giraffe
  05/09/13
I love how defensive all the loser alcoholics are getting in...
Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot
  05/09/13
(Guy who pukes after 1/2 beer and rarely has sex)
startled erotic brunch mood
  05/10/13
Lol. Way to respond to his CR criticism with a general insul...
Lavender nudist pit
  05/10/13
she sounds pretty alpha dood. high t>
cracking library son of senegal
  05/09/13
yeah but the bitch is getting fat
lake laughsome people who are hurt
  05/09/13
what could be alphaer
cracking library son of senegal
  05/09/13
slowly start changing your finances over to your parents or ...
claret party of the first part
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...
amber shrine
  05/10/13
WTF? I drink 2-3 a night, my wife bitches at me about it and...
Filthy house-broken round eye plaza
  05/09/13
If your wife was 15 lb overweight w a beer belly and a bad t...
sepia rigor area
  05/09/13
Shit, I'd probably be more motivated to fuck her than I am n...
Filthy house-broken round eye plaza
  05/09/13
This
Cobalt resort cuck
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cerise jew
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so much... projection... ITT.
Magenta stead dingle berry
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hyperactive olive organic girlfriend
  05/09/13
you are a faggot. jfc
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drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/11/13
i have 3-4 most nights. also just to restate the obvious...
Talented House
  05/10/13
I am drinking right now (#4 of the night after finishing wor...
Swollen Unholy Trailer Park Jewess
  05/10/13
For a woman this is TTT as fuckk
Startling antidepressant drug
  05/10/13
Ty
sepia rigor area
  05/10/13
It sounds like you started this thread in order to build you...
cruel-hearted garrison
  05/10/13
There is only one right way to approach this, and that's to ...
Supple buck-toothed filthpig
  05/10/13
this might actually work
amber shrine
  05/10/13
To me, it sounds like its less about the drinking than that,...
Puce Charismatic Stage
  05/10/13
She probably is depressed because she married a closeted hom...
Soul-stirring masturbator lodge
  05/10/13
Op you're coming off a little emo in this thread. Your wife ...
Provocative Boiling Water
  05/10/13
Whats going on here is people who have never been married or...
coral racy corner main people
  05/10/13
Probably spot on.
khaki field sex offender
  05/10/13
the real problem is you appropriate her getting angry/agress...
sticky nursing home clown
  05/10/13
She sounds down. Take her on more vacations and get her a lo...
Irradiated sanctuary
  05/10/13
great coinage
Pearl casino
  05/10/13
you need to get her pregnant so she can't drink anymore
Abusive Cocky Meetinghouse Foreskin
  05/10/13
NEW IDEA: OP, lend your bitch out to me for the night. You...
drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/10/13
Titcr
gold magical property therapy
  05/10/13
You're not banging her enough so she is relieving sexual fru...
slippery lemon kitty cat old irish cottage
  05/10/13
try to get her into a social and physically active hobby lik...
amber shrine
  05/10/13
this is going to end in divorce :(
Maize Mewling Ape
  05/10/13
Can't comment on the marriage, but as you get older, having ...
hot cordovan theater stage useless brakes
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YOURE DONE HERE FAGGOT! Please follow arrow to the prius wit...
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drab whorehouse fanboi
  05/11/13
cr.
Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot
  05/10/13
Also will add that depends on what you're drinking too; as I...
hot cordovan theater stage useless brakes
  05/10/13
I've found with nice beers that it's hard to drink more than...
dun hall
  05/11/13
that's why its better to do nice beer
lake laughsome people who are hurt
  05/11/13
fuck you
Cobalt resort cuck
  05/11/13
This is why moderation entails smoking a J one night, Pinot ...
Swashbuckling henna ceo
  05/10/13
(guy who has never been married)
Filthy house-broken round eye plaza
  05/10/13
what if your gf smokes weed every night?
big internet-worthy public bath
  05/11/13
i bet she is hiding booze somewhere - start looking
Insecure up-to-no-good gay wizard
  05/11/13


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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:32 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

This is really bothersome. I hardly drink and can't quite grasp why she drinks this much, this often. She will have this alone or in front of me or when we r out w friends. Causes her to get real aggressive (anger etc). Causes her to want to eat like shit (nachos, fries, etc).

I've brought it up to her several times now and she won't stop. I think this is her way to deal w a rocky marriage. But it's not helping at all.

