Date: May 9th, 2013 10:32 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

This is really bothersome. I hardly drink and can't quite grasp why she drinks this much, this often. She will have this alone or in front of me or when we r out w friends. Causes her to get real aggressive (anger etc). Causes her to want to eat like shit (nachos, fries, etc).

I've brought it up to her several times now and she won't stop. I think this is her way to deal w a rocky marriage. But it's not helping at all.

How to handle?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168296)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:35 PM
Author: Gitmo Detainee tearing up his HOPE poster

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168328)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:36 PM
Author: Dux

Pwned, that sucks. Didn't you notice this before marriage?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168338)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

Not really like this. She had a period of heavy drinking after getting laid off, but that was somewhat understandable. This is just weird bullshit now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168363)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

My wife noticed it in me before marriage and fucking kicked herself in the ass repeatedly for a few years until I got sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168364)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:37 PM
Author: ..,.;.,.,.,.,;,;.,.;,;.,.;;;.;,,,....;.;,;.,.;;;;,

On what planet is that too much?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168354)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

5+ days out of the week? That's a bit odd, dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168371)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

No its not you fucking faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168381)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

Yes it is. Move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168398)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: Dux

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168409)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

No its really really not. Where are you from?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168415)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:45 PM
Author: "'"'"''"""

You are an alcoholic. Non-alcoholics don't give a shit if other people don't drink much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168459)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:13 PM
Author: .,.,.,........::.........\"\'..........

That's not what's going on here. What's going on is that YOU seem to care that someone else is drinking moderately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168792)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: .,.,,.,.....,.,..,.,.,

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168539)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: Gogol Ganguly (ggtp)

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168432)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: ..,.;.,.,.,.,;,;.,.;,;.,.;;;.;,,,....;.;,;.,.;;;;,

My wife and I split a bottle of wine 6 or 7 nights a week and never have leftovers. I usually have a beer once I get home too, and she sometimes has a cocktail or something before dinner.

There is nothing wrong with this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168448)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

For you two, that seems to be true. But you're ignoring what it does to OP's wife and to their dynamic. She may be on the cusp of the big downward spiral, whereas the same amount barely affects you and your wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168547)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:16 AM
Author: "'''"'""

this is classic alcoholic paranoia; shows up whenever they hear about anyone else drinking regularly. remember, not everybody got your shit TTT drunkard genes.

a couple of drinks a night probably has cardiovascular benefits and probably billions of people do this their whole lives with no ill effects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169464)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: : : : :

xoxo: where a racist alcoholic takes the moral high ground.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170855)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

who are you calling racist, friend?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170861)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: : : : :

Xoxo: where a guy with the word niggers in his moniker is genuinely baffled by accusations of racism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170900)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:30 AM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

Are you offended by the use of teh word "niggers"? Tell me what else "offends" you, as libs seem to get easily offended and I don't want to offend you. Nigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170968)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:21 PM
Author: : : : :

Look man, all I am saying is that in polite society you and your ilk are considered filth. No offense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171438)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:31 AM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

whats wrong with saying nigger bro? You faggot or something?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170977)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:20 PM
Author: : : : :

People might *incorrectly* think that you are racist, Racist Party Bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171433)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: ;::;:;;'';:::'.,:...:::;

Agreed. The only time I can truly enjoy wife's company is when we are both half cocked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168910)

Date: May 10th, 2013 1:30 AM
Author: twentynine (but still appearing 29ish)

Probably more like 4-5 nights over here but once you open a bottle of wine you may as well finish it at one sitting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169880)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

Clearly you are a fag. You don't drink? What do you do suck cock instead?

Let her find a guy who can handle her, fag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168376)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: JustWokeUp

you do that when you're single, not when you're married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168384)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

So how do I get her to change? Clearly just talking to her isn't making a difference.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168391)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: ..,.;.,.,.,.,;,;.,.;,;.,.;;;.;,,,....;.;,;.,.;;;;,

Outdrink her 2-1 no matter what. Then she will start to complain about your drinking and realize it will be hypocritical of her not to stop.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168408)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: JustWokeUp

tbh this is probably cr, tough as it may be

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168473)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: H.

