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Wife has 2-3 drinks most nights

This is really bothersome. I hardly drink and can't quite gr...
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
ATD
Provocative Talking Address
  05/09/13
Pwned, that sucks. Didn't you notice this before marriage?
Electric brilliant corner karate
  05/09/13
Not really like this. She had a period of heavy drinking aft...
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
My wife noticed it in me before marriage and fucking kicked ...
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
On what planet is that too much?
Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting
  05/09/13
5+ days out of the week? That's a bit odd, dude.
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
No its not you fucking faggot.
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/09/13
Yes it is. Move on.
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
cr
Electric brilliant corner karate
  05/09/13
No its really really not. Where are you from?
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/09/13
You are an alcoholic. Non-alcoholics don't give a shit if ot...
house-broken toilet seat
  05/09/13
That's not what's going on here. What's going on is that YOU...
light excitant public bath jap
  05/09/13
cr
Titillating stage
  05/09/13
cr
Doobsian dog poop
  05/09/13
My wife and I split a bottle of wine 6 or 7 nights a week an...
Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting
  05/09/13
For you two, that seems to be true. But you're ignoring wha...
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
this is classic alcoholic paranoia; shows up whenever they h...
Nighttime maniacal brunch
  05/10/13
xoxo: where a racist alcoholic takes the moral high ground. ...
Fragrant transparent dilemma
  05/10/13
who are you calling racist, friend?
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/10/13
Xoxo: where a guy with the word niggers in his moniker is ge...
Fragrant transparent dilemma
  05/10/13
Are you offended by the use of teh word "niggers"?...
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/10/13
Look man, all I am saying is that in polite society you and ...
Fragrant transparent dilemma
  05/10/13
whats wrong with saying nigger bro? You faggot or something...
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/10/13
People might *incorrectly* think that you are racist, Racist...
Fragrant transparent dilemma
  05/10/13
Agreed. The only time I can truly enjoy wife's company is wh...
Boyish gaming laptop
  05/09/13
Probably more like 4-5 nights over here but once you open a ...
Turquoise frisky church building fortuitous meteor
  05/10/13
Clearly you are a fag. You don't drink? What do you do suc...
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/09/13
you do that when you're single, not when you're married.
Pink Whorehouse Crotch
  05/09/13
So how do I get her to change? Clearly just talking to her i...
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
Outdrink her 2-1 no matter what. Then she will start to comp...
Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting
  05/09/13
tbh this is probably cr, tough as it may be
Pink Whorehouse Crotch
  05/09/13
cr
brass macaca
  05/09/13
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big love of her life hominid
  05/09/13
Ultimatum. Tell her she needs to demonstrate that her commi...
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
(Insecure faggot)
Boyish gaming laptop
  05/09/13
hmm only thing I can think of is get her involved in a hobby
Pink Whorehouse Crotch
  05/09/13
One other possibility is to steer her tipsiness away from an...
Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting
  05/09/13
Wtf. 3 drinks? 8 I'd understand but 3 is pretty calm.
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/09/13
Describe your marriage. I think the context is important to ...
Angry goal in life depressive
  05/09/13
Marriage is crappy. It's young, too. But my problem is that ...
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
and she doesn't even want to fuck a lot?
Pink Whorehouse Crotch
  05/09/13
She sounds bored bro
Ruby Adulterous Tattoo Lettuce
  05/09/13
cr not relationship material
Walnut stubborn faggotry theater
  05/10/13
Bump for anyone wanting to see a IRL closeted married man.
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/09/13
...
sooty cerebral space really tough guy
  05/09/13
i feel like i have GAIDS after reading all the faggots in th...
Doobsian dog poop
  05/09/13
...
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/09/13
Did you miss the part about how it makes her act? Also, sinc...
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
Jesus christ you faggot.
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/09/13
you must be the coolest guy in the frat.
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
she's probably getting angry becuz her faggot husband is act...
Doobsian dog poop
  05/09/13
Obviously the OP sees the way she acts while drinking as a p...
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
TCR. wife getting angry and annoying + eating shit/getting f...
burgundy beady-eyed fanboi
  05/09/13
that too
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
