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Break up over her history of casual sex?

I have been taking this gf seriously as wife material. She's...
Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry
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she forgot to mention that there is a zero after the 3
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I know her well enough that I could tell when she is lying a...
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poor flame.
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not flame. seems like a reasonably common scenario. wonderin...
Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry
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terrible flame
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How old are you/is she?
Big Hideous Sound Barrier Partner
  08/17/14
I'm 26. She's 23.
Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry
  08/17/14
And how did you pry this information out of her so you could...
Big Hideous Sound Barrier Partner
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we've shared pretty much everything. stems from talking abou...
Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry
  08/17/14
Terrible, terrible flame.
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Aromatic school
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Good luck finding anyone that meets your standards.
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You are an idiot. 3 dudes freshman year. If that's the &qu...
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LOL at you supposedly worrying about her casual sex with THR...
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I understand brother. I had the same issue with my chick. Th...
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Thanks. Yes she is an amazing person overall and I feel like...
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Would you desribe yourself as intellectual?
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pseudo-intellectual perhaps
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how big were they?
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Is it really that impossible to find a girl who's just had a...
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I lol'd.
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does it help if she had an LTR between then and now?
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Is this copypasta? In any case, a millennial who's had on...
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:30 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

I have been taking this gf seriously as wife material. She's hot, smart, loving, would be a great mom etc. BUT I am disgusted by her history of casual sex. It was basically her freshman year of college, she went into a rebellious phase and just jumped into bed with a series of guys (3 I think) without any commitment/love/whatever.

I come from a somewhat religious background, and while I wouldn't expect her to be a virgin, I'm somewhat conservative in thinking that sex should be in the context of a committed relationship. I guess this is a moral standard for me, and I'm fighting feelings of disgust that she would just give it away to "friends with benefits" types.

She seems to regret what she did, and she is objectively the best girl I've been with. Is it unreasonable for me to throw this relationship away because of this psychological hangup? How do I get over it?

EDIT: She subsequently had LTR which lasted a couple years. That doesn't bother me. Seems like a normal healthy sexually active relationship. Have no objections to that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145756)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:02 AM
Author: cerebral swollen prole theater stage

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145813)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:09 AM
Author: Dull Massive Garrison Trust Fund

well, if you really love her, then set her free

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145839)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:34 AM
Author: electric halford main people

LOL at her selling you on three (3) guys as a rebellious phase that ended quickly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145760)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:50 PM
Author: hyperactive titillating queen of the night public bath



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:34 AM
Author: stimulating carmine fat ankles

Dump her. Let her find a real man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145761)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:38 AM
Author: exhilarant selfie

she forgot to mention that there is a zero after the 3

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145765)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:41 AM
Author: blathering piazza



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:41 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

I know her well enough that I could tell when she is lying about shit. There were 3 of them. And honestly that's gross enough for me. 3 v. 10 v. whatever isn't a huge difference to me...it's more the principle. Am I right that she is unmarriable?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145771)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:19 AM
Author: Dull Massive Garrison Trust Fund

Yes, you're completely right. She should be stoned to death for being such a remorseless slut.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145962)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:37 PM
Author: Umber razzle-dazzle gas station

(XO Caliphate)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146671)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:52 PM
Author: Aromatic school



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:39 AM
Author: Thriller crawly sanctuary

poor flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145766)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:44 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

not flame. seems like a reasonably common scenario. wondering if anyone ever dealt with something similar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145773)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:49 AM
Author: white den trump supporter

terrible flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145782)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:44 AM
Author: Big Hideous Sound Barrier Partner

How old are you/is she?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145772)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:45 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

I'm 26. She's 23.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145774)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:46 AM
Author: Big Hideous Sound Barrier Partner

And how did you pry this information out of her so you could find an excuse to destroy a good relationship?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145776)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:53 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

we've shared pretty much everything. stems from talking about her oppressive parents and how she rebelled against them once she got the freedom of college.

so my standards are unreasonable? pretty much everyone has casual sex these days??

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145792)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:57 AM
Author: Big Hideous Sound Barrier Partner

Terrible, terrible flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145799)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:53 PM
Author: Aromatic school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148938)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:47 AM
Author: filthy haunting church

Good luck finding anyone that meets your standards.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145777)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:49 AM
Author: flirting provocative step-uncle's house

You are an idiot. 3 dudes freshman year. If that's the "worse" she's done get over yourself you self-righteous fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145781)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:49 AM
Author: white den trump supporter

terrible flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145783)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:52 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac Seedy Address Wrinkle

LOL at you supposedly worrying about her casual sex with THREE guys.