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168543)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:10 PM
Author: ......,,.,,.,.,,.,.,,.,..,,.,.,.,.,.,,.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168770)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

Ultimatum. Tell her she needs to demonstrate that her commitment to you is more important than her commitment to alcohol. If she even hesitates, it underscores the nature of her problem with alcohol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168414)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: ;::;:;;'';:::'.,:...:::;

(Insecure faggot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168921)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: JustWokeUp

hmm only thing I can think of is get her involved in a hobby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168416)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: ..,.;.,.,.,.,;,;.,.;,;.,.;;;.;,,,....;.;,;.,.;;;;,

One other possibility is to steer her tipsiness away from anger and towards sex. Can definitely be done if she is still at all attracted to you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168488)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

Wtf. 3 drinks? 8 I'd understand but 3 is pretty calm.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168405)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: Eastern European

Describe your marriage. I think the context is important to make a proper analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168399)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:17 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

Marriage is crappy. It's young, too. But my problem is that I don't want anything to do with her when she gets tipsy/aggressive. She is usually doing one of four things every night, all night: texting, talking on phone, watching tv, or drinking. It's like I married a low IQ person. WTF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168825)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: JustWokeUp

and she doesn't even want to fuck a lot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168857)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: html5 ninja

She sounds bored bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168957)

Date: May 10th, 2013 7:17 AM
Author: white guy smugly walking through airport security (Pederastrian)

cr

not relationship material

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170565)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

Bump for anyone wanting to see a IRL closeted married man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168436)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: the dodo bird (extinct)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168846)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: Gogol Ganguly (ggtp)

i feel like i have GAIDS after reading all the faggots in this thread. 2-3 drinks? who fucking cares man. get that stick out of your ass, it's no big deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168442)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168446)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

Did you miss the part about how it makes her act? Also, since you still live in your parents' basement, you may not have the perspective to see that marriage cannot work if one party is committed to something above and beyond the marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168464)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

Jesus christ you faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168478)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

you must be the coolest guy in the frat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168491)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:48 PM
Author: Gogol Ganguly (ggtp)

she's probably getting angry becuz her faggot husband is acting like she's an alkie for pouring a glass of wine. i'd get pissed too.

your second sentence is retarded, married people have their own interests too. liking a couple drinks isnt 'committing yourself to something above and beyond the marriage' its just having a couple drinks. its not like she's fucking the neighbor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168494)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:50 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

Obviously the OP sees the way she acts while drinking as a problem and has spoken to her about it. She refuses to change. If you downplay that, you have no clue about addiction or relationships. I know, I know, that's not cool to say. But if you have seen the destruction and pain that happens in this context, you would back off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168531)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: ..,.;.,...,..,.,:,,:,..,..,::,..,:,.,.:,.

TCR. wife getting angry and annoying + eating shit/getting fat are pretty big problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168551)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

that too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168575)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

Yea. OP here. It's not her having a drink or two which bothers me. It's the fact that she gets real aggressive - not in a good way - and begins to binge eat. It's just fucking weird behavior and I don't get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168849)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:56 AM
Author: .,,.....,.,.,.,:,,:.,..,:::.,,.,:,.,.:..:.,:.::,.

sounds like she doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169715)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: H.

lol faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168558)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: Gogol Ganguly (ggtp)

it sounds like OP is being overbearing to me. being in a relationship means being to accept little things that may annoy you or that your partner may have different views on things. given how minor the perceived infraction is here, it seems ridiculous to get riled up about. talk about 'addiction', 'destruction' et al seems hyperbolic when we're talking about someone enjoying a couple glasses of wine at home. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168579)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:56 PM
Author: ,;;;..,..,.,.,;..,;;..,,.;.;.,,,;,,;,.,,...; ( )

You may be right. From my experience, it's sort of "if you have to ask, then there's a problem." But maybe we need more information.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168607)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:19 AM
Author: "'''"'""

what if she really likes chewing gum all the time and it pisses him off, but she refuses to quit? is that also a sign that the marriage is in deep shit due to her competing "commitments?"

i swear to god, ex-drunks who got sober are the most annoying and preachy faggots on earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169482)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: Liberty Tax sign guy

just tell her about this bro

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2235786&mc=28&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168614)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: .,.,,.,.....,.,..,.,.,

3 drinks/night is a lot, especially for a girl. tell her to fucking cool it and cut her drinking down to a couple times/week. should give her something to look forward to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168616)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: GreatCornproleo

You must be a hit at cocktail parties.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168621)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:59 PM
Author: .,.,,.,.....,.,..,.,.,

I love how defensive all the loser alcoholics are getting in this thread. drinking every night is a terrible idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168646)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:00 AM
Author: DeadNStorage

(Guy who pukes after 1/2 beer and rarely has sex)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169334)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:48 AM
Author: SHOOOOT HERRRR;;;....SHOOOOT HERRRR!!