Yea. OP here. It's not her having a drink or two which bothe...
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
sounds like she doesn't respect you
Charismatic costumed trailer park cumskin
  05/10/13
lol faggot
brass macaca
  05/09/13
it sounds like OP is being overbearing to me. being in a rel...
Doobsian dog poop
  05/09/13
You may be right. From my experience, it's sort of "if...
bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king
  05/09/13
what if she really likes chewing gum all the time and it pis...
Nighttime maniacal brunch
  05/10/13
just tell her about this bro http://autoadmit.com/thread....
greedy locus sandwich
  05/09/13
3 drinks/night is a lot, especially for a girl. tell her to ...
Titillating stage
  05/09/13
You must be a hit at cocktail parties.
pearly mind-boggling athletic conference rigor
  05/09/13
I love how defensive all the loser alcoholics are getting in...
Titillating stage
  05/09/13
(Guy who pukes after 1/2 beer and rarely has sex)
Contagious slap-happy boltzmann
  05/10/13
Lol. Way to respond to his CR criticism with a general insul...
razzmatazz ceo
  05/10/13
she sounds pretty alpha dood. high t>
twisted tanning salon
  05/09/13
yeah but the bitch is getting fat
Pink Whorehouse Crotch
  05/09/13
what could be alphaer
twisted tanning salon
  05/09/13
slowly start changing your finances over to your parents or ...
greedy locus sandwich
  05/09/13
...
Twinkling hairraiser meetinghouse queen of the night
  05/10/13
WTF? I drink 2-3 a night, my wife bitches at me about it and...
infuriating fat ankles stage
  05/09/13
If your wife was 15 lb overweight w a beer belly and a bad t...
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/09/13
Shit, I'd probably be more motivated to fuck her than I am n...
infuriating fat ankles stage
  05/09/13
This
Boyish gaming laptop
  05/09/13
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Sexy persian chapel
  05/10/13
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Sexy persian chapel
  05/10/13
so much... projection... ITT.
sooty cerebral space really tough guy
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dashing institution sweet tailpipe
  05/09/13
you are a faggot. jfc
Orchid laughsome national faggot firefighter
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slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/11/13
i have 3-4 most nights. also just to restate the obvious...
Nighttime maniacal brunch
  05/10/13
I am drinking right now (#4 of the night after finishing wor...
Spruce newt deer antler
  05/10/13
For a woman this is TTT as fuckk
Saffron vibrant hall
  05/10/13
Ty
Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead
  05/10/13
It sounds like you started this thread in order to build you...
Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting
  05/10/13
There is only one right way to approach this, and that's to ...
frum kitchen clown
  05/10/13
this might actually work
Twinkling hairraiser meetinghouse queen of the night
  05/10/13
To me, it sounds like its less about the drinking than that,...
onyx psychic
  05/10/13
She probably is depressed because she married a closeted hom...
sickened pale rehab
  05/10/13
Op you're coming off a little emo in this thread. Your wife ...
odious den kitty
  05/10/13
Whats going on here is people who have never been married or...
Mauve wagecucks
  05/10/13
Probably spot on.
Fragrant transparent dilemma
  05/10/13
the real problem is you appropriate her getting angry/agress...
purple offensive office preventive strike
  05/10/13
She sounds down. Take her on more vacations and get her a lo...
Marvelous crawly base party of the first part
  05/10/13
great coinage
Free-loading toaster native
  05/10/13
you need to get her pregnant so she can't drink anymore
Heady national security agency home
  05/10/13
NEW IDEA: OP, lend your bitch out to me for the night. You...
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/10/13
Titcr
Dun fantasy-prone set
  05/10/13
You're not banging her enough so she is relieving sexual fru...
Aggressive Box Office
  05/10/13
try to get her into a social and physically active hobby lik...
Twinkling hairraiser meetinghouse queen of the night
  05/10/13
this is going to end in divorce :(
ultramarine range roast beef
  05/10/13
Can't comment on the marriage, but as you get older, having ...
Very tactful massive people who are hurt point
  05/10/13
YOURE DONE HERE FAGGOT! Please follow arrow to the prius wit...
bearded house
  05/10/13
...
slimy yellow water buffalo
  05/11/13
cr.
Titillating stage
  05/10/13
Also will add that depends on what you're drinking too; as I...
Very tactful massive people who are hurt point
  05/10/13
I've found with nice beers that it's hard to drink more than...
cyan personal credit line
  05/11/13
that's why its better to do nice beer
Pink Whorehouse Crotch
  05/11/13
fuck you
Boyish gaming laptop
  05/11/13
This is why moderation entails smoking a J one night, Pinot ...
demanding aqua temple milk
  05/10/13
(guy who has never been married)
infuriating fat ankles stage
  05/10/13
what if your gf smokes weed every night?
Passionate friendly grandma
  05/11/13
i bet she is hiding booze somewhere - start looking
sepia blathering location
  05/11/13


