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Wife has 2-3 drinks most nights

This is really bothersome. I hardly drink and can't quite gr...
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
ATD
aquamarine talented senate
  05/09/13
Pwned, that sucks. Didn't you notice this before marriage?
razzle-dazzle lavender brunch
  05/09/13
Not really like this. She had a period of heavy drinking aft...
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
My wife noticed it in me before marriage and fucking kicked ...
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
On what planet is that too much?
vivacious abode round eye
  05/09/13
5+ days out of the week? That's a bit odd, dude.
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
No its not you fucking faggot.
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/09/13
Yes it is. Move on.
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
cr
razzle-dazzle lavender brunch
  05/09/13
No its really really not. Where are you from?
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/09/13
You are an alcoholic. Non-alcoholics don't give a shit if ot...
Awkward prole indian lodge
  05/09/13
That's not what's going on here. What's going on is that YOU...
medicated fragrant space
  05/09/13
cr
soul-stirring mother
  05/09/13
cr
frozen theatre
  05/09/13
My wife and I split a bottle of wine 6 or 7 nights a week an...
vivacious abode round eye
  05/09/13
For you two, that seems to be true. But you're ignoring wha...
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
this is classic alcoholic paranoia; shows up whenever they h...
boyish plaza wrinkle
  05/10/13
xoxo: where a racist alcoholic takes the moral high ground. ...
Hot Institution
  05/10/13
who are you calling racist, friend?
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/10/13
Xoxo: where a guy with the word niggers in his moniker is ge...
Hot Institution
  05/10/13
Are you offended by the use of teh word "niggers"?...
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/10/13
Look man, all I am saying is that in polite society you and ...
Hot Institution
  05/10/13
whats wrong with saying nigger bro? You faggot or something...
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/10/13
People might *incorrectly* think that you are racist, Racist...
Hot Institution
  05/10/13
Agreed. The only time I can truly enjoy wife's company is wh...
crimson razzle weed whacker shrine
  05/09/13
Probably more like 4-5 nights over here but once you open a ...
Cracking heaven ladyboy
  05/10/13
Clearly you are a fag. You don't drink? What do you do suc...
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/09/13
you do that when you're single, not when you're married.
Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness
  05/09/13
So how do I get her to change? Clearly just talking to her i...
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
Outdrink her 2-1 no matter what. Then she will start to comp...
vivacious abode round eye
  05/09/13
tbh this is probably cr, tough as it may be
Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness
  05/09/13
cr
Embarrassed to the bone school philosopher-king
  05/09/13
...
filthy piazza deer antler
  05/09/13
Ultimatum. Tell her she needs to demonstrate that her commi...
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
(Insecure faggot)
crimson razzle weed whacker shrine
  05/09/13
hmm only thing I can think of is get her involved in a hobby
Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness
  05/09/13
One other possibility is to steer her tipsiness away from an...
vivacious abode round eye
  05/09/13
Wtf. 3 drinks? 8 I'd understand but 3 is pretty calm.
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/09/13
Describe your marriage. I think the context is important to ...
Sticky whorehouse boltzmann
  05/09/13
Marriage is crappy. It's young, too. But my problem is that ...
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
and she doesn't even want to fuck a lot?
Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness
  05/09/13
She sounds bored bro
Navy stirring jew
  05/09/13
cr not relationship material
Well-lubricated appetizing dopamine hunting ground
  05/10/13
Bump for anyone wanting to see a IRL closeted married man.
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/09/13
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racy light international law enforcement agency national security agency
  05/09/13
i feel like i have GAIDS after reading all the faggots in th...
frozen theatre
  05/09/13
...
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/09/13
Did you miss the part about how it makes her act? Also, sinc...
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
Jesus christ you faggot.
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/09/13
you must be the coolest guy in the frat.
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
she's probably getting angry becuz her faggot husband is act...
frozen theatre
  05/09/13
Obviously the OP sees the way she acts while drinking as a p...
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
TCR. wife getting angry and annoying + eating shit/getting f...