How to handle?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168296)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:35 PM
Author: mind-boggling windowlicker

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168328)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:36 PM
Author: poppy parlour

Pwned, that sucks. Didn't you notice this before marriage?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168338)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

Not really like this. She had a period of heavy drinking after getting laid off, but that was somewhat understandable. This is just weird bullshit now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168363)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

My wife noticed it in me before marriage and fucking kicked herself in the ass repeatedly for a few years until I got sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168364)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:37 PM
Author: cruel-hearted garrison

On what planet is that too much?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168354)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

5+ days out of the week? That's a bit odd, dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168371)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

No its not you fucking faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168381)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

Yes it is. Move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168398)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: poppy parlour

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168409)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

No its really really not. Where are you from?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168415)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:45 PM
Author: hairraiser striped hyena sound barrier

You are an alcoholic. Non-alcoholics don't give a shit if other people don't drink much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168459)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:13 PM
Author: irate trip temple

That's not what's going on here. What's going on is that YOU seem to care that someone else is drinking moderately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168792)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168539)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: Brass Thriller State Associate

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168432)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: cruel-hearted garrison

My wife and I split a bottle of wine 6 or 7 nights a week and never have leftovers. I usually have a beer once I get home too, and she sometimes has a cocktail or something before dinner.

There is nothing wrong with this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168448)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

For you two, that seems to be true. But you're ignoring what it does to OP's wife and to their dynamic. She may be on the cusp of the big downward spiral, whereas the same amount barely affects you and your wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168547)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:16 AM
Author: Talented House

this is classic alcoholic paranoia; shows up whenever they hear about anyone else drinking regularly. remember, not everybody got your shit TTT drunkard genes.

a couple of drinks a night probably has cardiovascular benefits and probably billions of people do this their whole lives with no ill effects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169464)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: khaki field sex offender

xoxo: where a racist alcoholic takes the moral high ground.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170855)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: domesticated base partner

who are you calling racist, friend?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170861)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: khaki field sex offender

Xoxo: where a guy with the word niggers in his moniker is genuinely baffled by accusations of racism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170900)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:30 AM
Author: domesticated base partner

Are you offended by the use of teh word "niggers"? Tell me what else "offends" you, as libs seem to get easily offended and I don't want to offend you. Nigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170968)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:21 PM
Author: khaki field sex offender

Look man, all I am saying is that in polite society you and your ilk are considered filth. No offense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171438)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:31 AM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

whats wrong with saying nigger bro? You faggot or something?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170977)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:20 PM
Author: khaki field sex offender

People might *incorrectly* think that you are racist, Racist Party Bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171433)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: Cobalt resort cuck

Agreed. The only time I can truly enjoy wife's company is when we are both half cocked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168910)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:30 AM
Author: green vivacious home

Probably more like 4-5 nights over here but once you open a bottle of wine you may as well finish it at one sitting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169880)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

Clearly you are a fag. You don't drink? What do you do suck cock instead?

Let her find a guy who can handle her, fag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168376)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: lake laughsome people who are hurt

you do that when you're single, not when you're married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168384)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

So how do I get her to change? Clearly just talking to her isn't making a difference.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168391)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: cruel-hearted garrison

Outdrink her 2-1 no matter what. Then she will start to complain about your drinking and realize it will be hypocritical of her not to stop.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168408)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: lake laughsome people who are hurt

tbh this is probably cr, tough as it may be

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168473)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: Hilarious half-breed

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168543)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:10 PM
Author: Learning disabled crystalline university genital piercing



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168770)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

Ultimatum. Tell her she needs to demonstrate that her commitment to you is more important than her commitment to alcohol. If she even hesitates, it underscores the nature of her problem with alcohol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168414)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: Cobalt resort cuck

(Insecure faggot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168921)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: lake laughsome people who are hurt

hmm only thing I can think of is get her involved in a hobby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168416)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: cruel-hearted garrison

One other possibility is to steer her tipsiness away from anger and towards sex. Can definitely be done if she is still at all attracted to you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168488)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

Wtf. 3 drinks? 8 I'd understand but 3 is pretty calm.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168405)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: vigorous halford lay

Describe your marriage. I think the context is important to make a proper analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168399)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:17 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

Marriage is crappy. It's young, too. But my problem is that I don't want anything to do with her when she gets tipsy/aggressive. She is usually doing one of four things every night, all night: texting, talking on phone, watching tv, or drinking. It's like I married a low IQ person. WTF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168825)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: lake laughsome people who are hurt

and she doesn't even want to fuck a lot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168857)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: Multi-colored rehab

She sounds bored bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168957)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 7:17 AM
Author: bateful pink potus kitchen

cr

not relationship material

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170565)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

Bump for anyone wanting to see a IRL closeted married man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168436)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: Magenta stead dingle berry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168846)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: Brass Thriller State Associate

i feel like i have GAIDS after reading all the faggots in this thread. 2-3 drinks? who fucking cares man. get that stick out of your ass, it's no big deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168442)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168446)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

Did you miss the part about how it makes her act? Also, since you still live in your parents' basement, you may not have the perspective to see that marriage cannot work if one party is committed to something above and beyond the marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168464)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