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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:32 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

This is really bothersome. I hardly drink and can't quite grasp why she drinks this much, this often. She will have this alone or in front of me or when we r out w friends. Causes her to get real aggressive (anger etc). Causes her to want to eat like shit (nachos, fries, etc).

I've brought it up to her several times now and she won't stop. I think this is her way to deal w a rocky marriage. But it's not helping at all.

How to handle?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168296)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:35 PM
Author: Provocative Talking Address

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168328)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:36 PM
Author: Electric brilliant corner karate

Pwned, that sucks. Didn't you notice this before marriage?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168338)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

Not really like this. She had a period of heavy drinking after getting laid off, but that was somewhat understandable. This is just weird bullshit now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168363)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

My wife noticed it in me before marriage and fucking kicked herself in the ass repeatedly for a few years until I got sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168364)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:37 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting

On what planet is that too much?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168354)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

5+ days out of the week? That's a bit odd, dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168371)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

No its not you fucking faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168381)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

Yes it is. Move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168398)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: Electric brilliant corner karate

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168409)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

No its really really not. Where are you from?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168415)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:45 PM
Author: house-broken toilet seat

You are an alcoholic. Non-alcoholics don't give a shit if other people don't drink much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168459)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:13 PM
Author: light excitant public bath jap

That's not what's going on here. What's going on is that YOU seem to care that someone else is drinking moderately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168792)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: Titillating stage

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168539)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: Doobsian dog poop

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168432)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting

My wife and I split a bottle of wine 6 or 7 nights a week and never have leftovers. I usually have a beer once I get home too, and she sometimes has a cocktail or something before dinner.

There is nothing wrong with this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168448)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

For you two, that seems to be true. But you're ignoring what it does to OP's wife and to their dynamic. She may be on the cusp of the big downward spiral, whereas the same amount barely affects you and your wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168547)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:16 AM
Author: Nighttime maniacal brunch

this is classic alcoholic paranoia; shows up whenever they hear about anyone else drinking regularly. remember, not everybody got your shit TTT drunkard genes.

a couple of drinks a night probably has cardiovascular benefits and probably billions of people do this their whole lives with no ill effects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169464)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: Fragrant transparent dilemma

xoxo: where a racist alcoholic takes the moral high ground.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170855)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:07 AM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

who are you calling racist, friend?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170861)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Fragrant transparent dilemma

Xoxo: where a guy with the word niggers in his moniker is genuinely baffled by accusations of racism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170900)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:30 AM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

Are you offended by the use of teh word "niggers"? Tell me what else "offends" you, as libs seem to get easily offended and I don't want to offend you. Nigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170968)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:21 PM
Author: Fragrant transparent dilemma

Look man, all I am saying is that in polite society you and your ilk are considered filth. No offense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171438)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:31 AM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

whats wrong with saying nigger bro? You faggot or something?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170977)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:20 PM
Author: Fragrant transparent dilemma

People might *incorrectly* think that you are racist, Racist Party Bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171433)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: Boyish gaming laptop

Agreed. The only time I can truly enjoy wife's company is when we are both half cocked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168910)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:30 AM
Author: Turquoise frisky church building fortuitous meteor

Probably more like 4-5 nights over here but once you open a bottle of wine you may as well finish it at one sitting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169880)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

Clearly you are a fag. You don't drink? What do you do suck cock instead?