Impertinent razzmatazz tattoo
  05/09/13
that too
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
Yea. OP here. It's not her having a drink or two which bothe...
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
sounds like she doesn't respect you
nudist spot
  05/10/13
lol faggot
Embarrassed to the bone school philosopher-king
  05/09/13
it sounds like OP is being overbearing to me. being in a rel...
frozen theatre
  05/09/13
You may be right. From my experience, it's sort of "if...
out-of-control marvelous church newt
  05/09/13
what if she really likes chewing gum all the time and it pis...
boyish plaza wrinkle
  05/10/13
just tell her about this bro http://autoadmit.com/thread....
Carnelian electric set
  05/09/13
3 drinks/night is a lot, especially for a girl. tell her to ...
soul-stirring mother
  05/09/13
You must be a hit at cocktail parties.
dun mind-boggling orchestra pit black woman
  05/09/13
I love how defensive all the loser alcoholics are getting in...
soul-stirring mother
  05/09/13
(Guy who pukes after 1/2 beer and rarely has sex)
Flirting Exciting Mediation Faggot Firefighter
  05/10/13
Lol. Way to respond to his CR criticism with a general insul...
sadistic home marketing idea
  05/10/13
she sounds pretty alpha dood. high t>
grizzly jet-lagged range selfie
  05/09/13
yeah but the bitch is getting fat
Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness
  05/09/13
what could be alphaer
grizzly jet-lagged range selfie
  05/09/13
slowly start changing your finances over to your parents or ...
Carnelian electric set
  05/09/13
...
Lascivious ocher shitlib
  05/10/13
WTF? I drink 2-3 a night, my wife bitches at me about it and...
arousing stead
  05/09/13
If your wife was 15 lb overweight w a beer belly and a bad t...
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/09/13
Shit, I'd probably be more motivated to fuck her than I am n...
arousing stead
  05/09/13
This
crimson razzle weed whacker shrine
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useless effete forum psychic
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useless effete forum psychic
  05/10/13
so much... projection... ITT.
racy light international law enforcement agency national security agency
  05/09/13
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Milky Bossy Field Half-breed
  05/09/13
you are a faggot. jfc
wonderful honey-headed hall
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Federal dilemma private investor
  05/11/13
i have 3-4 most nights. also just to restate the obvious...
boyish plaza wrinkle
  05/10/13
I am drinking right now (#4 of the night after finishing wor...
Bat-shit-crazy Theater Cuck
  05/10/13
For a woman this is TTT as fuckk
Alcoholic market
  05/10/13
Ty
Tan fiercely-loyal site
  05/10/13
It sounds like you started this thread in order to build you...
vivacious abode round eye
  05/10/13
There is only one right way to approach this, and that's to ...
Blathering property police squad
  05/10/13
this might actually work
Lascivious ocher shitlib
  05/10/13
To me, it sounds like its less about the drinking than that,...
passionate church building milk
  05/10/13
She probably is depressed because she married a closeted hom...
yellow swollen pervert jap
  05/10/13
Op you're coming off a little emo in this thread. Your wife ...
violent cruise ship lettuce
  05/10/13
Whats going on here is people who have never been married or...
High-end Jewess
  05/10/13
Probably spot on.
Hot Institution
  05/10/13
the real problem is you appropriate her getting angry/agress...
Drab rough-skinned hissy fit university
  05/10/13
She sounds down. Take her on more vacations and get her a lo...
Ruby Galvanic Lay
  05/10/13
great coinage
Coiffed station
  05/10/13
you need to get her pregnant so she can't drink anymore
Clear office
  05/10/13
NEW IDEA: OP, lend your bitch out to me for the night. You...
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/10/13
Titcr
Stubborn Buck-toothed Knife Blood Rage
  05/10/13
You're not banging her enough so she is relieving sexual fru...
cyan pea-brained pit
  05/10/13
try to get her into a social and physically active hobby lik...
Lascivious ocher shitlib
  05/10/13
this is going to end in divorce :(
metal locale
  05/10/13
Can't comment on the marriage, but as you get older, having ...
Walnut generalized bond
  05/10/13
YOURE DONE HERE FAGGOT! Please follow arrow to the prius wit...
curious stage
  05/10/13
...
Federal dilemma private investor
  05/11/13
cr.
soul-stirring mother
  05/10/13
Also will add that depends on what you're drinking too; as I...
Walnut generalized bond
  05/10/13
I've found with nice beers that it's hard to drink more than...
Lilac hospital
  05/11/13
that's why its better to do nice beer
Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness
  05/11/13
fuck you
crimson razzle weed whacker shrine
  05/11/13
This is why moderation entails smoking a J one night, Pinot ...
free-loading mood mad-dog skullcap
  05/10/13
(guy who has never been married)
arousing stead
  05/10/13
what if your gf smokes weed every night?
Trip Locus
  05/11/13
i bet she is hiding booze somewhere - start looking
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  05/11/13


