I cheated on my wife last night. One night stand very drunk.
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Date: August 16th, 2014 9:55 PM Author: razzle station headpube
Been with her for 14 years and we have kids. First time I have ever done anything like this and definitely the last. Got blacked out and met a person at a bar when out with friends from out of town. I think I was probably roofied as I’ve drank that much before and never been close to that drunk. I love my wife so much, she is my soul mate and she told me that if I ever cheated on me she would leave me immediately.
What do I do? I am wracked with guilt and am disgusted by myself, but I don't think I can tell her. If she left me it would kill me and our kids.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143044) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:54 PM Author: razzle station headpube
I believe her. At the very least I believe it would ruin our relationship.
I don't know if I can deal with it either. It might consume me. But it probably will even if I tell her.
It was just one night in 10+ years when I was as drunk as I've ever been and there is a really good chance I was roofied and basically raped. I'm not justifying it, but it was basically two hours out the tens of thousands I've been with her.
I am hoping I can get over it eventually and put it behind me and be a better husband going forward.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26146497) |
Date: August 16th, 2014 9:58 PM Author: citrine provocative cuckold field
just let it be man
don't tell her, don't do anything different. you were basically just masturbating - drunk and needed to cum.
maybe quit the sauce/let her know you think you might have a problem with drinking but don't reference this episode.
obviously you fucked up badly and don't need to be reminded of how stupid you were
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143058)
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Date: August 16th, 2014 10:08 PM Author: citrine provocative cuckold field
ya dude, it's just not worth it.
I've done some stupid shit while drinking including having really unsafe sex while in a relationship. You basically can't drink with a group of people - you can drink alone in a cabin in the woods or something or with your wife, or in your mancave at the house - but not in a place that has pussy floating around.
You had over 10 drinks at least. At that point your higher cognitive functions are so thoroughly eroded that all you can think about is base animal shit which involves fucking to blow a load and get dat dopamine or whatever chemical it is.
Obviously you are feeling guilty and if she asks you - you need to be honest with her about part of the situation which is: you think you have a problem with alcohol and need help/need to stop for a bit.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143123)
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Date: August 16th, 2014 10:20 PM Author: citrine provocative cuckold field
your fine bro. you definitely are struggling with the fear right now.
hopefully you used a condom and didn't blast loads of baby batter in that puss
I think that this random slut would let it slide
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Date: August 16th, 2014 10:25 PM Author: citrine provocative cuckold field
damn dude you wife does have a mouth
but J/K you are fine man just chill
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143231) |
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Date: August 16th, 2014 10:31 PM Author: razzle station headpube
Well, she knows that I was almost black out drunk last night, so that wouldn't be a shock.
I'm most concerned about this girl.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143267)
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Date: August 16th, 2014 10:14 PM Author: razzle station headpube
BTW, do you think there is any real concern that this woman, whose name I didn't even remember, would tell my wife?
Before Facebook she literally wouldn't even have enough information about me to find me after the fact, but with Facebook that is no longer the case.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143151) |
Date: August 16th, 2014 10:17 PM Author: cracking mahogany step-uncle's house toilet seat
The real question is can you trust that no one else will tell her? One of your bros (or bro's gf/wife)? The girl you slept with? Could someone have seen you?
Edit: Sorry didn't refresh soon enough before posting. In the digital age you definitely need to worry about this broad tracking you down or interfering. It's a definite gamble. If you tell her there's no telling how she'll react. If you don't tell her and she finds out from someone else you are FUCKED.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143163) |
Date: August 16th, 2014 10:36 PM Author: cerise school cafeteria
If this is truly a one off drunken hookup that you intensely regret and don't intend to repeat then I would say take it to your grave.
If you were my husband then I as the wife really would rather not know.
PS: obviously you have to go and be tested for STDs.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143298) |
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Date: August 16th, 2014 10:38 PM Author: black chapel rigor
this.
assuming the other woman isnt going to tell the wife, you are better off not telling her.
and yes, get fucking tested for stds.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143312) |
Date: August 16th, 2014 10:42 PM Author: geriatric useless brakes persian
One of the main risks at this point is that your behaviors resulting from this stupid act will make your wife suspicious. You seem like you won't be able to just man up and take this one to the grave.
Additionally, it seems that many people in real, long term relationships view one time mistakes like this as expected. Obviously your betrayal (and irresponsibility within that betrayal) would be harmful and fucking heartbreaking if your pregnant wife found out, but can you handle the secret?