Let her find a guy who can handle her, fag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168376)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:39 PM
Author: Pink Whorehouse Crotch

you do that when you're single, not when you're married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168384)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

So how do I get her to change? Clearly just talking to her isn't making a difference.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168391)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting

Outdrink her 2-1 no matter what. Then she will start to complain about your drinking and realize it will be hypocritical of her not to stop.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168408)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: Pink Whorehouse Crotch

tbh this is probably cr, tough as it may be

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168473)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:51 PM
Author: brass macaca

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168543)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:10 PM
Author: big love of her life hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168770)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

Ultimatum. Tell her she needs to demonstrate that her commitment to you is more important than her commitment to alcohol. If she even hesitates, it underscores the nature of her problem with alcohol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168414)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:24 PM
Author: Boyish gaming laptop

(Insecure faggot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168921)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:42 PM
Author: Pink Whorehouse Crotch

hmm only thing I can think of is get her involved in a hobby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168416)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting

One other possibility is to steer her tipsiness away from anger and towards sex. Can definitely be done if she is still at all attracted to you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168488)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

Wtf. 3 drinks? 8 I'd understand but 3 is pretty calm.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168405)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: Angry goal in life depressive

Describe your marriage. I think the context is important to make a proper analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168399)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:17 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

Marriage is crappy. It's young, too. But my problem is that I don't want anything to do with her when she gets tipsy/aggressive. She is usually doing one of four things every night, all night: texting, talking on phone, watching tv, or drinking. It's like I married a low IQ person. WTF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168825)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: Pink Whorehouse Crotch

and she doesn't even want to fuck a lot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168857)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: Ruby Adulterous Tattoo Lettuce

She sounds bored bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168957)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 7:17 AM
Author: Walnut stubborn faggotry theater

cr

not relationship material

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170565)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

Bump for anyone wanting to see a IRL closeted married man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168436)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: sooty cerebral space really tough guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168846)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: Doobsian dog poop

i feel like i have GAIDS after reading all the faggots in this thread. 2-3 drinks? who fucking cares man. get that stick out of your ass, it's no big deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168442)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168446)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

Did you miss the part about how it makes her act? Also, since you still live in your parents' basement, you may not have the perspective to see that marriage cannot work if one party is committed to something above and beyond the marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168464)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:46 PM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

Jesus christ you faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168478)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:47 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

you must be the coolest guy in the frat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168491)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:48 PM
Author: Doobsian dog poop

she's probably getting angry becuz her faggot husband is acting like she's an alkie for pouring a glass of wine. i'd get pissed too.

your second sentence is retarded, married people have their own interests too. liking a couple drinks isnt 'committing yourself to something above and beyond the marriage' its just having a couple drinks. its not like she's fucking the neighbor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168494)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:50 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

Obviously the OP sees the way she acts while drinking as a problem and has spoken to her about it. She refuses to change. If you downplay that, you have no clue about addiction or relationships. I know, I know, that's not cool to say. But if you have seen the destruction and pain that happens in this context, you would back off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168531)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: burgundy beady-eyed fanboi

TCR. wife getting angry and annoying + eating shit/getting fat are pretty big problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168551)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

that too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168575)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

Yea. OP here. It's not her having a drink or two which bothers me. It's the fact that she gets real aggressive - not in a good way - and begins to binge eat. It's just fucking weird behavior and I don't get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168849)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:56 AM
Author: Charismatic costumed trailer park cumskin

sounds like she doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169715)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:52 PM
Author: brass macaca

lol faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168558)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:54 PM
Author: Doobsian dog poop

it sounds like OP is being overbearing to me. being in a relationship means being to accept little things that may annoy you or that your partner may have different views on things. given how minor the perceived infraction is here, it seems ridiculous to get riled up about. talk about 'addiction', 'destruction' et al seems hyperbolic when we're talking about someone enjoying a couple glasses of wine at home. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168579)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:56 PM
Author: bright internet-worthy garrison philosopher-king