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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:32 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

This is really bothersome. I hardly drink and can't quite grasp why she drinks this much, this often. She will have this alone or in front of me or when we r out w friends. Causes her to get real aggressive (anger etc). Causes her to want to eat like shit (nachos, fries, etc).

I've brought it up to her several times now and she won't stop. I think this is her way to deal w a rocky marriage. But it's not helping at all.

How to handle?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168296)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:35 PM
Author: aquamarine talented senate

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168328)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:36 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle lavender brunch

Pwned, that sucks. Didn't you notice this before marriage?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168338)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

Not really like this. She had a period of heavy drinking after getting laid off, but that was somewhat understandable. This is just weird bullshit now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168363)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

My wife noticed it in me before marriage and fucking kicked herself in the ass repeatedly for a few years until I got sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168364)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:37 PM
Author: vivacious abode round eye

On what planet is that too much?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168354)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

5+ days out of the week? That's a bit odd, dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168371)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

No its not you fucking faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168381)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

Yes it is. Move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168398)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle lavender brunch

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168409)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

No its really really not. Where are you from?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168415)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:45 PM
Author: Awkward prole indian lodge

You are an alcoholic. Non-alcoholics don't give a shit if other people don't drink much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168459)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:13 PM
Author: medicated fragrant space

That's not what's going on here. What's going on is that YOU seem to care that someone else is drinking moderately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168792)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: soul-stirring mother

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168539)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: frozen theatre

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168432)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: vivacious abode round eye

My wife and I split a bottle of wine 6 or 7 nights a week and never have leftovers. I usually have a beer once I get home too, and she sometimes has a cocktail or something before dinner.

There is nothing wrong with this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168448)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

For you two, that seems to be true. But you're ignoring what it does to OP's wife and to their dynamic. She may be on the cusp of the big downward spiral, whereas the same amount barely affects you and your wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168547)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:16 AM
Author: boyish plaza wrinkle

this is classic alcoholic paranoia; shows up whenever they hear about anyone else drinking regularly. remember, not everybody got your shit TTT drunkard genes.

a couple of drinks a night probably has cardiovascular benefits and probably billions of people do this their whole lives with no ill effects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169464)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: Hot Institution

xoxo: where a racist alcoholic takes the moral high ground.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170855)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

who are you calling racist, friend?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170861)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Hot Institution

Xoxo: where a guy with the word niggers in his moniker is genuinely baffled by accusations of racism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170900)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:30 AM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

Are you offended by the use of teh word "niggers"? Tell me what else "offends" you, as libs seem to get easily offended and I don't want to offend you. Nigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170968)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:21 PM
Author: Hot Institution

Look man, all I am saying is that in polite society you and your ilk are considered filth. No offense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171438)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:31 AM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

whats wrong with saying nigger bro? You faggot or something?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170977)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:20 PM
Author: Hot Institution

People might *incorrectly* think that you are racist, Racist Party Bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171433)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: crimson razzle weed whacker shrine

Agreed. The only time I can truly enjoy wife's company is when we are both half cocked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168910)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:30 AM
Author: Cracking heaven ladyboy

Probably more like 4-5 nights over here but once you open a bottle of wine you may as well finish it at one sitting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169880)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

Clearly you are a fag. You don't drink? What do you do suck cock instead?