Lol. Way to respond to his CR criticism with a general insult. Now, please give me my insult.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171018)

Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: community

she sounds pretty alpha dood. high t>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168633)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:02 PM
Author: JustWokeUp

yeah but the bitch is getting fat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168684)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:05 PM
Author: community

what could be alphaer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168715)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:00 PM
Author: Liberty Tax sign guy

slowly start changing your finances over to your parents or best friend and then divorce her. this won't end well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168658)

Date: May 10th, 2013 1:21 PM
Author: The Cock Goblin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171763)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: Dick Trickle, RIP

WTF? I drink 2-3 a night, my wife bitches at me about it and I just blow it off.

Leave her alone.

Op is an faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168844)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:21 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

If your wife was 15 lb overweight w a beer belly and a bad temper, I think you'd be singing a different tune.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168868)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: Dick Trickle, RIP

Shit, I'd probably be more motivated to fuck her than I am now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168953)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:28 PM
Author: ;::;:;;'';:::'.,:...:::;

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168962)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: CapTTTainFalcon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170902)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: CapTTTainFalcon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170903)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: the dodo bird (extinct)

so much... projection... ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168861)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:44 PM
Author: redrum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169171)

Date: May 9th, 2013 11:41 PM
Author: otley

you are a faggot. jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169132)

Date: May 11th, 2013 11:49 AM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176789)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:13 AM
Author: "'''"'""

i have 3-4 most nights.

also just to restate the obvious, you are a fucking faggot and a tool.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169443)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:25 AM
Author: RayFeltonsFUPA

I am drinking right now (#4 of the night after finishing work around 11:00...I must be a raging boozehound!!!!)

OP is likely a well-known homosexual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169523)

Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM
Author: .,,.,...,,......,,.,,,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.

For a woman this is TTT as fuckk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169656)

Date: May 10th, 2013 1:08 AM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,...

Ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169766)

Date: May 10th, 2013 1:20 AM
Author: ..,.;.,.,.,.,;,;.,.;,;.,.;;;.;,,,....;.;,;.,.;;;;,

It sounds like you started this thread in order to build your case to yourself to divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169829)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:16 AM
Author: THE CHIP KELLY JUGGERNAUT

There is only one right way to approach this, and that's to tell her she is getting fat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170701)

Date: May 10th, 2013 1:22 PM
Author: The Cock Goblin

this might actually work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171771)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:32 AM
Author: .....,,,,,.,.,.,.,.,

To me, it sounds like its less about the drinking than that, overall, she is starting to live an unhealthy lifestyle. Getting fat is not cool.

My fiancé doesn't drink, but I usually have 2 drinks most weeknights. She gets a little pissed sometimes when I sit on my ass watching a baseball game with a glass of bourbon, but I workout 4 times a week (yes, squats) and work my ass off, so she backs off.

If she was drinking 3 drinks a night and acting like a sloppy mess, I'd be pissed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170732)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:38 AM
Author: .,,,.,,..,.,.,:,.:,,...,::,...,:,.,..:.,:.::,.

She probably is depressed because she married a closeted homosexual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170739)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:44 AM
Author: buttpenis

Op you're coming off a little emo in this thread. Your wife also doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170766)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:39 AM
Author: Titular Head

Whats going on here is people who have never been married or who have great marriages arent understanding that this HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DRINKING.

Youre hypersensitive and she's passive aggressive because the relationship is floundering. You could just as well be mad about her watching trash tv or not washing the dishes or whatever. And she realizes it and continues to have her little passive aggressive drinks. I know this shit well.

Can you live like this? Dont.