The secret is what kills people on the inside and can lead to secondary deterioration.
I also think that "I will leave you immediately" is a tactic that may not play out as you've been led to believe. But if this isn't symptomatic and really won't be repeated, don't ruin your family.
Other posters are right in this thread about your drinking. Put a cap on it and do some hardcore introspection.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26143326) |
Date: August 17th, 2014 12:56 AM Author: fantasy-prone charcoal dog poop kitty cat
i've thought this back and forward and i think you gotta tell her man
you fucked up bad. i see people's point about taking it to your grave if you truly will never do this again, but i think you have to treat her like an adult and let her make that decision
if you do tell her, i would be ready to lay out a plan on what you intend to do to change your behavior in the future. i would just also tell her (not begging, but like a man) that you love her, will never hurt her again, and don't want her to leave but that you'll respect her decision
anything that can be destroyed by the truth should be
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26144076) |
Date: August 17th, 2014 10:50 AM Author: razzle station headpube
Not that I don't deserve it, but last night was the worst night of sleep I've ever had in my entire life. I'm a mess.
And what makes me feel even more guilty is that my wife feels bad for my because I was so hung over yesterday.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26146029) |
Date: August 17th, 2014 12:58 PM Author: glittery sweet tailpipe
I'm not sure you should tell her. If the guilt is too much, I have a strategy on how you should approach it.
Offer to let her fuck another guy.
If she does, your guilt will be gone. It may even release some hidden desires and push your marraige to new heights.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26146505) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:02 PM Author: glittery sweet tailpipe
I thought the same thing too, when I was in your shoes.
Just try it.
You are just giving her and option. It worked for me and turned out to be amazing.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26146526) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 2:23 PM Author: glittery sweet tailpipe
Just trying to spread the gospel, friend.
What makes you think I'm flame?
I came to this board from a google search of "ladyboys and cuckoldry". Perhaps unsurprisingly, xoxohth has the top two results. http://www.google.com/search?q="ladyboys+and+cuckoldry"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26146923) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:05 PM Author: razzle station headpube
I'm not talking about rehab.
I'm not acting any different except for a little bit nicer possibly, but noticeably so.
I did change my FB settings, but there is no way my wife will know I did that. It is only a setting for people who don't know me.
I'm not telling anyone at all except you all...which I need to do or I'm going to go insane.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26148603) |
Date: August 18th, 2014 1:29 PM Author: apoplectic puppy hospital
You need to get to CHURCH. That's the only place that will understand how fucked up your life has gotten.
I'm actually completely agnostic, but the secular world is not for you.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26153964) |
Date: August 18th, 2014 1:47 PM Author: Multi-colored knife institution
dont tell her. living w/ guilt is punishment enough.
i wouldn't divorce husband over a one-night stand and i think i could even learn to trust him again, but i'd lose a lot of respect for him as a person for showing such poor judgment and you can never regain respect w/ a person once it's lost.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647464&forum_id=2#26154115) |
Date: August 18th, 2014 2:03 PM Author: Indigo Stirring Native
Protip: a woman will never forgive you for this. If you tell her, AT BEST, she will cheat on you back to get even and still treat you like shit forever. At worst, you are divorce-pwned.
Just keep it quiet and be a better husband, you idiot.
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Date: August 18th, 2014 8:20 PM Author: Bearded Flatulent Travel Guidebook
The only fucked up thing I see is that you feel so guilty about this. Well, that and you didn't use a condom. Monogamy (or at least fucking only one person for most of your life) is not natural or realistic. You may as well feel guilty about the fact that your shit stinks. It's simply human nature and there is nothing you can do about it. Most dudes who have been married for that long would kill for that kind of opportunity. You should be patting yourself on the back not torturing yourself with guilt.
And for the love of god, don't say anything to her. That will just create a ton of drama at best (and ruin your marriage at worst). Getting strange on the side is harmless. Most men do it eventually and many do it all the time. In the very unlikely event that this girl tells your wife, just tell her that she's a crazy stalker who won't take no for an answer. Go completely overboard and threaten to get a restraining order if necessary. If there are no witnesses or other evidence of cheating, your wife will believe you over her.
So stop beating yourself up over it. At the bare minimum you should jack off to the memory, and I would seriously consider using her as a fuck buddy on the side if she is cool with that and won't tell the wife. There is no reason to feel guilty for being a human male with a normal sex drive. Accepting that this is the way you are will result in less guilt (and possibly more fun). Just make sure to use a condom next time (whether you do it with the same girl or someone different).
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