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Any married folks here refuse to have kids bc of shaky marriage?

I'm steadfast that I don't want kids. Marriage is too shaky ...
..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......  05/09/13
describe
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If marriage was stronger, would you want kids? Or just plai...
GreatCornproleo  05/09/13
The former I just hear from do many people that they r st...
..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......  05/09/13
are you sticking it out because you want kids? or are you th...
perish  05/10/13
Right now just here but trying to make it better. Prob keep ...
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(not rasquie)
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Marriages have ups and downs. If your woman is a good woman...
Proledrift  05/10/13
this
perish  05/10/13
What are these immense rewards? She complains 24/7 and ha...
..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......  05/10/13
Most women complain 24/7. Especially when you live with the...
GreatCornproleo  05/10/13
It's annoying beyond belief. And leads to so much time spent...
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You enter the room and it's the second coming. Like they th...
Proledrift  05/10/13
This is flame. Women all complain. They don't all turn int...
GreatCornproleo  05/10/13
Fucking trips never work. You still have to return to the da...
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Uh-oh. Those are really serious problems. Do NOT have kids...
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They'll never really be resolved. This guy was an idiot for ...
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Probably correct.
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Kids likely strengthened my marriage. But TBF, that's not th...
GreatCornproleo  05/10/13


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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:46 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......

I'm steadfast that I don't want kids. Marriage is too shaky for me. I even refuse to buy a house for the same reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169190)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:48 PM
Author: .,,.....,,,.,.,:,,:.,..,:::.,,.,:,.,.:..:.,:.::,.

describe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169208)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:59 PM
Author: GreatCornproleo

If marriage was stronger, would you want kids? Or just plain don't want them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169322)



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Date: May 9th, 2013 11:59 PM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......

The former

I just hear from do many people that they r stuck in marriages because of kids. Given how tenuous my marriage is right now, seems unwise to have kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169327)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:06 AM
Author: perish (let's have another round for the bright red devil)

are you sticking it out because you want kids? or are you there just because you're there? are you doing anything to make it better or to get out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169398)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:08 AM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......

Right now just here but trying to make it better. Prob keep trying for the next 6-9 months and then re-evaluate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169411)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:02 AM
Author: ..,.,.,...,,,...,...,,,

(not rasquie)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169362)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:03 AM
Author: Proledrift

Marriages have ups and downs. If your woman is a good woman and you're committed to her, have children. There are immense rewards. Long game.

If she's an irredeemable cunt, leave. You know the answer to these questions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169374)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:06 AM
Author: perish (let's have another round for the bright red devil)

this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169399)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:08 AM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......

What are these immense rewards?

She complains 24/7 and has a lot of bad habits. She has an anger issue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169409)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:10 AM
Author: GreatCornproleo

Most women complain 24/7. Especially when you live with them. Not that this fact makes it any more tolerable.

Be the bigger man. Try to avoid whatever it is that sets her off. When she does go off, try not to let it escalate. Very hard. But possible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169413)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:11 AM
Author: ..,.,.,.,,,....,.,......,,,.,,,,......

It's annoying beyond belief. And leads to so much time spent fighting, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169422)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:13 AM
Author: Proledrift

You enter the room and it's the second coming. Like they thought you had gone away, forever, and lo, HE RETURNS! You're a hero, a protector, warmth, safety. You are not a man until you are a father. Full stop.

She will continue to complain and people don't change. She'll turn to other men or booze to medicate. Leave.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169447)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:38 AM
Author: GreatCornproleo

This is flame. Women all complain. They don't all turn into cheaters or alcoholics.

I'd try going on a trip. Leave your damn phones and laptops at home and see what happens.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169629)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,..,,:::,,..,:,.;.:..:.,:,::,.

Fucking trips never work. You still have to return to the day to day grind. And even the trips are often annoying because you just don't like the person you're spending time with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169653)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:39 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,.

Uh-oh. Those are really serious problems. Do NOT have kids or buy a house until they are resolved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169634)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:43 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,..,,:::,,..,:,.;.:..:.,:,::,.

They'll never really be resolved. This guy was an idiot for marrying that woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169658)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:44 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,.

Probably correct.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169662)



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Date: May 10th, 2013 12:06 AM
Author: GreatCornproleo

Kids likely strengthened my marriage. But TBF, that's not the rule. Agree with prior poster that if she's good and you're committed, worth it, if no hope, not worth it. What is the primary cause of the shakiness?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2252161&forum_id=2#23169394)