Fix the marriage or get out. Its not about the 3 drinks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170745)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:15 AM
Author: : : : :

Probably spot on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170905)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:50 AM
Author: Barack Carcetti

the real problem is you appropriate her getting angry/agressive to having a few drinks

its your responsibility to be a pleasant person to be around regardless if you have a few drinks or not

same goes for "having a bad day at work" or whatever

you're responsible for for treating you family members w/ respect, regardless of outside circumstances

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170782)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:56 AM
Author: Slow Children Playing

She sounds down. Take her on more vacations and get her a lot of jewelry. SOLO! (she only lives once)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170810)

Date: May 10th, 2013 8:28 PM
Author: Operation Steadfast Jazz (thread_id=2120)

great coinage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174209)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Chris Hansen reading aloud AutoAdmit threads

you need to get her pregnant so she can't drink anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170899)

Date: May 10th, 2013 10:20 AM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,

NEW IDEA: OP, lend your bitch out to me for the night. You can watch in the corner while we drink and fuck. It'll be stimulating for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170934)

Date: May 10th, 2013 3:31 PM
Author: A PUMO WOCs into a bar

Titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23172503)

Date: May 10th, 2013 11:13 AM
Author: Buck "The Club" Paulette

You're not banging her enough so she is relieving sexual frustration by drinking. Every time she pours a drink you should just grab her and start railing her right there on the couch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171106)

Date: May 10th, 2013 1:24 PM
Author: The Cock Goblin

try to get her into a social and physically active hobby like fuck idk badmiton with a couple you know from work or something idk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171782)

Date: May 10th, 2013 8:39 PM
Author: Judge Diamond Dallas Page (Curls in the squat rack master man)

this is going to end in divorce :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174250)

Date: May 10th, 2013 8:58 PM
Author: ..,;.,;.,.;;;..,;.;.,;,.,;.,;;,.,.;

Can't comment on the marriage, but as you get older, having 3 drinks per night (for a guy, this is five-six drinks per night) is a really unhealthy habit. Alcohol ages you and makes you fat. Despite what you may think, you're also getting worse sleep while slightly buzzed, which further ages you and effects your mental acuity (even if you don't feel "hungover"). A bottle of wine a day might work for greek people who live on the beach and eat olives and omega-3 laden fish all day while working 25 hours per week, it's not working for a typical american professional.

This is coming from a guy who fell into that habit around thirty and is realizing how it's unsustainable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174340)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:04 PM
Author: Anon6356, Bishop of Hippo

YOURE DONE HERE FAGGOT! Please follow arrow to the prius with the lesbian in the driver's seat, there is a tail pipe waiting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174362)

Date: May 11th, 2013 11:51 AM
Author: ::,,::,..::;;,,;;,...;,;;;;,...;;,..;;;.....:::,,,



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176792)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:15 PM
Author: .,.,,.,.....,.,..,.,.,

cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174427)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:24 PM
Author: ..,;.,;.,.;;;..,;.;.,;,.,;.,;;,.,.;

Also will add that depends on what you're drinking too; as I got older I was picking up a six pack of craft beer rather than some whatever lights; you drink 4-6 nice beers you're consuming like 1000 calories in alcohol every night before bed!

It's better for me at least to just let fucking loose 1-2 nights per week and be dry the rest, though i love beer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174488)

Date: May 11th, 2013 2:38 PM
Author: ..,..,..,

I've found with nice beers that it's hard to drink more than 2-3, whereas with bud/miller light, putting away a six pack aint no thing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177248)

Date: May 11th, 2013 3:06 PM
Author: JustWokeUp

that's why its better to do nice beer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177339)

Date: May 11th, 2013 1:11 PM
Author: ;::;:;;'';:::'.,:...:::;

fuck you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176966)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:29 PM
Author: A Scholar and a Gentleman, Blacked Out

This is why moderation entails smoking a J one night, Pinot Noir another, and hot sex every night. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174517)

Date: May 10th, 2013 9:33 PM
Author: Dick Trickle, RIP

(guy who has never been married)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174538)

Date: May 11th, 2013 1:42 PM
Author: ..,.,;..;...;:..;.,...;..,..:.,....

what if your gf smokes weed every night?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177042)

Date: May 11th, 2013 2:33 PM
Author: ,....,;,.,.,;.,..,;.,.,.,;;;,.,..,,;,;,.,.,.,.,.,. (posting on xoxo at 7.83 Hz)

i bet she is hiding booze somewhere - start looking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177225)