You may be right. From my experience, it's sort of "if you have to ask, then there's a problem." But maybe we need more information.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168607)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:19 AM
Author: Nighttime maniacal brunch

what if she really likes chewing gum all the time and it pisses him off, but she refuses to quit? is that also a sign that the marriage is in deep shit due to her competing "commitments?"

i swear to god, ex-drunks who got sober are the most annoying and preachy faggots on earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169482)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: greedy locus sandwich

just tell her about this bro

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2235786&mc=28&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168614)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:57 PM
Author: Titillating stage

3 drinks/night is a lot, especially for a girl. tell her to fucking cool it and cut her drinking down to a couple times/week. should give her something to look forward to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168616)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: pearly mind-boggling athletic conference rigor

You must be a hit at cocktail parties.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168621)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:59 PM
Author: Titillating stage

I love how defensive all the loser alcoholics are getting in this thread. drinking every night is a terrible idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168646)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:00 AM
Author: Contagious slap-happy boltzmann

(Guy who pukes after 1/2 beer and rarely has sex)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169334)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:48 AM
Author: razzmatazz ceo

Lol. Way to respond to his CR criticism with a general insult. Now, please give me my insult.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171018)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 10:58 PM
Author: twisted tanning salon

she sounds pretty alpha dood. high t>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168633)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:02 PM
Author: Pink Whorehouse Crotch

yeah but the bitch is getting fat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168684)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:05 PM
Author: twisted tanning salon

what could be alphaer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168715)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:00 PM
Author: greedy locus sandwich

slowly start changing your finances over to your parents or best friend and then divorce her. this won't end well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168658)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:21 PM
Author: Twinkling hairraiser meetinghouse queen of the night



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171763)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: infuriating fat ankles stage

WTF? I drink 2-3 a night, my wife bitches at me about it and I just blow it off.

Leave her alone.

Op is an faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168844)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:21 PM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

If your wife was 15 lb overweight w a beer belly and a bad temper, I think you'd be singing a different tune.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168868)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:27 PM
Author: infuriating fat ankles stage

Shit, I'd probably be more motivated to fuck her than I am now.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168953)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:28 PM
Author: Boyish gaming laptop

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168962)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Sexy persian chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170902)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Sexy persian chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170903)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: sooty cerebral space really tough guy

so much... projection... ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23168861)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:44 PM
Author: dashing institution sweet tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169171)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:41 PM
Author: Orchid laughsome national faggot firefighter

you are a faggot. jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169132)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 11:49 AM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176789)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:13 AM
Author: Nighttime maniacal brunch

i have 3-4 most nights.

also just to restate the obvious, you are a fucking faggot and a tool.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169443)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:25 AM
Author: Spruce newt deer antler

I am drinking right now (#4 of the night after finishing work around 11:00...I must be a raging boozehound!!!!)

OP is likely a well-known homosexual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169523)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM
Author: Saffron vibrant hall

For a woman this is TTT as fuckk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169656)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:08 AM
Author: Exhilarant Maroon Mexican Circlehead

Ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169766)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:20 AM
Author: Soul-stirring Sex Offender Famous Landscape Painting

It sounds like you started this thread in order to build your case to yourself to divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23169829)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:16 AM
Author: frum kitchen clown

There is only one right way to approach this, and that's to tell her she is getting fat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170701)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:22 PM
Author: Twinkling hairraiser meetinghouse queen of the night

this might actually work



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171771)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:32 AM
Author: onyx psychic

To me, it sounds like its less about the drinking than that, overall, she is starting to live an unhealthy lifestyle. Getting fat is not cool.

My fiancé doesn't drink, but I usually have 2 drinks most weeknights. She gets a little pissed sometimes when I sit on my ass watching a baseball game with a glass of bourbon, but I workout 4 times a week (yes, squats) and work my ass off, so she backs off.

If she was drinking 3 drinks a night and acting like a sloppy mess, I'd be pissed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170732)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:38 AM
Author: sickened pale rehab

She probably is depressed because she married a closeted homosexual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170739)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:44 AM
Author: odious den kitty

Op you're coming off a little emo in this thread. Your wife also doesn't respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170766)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:39 AM
Author: Mauve wagecucks

Whats going on here is people who have never been married or who have great marriages arent understanding that this HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DRINKING.