Let her find a guy who can handle her, fag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168376)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness

you do that when you're single, not when you're married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168384)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

So how do I get her to change? Clearly just talking to her isn't making a difference.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168391)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: vivacious abode round eye

Outdrink her 2-1 no matter what. Then she will start to complain about your drinking and realize it will be hypocritical of her not to stop.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168408)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness

tbh this is probably cr, tough as it may be

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168473)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone school philosopher-king

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168543)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:10 PM
Author: filthy piazza deer antler



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168770)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

Ultimatum. Tell her she needs to demonstrate that her commitment to you is more important than her commitment to alcohol. If she even hesitates, it underscores the nature of her problem with alcohol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168414)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: crimson razzle weed whacker shrine

(Insecure faggot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168921)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness

hmm only thing I can think of is get her involved in a hobby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168416)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: vivacious abode round eye

One other possibility is to steer her tipsiness away from anger and towards sex. Can definitely be done if she is still at all attracted to you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168488)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

Wtf. 3 drinks? 8 I'd understand but 3 is pretty calm.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168405)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: Sticky whorehouse boltzmann

Describe your marriage. I think the context is important to make a proper analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168399)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:17 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

Marriage is crappy. It's young, too. But my problem is that I don't want anything to do with her when she gets tipsy/aggressive. She is usually doing one of four things every night, all night: texting, talking on phone, watching tv, or drinking. It's like I married a low IQ person. WTF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168825)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness

and she doesn't even want to fuck a lot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168857)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: Navy stirring jew

She sounds bored bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168957)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 7:17 AM
Author: Well-lubricated appetizing dopamine hunting ground

cr

not relationship material

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170565)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

Bump for anyone wanting to see a IRL closeted married man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168436)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: racy light international law enforcement agency national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168846)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: frozen theatre

i feel like i have GAIDS after reading all the faggots in this thread. 2-3 drinks? who fucking cares man. get that stick out of your ass, it's no big deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168442)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168446)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

Did you miss the part about how it makes her act? Also, since you still live in your parents' basement, you may not have the perspective to see that marriage cannot work if one party is committed to something above and beyond the marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168464)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

Jesus christ you faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168478)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

you must be the coolest guy in the frat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168491)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:48 PM
Author: frozen theatre

she's probably getting angry becuz her faggot husband is acting like she's an alkie for pouring a glass of wine. i'd get pissed too.

your second sentence is retarded, married people have their own interests too. liking a couple drinks isnt 'committing yourself to something above and beyond the marriage' its just having a couple drinks. its not like she's fucking the neighbor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168494)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:50 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

Obviously the OP sees the way she acts while drinking as a problem and has spoken to her about it. She refuses to change. If you downplay that, you have no clue about addiction or relationships. I know, I know, that's not cool to say. But if you have seen the destruction and pain that happens in this context, you would back off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168531)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: Impertinent razzmatazz tattoo

TCR. wife getting angry and annoying + eating shit/getting fat are pretty big problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168551)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

that too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168575)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

Yea. OP here. It's not her having a drink or two which bothers me. It's the fact that she gets real aggressive - not in a good way - and begins to binge eat. It's just fucking weird behavior and I don't get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168849)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:56 AM
Author: nudist spot

sounds like she doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169715)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone school philosopher-king

lol faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168558)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: frozen theatre

it sounds like OP is being overbearing to me. being in a relationship means being to accept little things that may annoy you or that your partner may have different views on things. given how minor the perceived infraction is here, it seems ridiculous to get riled up about. talk about 'addiction', 'destruction' et al seems hyperbolic when we're talking about someone enjoying a couple glasses of wine at home. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168579)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:56 PM
Author: out-of-control marvelous church newt