This is either abysmal flame or you have a mental disorder.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145788)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:56 AM
Author: godawful chartreuse native

I understand brother. I had the same issue with my chick. The older you get, the more likely a single chick will have these types of activities (e.g., multiple friends with benefits, Pumps and Dumps, etc.). The best way to approach this is to consider the overall person. She seems to hit every one of your main points, except for the sexual part. All things considered, having 3 friends with benefits (or pumps and dumps)is not that raunchy considering what other women do. Also, she was honest with you about it, which is a great thing. (Or, at least, she was honest about that part. We never really know if she divulged everything.) Knowing all of this do you:

1. Love her?

2. Trust her?

3. Think that phase is over?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145796)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:00 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

Thanks. Yes she is an amazing person overall and I feel like I am getting stuck on this one little thing.

I do love her, and I know that she is serious about me. She comes from a conservative background and wants to settle down and have a normal family etc. What does worry me is that she stills deals with crazy parents and I think there could be lingering effects of growing up with psychos who didn't let her do anything in high school etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145808)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:57 AM
Author: Bossy Faggotry

Would you desribe yourself as intellectual?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145800)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:02 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

pseudo-intellectual perhaps

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145814)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:04 AM
Author: Rose diverse hell mood

Awful flame. Doesn't even enter the "so bad it's good" category.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145817)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:05 AM
Author: white den trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145822)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:26 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac Seedy Address Wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145871)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:03 PM
Author: light drunken business firm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146325)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:53 PM
Author: Aromatic school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148941)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:44 PM
Author: hyperactive titillating queen of the night public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26149266)



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Date: August 20th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Ultramarine infuriating brunch skinny woman



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:04 AM
Author: marvelous lay

why do people even bring up past sexual history of their current partners? hard to see anything good coming out of that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145819)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:08 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

good point. this was a big mistake. would have been much better off not knowing...i think she was trying be my soulmate or some shit and sharing her regrets and her past problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145835)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:24 AM
Author: Curious dun antidepressant drug center

how big were they?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145867)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:28 PM
Author: emerald kitchen shitlib

how black were they?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146627)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:27 AM
Author: violent bronze headpube

yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145872)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:31 AM
Author: tantric coldplay fan personal credit line

lol breh. if this is the only casual sex shit in her past, she is about as good as you're going to find outside of 18-21 year olds at a conservative church

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145881)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:47 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

Is it really that impossible to find a girl who's just had a couple of stable relationships and only had sex in those contexts? wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145911)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:13 AM
Author: glittery wagecucks parlour

So you'd prefer she had 3 long-term relationships where she had sex dozens if not hundreds of times rather than 3 guys she had sex with a few times each and that was it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145951)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:17 AM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

Yes absolutely. It's about her character and sense of self-esteem. Not the number of times she's been boned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145959)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:27 AM
Author: glittery wagecucks parlour

I think you should dump her. Such a model citizen/christian as yourself should aim higher. She is certainly not worthy of your perfection.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145976)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:42 AM
Author: Talented New Version Therapy

I don't know 3 guys at once is a lot. Imagine her mouth, ass and pussy all being filling with cock

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145901)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:54 PM
Author: Aromatic school

I lol'd.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148951)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:12 PM
Author: Talented New Version Therapy

hehehe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26149435)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:45 AM
Author: Curious dun antidepressant drug center

when she is walking down the aisle you will keep seeing the image of some frat bro pounding her hard doggie only to pull out, flip her over, and fire a load in her mouth that she eagerly swallows, showing him her tongue at the end to prove it's all gone.

as long as you are cool with that then it shouldn't be a problem at all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145908)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:53 AM
Author: Contagious drab boiling water degenerate

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146038)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:07 PM
Author: violet soul-stirring dopamine codepig

She would not be a great mom. You are beta bucks after her alpha fucks. A fat slob doesn't suddenly go from munching on cheeseburgers daily to doing cross fit and becoming vegan. Neither will a cock-hungry sloot suddenly decide that -this time- one cock is enough.

Btw if you know about 3 that means she's probably had at least 12 dicks in her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146334)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:17 PM
Author: Hairraiser Water Buffalo Dingle Berry

does it help if she had an LTR between then and now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146371)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:36 PM
Author: yellow stage

LOL at all these idiots missing the point. Somehow you need to find the crucial fact: were you here biggest cock. If you were as she I fact did go through a slut phase sampling dozens of cocks and yours wins out--you are golden.

If not, anything else is irrelevant because you're my marriage material to her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146450)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:33 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal pozpig

Is this copypasta?

In any case, a millennial who's had only 3 casual encounters is one in a million. Wife material right there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146648)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:36 PM
Author: confused mewling coffee pot

3 is an insanely low number but 23 is way too young for a girl to settle down in a culture where all women have been sold on the dream of romance, etc. and where there is a relatively permissive attitude towards casual sex.

you seem pretty beta so she will cheat on you eventually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146663)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:54 PM
Author: arousing misanthropic temple

LOL at dumping her and finding a 23 year old who hasn't sucked at least 10 different cocks!!!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148948)



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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:48 PM
Author: bipolar nofapping locale yarmulke

Did she do BBC anal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26149284)