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Wedding Invite -in 2 months
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Date: April 15th, 2014 12:36 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction Bros, got a friend who I used to be much closer buddies with in the past, but have not really hung out at all with for 2 years except a couple times. Was good friends with the family - would go over for holiday parties, stuff like that. No falling out, just been busy, still shot the occasionally bullshit joke text.
Not invited to the engagement party which was like 8 months ago. Now get a invite to the wedding in june. They've been planning this for a while, so I highly doubt they just sent out the invitations, unless they did a save the date earlier? This looks like he waited to see how many no rsvps would come in and then i got the invite, right? |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 12:45 PM Author: exciting charcoal step-uncle's house Congrats you got in off the waitlist. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25386839) |
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Date: April 16th, 2014 1:09 PM Author: contagious indecent range newt Lol, tcr, esp if its destination or out of town wedding. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25392618) |
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Date: April 16th, 2014 1:51 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction Nah it's in the city and I only live a few blocks away. Swanky too, I'm excited for the hors derves, my favorite art of weddings (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25392862) |
Date: April 15th, 2014 12:37 PM Author: ruddy electric furnace incel you're not special. GOI faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25386782) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 12:50 PM Author: Submissive Domesticated Hell wedding invites typically go out 2-3 months before the event so it's unlikely you're on the b-list.
but even if you are on the b-list, get over it, since you're clearly not a close friend. |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 12:53 PM Author: Odious crotch Agreed. A lot of times they just slide, too, because everything takes forever (printing, calligrapher, collecting addresses, etc.). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25386875) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 1:16 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction right but i never got a save the date, but tbf he knows i'm not a busy guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25386995) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 5:46 PM Author: sexy plaza multi-billionaire save the dates are not mandatory (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25388604) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 1:09 PM Author: Bossy Claret Theatre Ceo LOL at OP caring about this and overthinking this.
It's stressful planning a wedding and getting the invitations out is just one of the many things they need to do. 2 months out is perfectly normal. |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 1:15 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction cool. Only reason i thought otherwise is because they've been engaged for over a year. And she has an older sister who got married about 2 years ago, and it's the type of family that wants the 'perfect' wedding, so i'm guessing they've been planning since he proposed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25386986) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 1:18 PM Author: cream ungodly orchestra pit dingle berry don't go if this offends you so much. most people send out save the dates further in advance but whatever. 2 months is enough time to make plans for a weekend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25387008) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 1:36 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction nah not offended, it's my fault for not hanging out more. quite honestly i've been busy, he moved to the suburbs with the fiancee, and they like to do expensive dinners and i'm not exactly killing it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25387087) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 5:45 PM Author: ivory sex offender To be honest, I don't think my wife and I even did "Save the Date" cards. I know a lot of couples do, but not everyone does.
If you read any of those wedding etiquette Q&A sites, they'll tell you that unless it's a destination wedding, 6-8 weeks before the wedding is the appropriate time to send invitations. I wouldn't assume you're getting slighted here - my guess is that they didn't do Save the Dates, and you got your invitation at the same time as everyone else. |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 5:48 PM Author: Submissive Domesticated Hell we did an email save the date and i've gotten email save the date in 50% of the weddings i've gone to in the past few years. i think only traditional people do save the dates anymore and even then, you might only send them to the old people who expect one. i didn't even send a wedding invite to some people who never gave me their addresses and already told me they're coming. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25388610) |
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Date: April 16th, 2014 1:29 PM Author: cream ungodly orchestra pit dingle berry you mean you didn't want to send out magnets with your pictures on them? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25392727) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 6:04 PM Author: sable lascivious ratface We didn't do save the dates.
Save the date is weird wedding industry flame, like so much else involved with modern weddings. |
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Date: April 16th, 2014 12:53 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction cool thanks bro. i've only been invited to a handful of weddings, and none of those were borderline, so i guess i never really paid attention to when the invites were sent out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25392556) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 5:48 PM Author: Orchid legend Sounds like you guys are just acquaintances at this point. Do you even want to go to his wedding? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25388608) |
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Date: April 16th, 2014 12:56 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction nah i mean i actually went to his bachelor party and had a great time. i guess since he got engage about 1.5 years ago and moved to the suburbs can't hang out in the same 'bro' way we used to. we were never best friends, but would hit the bars every couple weeks and always enjoyed each others company (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25392571) |
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Date: April 15th, 2014 5:49 PM Author: sexy plaza multi-billionaire or they didn't have your address until very recently.
was it a snail mail invite or an e-invite?
2 months isn't abnormal unless you'd have to travel far. |
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Date: April 16th, 2014 12:58 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction yeah his mom actually emailed me for my address, cause i moved recently. consensus seems to be that 2 months is an ok heads up. maybe if someone has to plan a flight or something they need more of a heads up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25392576) |
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Date: April 16th, 2014 1:52 PM Author: vigorous dysfunction I guess I should clarify I have no idea why his mom asked for my address, guessing its for an invite lulz (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2543973&forum_id=2#25392873) |