You may be right. From my experience, it's sort of "if you have to ask, then there's a problem." But maybe we need more information.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168607)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:19 AM
Author: boyish plaza wrinkle

what if she really likes chewing gum all the time and it pisses him off, but she refuses to quit? is that also a sign that the marriage is in deep shit due to her competing "commitments?"

i swear to god, ex-drunks who got sober are the most annoying and preachy faggots on earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169482)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: Carnelian electric set

just tell her about this bro

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2235786&mc=28&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168614)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: soul-stirring mother

3 drinks/night is a lot, especially for a girl. tell her to fucking cool it and cut her drinking down to a couple times/week. should give her something to look forward to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168616)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: dun mind-boggling orchestra pit black woman

You must be a hit at cocktail parties.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168621)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:59 PM
Author: soul-stirring mother

I love how defensive all the loser alcoholics are getting in this thread. drinking every night is a terrible idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168646)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:00 AM
Author: Flirting Exciting Mediation Faggot Firefighter

(Guy who pukes after 1/2 beer and rarely has sex)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169334)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:48 AM
Author: sadistic home marketing idea

Lol. Way to respond to his CR criticism with a general insult. Now, please give me my insult.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171018)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: grizzly jet-lagged range selfie

she sounds pretty alpha dood. high t>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168633)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:02 PM
Author: Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness

yeah but the bitch is getting fat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168684)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:05 PM
Author: grizzly jet-lagged range selfie

what could be alphaer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168715)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:00 PM
Author: Carnelian electric set

slowly start changing your finances over to your parents or best friend and then divorce her. this won't end well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168658)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:21 PM
Author: Lascivious ocher shitlib



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171763)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: arousing stead

WTF? I drink 2-3 a night, my wife bitches at me about it and I just blow it off.

Leave her alone.

Op is an faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168844)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:21 PM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

If your wife was 15 lb overweight w a beer belly and a bad temper, I think you'd be singing a different tune.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168868)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: arousing stead

Shit, I'd probably be more motivated to fuck her than I am now.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168953)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:28 PM
Author: crimson razzle weed whacker shrine

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168962)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: useless effete forum psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170902)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: useless effete forum psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170903)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: racy light international law enforcement agency national security agency

so much... projection... ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168861)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:44 PM
Author: Milky Bossy Field Half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169171)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:41 PM
Author: wonderful honey-headed hall

you are a faggot. jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169132)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 11:49 AM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176789)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:13 AM
Author: boyish plaza wrinkle

i have 3-4 most nights.

also just to restate the obvious, you are a fucking faggot and a tool.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169443)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:25 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Theater Cuck

I am drinking right now (#4 of the night after finishing work around 11:00...I must be a raging boozehound!!!!)

OP is likely a well-known homosexual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169523)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM
Author: Alcoholic market

For a woman this is TTT as fuckk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169656)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:08 AM
Author: Tan fiercely-loyal site

Ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169766)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:20 AM
Author: vivacious abode round eye

It sounds like you started this thread in order to build your case to yourself to divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169829)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:16 AM
Author: Blathering property police squad

There is only one right way to approach this, and that's to tell her she is getting fat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170701)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:22 PM
Author: Lascivious ocher shitlib

this might actually work



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171771)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:32 AM
Author: passionate church building milk

To me, it sounds like its less about the drinking than that, overall, she is starting to live an unhealthy lifestyle. Getting fat is not cool.

My fiancé doesn't drink, but I usually have 2 drinks most weeknights. She gets a little pissed sometimes when I sit on my ass watching a baseball game with a glass of bourbon, but I workout 4 times a week (yes, squats) and work my ass off, so she backs off.

If she was drinking 3 drinks a night and acting like a sloppy mess, I'd be pissed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170732)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:38 AM
Author: yellow swollen pervert jap

She probably is depressed because she married a closeted homosexual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170739)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:44 AM
Author: violent cruise ship lettuce

Op you're coming off a little emo in this thread. Your wife also doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170766)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:39 AM
Author: High-end Jewess

Whats going on here is people who have never been married or who have great marriages arent understanding that this HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DRINKING.