Youre hypersensitive and she's passive aggressive because the relationship is floundering. You could just as well be mad about her watching trash tv or not washing the dishes or whatever. And she realizes it and continues to have her little passive aggressive drinks. I know this shit well.

Can you live like this? Dont.

Fix the marriage or get out. Its not about the 3 drinks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170745)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:15 AM
Author: Fragrant transparent dilemma

Probably spot on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170905)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:50 AM
Author: purple offensive office preventive strike

the real problem is you appropriate her getting angry/agressive to having a few drinks

its your responsibility to be a pleasant person to be around regardless if you have a few drinks or not

same goes for "having a bad day at work" or whatever

you're responsible for for treating you family members w/ respect, regardless of outside circumstances



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170782)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:56 AM
Author: Marvelous crawly base party of the first part

She sounds down. Take her on more vacations and get her a lot of jewelry. SOLO! (she only lives once)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170810)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:28 PM
Author: Free-loading toaster native

great coinage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174209)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:14 AM
Author: Heady national security agency home

you need to get her pregnant so she can't drink anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170899)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 10:20 AM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo

NEW IDEA: OP, lend your bitch out to me for the night. You can watch in the corner while we drink and fuck. It'll be stimulating for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23170934)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 3:31 PM
Author: Dun fantasy-prone set

Titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23172503)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 11:13 AM
Author: Aggressive Box Office

You're not banging her enough so she is relieving sexual frustration by drinking. Every time she pours a drink you should just grab her and start railing her right there on the couch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171106)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 1:24 PM
Author: Twinkling hairraiser meetinghouse queen of the night

try to get her into a social and physically active hobby like fuck idk badmiton with a couple you know from work or something idk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23171782)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:39 PM
Author: ultramarine range roast beef

this is going to end in divorce :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174250)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 8:58 PM
Author: Very tactful massive people who are hurt point

Can't comment on the marriage, but as you get older, having 3 drinks per night (for a guy, this is five-six drinks per night) is a really unhealthy habit. Alcohol ages you and makes you fat. Despite what you may think, you're also getting worse sleep while slightly buzzed, which further ages you and effects your mental acuity (even if you don't feel "hungover"). A bottle of wine a day might work for greek people who live on the beach and eat olives and omega-3 laden fish all day while working 25 hours per week, it's not working for a typical american professional.

This is coming from a guy who fell into that habit around thirty and is realizing how it's unsustainable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174340)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:04 PM
Author: bearded house

YOURE DONE HERE FAGGOT! Please follow arrow to the prius with the lesbian in the driver's seat, there is a tail pipe waiting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174362)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 11:51 AM
Author: slimy yellow water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176792)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:15 PM
Author: Titillating stage

cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174427)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:24 PM
Author: Very tactful massive people who are hurt point

Also will add that depends on what you're drinking too; as I got older I was picking up a six pack of craft beer rather than some whatever lights; you drink 4-6 nice beers you're consuming like 1000 calories in alcohol every night before bed!

It's better for me at least to just let fucking loose 1-2 nights per week and be dry the rest, though i love beer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174488)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 2:38 PM
Author: cyan personal credit line

I've found with nice beers that it's hard to drink more than 2-3, whereas with bud/miller light, putting away a six pack aint no thing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177248)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 3:06 PM
Author: Pink Whorehouse Crotch

that's why its better to do nice beer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177339)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 1:11 PM
Author: Boyish gaming laptop

fuck you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23176966)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:29 PM
Author: demanding aqua temple milk

This is why moderation entails smoking a J one night, Pinot Noir another, and hot sex every night. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174517)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 9:33 PM
Author: infuriating fat ankles stage

(guy who has never been married)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23174538)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 1:42 PM
Author: Passionate friendly grandma

what if your gf smokes weed every night?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177042)



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Date: May 11th, 2013 2:33 PM
Author: sepia blathering location

i bet she is hiding booze somewhere - start looking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252067&forum_id=2#23177225)