Jesus christ you faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168478)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

you must be the coolest guy in the frat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168491)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:48 PM
Author: Brass Thriller State Associate

she's probably getting angry becuz her faggot husband is acting like she's an alkie for pouring a glass of wine. i'd get pissed too.

your second sentence is retarded, married people have their own interests too. liking a couple drinks isnt 'committing yourself to something above and beyond the marriage' its just having a couple drinks. its not like she's fucking the neighbor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168494)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:50 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

Obviously the OP sees the way she acts while drinking as a problem and has spoken to her about it. She refuses to change. If you downplay that, you have no clue about addiction or relationships. I know, I know, that's not cool to say. But if you have seen the destruction and pain that happens in this context, you would back off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168531)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: Frum Faggotry

TCR. wife getting angry and annoying + eating shit/getting fat are pretty big problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168551)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

that too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168575)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

Yea. OP here. It's not her having a drink or two which bothers me. It's the fact that she gets real aggressive - not in a good way - and begins to binge eat. It's just fucking weird behavior and I don't get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168849)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:56 AM
Author: Judgmental Turdskin Space

sounds like she doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169715)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: Hilarious half-breed

lol faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168558)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: Brass Thriller State Associate

it sounds like OP is being overbearing to me. being in a relationship means being to accept little things that may annoy you or that your partner may have different views on things. given how minor the perceived infraction is here, it seems ridiculous to get riled up about. talk about 'addiction', 'destruction' et al seems hyperbolic when we're talking about someone enjoying a couple glasses of wine at home. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168579)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:56 PM
Author: domesticated base partner

You may be right. From my experience, it's sort of "if you have to ask, then there's a problem." But maybe we need more information.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168607)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:19 AM
Author: Talented House

what if she really likes chewing gum all the time and it pisses him off, but she refuses to quit? is that also a sign that the marriage is in deep shit due to her competing "commitments?"

i swear to god, ex-drunks who got sober are the most annoying and preachy faggots on earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169482)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: claret party of the first part

just tell her about this bro

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2235786&mc=28&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168614)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot

3 drinks/night is a lot, especially for a girl. tell her to fucking cool it and cut her drinking down to a couple times/week. should give her something to look forward to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168616)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac Giraffe

You must be a hit at cocktail parties.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168621)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:59 PM
Author: Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot

I love how defensive all the loser alcoholics are getting in this thread. drinking every night is a terrible idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168646)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:00 AM
Author: startled erotic brunch mood

(Guy who pukes after 1/2 beer and rarely has sex)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169334)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:48 AM
Author: Lavender nudist pit

Lol. Way to respond to his CR criticism with a general insult. Now, please give me my insult.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171018)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: cracking library son of senegal

she sounds pretty alpha dood. high t>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168633)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:02 PM
Author: lake laughsome people who are hurt

yeah but the bitch is getting fat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168684)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:05 PM
Author: cracking library son of senegal

what could be alphaer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168715)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:00 PM
Author: claret party of the first part

slowly start changing your finances over to your parents or best friend and then divorce her. this won't end well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168658)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:21 PM
Author: amber shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171763)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: Filthy house-broken round eye plaza

WTF? I drink 2-3 a night, my wife bitches at me about it and I just blow it off.

Leave her alone.

Op is an faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168844)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:21 PM
Author: sepia rigor area

If your wife was 15 lb overweight w a beer belly and a bad temper, I think you'd be singing a different tune.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168868)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: Filthy house-broken round eye plaza

Shit, I'd probably be more motivated to fuck her than I am now.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168953)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:28 PM
Author: Cobalt resort cuck

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168962)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: cerise jew



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170902)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: cerise jew



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170903)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: Magenta stead dingle berry

so much... projection... ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168861)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:44 PM
Author: hyperactive olive organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169171)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:41 PM
Author: Transparent theater knife

you are a faggot. jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169132)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 11:49 AM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176789)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:13 AM
Author: Talented House

i have 3-4 most nights.

also just to restate the obvious, you are a fucking faggot and a tool.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169443)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:25 AM
Author: Swollen Unholy Trailer Park Jewess

I am drinking right now (#4 of the night after finishing work around 11:00...I must be a raging boozehound!!!!)

OP is likely a well-known homosexual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169523)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM
Author: Startling antidepressant drug

For a woman this is TTT as fuckk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169656)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:08 AM
Author: sepia rigor area

Ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169766)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:20 AM
Author: cruel-hearted garrison

It sounds like you started this thread in order to build your case to yourself to divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169829)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:16 AM
Author: Supple buck-toothed filthpig

There is only one right way to approach this, and that's to tell her she is getting fat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170701)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:22 PM
Author: amber shrine

this might actually work



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171771)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:32 AM
Author: Puce Charismatic Stage

To me, it sounds like its less about the drinking than that, overall, she is starting to live an unhealthy lifestyle. Getting fat is not cool.

