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Any married folks here refuse to have kids bc of shaky marriage?
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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:46 PM Author: Provocative lay I'm steadfast that I don't want kids. Marriage is too shaky for me. I even refuse to buy a house for the same reason. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169190) |
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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:48 PM Author: Arousing Party Of The First Part describe
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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:59 PM Author: bistre blood rage main people If marriage was stronger, would you want kids? Or just plain don't want them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169322) |
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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:59 PM Author: Provocative lay The former
I just hear from do many people that they r stuck in marriages because of kids. Given how tenuous my marriage is right now, seems unwise to have kids. |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:06 AM Author: Ivory Floppy Ape Step-uncle's House are you sticking it out because you want kids? or are you there just because you're there? are you doing anything to make it better or to get out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169398) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:08 AM Author: Provocative lay Right now just here but trying to make it better. Prob keep trying for the next 6-9 months and then re-evaluate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169411) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:02 AM Author: exciting parlor (not rasquie) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169362) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:03 AM Author: soul-stirring maniacal pozpig Marriages have ups and downs. If your woman is a good woman and you're committed to her, have children. There are immense rewards. Long game.
If she's an irredeemable cunt, leave. You know the answer to these questions. |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:06 AM Author: Ivory Floppy Ape Step-uncle's House this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169399) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:08 AM Author: Provocative lay What are these immense rewards?
She complains 24/7 and has a lot of bad habits. She has an anger issue. |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:10 AM Author: bistre blood rage main people Most women complain 24/7. Especially when you live with them. Not that this fact makes it any more tolerable.
Be the bigger man. Try to avoid whatever it is that sets her off. When she does go off, try not to let it escalate. Very hard. But possible. |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:11 AM Author: Provocative lay It's annoying beyond belief. And leads to so much time spent fighting, etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169422) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:13 AM Author: soul-stirring maniacal pozpig You enter the room and it's the second coming. Like they thought you had gone away, forever, and lo, HE RETURNS! You're a hero, a protector, warmth, safety. You are not a man until you are a father. Full stop.
She will continue to complain and people don't change. She'll turn to other men or booze to medicate. Leave.
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:38 AM Author: bistre blood rage main people This is flame. Women all complain. They don't all turn into cheaters or alcoholics.
I'd try going on a trip. Leave your damn phones and laptops at home and see what happens. |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM Author: Odious confused brunch Fucking trips never work. You still have to return to the day to day grind. And even the trips are often annoying because you just don't like the person you're spending time with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169653) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:39 AM Author: violet wagecucks public bath Uh-oh. Those are really serious problems. Do NOT have kids or buy a house until they are resolved. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169634) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM Author: Odious confused brunch They'll never really be resolved. This guy was an idiot for marrying that woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169658) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:44 AM Author: violet wagecucks public bath Probably correct. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169662) |
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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:06 AM Author: bistre blood rage main people Kids likely strengthened my marriage. But TBF, that's not the rule. Agree with prior poster that if she's good and you're committed, worth it, if no hope, not worth it. What is the primary cause of the shakiness? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169394) |