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any other single biglaw bros aftaid to start a relationship beca

because of your looming career instability?
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
I find it hard to maintain a relationship in the face of the...
citrine point son of senegal
  04/30/14
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Autistic native degenerate
  04/30/14
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iridescent stimulating national main people
  05/01/14
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Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
I didn't because of it. I did 3 years then went into somethi...
opaque passionate tank
  04/30/14
sounds exactly like me, except I haven't lived that frugally...
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
how the fuck do u fuck 18-20
opaque passionate tank
  04/30/14
same cut-and-past message to a shitload of girls. basically ...
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
are they cute? you have to wine and dine them at fancy rest...
Maize roast beef
  04/30/14
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Maize roast beef
  04/30/14
some are, and no. if you straight up tell them you just want...
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
what's the draw, they want to mess around with an older bigl...
Maize roast beef
  05/01/14
lmao. its flame
Nofapping Box Office Sound Barrier
  05/01/14
Literally one in a million girls would do that, and not the ...
zippy kitty cat
  05/01/14
literally about 1 in 20 or 30 does. I've been pushing this a...
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  05/02/14
life is full of uncertainties bro, what if you lose your job...
Heady harsh puppy
  04/30/14
youre probably right brother
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
what were you making after you left?
soul-stirring crystalline mexican
  04/30/14
God that is such a BIGLAWYER question. Don't get golden hand...
opaque passionate tank
  04/30/14
*makes a thread about how his salary impacts his dating pros...
soul-stirring crystalline mexican
  04/30/14
1) I am not OP 2) I only talked about how I used biglaw t...
opaque passionate tank
  04/30/14
o so you went to law school/biglaw for the doors that it ope...
soul-stirring crystalline mexican
  04/30/14
(angry low iq schtick)
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
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buff talented temple rigpig
  04/30/14
explain why you need career stability to start a relationshi...
Flushed Swashbuckling Death Wish
  04/30/14
see: acp, wrassler
Crawly shrine
  04/30/14
I just want to figure out my plan before I bring another per...
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
not that big a concern. biglaw does cut into time for datin...
Puce Sadistic Address
  04/30/14
this too. when I get free time, I want to go get fucked up w...
Fear-inspiring Kitty
  04/30/14
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razzle-dazzle water buffalo
  11/24/14


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Date: April 30th, 2014 5:00 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

because of your looming career instability?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25478853)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 5:16 PM
Author: citrine point son of senegal

I find it hard to maintain a relationship in the face of the veritable deluge of models and bottles that comes with being a BIGLAW associate.

These are the iron chains they don't warn you about in school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25478953)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 5:55 PM
Author: Autistic native degenerate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479185)



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Date: May 1st, 2014 11:24 AM
Author: iridescent stimulating national main people



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25483259)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 5:53 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479171)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 5:54 PM
Author: opaque passionate tank

I didn't because of it. I did 3 years then went into something related but non-law and started to date then. I lived frugally and had 100K in the bank (didn't have huge loans) plus a car paid off and down payment on a condo. Plus the prestige of the job set me up for my eventual career in my new field.

Worked out well. I casually dated, i.e. fucked chicks in biglaw, but thought of it like another 3 year law school spell and then I was done. Age 28-29 I was free again and now I am in a LTR at 31 with a 28 year old, marriage track.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479181)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:05 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

sounds exactly like me, except I haven't lived that frugally and i'm in year 4 now. I use okc to fuck 18-20 year olds but I've talked to a few girls on there that seem like nice, smart, cute, normal girls. I just cant imagine initiating a relationship not knowing whats next. frankly I kind of want a period of unemployment, and I don't know how to explain that.

anyway brother, your stoy gives me hope ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479227)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:06 PM
Author: opaque passionate tank

how the fuck do u fuck 18-20

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479229)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:59 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

same cut-and-past message to a shitload of girls. basically say I know I'm too old for them but theyre cute and I'm just looking for somebody to mess around with. some say yes. 1-6 a month for 3 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479480)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 7:19 PM
Author: Maize roast beef

are they cute? you have to wine and dine them at fancy restaurants a couple times before fucking?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479631)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 8:48 PM
Author: Maize roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25480235)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 9:13 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

some are, and no. if you straight up tell them you just want fwb, if theyre down we normally get drinks. I've even just gone over to their place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25480379)



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Date: May 1st, 2014 12:26 AM
Author: Maize roast beef

what's the draw, they want to mess around with an older biglawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25481719)



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Date: May 1st, 2014 11:23 AM
Author: Nofapping Box Office Sound Barrier

lmao. its flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25483249)



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Date: May 1st, 2014 11:07 PM
Author: zippy kitty cat

Literally one in a million girls would do that, and not the kind of girls you'd hope for

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25487319)



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Date: May 2nd, 2014 3:17 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

literally about 1 in 20 or 30 does. I've been pushing this approach on here for years and people would rather call bullshit than try it.

the draw is I'm a decent looking guy who is honest about what he wants and presents it in a nice, humanizing, and slightly funny way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25491085)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:46 PM
Author: Heady harsh puppy

life is full of uncertainties bro, what if you lose your job once you get married or have kids? it's not uncommon. plus if you meet a chick who supports you as you transition to a lower paying job or just do funemployment for a bit then she's probably 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479418)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:59 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

youre probably right brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479486)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:21 PM
Author: soul-stirring crystalline mexican

what were you making after you left?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479304)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:29 PM
Author: opaque passionate tank

God that is such a BIGLAWYER question. Don't get golden handcuffs and you'll be fine. I am not making BIGLAW money. 100K or so.

BIGLAWYERS hate their lives and want an out. So they get outs, but really, it's all about striving for prestige and money. So when the out is less prestigious and less money. NOPE. Sticking with it. BIGLAW isn't the problem. It's all in your heads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479341)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:38 PM
Author: soul-stirring crystalline mexican

*makes a thread about how his salary impacts his dating prospects*

*blows up when someone asks him what his salary is*

*is an idiot*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479382)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:39 PM
Author: opaque passionate tank

1) I am not OP

2) I only talked about how I used biglaw to be financial starting point

3) (guy who can't flesh out distinctions at DLA Piper) my point is that the BIGLAW bros who end up stuck in BIGLAW and similar firms forever are the type who care only about one thing "what is the salary?"

And that makes it impossible to leave for almost everyone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479387)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:52 PM
Author: soul-stirring crystalline mexican

o so you went to law school/biglaw for the doors that it opens up and the intellectual rigor?

gotcha. carry on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479441)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 7:00 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

(angry low iq schtick)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479494)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:22 PM
Author: buff talented temple rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479307)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:40 PM
Author: Flushed Swashbuckling Death Wish

explain why you need career stability to start a relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479393)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:54 PM
Author: Crawly shrine

see: acp, wrassler

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479456)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 7:01 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

I just want to figure out my plan before I bring another person into it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479498)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 6:54 PM
Author: Puce Sadistic Address

not that big a concern. biglaw does cut into time for dating and relationships, which is a bigger deal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479452)



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Date: April 30th, 2014 7:04 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Kitty

this too. when I get free time, I want to go get fucked up with buddies, work out, sleep, cook, etc. Not meet a stranger for coffee and try to figue out if I should make a move

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#25479519)



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Date: November 24th, 2014 7:16 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2556365&forum_id=2#26788753)