My fiancé doesn't drink, but I usually have 2 drinks most weeknights. She gets a little pissed sometimes when I sit on my ass watching a baseball game with a glass of bourbon, but I workout 4 times a week (yes, squats) and work my ass off, so she backs off.

If she was drinking 3 drinks a night and acting like a sloppy mess, I'd be pissed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170732)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:38 AM
Author: Soul-stirring masturbator lodge

She probably is depressed because she married a closeted homosexual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170739)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:44 AM
Author: Provocative Boiling Water

Op you're coming off a little emo in this thread. Your wife also doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170766)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:39 AM
Author: coral racy corner main people

Whats going on here is people who have never been married or who have great marriages arent understanding that this HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DRINKING.

Youre hypersensitive and she's passive aggressive because the relationship is floundering. You could just as well be mad about her watching trash tv or not washing the dishes or whatever. And she realizes it and continues to have her little passive aggressive drinks. I know this shit well.

Can you live like this? Dont.

Fix the marriage or get out. Its not about the 3 drinks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170745)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:15 AM
Author: khaki field sex offender

Probably spot on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170905)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:50 AM
Author: sticky nursing home clown

the real problem is you appropriate her getting angry/agressive to having a few drinks

its your responsibility to be a pleasant person to be around regardless if you have a few drinks or not

same goes for "having a bad day at work" or whatever

you're responsible for for treating you family members w/ respect, regardless of outside circumstances



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170782)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:56 AM
Author: Irradiated sanctuary

She sounds down. Take her on more vacations and get her a lot of jewelry. SOLO! (she only lives once)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170810)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:28 PM
Author: Pearl casino

great coinage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174209)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Abusive Cocky Meetinghouse Foreskin

you need to get her pregnant so she can't drink anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170899)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:20 AM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi

NEW IDEA: OP, lend your bitch out to me for the night. You can watch in the corner while we drink and fuck. It'll be stimulating for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170934)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 3:31 PM
Author: gold magical property therapy

Titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23172503)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 11:13 AM
Author: slippery lemon kitty cat old irish cottage

You're not banging her enough so she is relieving sexual frustration by drinking. Every time she pours a drink you should just grab her and start railing her right there on the couch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171106)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:24 PM
Author: amber shrine

try to get her into a social and physically active hobby like fuck idk badmiton with a couple you know from work or something idk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171782)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:39 PM
Author: Maize Mewling Ape

this is going to end in divorce :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174250)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:58 PM
Author: hot cordovan theater stage useless brakes

Can't comment on the marriage, but as you get older, having 3 drinks per night (for a guy, this is five-six drinks per night) is a really unhealthy habit. Alcohol ages you and makes you fat. Despite what you may think, you're also getting worse sleep while slightly buzzed, which further ages you and effects your mental acuity (even if you don't feel "hungover"). A bottle of wine a day might work for greek people who live on the beach and eat olives and omega-3 laden fish all day while working 25 hours per week, it's not working for a typical american professional.

This is coming from a guy who fell into that habit around thirty and is realizing how it's unsustainable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174340)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:04 PM
Author: Histrionic saffron hell sweet tailpipe

YOURE DONE HERE FAGGOT! Please follow arrow to the prius with the lesbian in the driver's seat, there is a tail pipe waiting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174362)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 11:51 AM
Author: drab whorehouse fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176792)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:15 PM
Author: Indecent jet-lagged tanning salon idiot

cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174427)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:24 PM
Author: hot cordovan theater stage useless brakes

Also will add that depends on what you're drinking too; as I got older I was picking up a six pack of craft beer rather than some whatever lights; you drink 4-6 nice beers you're consuming like 1000 calories in alcohol every night before bed!

It's better for me at least to just let fucking loose 1-2 nights per week and be dry the rest, though i love beer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174488)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 2:38 PM
Author: dun hall

I've found with nice beers that it's hard to drink more than 2-3, whereas with bud/miller light, putting away a six pack aint no thing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177248)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 3:06 PM
Author: lake laughsome people who are hurt

that's why its better to do nice beer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177339)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 1:11 PM
Author: Cobalt resort cuck

fuck you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176966)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:29 PM
Author: Swashbuckling henna ceo

This is why moderation entails smoking a J one night, Pinot Noir another, and hot sex every night. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174517)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:33 PM
Author: Filthy house-broken round eye plaza

(guy who has never been married)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174538)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 1:42 PM
Author: big internet-worthy public bath

what if your gf smokes weed every night?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177042)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 2:33 PM
Author: Insecure up-to-no-good gay wizard

i bet she is hiding booze somewhere - start looking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177225)