Youre hypersensitive and she's passive aggressive because the relationship is floundering. You could just as well be mad about her watching trash tv or not washing the dishes or whatever. And she realizes it and continues to have her little passive aggressive drinks. I know this shit well.

Can you live like this? Dont.

Fix the marriage or get out. Its not about the 3 drinks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170745)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:15 AM
Author: Hot Institution

Probably spot on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170905)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:50 AM
Author: Drab rough-skinned hissy fit university

the real problem is you appropriate her getting angry/agressive to having a few drinks

its your responsibility to be a pleasant person to be around regardless if you have a few drinks or not

same goes for "having a bad day at work" or whatever

you're responsible for for treating you family members w/ respect, regardless of outside circumstances



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170782)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:56 AM
Author: Ruby Galvanic Lay

She sounds down. Take her on more vacations and get her a lot of jewelry. SOLO! (she only lives once)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170810)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:28 PM
Author: Coiffed station

great coinage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174209)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Clear office

you need to get her pregnant so she can't drink anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170899)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:20 AM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor

NEW IDEA: OP, lend your bitch out to me for the night. You can watch in the corner while we drink and fuck. It'll be stimulating for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170934)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 3:31 PM
Author: Stubborn Buck-toothed Knife Blood Rage

Titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23172503)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 11:13 AM
Author: cyan pea-brained pit

You're not banging her enough so she is relieving sexual frustration by drinking. Every time she pours a drink you should just grab her and start railing her right there on the couch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171106)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:24 PM
Author: Lascivious ocher shitlib

try to get her into a social and physically active hobby like fuck idk badmiton with a couple you know from work or something idk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171782)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:39 PM
Author: metal locale

this is going to end in divorce :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174250)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:58 PM
Author: Walnut generalized bond

Can't comment on the marriage, but as you get older, having 3 drinks per night (for a guy, this is five-six drinks per night) is a really unhealthy habit. Alcohol ages you and makes you fat. Despite what you may think, you're also getting worse sleep while slightly buzzed, which further ages you and effects your mental acuity (even if you don't feel "hungover"). A bottle of wine a day might work for greek people who live on the beach and eat olives and omega-3 laden fish all day while working 25 hours per week, it's not working for a typical american professional.

This is coming from a guy who fell into that habit around thirty and is realizing how it's unsustainable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174340)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:04 PM
Author: curious stage

YOURE DONE HERE FAGGOT! Please follow arrow to the prius with the lesbian in the driver's seat, there is a tail pipe waiting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174362)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 11:51 AM
Author: Federal dilemma private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176792)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:15 PM
Author: soul-stirring mother

cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174427)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:24 PM
Author: Walnut generalized bond

Also will add that depends on what you're drinking too; as I got older I was picking up a six pack of craft beer rather than some whatever lights; you drink 4-6 nice beers you're consuming like 1000 calories in alcohol every night before bed!

It's better for me at least to just let fucking loose 1-2 nights per week and be dry the rest, though i love beer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174488)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 2:38 PM
Author: Lilac hospital

I've found with nice beers that it's hard to drink more than 2-3, whereas with bud/miller light, putting away a six pack aint no thing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177248)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 3:06 PM
Author: Magenta halford twinkling uncleanness

that's why its better to do nice beer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177339)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 1:11 PM
Author: crimson razzle weed whacker shrine

fuck you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176966)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:29 PM
Author: free-loading mood mad-dog skullcap

This is why moderation entails smoking a J one night, Pinot Noir another, and hot sex every night. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174517)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:33 PM
Author: arousing stead

(guy who has never been married)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174538)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 1:42 PM
Author: Trip Locus

what if your gf smokes weed every night?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177042)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 2:33 PM
Author: Tantric thriller ticket booth

i bet she is hiding booze somewhere - start looking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177225)